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After choosing, what next?

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God forbid

optimisticage:
I don't understand this country again o. This guy is putting smiles on d faces of millions with his skits na. I literally laughed so loud when I watched it. It is called a comedy for a reason. Same way actors interpret roles of harlots, robbers etc. We Nigerians are d greatest Hippocrates on earth. Is his skits anyway worst than reality? An average Nigerian babe dress almost naked. He should better ignore these Negligible Hippocrates and put smiles on faces of millions that wants that in d midst of this hopeless country

have you seen nurses dress in such provocative manner before?

nkemoma:
But most nurses na ashawooo na

How many you don see ? What's your problem?

Alas! A guy with chronic entitlement.

This one Na gbasgbos

PDJT:
-So even you hate polygamy? Why na? No one gets hurt in polygamy.

issokay

This how most men are. Never using their sense to think. One minute they are head over heels with one the next minute their head is already over heels with another. The stupid ones will defend themselves and say ' men are polygamous in nature' Na that polygamous nature go kill una.

MisterKennedy:
Hi Ukaface

hullo MisterKennedy

FreeSpirited:
I couldn't believe my world after this shocker that a place can agglomerate an unbelievable numbers of gays in Nigeria, a very religious country.
At a point I became both teary and angry.

Let me give you how I found out. If you need evidence, I can present.

I came to Abj recently and most time when I travel to a new place, I usually download Tinder to try and meet one or two babes and see if we connect, we might hangout when I'm bored before getting familiar with such area.

So for about over a week, I was only able to match with about 5 girls, exhausting my swipes on daily basis. You know how matching can be funny on Tinder; and how hard getting connection with people u match with especially if you are not the type that's up for paying for runs-girl on Tinder..cos na olosho many pass for Tinder.

So today, because some of the matches I got dint inspire me enough, out of intuition, I decided to check out how the Men on Tinder in my vicinity looks, that is Abuja Tinder guys.
So I switched my setting from "show only women" to "show only Men"
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At first I was swiping left since I had no interest in matching a guy. I began to swipe left to get idea of the average physical look, or dressing, or the style of the guys on Tinder.
All of a sudden, something told me to swipe right....OMG...couldn't believe why but It matched!....I was schocked
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Though I thought it was a mistake, then I swipe right, and right, right and right.. my world they were matching in sequence!

My jaw dropped and my mouth went ajar that I couldnt close it the entire time.
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What this means for people who don't understand Tinder is that, these guys were on Tinder to meet guys, because their setting must have been set to see only guys, and they have been actively swiping guys pics to the right so that other guys like them swiping right will match with them.
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In less than 3 minutes, I matched an unbelievable numbers of 12 gays...Like wtf!
In 10 fvxking days I matched less than 6 gals in Abj, But in 3 mins I matched 12 motherfvcking ass rimming gaybriels. It's finished.
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So gay is so rife in Abuja, and Tinder is their hotbed. You have to try this experiment if you doubt me.
I think the reason women are not getting husband is as a result of astronomical numbers of gays in Nigeria. Times have really changed and things are really happening.

I'm wondering how this is just shocking you now. Gayism is now a thing that is done underG. It's even more glaring in the entertainment industry. No too shock, homosexuality is now a big thing in Naija.

Story for Amadioha
Which Lagos is beautiful? The streets of Yaba? Or the streets of iyanoba, Abi Na streets of Iju ishaga?

Lagos is beautiful in what way? by the hundreds of Okada,danfo and Keke? Abi Na by mushroom secondary schools called government schools? Or is it by the epileptic power supply that comes on just for an hour all thru the day in my area? Or is it beautiful because of the poor drainage system in the elated areas of Lagos Island?
I don't know how people see good thru this so called politicians and the only thing I see thru them is deceit, corruption and a disaster awaiting. How do people so much believe in this people and still cast their votes and defend their empty promises?

Nigeria can never ever be better. Lailai.


What a stupid country

Prettylitlady:
Goodday NL members.. I am here for any matured advice I can get as I understand we have matured people here who can talk senses into my head and make me realise one or two things.

