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Family / Re: I Hate Your Kids And I'm Really Not Sorry. by Unnerve: 4:30pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
Klass99:Rebel |
Family / Re: I Hate Your Kids And I'm Really Not Sorry. by Unnerve: 3:57pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
Ariza:It's not everyone who is in ministry that needs to be celibate. There is a specific type of ministry, the type which Apostle Paul practiced that requires celibacy. See my post above to Klass regarding the difference between abstinence (fleeing formication until marriage) and celibacy. |
Family / Re: I Hate Your Kids And I'm Really Not Sorry. by Unnerve: 3:51pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
Klass99:Lol, this is exactly the point of the verse that Ariza is taking at face value. A person (one who is not called to the ministry that requires celibacy) will not be able to practice true celibacy. It is not for every man but only those with that specific gift of God for a ministry requiring celibacy. And by the way, celibacy is for life. The confusion is because people think that what they're doing by not having sex before marriage is called celibacy. It is not, that is simply abstinence from sex until marriage. Celibacy is an abstinence from both sex, sexual behaviour and marriage (lifelong commitment). Meaning, no kissing or smooching or romancing sef Only an Apostle Paul or those today with that gift, can effectively do that. We must not kid ourselves. |
Family / Re: I Hate Your Kids And I'm Really Not Sorry. by Unnerve: 3:29pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
Ariza: Lol, it's easy to tell when someone reads a verse and obtains a literal meaning out of it without a deeper understanding. Chapter seven in its entirety is Paul responding to things he was asked in a letter. You can get more clarification on the meaning of verse 7 on your own, use references or a concordance and the Expositor's study passage. This is something like what you'll see: 7. For I would that all men were as myself (celibate), BUT they would need to be after my (Paul's) manner in having the proper gift of God (in ministry) to effectively & successfully practice celibacy. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: I Hate Your Kids And I'm Really Not Sorry. by Unnerve: 2:54pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
Ariza:Lol, I remember making a joke to you about how I'm sure you've not read a Bible on your own this year outside of church. Paul's teachings in 1Corinthians 7 about celibacy refers specifically to those who are called to ministry like himself, meaning, taking a vow of celibacy which I doubt Klass99 will do. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: I Hate Your Kids And I'm Really Not Sorry. by Unnerve: 2:40pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
Klass99:That's revealing. |
Family / Re: I Hate Your Kids And I'm Really Not Sorry. by Unnerve: 2:35pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
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Family / Re: I Hate Your Kids And I'm Really Not Sorry. by Unnerve: 2:24pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
Klass99:Lol, no one is judging you. 1 Like |
Family / Re: I Hate Your Kids And I'm Really Not Sorry. by Unnerve: 11:15am On Jul 17, 2020 |
DrFunmisticGlow:Lol, we have ended up saying the same thing. Counselling to determine if the person is certified to make the decision (psychological), weighing the pros and cons (do they really understand their decision). Just curious, what's the difference between what you ought to do and what you're mandated to do? |
Family / Re: I Hate Your Kids And I'm Really Not Sorry. by Unnerve: 10:07am On Jul 17, 2020 |
DrFunmisticGlow:Number 3 is not particular with Nigerian Doctors. It happens in much the same way even in developed countries. See this NYTopinion https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.nytimes.com/2017/11/30/sunday-review/women-sterilization-children-doctors.amp.html |
Family / Re: I Hate Your Kids And I'm Really Not Sorry. by Unnerve: 10:05am On Jul 17, 2020 |
DrFunmisticGlow:Are you really a doctor? When a young woman makes a case for not wanting to have any children, doctors are usually mandated to determine her reasons, sometimes even offering psychological counseling. This is normal procedure. I'm not one though, just curious on my part is all. 2 Likes |
Autos / Re: Clean Golf 4 Auto For Sale... 420k Asking by Unnerve: 9:14am On Jul 17, 2020 |
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Family / Re: I Hate Your Kids And I'm Really Not Sorry. by Unnerve: 8:29am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Family / Re: I Hate Your Kids And I'm Really Not Sorry. by Unnerve: 8:21am On Jul 17, 2020 |
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Family / Re: 3 Nice Girls. What Do I Do? by Unnerve: 7:45am On Jul 17, 2020 |
You don't know what you want for yourself yet, which is why you're in this quagmire. binghamm: You may or may not want children, you're open to both cohabitation and marriage. Please make up your mind on the life you want, then it becomes easier to choose a woman that fits into it. 49 Likes 2 Shares |
Family / Re: Who Decides The Number Of Kids To Have In A Family, Is It The Husband Or Wife? by Unnerve: 10:56am On Jul 16, 2020 |
Ideally, they both decide together. But in a situation where they can't reach a consensus, the decision will rest 100% on the person who does NOT want any more kids. Scenario 1 Husband wants more kids but wife does not. He can only keep depositing his sperm inside her as much as he likes, a careful wife is the one with the power to let a pregnancy take or to spoil his plans. Scenario 2 Wife wants more kids but husband does not. She can only try to make him deposit his sperm inside her by hook or by crook, a careful husband is the one with the power to ensure he uses protection or does not release inside her, anything to spoil her plans. 9 Likes |
Family / Re: 12-Year-Old Delta Bride Married Off To An Old Man, Rescued In Edo by Unnerve: 9:01am On Jul 16, 2020 |
