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balmingilead:
Don't make mistakes some of our Fathers or Senior Brothers made.

Marry now with the little you have. Don't wait to be a millionaire, Have kids early so you can grow with them.

Grow with your kids and succeed with
your wife. You will never finish making money or achieving your plans.

You might still not succeed at your target year. So start your life early, with consistency you will grow.

My father said this to me: _When i was 25, i was talking about making billions before i marry.

Many years later, billions didn't come, yet no kid no wife... I had an opportunity to marry the most beautiful love of my life very early, But my fear was, can i really take care of her? But right now She's married with Four grown up children.

The guy that married her was still schooling then, but had the courage. They worked hard and succeeded together. I failed, so please if you can feed yourself, you can feed your wife. You have to believe it, marry early, don't wait.

Don't make our mistakes, I see
my childhood friends play with their kids..

Most of them are not doing as well as me.. But they are happier with their families..

Trust me it isn't money only, but Rather your Maturity, your

happiness depends entirely on your wisdom and the way you Handle Life. With
a well planned life they are happier.

Trust me it

isn't money, What is our problem?

Build mansion, buy the latest Car in Town, marry Sharon stone type, but still we don't have those things we dreamt of, and of course the years we wasted, we can never have them neverrrr!!!_

Please don't be 60yrs old and your kids will still be in their 20's..What are you supposed to be at that age? Their grand father.

Please young men, take my advice seriously.

Marry, don't be afraid, that girl you are finding too many fault in has many good qualities if you look well.

Don't think you will get every thing before you
settle down. God can change your life in a blink, with a good and Focus wife by your side, you will succeed
by the grace of the almighty God ....

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But what's this issue of ' grow with your kids'

First advice them to know and understand what marriage, parenting entails.
Most don't even know the different styles/ types of parenting.
Some don't know what marriage is all about.
It's usually about kids,kids.

Get things right abeg.
You think say to dey groom pikin Na beans.

Because they believe one of their children will bail them from poverty

Women don dey throw man comot from house for Naija
Waaaaaaawuuuuuuu!

When will Nigeria finally leave Africa and enter Europe?

Nonsense people.

Sense to think no dey for all these one again.
Money will make them even campaign for the silliest person to be Nigeria president.
Shiooooor.

Kollins11:
It doesn't look attractive and I'm sure it's not delicious. If I marry you I will definitely bring in my sidechick to come cook for me in your presence.

You're a waste of bride price.

she say she wan marry you before?

wunmi590:


I don't do unnecessary fashion in church, once I'm leaving home to church, I off my phone or sometimes put it on air plane mode....

That's what we were brought up with, and I've also inculcated it in my own family too.....

I'm a catholic and once an alter server, so I get used to offing my phone before even stepping into the sacristy

I don't do big boy in the presence of God...

but do you know everyday, e'rytime and everymoment you're in the presence of God? Why should the church hour be the only time you are bin his presence?

Therefore, you for Kuku no use phone atall.

Cos it's actually boring

luminouz:
Really? After paying her 25k

he is still a useless man
Paying 25k for sex... imagine the whole energy he is exerting ontop of poosea.

God forbid I meet useless man like him

Useless man

HilcomTech:
You were probably not smart enough to try.

Same goes for us in engineering. Many of those mathematics and physics lecturers actually applied to study engineering but failed to meet the cut off and eventually hated the rest of us that made it to engineering.

I don't just understand the archaic mindset y'all have.
Can someone possibly love and want to be a Nurse? Why must I crave medicine before nursing. I don't understand. Nursing is a course just as medicine so why can't I naturally want to study nursing.
I've never filled in medicine in jamb. What kinda way do y'all think kwanu?

Abeg leave me this morning I no get strength for back and forth senseless argument.

Lol
The thing pain you...

afrodoc2:
Your stupidity is incandescent.

Why on earth would i feel threatened by a dunderhead like you?

You are just another fat, ugly, sweaty empty-headed injection jabber.

Apart from screaming at women in labor to open their legs well well, what other skill do you have?

Okay

afrodoc2:
If ignorance was an Olympic sport you would be a gold medallist.

I only feel threatened because your level of stupidity is giving me migraines.

I have a brain that is why I am doing my job well and earning multiples of what you can only dream of.

You don’t have a brain that is why you are doing your job with one eye while eyeing my job and envying doctors with the other eye.

It is not my fault that you don’t have the intellectual capacity to study a better course. Don’t blame me. Blame your genes.

Gosh! Stop being stupid
Why in God's name would I be envious of a doctor? You think y'all are the best thing to crave for? Oh Lord!

Again, don't feel threatened.

afrodoc2:
Exactly. You people are glorified labourers. You are hired muscle. Your job does not require much brain activity which is why most of you are empty headed. This is not an insult. I am quoting WHO research findings.

stop feeling threatened by nurses oga. Do your job and let nurses do theirs.

Since una get brain, make una do the work of nurses Na whether e go green una.

Such an unintelligent fellow you are bruv.
No mention me again o

idu1:
My younger sister is a newly qualified RN. I'm looking for a way for her to start the process. Thanks for your time friend.

alright, no qualms

idu1:
That's good. UK or USA?