I am in my mid 20's, I dated my Ex for few years, we were both students then in one of the West Universities (graduates now) and I really loved him, it was true love I felt for him to be honest, he wasn't working, I don't demand for money from him or anything, I sell clothes, shoes, bags and do other small businesses while schooling, that's how I foot my own Bills and also give him money sometimes when in need. His family knows me, my family knows him like we were so much in each other(or so I thought). I saw no other guy except him, I built my world around him, we were best of friends as I am an introvert and really don't keep friends so he was my all.
Even though it was a tough decision to make, I had to break up with him due to the following reasons;
1. He has beaten me once and promised not to do it again but he still slapped me in every slightest provocation.
2. He wanted to go into yahoo yahoo. That's not the kind of partner I want, I want a legit hustler not a fraudster.
3. He sometimes cheats on me and I will forgive him always. He tells me I am the main while the others is just for cruise that every guy cheats
4. He suddenly started smoking and drinking due to friends influence I guess (Eew, I don't want that)
5. He is Lazy, always wanting big money buh doesn't want to work. I told him to Start from somewhere after our graduation no matter how little buh he won't heed.
6. He always talks dirty with his female friends even in my presence, I wonder what happens behind me.

I ended the relationship after so much talking, pleas and counselling hoping he will change but he didn't. I dated another guy 2 months later, I know nobody is perfect but trust me when I say my current guy is all I ever wanted in a man. But the truth is I really do not love him that deep, He treats me fine and all but I still feel something for my ex maybe because I was already soo used to him. My boyfriend has told me to go back if that's what I want because he doesn't want a divided attention. I know I can't break up with him because it will hurt him so badly and my conscience won't even allow me because he has done literally nothing wrong, yes we normally have our ups and downs but he hasn't done anything worth breaking up over with.

I just need advice on how I can get this my ex off my head for good. We don't communicate, I have deleted all his numbers, We have been separated for few months now but I still think of him every single day even when I have a good guy already. I don't know what is wrong with me pleasee

there's no easy way of forgetting him. The both of you shared years of memory together,so it will definitely be difficult to forget all those years, it's also normal to miss him. But realise that whatever action you decided was for your good. You noticed he wasn't right for you and you did the best thing for yourself by cutting him off. Now another best thing for yourself is by moving on. Don't let the shadows of your ex control your love life.

With time the memories will fade, but it is not immediate.
There's no way to forget him,it's normal for memories to linger on. It's just left to you to decide if you want that memory to destroy you completely.

DON'T TRY GOING BACK TO YOUR EX,DONT TRY COMMUNICATING WITH HIM. If you do, it will only make the situation worse.

zexy2030:
Did I ask of her age? As matured as you are, u r still dumb. I pity ur kids..they've got nothing to learn from you. Foolishness has been your template.

Ahn Ahn
Guy, you are hot tempered o.
Be calming down kwanu

Some Nigerian men ehn!!!
Tufia!!!!!!

Then don't marry Na.

How is your problem so difficult to solve

Yes she is lying to you.
Probe her

Tissaia:
Igbos

which one be Igbos.

That is not you
Why are you trying to body shame someone else.
' all Na cruise' Abi?

Guy, e no make sense

I don't know the kind of man I want.
But I have lot of dislikes

Augustwife:
He is trying to stop, but it's not working at all. He keeps apologizing and keeps promising to change but it only lasts for a few days

let him see a psychiatrist
This has gone far from making promises. His liver, kidney are at risk too. Before his health issues become more complicated

twinning200:
This seriously dont have anything to do with age, have you forgotten that age doesn't relate with maturity?

sometimes age does relate with maturity.

You were begged to go back
And you're the one suffering in the marriage.

Omo, you can't come and kill yourself o. Try therapy, rehabilitation, see a psychiatrist, discard any alcohol at home,make sure he doesn't find easy access to downing alcohol.

But one question sha, does he realise that he is addicted and causing issues in his marriage? at least he should come to that realisation first and make up his mind to stop.

How old you and wife be again sef?