"It is easier to denature plutonium than to denature the evil spirit of man." - Albert Einstein 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Family / Re: Dreamt Of My Deceased Father And Discussing About Death With Him by Unnerve: 8:56am On Jul 16, 2020 |
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Romance / Re: Guys, You Have Been Lied To. Women Care ALOT About Looks. by Unnerve: 8:19am On Jul 16, 2020 |
Jihom29:First of all, those aren't Nigerian chics. Trust me, I know cos I've used Tinder in different countries. Naija chics on Tinder who even state it on their profile that they are on it strictly for hookups will still pretend to act casual when you start talking to them, they don't like to talk dirty even when you know and they know deep down they're hoes. Lol And whoever is complaining that getting chics from Tinder to go on dates or fück is difficult, definitely is clicking on the wrong profiles. But yes you're right, being a really cute guy will make getting chics way easier but it won't make them stay loyal to you. Sure they will love you for your looks and díck IF your sex game is mad, but don't for one second believe you're the only one they fücking. Someone giving them money is also digging that honeypot. Well with all of that aside, I should also let you know that most of the time after a while, you will get tired and start to focus on more important things in life besides chics and their püssy. 16 Likes |
Family / Re: Dear Black Man, It's Okay To Want The Best For Yourself. by Unnerve: 4:20pm On Jul 15, 2020 |
LordKO:This is deep, enough said. 5 Likes |
Foreign Affairs / Re: The Dam That Could Start A War Between Egypt And Ethiopia by Unnerve: 4:01pm On Jul 15, 2020 |
Building a dam upriver is not a wise thing to do generally, not just about restricting the flow of water to Egypt but it will also have an effect on the ecosystem around the areas downstream. It's 2020, Ethiopia should be looking for alternative energy sources, not putting so much dependence on hydroelectricity by walling up a river which serves at least six other countries. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Family / Re: . by Unnerve: 7:11am On Jul 14, 2020 |
This must be one of those stories for traffic, because I don't believe anyone can be this silly, more especially an immigrant who should already know a lot about the tactics of men in her country. It just felt like I was reading something from a desperate middle-aged non-Nigerian who has never stepped foot in Nigeria before, then I remembered where you claimed you're Yoruba. I can't make sense of it. 3 Likes |
Foreign Affairs / Re: Mary Trump - Trump Paid Someone To Take His SAT Tests by Unnerve: 8:31am On Jul 13, 2020 |
If she didn't name the person who wrote the SATs for him, what purpose does her accusations serve except to stir up conversation? 2 Likes |
Foreign Affairs / Re: Pastor Slams CNN, Don Lemon For Claiming Jesus Was Not Perfect by Unnerve: 7:44am On Jul 13, 2020 |
OLAADEGBU:Hahaha, yea despite that. He always looks like he has something stuck up his arse |
Family / Re: Parent Financial Support After Marriage by Unnerve: 7:39am On Jul 13, 2020 |
bukatyne:Lol, I quite find it odd though how any parent today will be comfortable collecting a monthly donation from a young married couple they ought to let build their lives. Perhaps people who do this have parents who have no single source of income of their own, but even then, my grandparents, all late from both sides, who didn't attend school, didn't work formal jobs and had no pensions or gratuities, weren't receiving a monthly salary. Not to mention we talking about parents today who are mostly retirees or business owners. 3 Likes |
Family / Re: Parent Financial Support After Marriage by Unnerve: 8:17pm On Jul 12, 2020 |
Be careful though so you don't start something that may become the cause of issues in the future. You may end up like the man in this story https://www.nairaland.com/5985003/man-shares-list-father-in-law-burial#91609774 1 Like |
Family / Re: Parent Financial Support After Marriage by Unnerve: 8:13pm On Jul 12, 2020 |
Chorismate:Why on earth would she say that? Is she an only child, I mean do her parents not have sons? 4 Likes |
Family / Re: This Is For Men Only: Women Should Not Read This by Unnerve: 8:05pm On Jul 12, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle:So the simple answer is yes. You believe that every man who understood family values always enjoys old age. Okay. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: This Is For Men Only: Women Should Not Read This by Unnerve: 6:58pm On Jul 12, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle:You really think everything works out good & perfect for all men who 'undertood family values' yea? Lol I'd like to know your favourite cool-aid flavour. 1 Like |
Family / Re: This Is For Men Only: Women Should Not Read This by Unnerve: 6:56pm On Jul 12, 2020 |
YourCoffin:True, especially about sorting out yourself and putting things in place for old age. I'm not at all sympathetic to that belief about being nice just because I want to be taken care of by my wife or children. Life is not so certain. 3 Likes |
Family / Re: Is It Right For A Girl To Wash Her Brothers Boxers by Unnerve: 3:40pm On Jul 12, 2020 |
Mariangeles:There's a big difference between telling someone to do something, and asking IF they can do something. The latter leaves them with the option to accept or refuse and this is all that matters. If she's fine with it and does it out of her own good gesture, I see no reason to cast aspersions. If she refuses on account of discomfort, I see no reason to hold it against her. They are siblings, not warriors at the frontline. 5 Likes |
Foreign Affairs / Re: REVEALED: What You Didn’t Know About Uganda’s Former President, Idi Amin – Many by Unnerve: 3:28pm On Jul 12, 2020 |
What I would like to read is what average Ugandans (especially those who were alive during his rule) have to say about him. I'm very weary about getting the absolute facts and truth when reading African history that has been written by Western colonialists. 14 Likes 1 Share |
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