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Hahaha,ayin eka mmi ami aya anwud ye imam(phew dats a mouthful!) Yes I tink I know most of dis "oku" lik d ikot ntuen oku,ikot ebido oku,and I tink ikot akpan oku(not like I've been to those places o) and then my late mum was from "etoi" itiam etoi. Dats in uyo too. I'm thinkin dat "etoi" too is a clan. Thank I can always come to u to educate me,lol! And Amen to d prayer

etenyong:
Let me educate you a little. Oku clan is one of the four clans that make up Uyo local govt. Oku clan consists of 14 villages, Afaha Oku, Iba Oku Ikot Ntuen Oku, Ikot Udoro Oku, Ikot Ebido Oku, Ikot Akpan oku, Ndueotung oku, ikot Oku........ etc. Let me stop here. Song idem, yak emem Abasi ado ye afo.

@Princess4ng wow! Dats nice. So u speak hause fluently? Can u speak our language? Me I can o,but trust me when I got hom this last Aug,I reverted to english,after hearing the heavily accented ibibio been spoken,so I won't fall my own hand,hahaha!
@zaragal,dis love thing ehn its luck o. I've also had a bad case with one,but I won't say I'm writing dem off. Infact my pple in the village have said I shd come to uyo since it seems lagos dsnt favor me,dat maybe I'll see one very good akwa ibom man come out and ask for my hand in marriage,lol! Never say never tho.

Wow,you're my real ayin eka! But you know all those clan things I don't know much about them. I know my maternal was from oku itself,infact the street she lived on(oku street) I was told,was were she came from. I think the oku clan is a large one. Nice to meet you,songhidem!

etenyong:
Good to know that you are from Afaha Oku village in Uyo. I`m from Ikot Ntuen Oku in Uyo. Meaning that we are from the same clan (Oku).
I grew up in d village and I came to lagos in 2005. Nice to meet you.

loud it!!!!!! lol. i commend your efforts my ayin eka(u know na) please ma as for the number,i couldnt get it out for you as i had left the whatsapp group before it occured to me to copy out. at dis stage i may not do much but jus advice us to shine our eyes and ask God to help expose those who jus want to come and "catch fun" in a negative way in this thread and the whatsapp group

siamia:
Pls...I want to add this:
The whatsapp chat is for those who have seen what they like and need a private place to talk.
No 2. Its for 30 plus and single. If ur underaged or married, don't send me msg to add u.
Also, here is the no - 08180632132. Don't send me email. Just send a text via whatsapp and I'll add u asap.
Thus far, the chat is yielding results. If ur not already in the chat, well....na u get urself ooo. As u can see, those in the chat are still active on the thread.
2015 is ur year. Its not over...until God says so!
God bless u.

Hmmm,pple sha! Wld a matured minded person esp sm1 in his or her 30s upward,condescend so low as to heap abuse on sm1 who has taken it upon herself to help odas who are not so ok to do dis b4? May God forgiv una o. As for the whatsapp,group,I'm so sorry I exited(painfully so) because I saw sm1 I knew der and won't be comfortable der wit dat pesn,so for peace to reign,I had to opt out. Bt pls I like to plead on behalf of oda ladies,guys if ur aim in dis group is to com and "play" wit us ,our body and emotion,tak a bow. Let's hav serios minded pple here. Fine u can keep friends and all,not all will lead to marriage. But if u don't hav any gud intentions,tak ur leav (trust me I know wat I'm saying)women wen we get to certain age,we becom vulnerable esp since we're not settled yet,not now one guy will com and say lemme deciv dis babe small. Anyway I'm speakin for d women,not men. Una fit com talk una own join sha.
As for those,abusing @siamia. Beta stop or else like Elijah or is it Elisha who prayed for bears to devour dos kids who mocked him as bald headed,I go call God for una so be warned! Lool

siamia:
@everyone
Good morning, wonderful nairalanders.
How was ur nite? Thank God for His mercies ooo. Ur sleep was not interrupted by armed robbers. As He said, no evil shall befall us, nor any plague come near our dwelling.
When u have the time, pls go back to page one and refresh ur memory on the purpose of this thread.
Over 9000 nigerians worldwide are reading ur posts on this thread. So post something meaningful. Remember...u are 30plus. U may not have Solomon's wisdom, but the little u have, use it to impact lives positively.
Some of u who posted last nite did not have anything positive to say. In fact u are a discouragement to those who still believe in love. Do u think the rest of us don't have opinions formed by the hand that life has dealt us? But if e start voicing those opinions, it wud be myopic.
The essence of this thread was clear from the onset. But I can see that a few people here who derailed other posts, are here to do the same. Well God pass u. I've taken ur matter to Him.
Have a lovely day and God bless u.

