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Joblessness

That one that looks like he escaped been an alien.
He looks carved .
Handsome my ass

ebijimi7:
Good day guys, I've been on this forum for a while now and I've learnt a lot from you guys via threads here on nairaland.
To cut the story short and not bore you, I'm a 28 year old guy and will be 29 by October knowing that I've finally grown to be an adult is really getting me frustrated and depressed because of a lot of responsibilities that comes with it,
Although I've been a hustler from a very tender age (16) I had an irresponsible father who doesn't care about me and my sibling instead of him to take care of us with the money he made he would rather spend that money on woman. Leaving my sibling and mum to starve.
My dad had only one chance to turn my life around when I needed him most, he refuse to help me, because I went for a scholarship exam when I was in school and I was among the lucky 10 that was picked and I was offered to come and learn networking for a token fee of #50,000 naira then instead of the normal 450k but my dad refuse to pay telling me he doesn't have money, I cried and begged him to please help me my dad kept saying he doesn't have money and this happened immediately after I finished my ssce exam then, now my dad said he doesn't have money but that year he abandoned me and my mum and sibling at my grand mother's house because my grandma built her own house, for years we didn't hear from him or get to see him.
My mum would call and beg him for money for food he would curse her , later we found out he was living with another woman and he got another apartment for 300k and this same man said ge doesn't have money to sponsor me for a tech skill I wanted to acquire. So when my dad was not ready to help I had to seek for a job to take care of my mum and sibling because my mum business went down and we were not having anything to eat, so I got a factory job I would work from 7am to 7pm even with that machine almost chopped off my index finger I still had to go to work just for my family to eat my mum kept crying and calling my dad, he ignored us and for God so good he opened a way for me and got a better job offer, I gain admission in yabatech I wanted to pay 75k for school fee I had 50k my mum begged my dad to borrow me 25k that I would refund it, my dad shouted at my mum that he doesn't have anything to give to me if he doesn't pay his rent first[b](omo I regretted coming to earth through that man)[/b].
To cut the long story short, I am getting depressed because I'm still staying in my granny's house and I want to leave but I'm currently building for my mum and I want to build mine too and get married but the pressure is much because I feel I'm running out of time and my girlfriend is on my neck that we should get married (although she has been very supportive) but I felt I don't have time on my side again because now I need to rent an apartment and also finish the house I'm building for my mum but I'm not earning much and all these on a mere salary of 60k I'm really frustrated and if I should get an apartment while building its going to slow down the progress of the building and I really want to gift this to my mum for her 60th birthday which is in 3 years time (that woman deserve to be happy I love her so much) and I also needed to get married and start having my children adult hood is not easy
Please I need you guys advice as I'm getting really frustrated.

Are you okay atall?
You are getting old at 29? shey you dey okay sha? Are you hearing yourself?
Reading from the beginning I was pitying you o, wanted to comfort you and give you some motivation but then you mentioned marriage. And I ask again are you okay?
You are yet to find your feet, you are yet to build your self up, do you have a job to start up a family? You think marriage is just sleep in the house with wife and fvck? When the kids come,and you need to pay for rent and also sort out household stuffs how will you do it? Are you thinking at all? Don't you know with marriage you would be more pressured? Your wife, her family, yourself, your family or do you think of abandoning your mum and siblings? So that your dad would have the last laugh. Instead make you hustle and show your pop that he fvcked up when you have made enough money, you're busy having girlfriend and even thinking of marriage. Mtcheeeew

I don't think you are normal sha . Imagine talk, age is not on my side ( for a guy o), girlfriend is giving you pressure.... rubbish

Tah!!! Getat

Mecka:
you do you have a job? I understand you open legs for a living

lmaooooooooo
Better go back and pray for better understanding, cos boy your understanding: NIL.

You think I do those stuffs females in your household do.

Beans, abeg getat.

money121:
Yes general name for all omoluabi

wacko
I thought tinubu was the general name

money121:
Kunle Adeyanju

so??
Is that your name? Or a General name for yorubas?
He is doing him,you are here wearing his crown for him

The most important one: love your neighbor as yourself, Una no do.

But is that one a sin too?

Is it that, he does not have a job?

Please make me understand

money121:
OmoLuabi Atata

Proudly Omo Yoruba

just my curiosity.
How does his adventures make you ' proudly Omo Yoruba' Tori pe I dinnor understand

bummyla:
Something like this nearly happened in my family one Christmas holidays, a long time ago. There was a time my Dad's younger brother was the riches in the family, before he became the poorest and died of poverty.