Was it with only your RN certificate or you obtain additional qualifications?

U.K

yeah, just my RN certificate.

CaptainAyub:
Your inferiority complex is palpable.
Why not go back to medical school and read medicine if you don't have job satisfaction?
A nurse is not a doctors assistant?
Who then is the doctor's assistant?
Setting up IV lines,passing of urethral catheter etc are 2-man procedures,so whose job is it to assist the doctor do that?
So a doctor should go and be looking for another doctor to apply plaster for him in setting up IV or pass KY jelly to him in catheterization when tens of lazy nurses litter the ward?
That una matron get luck cos if na me,I go beat am well well after all action and reaction are equal and opposite.
Whoever is telling you that a nurse isn't a doctor's assistant is merely using your tiny head.

A nurse isn't a doctor's assistant. Oh wait! Since both are assisting each other , logically a doctor is a nurse assistant yeah?
I can set I v lines,passing urethral catheter as I was taught is a nursing procedure which I have done severally ( two nurses procedure) assisted by my colleague. Lol, you need a nurse to assist you pass ky jelly God o! This people can never ever rate us.
Assuming I know say Na like this doctors view nurses I for no even dream of being a nurse, it's appalling.

idu1:
Where are you working now?

japa

Dubaku543:
Your reasoning is no different from some of other nurses in this vicinity. The reasoning is sub-par. The point of discuss in this very context is seeking, updating and/ or verification of knowledge asides the already memorised and as such, Emdex and Google serve same purpose of guidance and both confirming. How old are you by the way?

what does my age have to do with anything?
Your reasoning also isn't any better egbon.
Calling one a non entity is really classless. Fix yourself before you think you have the best of personality.

My first job was after school of nursing. Got a pay of 40k. It was first job ever as a RN, I had to toughen up and be a RN and as head of shift even though the matron was always around though she never does shit only to sit her fat ass and give commands, belittle whoever and whenever. I had issues understanding the rules of HMO,and then there was the issue of insisting patients pay their consultation money befor seeing the doctor and most times I chop insults from them when I follow the rules of not passing them to the doctor without pay, cos laslas Na my salary go suffer. It wasn't funny there though. I remember one stupid doctor wey Japa with my 5k after he tell me heaven and earth say he broke.
Finally left during the pandemic, as they didn't bother about staff safety.

asiga:
Brother, medical practice all over the world has advanced past all this thinking everything from your head we do in Nigeria because we wanna show we know everything even when we are ages behind, it is simply ego. Medical practice is now tech driven to keep you abreast with the latest care option that keeps changing every minute.

It is only in Nigeria where many of the patients you attend to are ignorant of even the slightest information about their ailments that you do that thinking everything from your head thing. Even in Nigerian hospitals, there are reference guides, treatment protocols and all that, most of which are either pasted on the wall or placed on the health workers desk, what do you think all that is for? If not to guide the health worker do his or her job better. In civilised countries, all that has been automated so that you can just click a button and get the information required. It is better you give your patient better care making reference than think everything from your head because of ego and get it wrong.

you sha dey see (f) wey dey my Monica Abi?
I'm not talking about reference guides or treatment protocols.
Google has a whole lot of misconceptions, yeah?
If they're medical sites, I think I would want to buy your point and understand you. But Google? Where there are so many untrue information is what a DOCTOR is using to consult a patient? And it's alright? will you think it alright if a nurse ' Google ' procedures prior to carrying them out on a patient?
Seems you don't get me.

evangmx:
I just lost my job like 2 months ago. I use my car to do can work. My wife works as well. And we have 2 children.

I want you to tell me the truth am I doing bad or good?

I pay all the bills at home, I still give out 15k every week for food.

But my wife still complain. I don't know what she use her salary to do. All I know is that she use to wear new cloth every Sunday and new shoes. And buys cloth for the children once in a while.

Pls tell me if am doing bad.

Omo, lol....this is laughable. I don't think you are doing bad. I mean 15k *4=60k a month, and that isn't your monthly take home Abi? You marry material girl, sorry bruv.

Nigeria is a shithole.

Especially towards nurses.
All these ego driven doctors should just do mistake and leave Naija to u.k.
Woh! Y'all will have withdrawal syndrome ontop ego, because y'all can't pull all those God forsaken and annoying stunts you pull in Naija. You will push your trolley yourself, even discard everything yourself.

Nigeria is a shithole once again.

dora7891:
A lot of people here took their parents phone to browse because it’s like a lot of ppl r kids here

Abi?

olusegxz:
Can lance corporal lock up a general.

so for your mind now nurses are corporal while doctors are general? Are you serious?
Lmao.......Florence Nightingale come and see what is happening o
Omo, I don laugh tire.


See bruv! I no blame you. Carry your myopic thinking dey go jare.

asiga:
I didn't mention your nursing profession bro. My wife is also a nurse and I know what am talking about. Many of the health practitioners fighting against doctors in Nigeria are those who couldn't end up becoming doctors and you know that to be true.

