₦airaland Forum

Sweetplum:
Your fellow man just testified how God used a woman to bless him. His baby mama o. And you and one JasonScoolari are here ranting about your misfortune with women. If we come here to open threads about men's crime, you all ll say women too dey talk.
Just get a life!

If you believe what that guy said, then you can also believe that pigs can fly.
In that case it'll be clear to all that you have a very low IQ

Ikennaford:
Maybe for nigerian woman,,,, when I first landed in America, few days, I met my baby mama, she took me in, she pays everything, she is a nurse, she made me what I am today, she never benifitted from me if not my dick.... She bought my first car same year, she's 27 now and am 29....when I told her, I want to start a big project in Nigeria, my (mansion) she gave me $100k with the $200k with me, my project is ongoing still swallowing money, is 8 flats mansion, with basketball ball court inside, lawn tenis court, and small football ball field inside,,, ladies and gentlemen, is that not unconditional love..... Op there are good women out there that needs good men,, here too in America, we have goldiggers, those bitches from poor carrebean countries, dem full here, those one deh do like some Nigerians girls, those one's will pretends, dupe you and run.... As we have bad men, naso we get bad women,,,, I'm a bad boy, but my baby mama submissiveness don make me calm down, imagine me as nwa igbo spending close to $50k just to watch football matches in Qatar, who does that, isjust because of this beautiful Kenyan American,

Well done Mr Lienus

Your lie is too sweet like honey

TooMuchStuff:
IIf pure white all through... Mariners

If multiple colours and plenty ....Air Force squad

If black Red yellow and seven strands.....Priestess

Plenty waistbeads with plenty bangles n anklets .... Royal Water Queen.

Don't ask how n why......

Na only Peter Obi sure me say he's my President

Really?

My observations:
1. How come South African women are always going for Nigerian men since their men are cute/handsome?

2. Recently, a South African woman rightly asserted that their men do not desire Nigerian women at all. So, could it be possible that this Nigerian female who posted this is trying to make Nigerian men feel jealous?
If that's her intention, then she's just wasting her time

obedience4:
See Mumu, no be Kaduna I do Nysc..
They deceive yourself

Compared to a southern city like maybe Lagos, Port Harcourt , Benin city or Owerri, prostitution is less in Kaduna.

Even at that, about 90% of prostitutes in Kaduna are of Southern origin ( Igbos, Calabar, Bini, Yoruba, etc).
Hausa prostitutes may just be about 5% of the population

EmmanuelScott1:
Lol, so what's the sense in what he said.

So in your book polygamy will stop prostitution?

Is prostitution not thriving in the north?

With the level of poverty in Nigeria, this idiot wants men to adopt polygamy, just look at the current state of northerners, poverty looking endemic.

Prostitution is not as much in the north as it's in the south.
Even the little prostitution going on in the north is dominated by southern women.
It's very rare to see a northern woman involving in prostitution

tepes:
She is..the turn off is the fact that she's holding onto that..life is unpredictable..even in marriage people change. Withholding sex is actually not worth it..After deflowering then what next? What can you use to keep me if I don't want to stay with just you? Women don't think

Assuming she's saying the truth about her being a virgin, then try & seduce her & get your share of the kpekus.
This is because another bad nigga may come along & she'll open her legs for him quickly.
The nigga will end up chopping what you have been waiting patiently for for 7yrs + & this will pain you so much.
If however you don't wanna seduce her & chop your share then prepare your mind for the inevitable.
If you try seducing her & she no gree open legs for you, then ignore her & mingle & fucck other girls & she'll understand that her kpekus is not special

tepes:
Based on her religious beliefs, she wants to keep herself till wedding night..I've let her be..I can't play myself..there are lots of ladies around and she knows..even marriage doesn't guarantee anything

Is she really a virgin or she's deceiving you while getting fuccked by someone else?

That I should trust women

tepes:
I meant we have been friends for 7 years before attempting relationship last year. I have no intentions of playing along with her just because of sex cux I really had good plans for her..I've been with ladies bro..it's not much of big deal..it's just that I actually wanted to do everything with one person but she was not in for that so it's better it ended that way..atleast I won't get that "you used me" tag

Bro, the fact is that women don't regard men like you with any form of respect.
You being nice & considerate towards her is actually a turn off to her though she'll deny it.
It may shock you to know that another guy or even guys have been fuccking her silly throughout the 7yrs + while you were being nice & considerate with her.
When dealing with a girl, especially a Nigerian girl, your aim should be to put yourself first & be able to counter any form of manipulation from her.

