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Yes.
Agreement is agreement.
Honour agreements so that your days may be long and it may be well with you

Bros I understand your pain very well.
You should've seen these red flags while you were dating.
Well, it's always there but maybe you were blindfolded by love, her beauty and maybe the thoughts that she will change.
You're just starting and all these complaints are already present.
How long can you continue with this?
FYI, as time goes she will become worse..
Marriage is meant to be enjoyed and not endured especially at this your stage.
Here are my advice
1) Don't mind her, get a maid to take care of the house but she will accuse you of sleeping with her .
2).Get yourself a different television..
3) pay more attention to your work/business because you will see real wahala if you experience a financial problem.
4) send her back to her parents or wherever you got her from for a better home training..
5) Don't buy any car for her now..
She should buy hers from the proceeds in her business or she should bring a higher percentage of the car money.
Remember that the car maintenance bills will be on you.
6) Be in control of your house as a man.
7)Never you lay your hands on her..
pray for the knowledge and wisdom to handle your domestic issues.
9) Talk to her about your problems though I have my reservations
10) Bros, after all these and you're still don't have the peaceful and enjoyable marriage you desired,
DIVORCE HER.
The earlier the better.

I think that it's high time this guy lies low,
Stay off the news and social media.
Put his house and lifestyle in order.
Watch his back and the type of friends and associates he keeps.
Because they are definitely after him and his money and his time is ticking.
Nwannaa,
Mulu anya.
Uche gi dikwaya maka na ogbo-ogu adigo tight

Why are you people giving this woman an undeserved attention.
Please ignore her shamelessness.
Is initiation into cultism and all that goes with it done in the hostel and in the presence of non members?

I cry each time I read about this boy and how he died.
The government should not allow this issue swept under the carpet.
This is really painful.
Someone's only child just wasted like that.
The culprits must pay for this and the school should be closed down for 6 years.
The government, the federal and the states ministries of education should promulgate guidelines for the operation of boarding facilities in the schools or review the existing rules and regulations in our boarding schools.
#JUSTICEFORBOYSLY

Brother ,
no need going about complaining.
It's your house, be a man that you are meant to be and send her back to her parents ASAP before she causes an irreversible damage.
Explain everything to her parents when she gets to them and move
on.
Meanwhile start looking for another house help.

The pastor should go back to his roots and dig for answers to this problem.
Something is definitely wrong with him spiritually.
He might lose the next one if he re-marries
The earlier the better.

This Mbaka is really shameless.
I'm ashamed of him.
Is he really sane?

OP,
Your own is even better.
Come to All Saints Secondary school Ehere Aba or to Ngwa High School Abayi Aba where I had my post-primary education,
And see the real wreckage for yourself.
The sole reason for all these neglect of our education sector by these animals you call leaders is because their children can not be found anywhere near these eyesore of a school.
And FYI, don't expect anything different soon unless there is a revolution in this animal kingdom.

descarado:
You never loved her.
No need. Move on

Does she love him?
What do you want him to do,
maybe to go, kneel down and start begging the family.
FYI, this is her makeup story

I don't think it's her family.
My mind tells me that it's her excuse but using her family as a cover up.
Did you contribute to her education?
ASK HER WHAT HER OPINION IS.
DOES SHE STILL LOVE YOU?
OP, BE VERY CAREFUL ABOUT THAT GIRL.

Mercychen:
Yes I concur.

Being a God fearing woman is what makes you a wife material.

A virtuous woman, who can find?
She is priceless.

FYI,
Being churchy is not being God-fearing

henrybomb:
So if you were to choose between a virgin with bad and annoying character or a non virgin with a calm and amazing character which will you choose?

The later with both hands and legs

jmoore:
So you had a bath, got dressed, sprayed perfume and walked out of the hostel to head to the class for lectures.

Then you meet someone dressed in rags with the most offensive smell ever. He says to you "being clean is not a guarantee for a successful graduate".

That marks are not given for being clean doesn't mean you should be a dirty pig. You being clean is for your own good, it's healthy to be clean.
Is being dirty a guarantee to be a successful graduate?

Now, you can see where I am heading to. Being a virgin till marriage is a healthy lifestyle. Borehole doesn't guarantee anything. Therefore, let virgins be free to virgins.

OP.
ARE YOU MARRIED?
I DOUBT IF YOU ARE

Personally I can't marry a virgin.
It's a mark of timidity, inexperience and naivety.
She might not even be good in the other room.
Being a virgin is not a guarantee that you will be a good home maker or partner.

[quote author=Praxis758 post=106185533]Both men and women are victims of domestic abuse in marriage and relationship. Some men abuse their wives/partners likewise some women too abuse their husbands/partners.

The reason women's version of domestic abuse seems to be louder is the fact that they are seen to be weak emotionally, physically and psychologically. The society has therefore built laws and perceptions in line with those aforementioned.

Trust me, there are women who are hardened in physically and emotionally abusing their husbands. Such husbands are often relectant to open up because of either shame or the society will find their story absurd.

Most times when men are truthful about them being abused by their wives; family, friends and the society will term it a 'perception control' or weakness.[/qu


Some men are suffering one form of abuse or the other in their homes but they can't open up because of the shame and people will see them as weaklings.

LordIsaac:
Well....he's deserving of it. Things have changed though, I must confess.

Has the word of God changed?
Has God's standards changed?
I pity you sheepies .
And FYI,
I was a worker in deeper life

In naija, the roads are full of emergency situations 247.
The need for the horns are always there.
Imagine yourself driving with a bad horn in a Nigerian Road.
You will regret it

Annie, your marriage is part of your private life.
Why not leave it private and settle it's issues privately.?
You dragged your privacy to the public via the social media?
I thought you were matured and sensible enough to know the consequences of the step you took
Well Annie, enjoy yourself but I'm sorry for you.