Is it not better to google through consultation and give your patient the best care than assume everything from your head? This is the difference between medical practice abroad and in Nigeria. Even health workers still believe the man who does everything from his head is the super man, that is the real ego bro.

No, it's not true. Is that what your wife has been telling you? She should get her facts right biko.

So, then there would be no point seeing a doctor if I can also Google my symptoms and get the medication I want. Seems you don't get this googling of a thing. If they were well knowledgeable, then they won't have to use Google. Geez!

AND I AINT A BRO

Dubaku543:
In UK and USA they give you free WiFi and Emdex to browse through while consultation. So you can be liable to face the law in any slightest mistake especially if you don't use Emdex at your disposal . In top European countries, computer make their diagnosis for them. I don't feel good when I see non entities forming woke. You sound sore mate. My divine prayers of healing are with you!!

I'm talking 'Google' you're saying emdex.

You need the prayers mate. You're a bigger non entity.

sgtponzihater1:
Johesu sent Doctors packing from Nigerian hospitals. It did not take 6months the nurse too escaped from the same Nigerian hospitals to the UK.

Sadly the nurses got to Uk and lost their voice. They are not asking for the same salary as Doctors, but are happy to do band 5 or 6 pay.

The anyhowness in Naija is a different scale.

Doctors too get their big wahala, someone should carry pen for you, bring stethoscope for you. They get to UK and push trolley for them self, and even push patients on wheelchair

Make everybody from Johesu to resident Doctors getat, no levels!

you get? Your head get better oil
In u.k they pick their trays and trolleys themselves, yeah! They push patients. Na only for Naija wey doctors go dey do like jagaban. Like say Na them dey pay nurses. Sorry, they don't come with pens and keep stealing pens from nurses. Rubbish

GoodIsGod:
Give women small power and they become beasts.
These so called gender wants to become governor's and head of state.
Shior.

Several years back. I was given cheque from Lagos by a client to cash in my state of residence. I was having only my international passport as a means of identification. It was a Friday and once I can't cash it, I would have to wait till Monday. There was nothing at home for my family. I went to bank to cash it and got to the cashier who is a female. She checked by he cheque front and back and asked for my ID. I gave her my passport and she looked at me.

"Mr GoodisGod your passport expired two days ago. I was startled I collected it and checked and it was true.
"I am sorry I didn't know until now" I said.
"Any other ID?" She asked.
I said I don't have another
"I can't pay you " she said and called the next on the queue.
"Sister please help me. It's just two days of expiration. I need this money" I pleaded.
" I am sorry I can't pay you" she repeated.
I hurriedly left for another bank before the closing hour. And it was a lady at the counter again. She looked at the passport and said same thing.

"I am sorry it is wrong for me to pay you with expired ID"

I left the bank for another and the thought of my family going hungry through the weekend was bothering me.
This time around I promised myself I won't go before a female cashier no matter what.

I entered the bank and it was my turn in front of a gentleman.
I gave him the cheque and he asked for my ID. I gave him the ID. Then he looked me in the face.

"Mr. GoodisGod your passport expired two days ago" he said.
"Yes I replied. Im sorry I have no other and I need the cash for the weekend" I replied.
"Go and renew it or get another form of ID. When next you come with this I won't pay you" the guy said and he started counting the money.

I breathed a breath of relief.
And since that day, I prefer a male cashier to the females. Even when all my documents are on point.

Ladies change your attitudes. You are made beautiful, so your behavior should be beautiful likewise.

someone acted based on professional rules, and another acted based on pity and you're quick to say females have issues. If it was going to cause her,her job nkor?
Kuku marry your fellow man

Premiumwriter:
Your reasoning is biased.

Cleaning should not be part of the doctor's job.

Everyone has a duty.

Even in a place like a movie set, there are people doing things like makeups, and wiping makeups and even helping actors get into dresses.

It does not mean pride or anything. It's about making everything efficient and flawless.

You probably don't care if the doctor has spent hours or overnight on surgery standing on his feet. And then still task the same team (not just the doctor) to clean up.

Please learn to think.

Even common offices have cleaners taking care of the cleaning before workers come in.

Plus, the nurse had no right to force a doctor to clean. Assuming after a surgery, the doctor must clean up and he was too tired, do you expect the nurse to lock him up?

That nurse must be suspended and her certificate withdrawn

Wtf! Which college of medicine you go bruv? I wan check something.
If he was to tired then he will go get a rest and come back to clean.
Nurses too get tired.
Nurses ain't doctor's slave. How do y'all even think? Why the whole superiority thing?

asiga:
Doctors are becoming endangered in this country with every passing day.

Many of the other health care workers who could not gain admission to study medicine vent their anger on them.

Many who could not survive the med school heat and have to change program vent their anger on them.

They successfully formed unions and associations to intensify their fight against doctors.

Even the Government not helping matters.

No wonder our doctors are running in their numbers to any other country including small Oman.

May God help Nigerian people

fight against doctors Y'all keep feeling like the next best thing after money.
Nurses keep leaving Nigeria too bruv.

Don't feel that all nurses were once Doctor wannabe. No! I never wanted to be a doctor.The ego you all have is amusing,yet a whole lot of you google during consultation.