You should bang her pusssy silly with zero emotions attached & also have other girls around you as a constant reminder to her that she can be easily replaced, & never be afraid to call out her bullshit whenever she misbehaves.
Do this & watch her respect you & always trying to please you

Orubebe01:
I have a girl that am currently dating and by God's grace want to take it to the next level of marriage this year. I have never been to her place( okija) or have a friend from there who can relate to me what getting married to the place entails. On a serious note i dont want where expenses runs into millions. Pls if u know the tradition kindly let me know.
Cc lalasticlala
ishilove
biafranqueen
etc

Hope no be girl wey don do ashawo retire you wan marry put for house?
because we know how these yam-legged bitches retire from ashawo work to marry a simp after Kayode, Musa, Obinna, Tamuno, & other hundreds of men have banged their kpekus over many years of whoring around.

Pls carry out a background check on her first before any other thing

Are we even supposed to pay dowry for pusssy that has already been fuccked by hundreds of men?

To me, definitely not because it makes no sense buying an exorbitant bottle of wine with a broken seal after many other guys before you have gulped several times from that same bottle of wine at very little or no cost.
You may not know if the wine has been contaminated or even poisoned by those who have unsealed & drank it before you bought it exorbitantly.
Hence, you may fall sick or even die by continuously drinking such wine.
This is also the fate of those who married non-virgin retired hook-up sluts.
Their error in taking such decision is mostly fatal to them. The bitches they marry may be killing them slowly with adultery, paternity fraud, bad attitude, etc.

Don't be like those kind of men.
Buy a sealed bottle of wine, marry a virgin & you will live long.

BlackAIIDay:
Don't you think the husband might be a human chimaera ( human chimerism )

I can only consider that possibility if the woman is an Arab Muslim or any of those conservative/religious tribes.
Since she's a Nigerian woman & going by their antecedents & high propensity to cheat ( remember that Nigerian women are among the most unfaithful in the world); the possibility of human chimerism occurring in this case is almost non-existent

The bitch got fuccked & got pregnant for a man that's not her husband & she's now coming to terms with reality after pinning the pregnancy on her innocent & unsuspecting husband.
She's just tryna lie to herself in order to suppress her guilty conscience.

I won't be surprised if she finds a way to eliminate the bastard kid albeit under strange/mysterious circumstances just to save her marriage by preventing the husband from ever suspecting the paternity of the poor kid.
However, she may decide to eliminate the husband if she seems it more convenient for her.

Alas, the price men have to pay for marrying hoes instead of virgins is so high, sometimes they pay with their lives

lajid:
Guys I need advice, I’m 22.

How do I restore my honor back.

There’s this girl at a workplace (currently undergoing training). We just started work and she drives (more like a rich kid) so sometimes she drops me off.

So there’s this guy who sees me like a cock blocker (I have the feeling he wants to get close to her).

The point is she took the both of us and she kinda focused on him and all.

But then, I feel kinda bad not cause of anything but because I don’t have much weight, look slim a little and I’m 5’6 but I still look like a small boy kinda.

But then I’m okay and I’m a first class graduate so I just use my intelligence to boost my confidence.

Thing is, she did some things which I feel like she doesn’t rate me.

How do I like take back my honor, I want to avoid her and avoid the dropping off but then how do I do it without she knowing completely.

Note: I don’t have any feelings, it’s just that I want to be respected kinda.

The first step towards gaining back your respect is to find a way to reject her giving you lift. Find a good excuse in case she asks you why you no longer allow her drop you off as before.
Secondly mingle with other females in that your place of work because I'm sure she may not be the only girl there & let her understand the fact that other girls desire you too
Finally, stop doing her favours unless it is transactional & you also stand to benefit from it. Any favour from you must be earned/deserved

How dare you even fucck a Nigerian girl unprotected ?
It's like you are so careless with your life

RikudoSennin:
Spot on my man. This gave me some flashback.

I had a girl who had a boyfriend who was living in another state. I was the sidechick and i was fine with it. All i do is eat, Bleep and spend her money. She works in a hotel, i think as the manager. We always fuvk raw and i always cum in her and she takes birth control.

One day while with friends, her roomie called me that she is gravely ill and i should come right away. I was worried thinking she is pregnant. I got there, could see she was as pale as a ghost. I took her to her apartment, bathe her and spoon fed her all this while she was naked. I playfully touched her clit and boy was she so damn wet.