This people just want to STEAL people's shops.
The real cause of the flooding in the market is that the waters coming into the market from all the surrounding communities are not going out.
There is more than enough gutters in the market but when they are filled during the rains it overflow into the roads and into shops..
The government has to plan and put structures that can take the flood out of the market simple.
The original planners and builders of the market put an underground gutter in front of the A- line gate but the government of Orji Uzo Kalu sealed it during one of his deceptive road rehabilitations and that's the genesis of flooding in the market
Destroying people's shops will not solve this problem at all and they know it.
They and their allies are just looking for every opportunity to STEAL people's shops, Lands and houses
That's their MODUS OPERANDI.
They've done that In many places in this Aba.
GOD PLEASE HELP ABA.

If this story is true,
then
I pity that your friend.
The earlier she leaves that animal of a girl the better for him.
If he ends up marrying that girl, that would the greatest mistake of his life and he might not live to regret it.
His late mum who suffered for them single-handedly and died without reaping the fruits of her labour and this uncultured animal was insulting her?
FYI, She insulted the whole family even the late Dad too.
Tell your friend that God is giving him all the signs now for him to leave that evil girl.
He should go and apologize to his brother for disgracing him before guests because he did the most needful at that moment by slapping the pig.
That elder brother deserves an applause

nazicartel:
Who's Nduaguibe ?.... Anyway for everything to move forward, I prefer the governorship slot to go back to Abia North.....
Besides there's nothing like ukwa-la-Ngwa.... Ngwa people should be on there own and leave Ukwa people alone....

The Ngwas continues to deceive and manipulate the Ukwas.
During electioneerig it will be
"UKWA NGWA"
but after the elections and the Ngwas will muscle everything to themselves and you will no more hear of UkwaNgwa but
"OHA NGWA".
And the UKWAS will become a nobody.
Ukwa people should be wise and strong enough for...........

Snitch24:
This is a show of shame
What's the US doing about it

I don't trust the US in what's happening in Afghanistan.
I think the US have a hand in the Swift take over of the country by the Taliban

MOVIC6:
If you are a Christian, yoy are advising for a medium to sin

See you see Christianity.
HYPOCRITE.
I Support his stand 1000%
But no woman can try that rubbish on me if I live in the US.
I have over a million ways to settle her demonism forever without traces
I won't even marry an African if at all I will marry.
BABY-MAMA-GUY-FOREVER

Mbataku96:
did he travel to all this place to witness it and get pictures that can prove it

I'm in Aba now.
Even the house-flies are on sit-@-home.
No single movement anywhere.
PROUDLY BIAFRAN

Is he breaking any law?
Is it written anywhere that the position of the women leader MUST be for a woman?
Don't women contest for other leadership positions everywhere and lead and preside over the men.
Is any of you saying anything against that?
Please let's be reasonable.
GENDER EQUALITY IS WHAT EVERY WOMAN CRAVES FOR AND THIS IS ONE OF IT.

Monogamy:
Anambra is APGA, APGA is Anambra

Supported x100%
No other party will govern my state.
Proudly an ANAMBRARIAN.
If I reincarnate a million times in this world i pray to always be an ANAMBRA MAN.
CEE CEE SOLUDO IS THE ONLY SOLUTION WE NEED.
shalom!!!

thebosstrevor1:
Igboho is a runaway terrorist

Eating human feaces for money which is a common habit of southern boys is disgusting, i rather be a terrorist than eat human feaces like the way southern boys do.

I wonder why the average black man can not be rational mostly the northern Nigerians.
ARE YOU NOT ASHAMED OF BEING A NORTHERN NIGERIAN WITH ALL THE UNMENTIONABLE TABOOS HAPPENING UP THERE?
I'm ashamed of people like you.
Maybe it's your public display of affluence up north that brought all these vices to your region.
BE RATIONALE!!!

TOTOnigga:
Continuation

I graduated from a boarding school and would have loved to study computer science or played football ball(this was something a told my dad since I was 11) but no, my dad Never allowed me..some things he normally said

"If you study this pharmacy ehnn, even before you graduate, you will be earning 100k per month during your internship"

"All most all the young guys who studied pharmacy in my workplace ( he works in N.A.F.D.A.C) drive big cars and earn nothing less than 300k a month"

"Football is not a profession, it is a hobby..you can't succeed in football without being a graduate"

"Money is not everything in this life, if you like have all the money in the world, if you are not a graduate, people wouldn't regard you as much as a graduate"

"I can't let you play football..you only want to play football because you know all the girls will like you"

And many more.....

To be continued..

I WISH I HAD A DAD LIKE YOURS WHEN I WAS YOUR AGE.
I WOULD HAVE BEEN OPERATING FROM THE SKY BY NOW.
BE CAREFUL.
EDUCATION IS NOT EVERYTHING BUT IT'S ESSENTIAL TO EVERYTHING.
MAKE HARES WHILE THE SUN SHINES

[quote author=ogbuefi677 post=103799419]From the word 'wawa' which means 'no' in some parts of Enugu north senatorial zone and the whole Abakaliki block of Ebonyi state comprising of Ebonyi north and Central senatorial zones.
Just like an Abakaliki man will refer to an Anambra man as 'onye ijekebee' from the word "ijeko ebee" meaning where are you going.
Both are not derogatory, remember there was a time there was a clamour for Wawa state.[/quo

You're absolutely correct

@ Op,
How old are you?

That your wife is a rare gem.
Don't ever play with her.
Learn to listen to her.