P.s. If ur not on the whatsapp chat, ur missing a lot. I had so much fun there ystdy! I laughed till I fell off my bed.
P.s.s. Some people did not grow up with their mother and that's why disrespect is their middle name. When u ask me to add u, and I delay bcs I want to screen u, texting me insults is like pouring water on a stone. If u saw me one on one, even in ur dream u cannot insult me. I screen those I suspect, in order to protect others, especially the ladies bcs we are in the Last Days.
From the start of this thread, I hv not disrespected anyone. Therefore insulting me for not adding u is juvenile deliquency. Go and wash ur mouth with sugar.
Have a blessed day and don't forget to thank God this morning, and be a blessing to all.

Dis is painful jo,so dats how d woman will remain? How about dat man remainin single instead of subjectin sm1 to dis everlastin torture?!
Abg I can't fit to com and kee myself,I will check out! Infact if no sex b4 marriage,I shd still be able to,in a way check my man's attention. Cuddling is allowed abi? If I hug and peck am,trust me if na man,e go wake.
Life is so complicated sha,20years!!!!! Ubok Abasi! Abasi mmi akan idiok mkpo

Ghen ghen! See my ndito eka!lol! @siamia never knew u were frm akwa ibom o,glad to knw dat*smiles*
I'm from Uyo,village is Afaha Oku. Born and brought up in lagos. Late mum used to take me home bak wen I was small but d gap later com much o,lol. Last was 1989,next was 2002,then fastforward to 2011 when we went to bury my late mum,and then dis year (Feb and Aug,I try jare,lol)
I hope to be goin frequently o,cos dey hav termed us lagos pple,infact my mum's relative called my late mum"sister lagos"hahaha. Its jus d distance and and wit dis silly drivers on d road now. Except by His grace,I'm bouyant,I can be flying and in one hour I can be in uyo.
I only know @siamia my"egbon",hope to knw odas as time. On. God bless u ma

Hmmm,lol! Guess u don't knw me then! At dis stage wen most of my mates hav hung their boots or carrying their last preg,i go dey find noisy wedding? I've never been d loud type(trust me I hav a degree in shyness) so I doubt I'll be a party to all dos loud and flamboyant type. Infact jus com see Mr Thomas AKA my father and he'll giv u list,u buy give am,carry me dey go,lol! But seriosly I can,and as for d wedding gwon,one can stil wear a nice wedding gown to a court wedding abi and not make too much noise afterwards?and so to ur question,my answer is YES I can!
Good morning! Have a great day today

Toks2008:
The question now is what if you see a serious guy who for some reason is not buoyant enough to get that tuxedo suit or that imagined wedding gown,can you say yes and still marry him in the most simplistic way imagined while you plan for a bigger one when the funds are available?

Hello people! Hope the day is going well? Just popped in to say hi. Every time I check in,thread has increased by 4pages,lol! So keeping up will be a hardous task. I'll come in soon to look at faces of my friends here,some my egbos and some my aburos. And like sm1 rightly said,come next year som of us shall be visiting d odas for omugwo things o. Marriage is still very possible dis year. Long courtship wen u meet ur missing rib,can be dangersom jo,lol. Trust me I'm talking from experience. So mak una begin shop for dos nice suits abi na tuxedos and dos lovely wedding gowns(by d way I've pictured d one I'll be in to flatter dis my slimmy or lepa figure ,lol) down o b4 the tin cost.
Make una no mind me with my many talk,letme rush out. *kisses*

[quote author=Eaa247 post=38676505][/quote]yes I am! Have a splendid day!

Sure you can! Abi @op? Says "30+" so feel free. You're highly welcome

kunlexbaba45:
Good morning.........sure we re.
Kunle 30+ 1month, frm lagos....hope am qualify 2 join dis thread?

Hello everyone! Good morning. Trust your night went well? I'm sure most of us are out already heading to workk(especially the lagos people)
Do hav a great day and be blessed!

Happy sunday lovelies hope your weekend is still goin well? Thank God. Just checking in.
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But men its difficult kkeeping up in this thread o hahaha. I don't know the people here,save for the people who hav quoted me(toks2008 and and siamia,with two oda persons) and the list keeps increasing! Ok lemme introduce mysel formaly. My name is Uduak(or Regina for dos who find it hard to pronounce),am in my mid 30s. Graduate of mass communications(HND) I currently make beaded jewelry and also work part time as venue staff(exams invigilator) for British counci(hoping to get something better tho wit flexible working hours dat can giv me time to do other things. I am from Akwa Ibom state(uyo precisely)christian. Profile pix is der(not to gather likes o,lol! I use it to advertise my handiwork)

God bless you,my sis! You couldnt hav said it any better o. I've met three guys on this forum from when I joined, ranging from btw 2-6 years younger,trust me it ddnt go down well. Most people will say you forming hard to get and that you will soon hit menopause but when you say ok o,lemme give it a trial,shei age is nothing but a number,you discover they are nothing to write home about,and again of cos you can't agree to every Tom Dick and Harry.
Those younger guys be makin things dificult for us yet they are the one quick to say you're forming hard to get. You jus end up becoming intimacy gadgets for dem biko Whalol

sihom:
At Martins 301,

You asked why older women discriminate against younger men, I'll gist you a bit about my personal experience and hopefully you may understand.