After they buried their mother, my grandmother, because he brought the largest amount of money his wife became arrogant, was talking down on everybody.

So, one morning devotion my Dad's immediate younger brother who was a pastor and a military man asked my mother to pray for the whole family, but my youngest uncle's wife shouted at my Mum not to dare to pray for us, that my Mum is not Spirit filled, she said a lot of things.

My Uncle immediately forgot he was a pastor, the military man in him told over, he nearly beat my youngest uncle and his wife to pulp that morning, if not that we were begging him in tears.

My Uncle warned the both of them, that the next time they will speak disrespectfully to my parents again, he will personally flog them to death.

Till they died, none of them dared my parents again

I am interested in this story.
Wetin kill them( you mean your uncle and wife ABI?)

Datboredberri:
Olosho vibes...

The only thing keeping most Nigerian guys from having sex with rich men is their lack of a vagina...

Give them a second hole and they would hawk shamelessly...

no cap

Datboredberri:
Lemme tell you a secret... Being with a gay man, you mustn't be the bottom...

*wink...

So your butthole is safe and you can still fu** those rich nig**s and earn some dough...

Gigolo

eeeeew

Dreadlock69:
Aye!
This Sh!t real, You Hear Me?
Everything I Say In This Mother-Fu*ker All real
This Sh!t real
Just In Case The Gays Listening


I'm no gay , I'm attracted to only females ,I'm a fucker ,I make freak hoes bite the pillow , I do have a feminine face,smile and really dark eyebrows that what they do tell me .I'm a real stoner and not an addict so I'm more of the street with a future.
Schooling in owerri/imsu , there's was a particular time period I was so broke as hell , like I had nothing on me ,if I was girl at the period I would have gone into hookup or olosho business, so I did some petty and risky jobs just to feed and also sort my school needs till I'll get help from parent or when they send me money.
So I met this particular learned rich gay tycoon , we'd did talk bout politics our first meeting, I didn't know he was gay at that time, I thought he was the regular normal man, he invited me many and lots of places like the supermarket, chicken republic ,cold stone you can name it ,he really did spoil me with money ,I thought it was the normal bro shit I was really enjoying myself ” I'll say I was playing a gold digger role and being manipulative like a female but I didn't know ” .I went into female gold digger mode on him not knowing.
He invited me to club /event in his place that I should come over he loves to show me around , this a kind of man that has fleet of cars ,houses and lands, so I agreed to follow him to the propose event ,“ who know like better thing ma shayó galó if you see nkechi tell am say I dey beer parlor", like that just the mood in me. So after the event it was really late so I decided to crash in his place and this man lived alone in his big mansion not married, then my instincts started telling I fu***ked up, in his place he made me feel like lady and started giving me hint movement and words that he was attracted me being to touchy and it got me pissed but I didn't show it ,in my mind I'm “OMG they have finally gotten me naso I take go this man nah gay ohhh him fit dey aggressive" lot of shit running through head , I slept in his room wanting to use the floor he said I can share his bed with him , I couldn't sleep that night I was awake all through , he being touchy and me creating distance between the both us ,like if the man should try anything I'll kitchen knife him carry him documents run .
The next morning we drove back to my street ,not wanting him to know where I stay gave me closely 30k while dropping me off. He said we should meet again I didn't fall for it this time , he messaged me on WhatsApp calling me “my love" he can't do without me blah blah and I blocked him ,yes I blocked him no be me Dem go tear my Yash ,if I was a girl wish I'm not I would have use pussy and lock the nigga.
Have had two other gays encounters they really did spend on me but this just one of e'm . Like this shit irritates me sometime you won't know they are gays until later that start exhibiting the character. I'd loved the government to put a punishment on them this act is not welcomed in Nigeria

lmao
Even people in government, are practicing gayism

Mumuni

RobustRoad:
Jagaban of Borgu is the only answer and the right person to solve Nigeria's numerous problems. Again, jagaban till eternity

what a shame
A big shame at that sef....

paracolaxnear1:
Asiwaju, Modern Lagos Architect , your direction is what we will follow. Again, jagaban till eternity

smh

Aboguede:
If that
na ibu onye obodo

Tiye ihugi na profile kamu fu

myopic reasoning. So a Nigerian is either Yoruba or Igbo ABI?
I'm not uploading any picture,and no I'm not Igbo .

Shift

caye:
IS ITEL PROMOTING HOMOSEXUALITY TO CHILDREN NII?

