₦airaland Forum

Mydazz:
Someone should please tell this lady to stay the f**k outta public glare,...... e be like say e don dey sweet her now

It's not about staying away from social media, as you Nigerians mistake it to be, it's about being real.


If you are posting stuff the way they are, nothing will happen, but if you are trying to create an illusion on social media, when in real life, the marriage na wash, one day fowl yansh will open when the breeze blows.

Unfortunately, many Nigerians fall into the category of illusion creation on social media

KushyKush:
Please focus on your husband and stay away from female Nigerian celebrities. If you want to stay married

good advice.

I'm disappointed in a lot of people here....

It's a big shame.

black man is always a black man
smh

wristbangle:
Explorers, why ain't we given birth in these set of organised countries. Why Nigeria?

LMAO

TEYA:
I hope this year God will help you to see something positive about your country.

For many Nigerians, it's hard to see anything positive
And you cannot blame them
The situation is just

Nuzo1:
Enough of all these misconceptions.

Eboue's predicament has little or nothing to do with his white wife. But everything to do with the notorious lifestyle of most black athletes: women, booze and clubbing. Eboue was also very reckless and condescending with his words to people. And his wife will not be spared.

Now, there's a huge chance of losing much of your earnings if you are married in developed environment and living such a reckless lifestyle. And so, Eboue for the most part knew what he was getting himself into when in his excesses decided to get married in such environment. Even a village African lady in such environment would walk away from Eboue.

Besides, Eboue allegedly infected her with HIV as result of his excessive extramarital affairs. How many of you will tolerate that against your sister?

We are all fallible and therefore, I sympathize with him and hope he gets back on his feet very soon. But it's wrong to blame the white wife for his predicament. Matter of fact, Eboue never blamed his wife, only Africans are doing that.

And for those advising MIKEL to watch out. Please don't worry. MIKEL is humble, reserved and family oriented. Most sensible girls hold such people tightly.

You have spoken well.
Don't mind all these people talking

Eboue brought this on himself, and he will pay for it.

That said, many think this way in Nigeria because they are used to the system over here that a man can just throw his wife away from the house, or using another term, "send her back to her father's house"

They imagine a woman getting a settlement, or not just treated anyhow

Ladyhippolyta88:
I don't know o please ask them,those days the women were treated like slaves and second class citizens and whatever they saw they took it.

Not all o

My late grandfather was a good husband and a good dad to his kids. His widow and kids confirmed that, even me.

I wish my own family I'll raise in future will see me in similar light


my point is that there were a lot of good men who stood for their family and were role models.

hedonistical:
Well many of the "jobless" youths of today are in that situation because the jobs meant for them are unfairly allocated to women who are mostly comparatively less qualified and less competent. No thanks to bottom power and the so-called gender equality movement.

At least those days, men got the jobs because men always need the jobs more.

This is another interesting angle to the discussion.

Ladyhippolyta88:
Divorce has always been on the difference is that back then there was a stigma,but now you treat the woman anyhow she is out of the marriage and there is no much stigma attached to it.

And why would a man treat a woman anyhow?

segundpundit:
I know of babymama........ Which one is babydaddy

The father of a baby mama's child

Happy New year to you all.
How is everyone doing here?

Dannys85:
You are now comparing Africa to America. They abound a lot of wicked people here.Believe it or not,witches are here,juju is real here.Some people have not experience anything in this wicked world o

Assuming your analogy is right

What can you say is the reason for a high number of bad belle and wicked people in Africa?

You have an answer?

Alariiwo:
Damn!!

Easterners for how long will you keep neglecting your region.. ehnn?

Remember one day you will also pass that road you left to rot and God help you something goes wrong.
Continue hiding in other regions o.

What is this fool saying again?

Why is it so hard to use your brain

What does the accident have to do with that rubbish you wrote up there

Espada10:
But to fair..the men then ,were the real men who do not tolerate bullshit..most weren't even that rich but they do not give a fu** and they were respected.. ....isn't that ironic... nowadays, all we see are weak, over romantic ,beta males..like the one I saw crying because he is getting married or what can I say about those on Nairaland that ask stupid questions like "another guy bought an iphone for my fiancee ..should I end the relationship". ..smh

A lot of men respected the women they married too.

Were more responsible than the joke of a Man many of these nairaland baby boys are.

If you are a "real man" ; and you pick right, your woman will respect you naturally, effortlessly and happily

just saying tho

Xisnin:
Tips to slave for your husband.
It could be partly justified then because many of the men were sole provider.
But the jobless youths of these days want to be worshipped because they are men.

yea

those ones are even the most misogynistic ones.

Broke, Jobless and Hopeless

Alariiwo:
Banky smiling cos of another man's trash..

Only God knows the number of abortions she's had in her life.

Akpororo the comedian is not finding it funny where he is now with the hoe and abortion expert he married.

Common sense, you have not

Alariwo oshi

The reasons are not strong enough in my opinion.

PearlStreet:
I don't like Dbanj for anything but that guy has my maximum respect for one single thing: he kept his private life away from the public.

That baldheaded dunce called Banky W inadvertently leaked his wife's nudes online through his childishness. Old fool, the pictures are still on my phone sef.

See this one smh

mofedamijo:
If u don’t understand the joke,then go n buy night of a thousand laugh n watch,ur problem is more than the joke.

Sorry sir

lonlytroy:
See ur life

Don't mind the girl

mofedamijo:
Ordinary ghana u want to write book,if u now go to canada or one of those scandinavian countries hin go write full textbook,newyork is busy and crazy,same with jburg,dos it make them less of a city,biko park.

What is this one saying sef

Are you sure you are level headed at all?

Another draw soup
Man Utd don enter one chance

emmie14:
Typographic error (thump up) is allowed. Corrected. Goats can't handle the level of imbecility existing between you and whenever brought public nuisance of your nature in this planet. Morón

The person who said that he voted Buhari because of tinubu is a goat.

I don't know why you are talking like someone who needs help

It's similar to my own experience

360command:
it is not a mumu debate.. It is just like comparing Brazilian girls or let's say Hispanic girls to african ladies..

Quality does not hide, it shows...

Or imagine comparing German guys with american guys. Who do you think have got more beauty? American

Even Yoruba male are more handsome than Igbo male...

I can't believe this comment is coming from you

omenkaLives:
Too much spare time in the hands of Nigerians.

Gosh!

it's unemployment

hammerF6:
WEN I SEE YORUBA WOMAN SAYING SHE WANT TO MARRY AN IGBO MAN, IT IS LIKE HELL FIRE RESSURECTED ON-TOP MY HEAD.


CHAI! I FEEL NOT JUST INSULTED AS AN IGBO MAN BUT DISGUSTED.


I SWIFTLY DIRECT HER BACK TO HER FELLOW AFONJA, THEN THEIR SLAVE MASTERS FROM THE NORTH, EITHER HAUSA OR FULANI, EVEN NUPE.

But Igbo men marry Yoruba women a lot too

I have a lot of Yoruba in laws

emmie14:
Your senses are complete. Thump up because you are talking about individual qualities and capabilities not party. A human being said that Tinubu made him vote for Buhari.

That person is a goat

2cato:
When buhari was making promise opon promise was the op sleeping
I can see that buhari and his bmc are the dumbest of all humans.

Don't mind them

The damage Buhari has caused this country will take two terms to repair

So what is your point @OP

This is fvcked up...
Where are the hypocrites?

Nwogeh:
From what i am thinking, the scammer must be the one that advertised the job in the first place.

You are smart