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Offpointng:
Anywhere else is better than Nigeria, I just want to japa from Nigeria by any means possible, Nigeria is hell bla bla. na dem be this o and until you japa that japa wey dey hungry you go you won't know how Blessed Nigeria is

I love my country so much nobody can convince me on why any country is better than Nigeria when it comes to standard of living. I've visited UK once and I'm glad it wasn't japa that opened my eyes as to how abroad really is, I'm sure I would have been regretting like Segun is atm

From Today, Any Nigerian who curses Nigeria remain cursed and the curses extending to his/her family and same goes to those that Bless her

I don't see any bad thing in Japa, but if you to Japa, have a good skill. I don't also support cursing our dear country, let's be positive about our motherland coz we don't any where to call home except Nigeria.

Also, let's ask him the nature of his job in Ghana.. from his analysis, he don't have any reasonable thing doing in Ghana. He should come back to Nigeria or learn a skill over there and be useful. I think it's time we start telling ourselves the truth and stand on the truth ��

Okoyeebo:
Fear Government.
Yahaya Bello can decide to revoke their CofO and pay 18,500 as compensation to Dangote and there is absolutely nothing Dangote can do. It is absolutely legal.
It is better Dangote calms down and dialogues with Bello.

Law student well done lol

virginprincess:
I will remain single, build my career,make a name for myself become self dependent then maybe later adopt children or i can get a sperm donor but i know i will never remain unmarried by God grace,marriage is sweet and i will love to experience it.

Amen.

ijustdey:
How Mamu Thwarted Efforts To Rescue Train Victims, Encouraged Terrorists To Demand Huge Ransom



https://dailytrust.com/official-how-mamu-thwarted-efforts-to-rescue-train-victims-encouraged-terrorists-to-demand-huge-ransom

National honor for doing your job. All these politicians don't even know their roles

African leaders are cunning. They create unnecessary problem and waste taxpayers money to manage the problem. So they banned all means of common transportation in Lagos because of this campaign strategy? And d gullible followers will not even think outside the box. What is good about the naraixi? It's well

When is my passport due for renewal? Can I apply to renew passport that has not expire but the expiry date is close?

Please I need your candid advice.

semmyk:
Thanks for the polite request (though you could hv hinted on 'why'). It's a good adorable etiquette unlike getting cold DM request out of no where. On that basis, I'll indulge your request. I'll look out for your DM. We might engage on email and/or Telegram.
Nonetheless, my preference is to engage on this forum (NL). IMHO, it promotes and facilitate knowledge. We all get to learn.
{Should there be any untoward act, I'll engage with Justwise (within and outside this forum).}

How is PGDip IT going. Settled for or in NCI

I actually want to find out how to pay edubond via form A and documents to submit. Thanks for your time, and have sent you a DM as well..lol

Pierocash:
Only the weak commits suicide

Really? Just pray for forgiveness so that God will not test you with depression

Morenikeji090:
If you are then you are welcome bro.. all south west is ur home. I'm sorry to be hard on you coz those people wanna make us start to hate.coz they don't appreciate our good deed maybe it's time we Yoruba start to knock them..

If your type eventually travel out, any little thing, you go dey shout racist but your hatred for your fellow Nigerians is crazy. I'm from the west but I dislike people like you.

But the truth is that most of the people advising him not to come don't even have 50k in their accounts and they are surviving in Lagos..lol

ayusbobs:
I will appreciate if anyone can help me retrieve my money back. I regret meeting him

Go to his bank to complain. They will block the account and from there they will tell you what next to do or visit the nearest EFCC office at your location to lodge complain. It will take time but they will get your money back for you or jail the idiot

Alexxx2000:
It's a long story but I will try to abridge it.

My mom raised I and my brother of 5yrs old single-handedly. There's a separation in the family so we're shuffling the deck. She's an hairstylist with meagre wages.

My dad was never part of the family. They both separated because of infidelity and harsh treatment. Since then, my dad, I guess erased our memories from his life.