Early last year (2014) at 32, I attempted to date a guy 5 years younger than me - first time ever I would attempt such a feat. The experience was for the most part an unpleasant & annoying one.

Daniel ( not his real name) wanted sex practically all the time and he had this obnoxious habit of calling incessantly at all hours of the day - common like who does that?

He would call at 5 am on his way to work - when I was either having my quiet time with Heaven, working out or just trying to wrap my mind and head around a new day. He would call during working hours when I was seriously pressured with tasks, and call again in the evenings.

This was someone I informed early on, that if you call me twice and I don't answer, pls send a text message and I'll get back to you as quickly as possible. Did he listen - no he didn't he just wore me out with calls. I felt severely harassed at the frequency of his calls and I am not exaggerating about the calls or this entire story.

Our phone conversations were often like this:

Me: Hi how was your day and what's happening with you.
Daniel: I am feeling Hot when was the last time you had sex.
Me: Can't we have a meaningful conversation without you bringing up sex?
Daniel: Ok, fine my day was ...... so what are you wearing now?

Exhausting conversation right? As if that wasn't bad enough the dude would ask me to come see him at his office after working hours during the week when you are trying to beat traffic and get home. Seeing him on a Friday would have been cool cos there's no work on Saturday but he never thought that way.

These are just a few incidents, the dude was too immature & unreasonable in how he conducted himself. I mentally cringe when I recall things and I say to myself - girl what the hell were you thinking?

I am extremely wary of men younger than me, Daniel put a sour taste in my mouth about that. That whole affair with him didn't last more than 4 months but I still cringe. I wasn't dating him for marriage's sake, I was just being spontaneous, trying something new & different.

I mean no offence to younger men but very often we are worlds apart in our emotional & mental maturity as well as in other things. I still prefer my men older than me - the older the better.

Yes o,soon it'll happen

myztikal:
AMEN to the breakthrough prayers

Thanks!

Toks2008:
well articulated

Welcome on board.

Hello everyone! Happy sunday to y'all. Still trying to read thru pages,wch by d way keeps increasing by d hour!(Cnt belive dis thread was created jus on d 1st!)
On my way back frm church(we hav to travel ni o,lol)
Was our covenant day of marital breakthru and trust me I prayed for everyone here(including myself) esp @siamia(hope I got dat rite) dat God will settle everyone and not jus anyhow person but one deserving of us.
Of late I'm getn more worried,more because dos arnd me are worried for me too. Its really nice u knw to wake up next to d pesn who means d world to u,and then smile and say"God thank You for this gift" not one who will mak u regret getn married and all.
So I pray we all find and marry our best friend. Can I get an Amen somebody!
PS: I know this my post may get me into trouble ,not today but maybe sometime in the future.
And by d way,pls check my signature for all ya beaded jewelries(mak una no vex o,man gast survive,winks)

Der is smtn abt singing that's synonymous with drugs,and drinking.Its hard to be "clean" when you're in dat industry evn if ur singing gospel(trust me)and I don't tink its an inspirational tin,I tink its more of a cult or clique thing. If u don't smoke or drink,ur termed "weak" so everyone wants to belong. Oga Majek,evn if u spend a year in rehab,ur not gonna come bak d way we knew you dos years because one:age has caught up with u and two,d drug has done a lot of damage to ur system and appearance. What u need now is a job,dat will keep u out of the limelight. You can maybe write songs for people,produce but don't sing! Singing u will be seeing pple and maybe go to clubs and perform and dat will lure u bak to drugs! You can evn leav entertainment and make it "rain" in som oda bis(oga ayiri can set u up on som kind of biz,he's got d financial power jo,lol)
My one kobo sha

Oh no,not again! Why are dis pple so unfeeling,inhuman,barbaric,wicked,evil? Wat are dey now agitating for dat cannot be solved seated at a round table. BH,mbok,sheath ur sword o,stop spilling blood of innocents and takin lives at will as if u can mak one!
RIP to the dead! May God continue to guide and protect us,our loved ones and evn d armed forces(got a few friends in d army dat I can't afford to lose,cos I lost one already last year dat I was very close to)
Let's your peace reign supreme o Lord

Toks2008:
Im just fed up with all these offline wooing things.

