johnabumere:
Idiot...how do we know if the other children are yours....weak identity...they should block this idoit from nairaland

Prechgold1180:
So wetyn u come want make we do


What best defines a simp.
Op know this and know peace
The father of that child is still banging your wife till date

ArcSEMPECJ:
See how this man ended up putting this girl into this mess.....

If the girl has ever had a former murder case , we would have referred her as a serial murderer but seriously , this kind of cases of drugs and alcohol, never ends well between a man and a woman in an enclosed space......

I pity her, let her stay her years and learn her lessons , atleast out of drugs for years can help brighten her lost self....

tete7000:
The man deserved all the death she got, and the lady too will deserve whatever punishment melted out to her. A life of sin brings sorrow and destructive end

marsup:
I don't think a gay man in Nigeria will just come on to you like that.... Again, you had an advantage if the story is true. You could have reported to the HR.
It's a multi national company, you can't just fired when your boss sexually harassed you.

blesdman:

Organisations in Nigeria do not take the inputs of their HR seriously. I have seen work bullying not treated

Sixfiguresmart:
Happy to get an oil and gas job. Dream come true. Everything was perfect with me. 3 years into my job, a new boss showed up. A light skin Nigerian male. His wife and kids were in Canada. I visit the gym 3x per week.

He requested to go to the same gym. Pretended to work out and asked that I mentored him. It all happened fast. I thought he was responsible as he was married. He started touching my body inappropriately. Caressing my chest holding my arms. Thought he was enamored by the muscles only. I would somehow break him off and redirect him to the session.

Then, after work it was about meeting me, talking to me, confiding in me. Initially, I was happy to build a close relationship with a boss. Of course, that's my career growth right there.

Not until, this night, he invited me over to his lounge. As soon i arrived, he undressed to a G-string, I was dazed for real. He tried to kissed me. I blocked it. Then, came the love, the feeling, and sex plea. So, I took my leave quickly. Felt disappointed and betrayed. I told no one but my bestie who laughed over it and made a mockery of the whole thing. Telling me that he would have busted his ass for the money.

All I needed was my job and no drama. He advanced toward me several times. Showered me with expensive stuff. I rejected everything he offered. I couldn't shake him anymore, no hugs, nothing. I felt truly perplexed cos he was very connected and has brothers and relatives in top positions in Chevron. I met with him, talked to him man to man politely. He told me he had been in it since he was 14. I asked him if he would love that life for his kids. He said, no! So, I told him that I have a faith, a conscience and a commitment to my God. That I would not entertain homosexuality. So, after more attempts, the hate set in.

Well, my final year in Chevron was horrendous until i finally got axed 17 months after my new boss showed up. I moved on with my dignity but with a bigger lesson in life. I kept it a secret for many years. Only my bestie new about it.

Many men are victims. People hardly believe the few who cry out. Many will question the authenticity of my history and blame me afterall. Making it harder for the next man to come out.

Many argue that they will beat, hit, or punch a man for advancing toward them. There are consequences. Read your room. Justice hardly comes in a world of injustice. Sometimes, the best thing to do is walk away.

Smokeybrain:
I promised myself that I would get TSTV after an objective review by a nairalander. I have fulfilled my promise. Now am connecting my world. Good bye DSTV

chrisxxx:
Eguavon as Head Technical is still technically the coach. He influences the the Coach. He won't influence beyond his capacity which we have all seen is below scratch. In order words Eguavon should leave football entirely. I mean national football. It is a reward to mediocrity if Eguavon is still found in the employment of NFF.

reidkrugger:
Truth is it doesn't matter who coach these guys. They simply are not patriotic or playing at their full potential if you will. Who wants to risk his life or career for a country that don't care about him?

robosky02:




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Hanks0000:
I don't woo girls, I'm too pretty for that..

Girls woo me instead. I have like four of 'em in my DM telling me how much they like me. I don't even care.

The one I really really liked said no and I stopped disturbing her.
I only try once, reject me once and that's it, I don't care if you trying to play hard to get or any games. Once you say NO I never ask again.

Now she's trying to initiate conversation with me but I have already moved on.

Also, I like girls that are older than me. 6-12 years older. Wild cougars.