I must confess, she's trying but the bills is weighing her down. My little brother was to start school last year but we couldn't pay for fees but after saving, we decided to put him in a cheap school close to the house.

Now, my mom want to stop us from bearing my father's name. She mandated me to change mine as well to her own dad's name.

Yesterday when I returned from the Pos attendant job I do, she brought the topic again and she said, nothing is holding her back on her decision.

Is she right for taking such decision? What will you advise me to do please?

You should not join your mum to call your dad names. Look for the man and have conversations with him. Find out what really happened and discuss how he is going to assist you and your brother with him. If he is truly your biological dad, he will do something urgently.

To be honest we are all Nigerians but it's our politicians that use religious and ethnic divides on us for their selfish interest.

Abdul Malik, Muslim, possibly from the north, Eze is a Christian from the East and this guy is definitely Yoruba Muslim. They came together to achieve a common goal, no religious or tribal issue, they cames together as a Nigerian not Igbo, Yoruba or Hausa. From the statement, Abdul told them (Yoruba & igbo) to assist him and they helped him(Abdul) regardless of their religious and tribal differences.

It's time to ignore all these our greedy politicians and focus on developing our country by seeing ourselves as a Nigerian not Hausa, Igbo or Yoruba. It's makes the people from the other tribes feel less important. We are all Nigerians and this is our land, let's make it a better place to leave.

The politicians and their families have dual citizenship, if their is war in Nigeria, they will relocate with their relations and leave me and you, I mean we Nigerians to kill ourselves.

It's time to educate ourselves on the benefit of being a Nigerian. We will be stronger and better than most of eruopean countries if we see ourselves as a Nigerian and not the other way round. God bless Nigeria

#stayawayfromcrime
#youdocrimeyoupay

Goldenbaby:
You called this call out? You gave me visibility naaa. I have gotten 7 customers from this.

In my five years of business..It is a fool like you that just started patronizing me last month that i will scam. I never scam honourables and commisssioners way dey recharge 200k to 500k. Na small boy like you? The first 3 times i recharged for you. You were jumping like small maggot in my DM. Hahhaaha

I told you you will receive your money by 11pm 12am or 1am because Opay transfer was messing up last night hence i used my fidelity account. You see you are Very senseless.

I want to scam you and i asked for your account details to send the money back to you? Hahahahahhah.

Keep that post there. You will answer for it.
You are recharging 2000 and 1500 and giving me headache. 3 persons that saw your post chatted me this morning to inform me of the nonsense you wrote and they even recharged 15,000 and 6000. Thanks for the publicity. Post on facebook and twitter too.Hahahaha..Small Boy, i know what you are doing in warri. Hand go catch you one day.

I did a background check on you the day you said you want to come and see who pass you for date. Hahahh.Hand go catch you soon. Small Poor boy way dey cry because of 2000 way no reach to cook soup.Hahaha

Why call your client names?

You should have apologized to him and let him know it's network issue.

2,000 is not enough to cook soup? I don't get. Did he gave you the money to cook soup? For me oo, if you take my 1,000, I fit spend 50k to track and arrest you and make sure you vomit 100k.
What is bad is bad, you are wrong and need to apologize to your client. If you apologize, he will delete those messages.

The problem here is bad communication not scam. Both of you should sort it out

Edoziesmart:
And I see the guy as a legit person in this forum. Thanks for letting people know he is a scammer.
Seniorwriter you will die a miserable dead Inshallah!

Is a full time scammer

This guy on nairaland @Seniorwriter and also uses @Wisedeals on Niaraland scammed me 67,000 naira last two months. He claimed to be an immigration officer but I will soon share his videos and pictures here. Hand go soon torch him. Nigerian Immigration is interested in his case

This is his WhatsApp number +234 907 920 4499

And he use these details to scam people

Aderokaren Charles O
0177640039
GTbank

See below account details with fake office address

SireSommy69:
Good day Nairalanders,

Please, I need to pay my tuition fee ASAP for NCI, Ireland, but Form A is delaying.