Ubunja to cut the damn story short, we fuvked all night, all damned night. I will never forget the look on her friend's face when she visited the next morning she was astonished to see the gravely ill girl all up and bouncing the next morning.

Once again my friend, you hit the bullseye as always.

If I'm to understand your story well & assuming it's true, you mean you've been fuccking the girl raw ( unprotected) & ejaculating inside her.
Even when she was sick & pale, you still fuccked her raw & it never occurred to you that she could be infected with a deadly STD like maybe HIV, hepatitis or syphilis.
You were probably thinking with your dick since her sickness could not prick your common sense/consciousness at that moment.
It's actually none of my business how you live your life but just remember that raw sex is all fun until you are diagnosed with a deadly STD

Candidlady:


Men that look like they haven't eaten in years are tagged drug kingpins

Men sha
If they are not busy trying to rape/molest/harass daughter of Eve

They'd be busy pushing drugs

Or looking for who to kill to help with their ritual activities

Everything associated with them na wickedness

duk yaro mazamugaye ne kuma azzalumai

Har da ubanki

AlterEgo00:
But to be honest Bro,i live in FCT and it's just normal stuffs here .. Very coded and right under your nose and you won't even notice it ... The day i came to know of a male stripper club in FCT was the very day i lost interest in Marriage....

The male stripper club, do married women attend it?

Also if they actually attend it, do they really have sex with maybe, the male strippers?

I'm just curious to know pls

Justbehave:
I be Igbo but I dey fuc even Hausa girls for Owerri road and Uyo girls weh dey for New heaven

Oga, u dey dream.
Where u fit see Hausa girl fuc?

Laturuturu:
He is Yoruba living in Ibo land
I am Ibo living in Yoruba land


He dey fuc my people
I dey fuc his people

Bro code

E be like say him go fuc ur pple pass the way u go fuc him pple, because very few Yoruba women dey submit toto easily compared to Igbo women

BanyXchi:
I still no say them no fit reach half of what ibo women dey do outside marriage, even pregnant married women for imo dey Bleep Corpers any how. Go and verify. I no wan talk about my experience with married ibo women in the east, but them wayward die, and them dey Bleep wella. The way some of them dey squirt eenh. Even the rich madams still dey Bleep their gatemen and employees anyhow. Omo.

Wetin go make Igbo married woman open legs for corper or gate man?
Na still because of money or because she too like sex?
I'm just curious

Laturuturu:
Omo try Yoruba women...dem dey bleep like sontin else. I bleep one like that very religious matured woman. She is 10 years older sef
Omo I fuc her well well
Though I used tablet sha.
She call me aburo mi small small I say who is Ur aburo call me Daddy

This never happened, stop lying bro

Na their materialistic nature make them dominate many brothels all over most major cities for southern Nigeria while Tiv girls dominate brothels in central part of Nigeria.
Igbo girls can sleep with anything if money is involved, because to them, na hustle.
Nowadays, due to the weakness of their men to call them to order & too much freedom coupled with their inborn materialism, even the married women among them are getting fuccked around.

maruzia:
After your own mum and your sister.
M0r0n.

But everyone is familiar with the story of how FFK dated her & he surely must have banged the shit out of her before he got tired & left

Tks2015:
Nobody is a left over...if it's true, she also fvcked FFK ..he's a leftover too...but his wife precious said he's impotent abi na sterile

How can he be sterile/impotent & still be able to bang the fuccked out of both Bianca & Precious & even have kids with Precious?

Secondly, a man can never be referred to as a leftover no matter how many pussies he fuccked. That title is exclusively reserved for women

Iykoto86:
100% black nigerian of igbo tribe.

Sir, is it also true that she's Femi Fani Kayode's leftover?

Pukkalolo:
I like the concept of the man being the prize. Because that's the fact: the Grammy doesn't chase the celebrity; it's always the other way round.

Bro, you're making sense on that.

But I smirked while thinking of it because this concept can easily be misunderstood.

If you do a quick google search on "being the prize", you see that having the "I am the prize" mentality is scattered on both men and women dating advise blogs. This advise is even more dominated by the women's dating advise blogs.

For women, the advice of "being the prize" seem legit because in real-life regular situations the young woman is effortlessly the prize...
This is Sad, but the truth is, the female starts off with a higher Sexual market value than the male.

She receive free stuff and gift from men all the time. Men whistle at her on the street. They compliment her all the time.