Senomii:

Guy leave me I still dey vex abeg

I been still dey the toasting stage and the girl just reject me, tell me say na lust I dey feel for am say no be love, like say she be jesus christ wey she go know about my feelings.....oya allow me make I show you say na really love wey I feel for you... the babe come dey yarn careless, she just twist all the talk come carry my personal matter put inside, something wey dey beyond my control
How you go drag my personal life inside another matter, like say na me wey create myself, the girl don make me vex abeg, she just open mouth wraaa dey make conclusions, I no dey like wen pesin dey claim say dem know me more than I know myself, even my papa no know me like that, so na she wey go claim knowledge of everything about me

I just die am abeg, I dey regret say I allow her disorient me..... already she dey claim say she dey with person.... e come be like say I too dey disturb am..... I just wish say I fit kill all feelings for her abeg..... I no go gree carry any woman matter for head again.... anytime wey I see woman even if dem no dey pursue me I go carry my slippers run

Wawelexy:
Sorry o, which of the brother in-law helped you? Ur ex bro in-law or the new girl?

dboY1123:

Lol infact I'm rich, Amen!!!
I just feel like anything to do to help her condition this time

dboY1123:
I just met this beautiful girl, and I'm already all over her.. She's not in a relationship but definitely guys are disturbing her even her ex's.

I asked her to come over to my place and she did, we went out together and get some stuffs and we head back home(my place). So, I decided to ask her out one on one in my place and she said NO, she's still finding it difficult to go into another relationship.. When she left my place for her house just two byke away, someone stole her phone from her bag(she called me to tell me) the bag was open by the time she got home.

My question now is, should I ever think of getting her a phone? I still don't know my stand in her life, I really love the girl but ain't acting like a simp whatsoever.. But the fact that she lost her phone after leaving my house is what bothers me.

Please what should I do?

Exkandayee:
Nna eh,some guys,hu deh ask girls out this day's,op so you are telling me you no fit lash that girl without asking her out, you just a pussssy a ssss niqqqa

obinna58:
How a guy with dck and a girl with vagina be doing friendship matter still amazes me.

What's she doing in your house if not to get lashing or sweet sweet romance

PaedophileProph:
You not dating her yet oooo

Simpubozz:
I didn’t read your write up but I will tell to maintain the friendship cos she already feels you guys are in relationship. The key is in ur hand , your are the driver , you can steer the wheel to any direction of your choice from that point

Kollins11:
Happy Boxing Day Nairalanders. Please I need advice on this matter.

It was on a good evening... Abt 4 months ago. I went out to get a bag of pure water, but the woman that sells around my street has closed so I went to the next street.

I saw this beautiful creature, light skinned, slim and pretty girl. Although she narrowly escaped albino. Her hair is naturally dark, she's very light skinned like Regina Daniel. BUT if one observe her very well and look at her eyes one would tell she's an albino because her eyes are always swinging and dangling.
Immediately I saw her, as a sharp guy I approached her, I flattered her and she smiled and gave me her number.

NL's, I have been living in my area for almost 2 years now. I don't know this babe stays down my street. She live with parents, I was so surprise when she showed me their house. Well, since then we've been chatting and calling each other.

She's a good and happy girl, she has never directly or indirectly ask me for money, she has a great sense of humor. She enjoys my company. She's 23yrs old an igbo girl. I know alot of guys would be attracted to her beauty but I doubt if she has a boyfriend. For her to be living down my street and even my guys haven't seen her mehn! She's well reserve.

The guys in my hood, I don't know maybe the girls that broke their heart made use of Thor sledge hammer (in Avengers movie) to break it. These guyz are hardcore red pillars.

Yesterday was the First day she visited me. she brought food for me, she saw I and my guys butchering our chicken, she also assisted us in preparing egusi soup. When she left. My guyz was like where did I see this beautiful fish....Before I could even narrate to them, they were already asking if I don lash her. I said No. Omo!! They almost pick up a Physical fight with me saying "why I neva lash her nw". Honestly she's different from other girls. If na before...I for don lash her since nw.

They were also surprised that she live down our street. This babe is so reserved and well mannered. I don't mind, I would like to marry this babe. I have never felt this way for any girl in a very long time.

NL's I don't know if I should ask her out or maintain the friendship.

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