My school has an option for me to pay using Transfermate mate and the rate is okay.
Please, can I use this option in Nigeria using my ATM card? If yes, someone should please put me through. Thank you.

Please can I have your contact? You able to make payment for the tuition via transfer mate? I just sent you mail, please respond or drop your contact for me. Thanks

ObituaryYebo:
Atiku and Ayu failed to keep their promise before he becomes president. Would they be able to fulfill any of their promise if they win ?


Atiku is another Northern project to run down Southern economy for the benefit of the Nothern people

Most of Atiku' investment is in the west not North

SireSommy69:
Good day Nairalanders,

Please, I need to pay my tuition fee ASAP for NCI, Ireland, but Form A is delaying.

My school has an option for me to pay using Transfermate mate and the rate is okay.
Please, can I use this option in Nigeria using my ATM card? If yes, someone should please put me through. Thank you.

Have you done the payment?

[quote author=SireSommy69 post=115409149]Good day Nairalanders,

Please, I need to pay my tuition fee ASAP for NCI, Ireland, but Form A is delaying.

My school has an option for me to pay using Transfermate mate and the rate is okay.
Please, can I use this option in Nigeria using my ATM card? If yes, someone should please put me through. Thank you. [/quot] have you done the payment?

Please can I Iegalize my documents in Nigeria if I studied in Benin Republic? I studied in Benin Republic, I applied for MSc program in Sweden but I was asked to provide legalised certificates, can I legalised my certificate in Nigeria?

Perez99:
Happy new month y'all. I'll go straight to the point. Pls I need your advise.

Yesterday evening (6:10pm) when I came back from work, a friend of mine who live down the street invited me over to his birthday party. So I quickly freshened up and I went for the party.

There was enough drinks (alcohol), smoke and goat meat pepper soup. Although I don't smoke. I only drink and it's occasionally.

After taking few green bottles, I know I would be very hungry later, so I pleaded with my girlfriend to help me prepare jollof rice and meat, that I'm at a friend's party. I sent her 9k to prepare the food.

As at 8:45pm she called me she's already at my house with the food. So I left the party and headed home to open the door in order not to keep her waiting. Her house isn't far, it's just #100 Keke or bike down to my place

She sat on the couch playing game on her phone, I don't understand what came over me, I was under the influence of alcohol. Omoh! Alcohol na bastard.

The next thing I did, I started kissing her which she responded, she knew I was drunk, she could smell alcohol all over me, then she persuaded me to go eat my food before it's get cold and go take my bath.

Before I knew it I pushed her on the couch to lie down while I unzip my trouser, she said I should stop that she's not in the mood, I didn't listen to her, she crossed her legs so tight while struggling with me that I should stop that she's on her period yet I didn't listen to her.

I was forcing & trying to open her legs while she crossed her legs so tight struggling with me. I was almost gaining access Until she said "Peter do you realize you're about to rape me? Please stop"

Omoh! The word rape reset my head, the highness cleared off my eyes immediately. Honestly I didn't even know what I was doing. I knelt down and I begin to apologize to her.

She stood up and left immediately. I called to apologize but she didn't pick my calls. This morning she texted me saying "I thought I was safe whenever I'm with you. You scared me so much that I don't know if I could continue this relationship"

This girl is a beautiful, caring and nice girl and our relationship is just 5 months. I really love this girl. I don't want to lose her. She always give me good sex but I don't understand what happened yesterday. Infact I quit alcohol from now henceforth. Shayo na bastard. Please how do I apologize to her.

If you want us to help you, retract your statement about innocent alcohol. Yeye boi

Soulflai:
I shouldn't have brought this here but the emotional bargage is too heavy for me to move on in. My marriage of 2 years is about to crumble.

I met my wife in Kaduna Southern part in 2017. Our relationship had been a long distance one as I base in Lagos while she also work in Kaduna, but we eventually married in 2020. The bone of contention is the issue of her ex. That point we are dating, I always caution her to cut communication with the guy, she will do it by deleting the number, but later I will find out they're still relating.