Ironically most ladies that wow me are usually seen passing by while ii drive on and i would rather faint rather than park and go after such.

Honestly in my opinion,hooking up with ddecent,responsible and purposeful ladies is quite easier online.

Well said! That's true. Am more of an indoor pesn o,I find It difficulut mignling wit pple,weda na shyness dey cause am,lool! But trust me I've made good friends online more than I've ever made in my life,friends who hav impacted on my life. And yes I've also met terribles ones,who hav no gud intentions abt u(evn on dis forum) so I can be indoors an be able to be in uk,a and d rest of d world,jus wit a click of my phone button.
PS: nice thread,tho I'm on page 4(ran out of steam)lemme go bak and continue,loool. If I faint mak una send e-lucozade or e-glucose for me o

Toks2008:
Very true


All these forming and hypocrisy dey always vex me where you see people always try to paint a superlative picture of themselves.

Igboro o rerin and many ladies you see out there don't know what they want but trust me, if a lady hooks up with you online for a date you can be more certain that she means business especially if she is 30 or above.

You will hardly see decent ladies out there except maybe in theire work place where you cant disturb them and another place is in their homes where you cant barge into.

The other option is online where they can be in their bedroom and hook up with you. It will amaze you the quality of friends i have on nairaland both male and female and i don't think i have ever met such friends offline.Decent and responsible set of ladies that any man will be proud of.

Trust me, it can be frustrating wooing a lady offline because you dont even know the one that is married,engaged or not even searching but online you are most likely to get a decent single and searching lady just at a click.

Look at the creator of this thread and observe her personality and tell me if she does not seem very responsible yet you will hardly even think of walking up to her one on one due to prejudice.

Hahaha. Ok,tnx a lot

siamia:
@udysweet
I assure u that this thread is the right place for u to be. So sit back and relax. Share Ur that's without fear or favour.
Am sure everyone now knows I have a pankere and am not afraid to use it on those who sass others.

lol! local parlance for "cane" used by yorubas

kaboninc:
What does 'pankere' mean?

siamia:
@udysweet
Gdmrn and how r u doing?


Isn't it a lovely saturday? After all that rain ystdy? What are ur plans today?

Am very well thank you,guess u and others here are too?
Saturday?! Erm indoors all thru,washing and arranging stuff and then sleep!!!lol
PS:I'll go and charge my fone now,and stat reading posts here frm page one to d end,lol! Hope I can make friends here sha,not ones who'll make me run out fast. And wen I'm down I can always share my worries rite?I need to be assured I got dos who'll mak me smile and laff evry now and then here!
*runs out to plug phone on power banks(EKEDC,eshe gan ni)

Hello good people! Was going thru threads on"trending" when I bumped into dis,so curiosity brought me in,lol! Hvnt been able to read all d pages yet,will come in later and do.
Have a great weekend @all,and I hope I'm welcome in here o*winks*

LuckyG1:
Do a test to know your fertility status and follow advice as rendered.

Goodmorn doc,God bless ur efforts! Pls wat sort of test is it? I wld lov to do jus to b certain of myself. Lik to add here dat I experience nipple discharge for years and was told can affect conception. Seems I dnt ovulate too.
I sent u a PM not too long ago,nev got a reply
Hop to read frm u,God bless

MTN jo!lol. Dey fit kee pesn wit msgs. And no gud ones. One dey keep sending me is one yeye 1500mins call and som amount of data bundle for 10,000. Wetin I dey do wey I go spend 10k for data in a month? Dem no sEe beta package advatise for me na 10k package,lol! Evn wen pple are using 70 or 200 naira to get unlimited calls,wen I diall my own *142# na 3k own dey shoa and na data! Chai Ubok Abasi MTN,mak una try for me na!
As for Glo is d lafta fest tin dey send and more of invites(funny enof d 4 times dem send me d ticket I ddnt go to d shows o) upon say I no use d 3k in a month,lol. Airtel dey one corner too but not dat bad

@Jennylub,take your Bible now and open to Deut 28vs15 -68. Go thru does words,do u want that as ur lot? Stop toying with dis lady's emotion. U knw how hardened pharoah's heart and wat happend to him eventually afta all d sufferings he went thru too. Don't let dat befall u,and don't let ur family suffer dis too pls I beg you.
Am worried because me I do my biz on dis platform,don't ruin tings for me and odas. I had a client who wanted to mak beads but she said she dsnt know me and doin online biz was smhw following all dis scam. To prove her wrong I used my mony to do d bead before colectin my mony. Wat of days I don't hav enof and I need deposit? I'll now be told I might abscond wit clients deposits! Dis is sad