WHAT IS THE MEANING OF THE RAINBOW UMBRELLA GAAN?

so if rainbow appear for sky does it mean God is promoting LGBTQ? You just talking anyhow

Aboguede:
Hahaha

Inferiority ke

But na afonjas dey blich including 98 years afonja King join dey blich


Olamide don finish

Fooooolstop!

Lol
So is this supposed to be a comeback? A very poor comeback bruv, I ain't Yoruba sorry.

caye:
IS ITEL PROMOTING HOMOSEXUALITY TO CHILDREN NII?

WHAT IS THE MEANING OF THE RAINBOW UMBRELLA GAAN?

the children definitely don't know the meaning of the rainbow umbrella, na you dey overthink.
If you were one of the kids there would you think this way? No.

Aboguede:
So Las Las na children uncle ola dey sing for


This life eeeehhhh

beans
He is itel ambassador, and what if he sings for children is it a crime?

Na person like you go dey get inferiority complex.

lusid:
tell me you are a virgin

who you say you be oga?

lusid:
how many abortion have you done

who is this one again?

Don't wish him well @op. Don't.
You can't be hurting and feel bad and still wish the idiot well. Knowing he is doing well sef, will hurt you the more. So say a prayer for yourself, go get better, it won't be easy to let go of the memories. Each time you remember what you went thru you will cry o, correct tears. But then, just let it go. Shake yourself up and do you, concentrate on yourself sis.

Assuming say I be winch I for fight this matter for you, this thing dey always vex me.

LedRock:
Move on. Guys have experienced worse and stop saying you stayed by him, did you help him financially? Your abortion you weren't forced do stop saying you committed abortion for him.

wetin this one dey talk?
Guys have experienced worse, so she should act like everything is cool with her even though she's hurting?
Didn't you read the part where she said she helped him, gave her all?

SporaD8:
Everyone condemning the Nurse action can now see why hospitals normally reject patients or practically watch as their patients die?!
Possibly the Surgeon was not around.
The Patient was in a pretty bad shape and needs urgent attention!
Her people couldn't source for hospital bills and
the hospitals-should-try-and-save-lives-first crew were on his neck...,
Out of compassion and good intentions, The nurse decided to try his best. Now his best of intentions have landed him in prison while those motivating him to save lives first her the first to accuse him of murder!

no no no
This isn't a valid reason.
Nurses have their work description, as well as doctors. Nurses don't conduct surgery. It's not in their field, if the surgeon isn't around, a means of saving a patient's life in your context will be to transfer to another hospital and attend to the patient as an emergency. Out of compassion and good intentions has brought trouble to him.

He is probably one of the male nurses that blush and feel ontop of the world when they address him as doctor, or he probably must have watched surgeons do this procedure and then feels he can do it. But it's wrong .
I can't do the work of a doctor, emphasis on work and doctor. Same way a doctor won't want to do the work of a nurse, emphasis on work and nurse.

Wetin concern her mama for the matter.
She should have used her life, very self centred and selfish child.

Ronaldo Na wrestler??

Baba no Sabi sef

PrinxArthur1:
All the TV shows women watch are drama-filled.
Someone fvcks somebody, A man cheated on his babe, A gir| b|ackmai|ed her friend, etc.
Gir|s are in a way, add1cted to drama.
A boyfriend who doesn't ta|k to other gir|s, who have zero chances of cheat1ng, always availab|e would be ca||ed boring.
A re|ationship with 100% loyalty is termed bor1ng.
Being too avai|able as a man makes most ladies ca|| you lame.
You're always apologizing, even when you're right. IT is a lady's nature to see you as boring.
Ladies love uncertain1ty. They're emotiona||y driven and they'll love to experience all shades of it.
She wants to smi|e, laugh, cry, scream, be obsessed, be angry, miss you, be surprised, be offended, etc.
She wants to apo|ogize and be apologized to.
She wants agreement and disagreement.
She wants to quare|| and settle.
IT might sound stup1d, but this what ladies call a live|y re|ationship.
IF as a guy, you're a|ways carefu| not to offend her, she'|| get bored and look for the drama elsewhere. It might include dump1ng you for another man.
This is why nice guys finish last. They're too careful not get her upset. Therefore she ca||s him boring.
As a guy, you need to spice up the re|ationship with a little bit of drama , to keep it interesting.
The drama must come from you because ladies, most times, can't contro| the tempo.
Nice guys wi|| a|ways finish last because, When the man is too faithfu|, the woman gets bored and finds a man that excites her.

what kinds writing is this?
Na like this you take write for your exams?
You no just rate us sha