Last month, I purchased a new phone and I had to give her my own. So on the process of reinstalling Whatsapp on her phone, I retrieved all the backup Whatsapp messages 7 which left me devastated. The chat history with her ex really left me broken.

On multiple occasions after I paid her dowry, she met with the guy and they had sex. Multiple times pals! Even after marriage, when she is 5 months pregnant, the guy still had her with my baby inside her!

I am really broken pals, I confronted her on this, she started crying that she will cut communication with him. The guy even send some money to her account on difference time this year.

This is the height of emotional damage. I am just leaving each day just to find my leg financially. I am trying my best, but it is not enough.

Lastly, I called the so-called ex on phone to cut communication with her, the guy is in Kaduna I think while we are in Lagos. She also blocked him all avenues likewise. My decision now is that any time I discovered any form of communication between her and the guy, it is over with the marriage. I think she is not really in to me like that, which beg the question while she married me in first instance.

If am your brother, what advice would you recommend? I only choose to be lenient because the kids are just too small to have their parents separated early. If not, I would have sent her parking!.

Right now I am just not happy with life afterall.

@op please forget about what people will say and focus on your life. If you die today,God forbid, we will move on including your family. Do DNA for you child to be sure it belong to you. If the baby is yours, take full responsibility of the child and move on. Stop saying my wife, she is not. Don't be fooled. Now she is aware that you know her secret, be vigilant with her, I'm talking from experience. Soro fun obinrin ore

Regardless:
Hey guys,
Pardon the long post.
So when I was still in 200 level staying in school hostel, I had this pre-degree roommate - handsome bad guy. He met a lady at the center he was attending tutorials for Jamb and PD exam. The lady and her mum were living in the town where our school was. They started having sex like mad. They so much had sex to stupor that one day this my guy came back completely drained. We had to arrange Malt and Milk for him to get himself that day. Now this girl was involved with another guy who was already working in all this Oil drilling company and he was alright.

I came back from lectures one day and my former roomie was alone in the room and moody. I asked him what was wrong and he opened up to me that the girl is pregnant and they have tried to abort the baby to no avail. Ha... So wetin wan play like this? He said the girl and her mum had already planned to pin the pregnancy on the working guy's head as this my guy no get shishi plus he couldn't even tell the girl to keep it for him or go and stay with his people because he had stayed at home for like 5 years committing plenty atrocities before his mum managed to send him to school for PD. He was sad because he didn't want another man to take care of his child.

When I asked him about the situation after some time, he said the working guy had already accepted the pregnancy and had already started buying baby things down. lol... The guy didn't gain admission again and went back home. Later he came back and did Diploma... When I asked him of the child, he said the child was a carbon copy of him, that the girl had done intro with the guy but when he has money he would come back for the child..

Last month, I received a friend request from my fomer roomie on FB. Long story cut short, after 7 years, he has blown through yahoo in SA. I asked him about the child and he said he can't trace the baby mama again, her mum had relocated from that town and he has exhausted all means looking for them. I jokingly offered my help and the guy was willing to give me money to help him trace her. I told him I would see what I can do.

It took me a while but I was able to trace the girl on SM and even traced the now husband to LinkedIn. Babe is living well with Oil money and has 3 kids and truly the first girl is my guy's carbon copy.. Damn... I started feeling for the child. Beautiful soft girl-child.

I decided ring the girl and immediately I told her what was happening, she hung up and blocked my number.. lol.. I sent a msg to her with my second line and told her to better call me back before I send a message to her husband... babe called me and was begging.. that my former roomie is not responsible. he was not trying then... she couldn't wait .. blah blah .. that please I should not scatter her marriage... was really crying over the phone... The RP in me wasn't buying it until she mentioned that I should please think about how this would shatter her daughter's life. Omoh the human in me made me pause come begin reason am...