If you look at her inbox, you'll be shocked by the indefinite large number of men trying their best to get her attention. Every photo she upload on social media she get likes and comments, and even the ugly woman still have thirsty men trying to get into her pants.

So basically, her sense of "I am the prize" is fallaciously pumped up on a daily basis.

But, this is entirely a different story for the average man.
From an early age, the male is giving a false knowledge about women and their sexuality.

He's taught that women are the prize to be won. He got this idea from movies, social media, magazine and the media in general:

“Buy her stuff"

“Treat her with expensive dinner”

“Be nice towards her”

“Make her laugh”

“Compliment her"

"Treat her like a queen"

To top it all, the media says become a man of success and you will get the girl.... because she's the prize to be won.

Even here, It's even more contradicting. They say "be the prize" then they still say, "In other to get women chasing you, build your muscles; make tons of money; accomplish lots of shit; become a successful badass"

Achieve all these amazing sh*t and life will reward you with the beautiful woman (or women). Doesn't that establish the fact that women are the prize to be eventually to won after working your ass off to become successful.

Guys, seriously

Mtcheew.... SMH.

We see a lot of advice that men should "be the prize" if they want romantic success.
In and of itself that's a profound advice.
But if you think of it literally, the logic there is, men should stop going for women, and instead they should come for you... You should basically just go about your business and allow women do the work of gaming you...Because you are the prize to be won, and grammy(prize) doesn't go after celebrity.

If you still look at it literally, a man who's the prize wouldn't be leaning game...Because it doesn't make sense to view yourself as the prize...and still be learning stuff on how to handle women.

Ok, Enough talk.

Let's get things straight. The advice "be the prize" mean different thing for both men and women.

For women, "be the prize" mentality, is about NOT approaching men and not expressing your her interest first; it about allowing men coming for you and doing all the work of getting you. ( If I'm not mistaking, I believe that's the point those female dating bloggers are trying to pass across)

For men, understand that "being the prize" doesn't mean you should stop going for women....Because when all is said and done, masculine actions is what get you girls...The man that get laid: is the man that goes for what he wants; is the man that move things forward with women; is the man that doesn't hesitate to escalates.

But beyond that...For men, being truly the prize is about having Self-Respect.
When I talked about being Respect Focused and NOT being sex focused when interacting with women, some of you misunderstood me.

Essentially, what I meant by being respect focused was "Being the fucking prize."

See, for as much as you are all about getting the shining vagina, you will be a slave to your emotions. Because when you're pussy focused and she denies you the pussy, you feel like a loser. You can't be at your most powerful behavior when you are pussy focused.

When I'm interacting with attractive ladies, I'm naturally cocky, ballsy and care less. I give off this "I don't give a Bleep" vibe. Ironically, this is simply because I'm not pussy focused.

Once a man stops seeking the overrated treasured vagina that the media has programmed him to worship, then he will truly become free and he will truly be the prize. And as a result, he will easily get the pussy.... Because the less value you place on something, the easier it is to get.

This is not rocket science.

You have to give women the opportunity to treat you like the prize. Men are the ones often trying to demonstrate value to the girl, doing things for her and trying to behave right towards her--so they can 'get' her.

But the mode for changing your game with women, is to start making them do things for you and making them behave right towards you.

Let her do things for you.. it doesn't matter what she does, it can be snapping you picture; it can be reading something for you; it can be cooking for you; it can be running an errand for you...it doesn't matter. But my point is, The more she does things for you, the more she view you as the prize to be nurtured.

Being the prize inherently rephrase to having respect for yourself and placing high value on your time and effort : because a prize doesn't waste his time trying to woo a woman who isn't giving him the vibe he wants. He would immediate NEXT her.

You are as valuable as your alternatives: the more female alternatives you have, the more you'd feel like the prize.

Having more female alternatives naturally makes you the prize.
Once a woman sense that you have other alternatives, she tends to place more value on you. One legit way to demonstrate to a woman that you have other female alternatives is to--IMMEDIATELY NEXT HER if she is showing lack of interest in you or she's not giving you the treatment you want.

Stay blessed brothers.

This is valuable piece given to guys for free.
Men who are destined to learn it the hard way will definitely ignore this piece & even counter the writer

peepydelano:
Married women and cheating these days, what is wrong?

That's the result of giving women too much freedom & soft-pedaling on them under the guise of being civilized or 'woke'.
Conservative societies don't experience this