My former roomie's lifestyle isn't really what a child would be proud of.. the guy has done everything from cultism to robbery and still hasn't changed and now to yahoo.......only thing he has now to offer that child is money....He said his mother has been telling him to go and bring the child from another man's house.
I don't care about the babe because ladies always think their hoe-phase would go unrewarded..
I pity for the babe's husband coz he was simp then and has remained so till now oblivious of anything.....
I only sincerely care about the 7y/o child whose life would be turned upside down by this shocking revelation..

Anyway, I told her that I wouldn't do anything for now but my guy is very desperate and she better handles it fast and that it's only a mater of time my guy gets to her one way or another... Babe thanked me and hung up. Next day, she wiped her and her husband's SM clean and deleted the accounts.. except the man's LinkedIn of course.. The man don sha accept me as one of his connections.... I've not revealed any findings to my former roomie.. Last time he asked when I want to start tracking her, I just stalled him. I'm sitting on the sidelines for now.. Omoh I weak ..... The good, bad and ugly comments are welcomed.

@op, focus on your life and leave the happy family alone. God will not forgive you if you scatter dah family and that innocent girl life. What do the useless yahoo boi have to offer? The yahoo boi will ruin the little girl life. The story is real and I know about this story. @op this happens in tanke, unilorin days, boy not a girl..lol

udede:
devorce with out evidence of adultry or witcraft is impossible in my church

Is your church court?

Villa12:
I'm actually not a Yoruba but I've lived in Yoruba land, Lagos precisely for long

Any Yoruba, Hausa or fulani man and woman campaigning for Obi should have a rethink and retrace their step back. Though this isn't supposed to be so but you see those IGBOS have turned this election to tribalistic one. They have even turn it to religious one

I will support and vote for Tinubu. He has more achievements, antecedents and legacies to point at as a governor and when he left government than EVERY other contestants

Tinubu is very much accommodating and tolerance than other contestants. IGBOS are taking political position in Lagos. IGBOS are civil servants in Lagos and other South western states. IGBOS are doing businesses freely in Lagos and other south western region

Please go to any eastern state to see if you'd see any Yoruba or Hausa man as ordinary councillor. It is a TABOO to the Igbo

ACHIEVEMENT- I WILL VOTE TINUBU
TOLERANCE & ACCOMMODATING- I WILL VOTE TINUBU

For the northerners who reside in the north you can ask any of your family or friends living in Lagos and other South western states they will tell you how Yoruba are so friendly, loving and accommodating. Go to the state headquarter at Alausa ikeja you'll see igbos holding top position without any discrimination

Go to east and see how all positions are occupied completely by all igbos.

An average IGBOS are resentful, spiteful, hateful, bittered et al. They literally see themselves better, superior and more sophisticated than other tribes.

PLEASE verify this my claim if you aren't aware of it and make a decision on who to campaign and vote for

I leave you to your conscience!!!

Olodo ni bobo yi sha. Go to Ogun, OYo or Osun State if you will see any ibo or Hausa as ordinary councillor there . If you are paid to sell your candidate to people, you can do it without insulting or tribalising it. Ire oooo

If you harbour terrorist, you should be willing and ready to pay for the price. Look at what's going on in the northern and eastern Nigeria.

Caseless:



You guys have really tried. Even if you shut it down now, I don't think any discerning mind would 'arbitrate' in discountenance.

Give Nigerians till the eve if the election to register, those who won't register will not - we're that non-challant by nature.


You need time to prepare and print the PVC fir those who have registered - and you can't be printing and also registering at same time

What I think INEC should do is, they should make it possible for people to be able to register at anytime of the year to avoid this stamped we always have whenever there's an election.

In a sane society, the electoral organisation primary duty is to register all the eligible voters. Nothing like deadline for registration. These people are paid for this job. Do you know how many people INEC claimed to have employed?

This country is bleeped abeg

Seniorwriter:
Location?

@Seniorwriter

Lagos please lemme have your contact if you can handle