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Okay better. Let them handle it as a family. Same thing happened to someone I know and when they moved on, things began to happen for them. Their mom receives 180k weekly from her two other children who made it abroad and they bought her a new car. My God continue to bless you guys.

Dailyparrot:
We have moved on. We're independent already. It's just his wife and kids that brought about this topic.

Enough of your brother your brother. You guys forget him and fight for yours. I know some people will advise you pray for him or see a pastor that will eat you guys down. Nothing is wrong with your brother than being a wicked person. Move and make your lives better too.

Dailyparrot:
We have been suspicious of my brother's lifestyle for many years now and recently, his wife is reiterating our suspicion.

We are suspecting my brother of either being possessed, or someone did some juju on him or he belongs to a secret cult based on these two behaviors.

1. He does not like rendering help to his immediate family members but extremely generous outside.

2. He can sleep with anything that has vagina including old, young, fat, slim, beautiful, ugly, single and married women.

My parents gave birth to many children but unfortunately my dad died very early leaving my mother to take care of the responsibilities of the family.

This made my elder brothers to leave home on time to learn trade. Luck smiled on my elder brother and he made money very early. Less than 2 years after he did his freedom, he got his first car and started building his duplex immediately.

Since that time till date, he has only become richer and richer and richer.

We never received any financial assistance from extended family members because their thoughts is that my brother is well to do so we don't need help but the reality is different.

As rich as my brother became, we continued the petty family business that was very stressful until all of us left home to either university or marriage before my mother stopped the business because it is not what she can do alone.

My brother never cared for my mother. That's the one that pains me the most whenever I remember the incident of the past and how my mother died in the local village hospital while my brother was at home drinking and entertaining visitors.

My brother would come home for Christmas and pay 6 months electricity bill for every one in our community while giving my mom 15k. He never wants anything to do with us. For him to give you money, you really need to explain what you need the money for and that doesn't mean you are getting it immediately.

My secondary school classmates thought I came from a very wretched home not knowing that I have a brother that is extremely financially buoyant.

The number of people my brother brought from our village to Lagos to set up are more than 10 that we know. These people ended up bringing their siblings to town and establishing them as well. That is to say that my brother has lifted a lot of families out of poverty but never his family members.

One of my brother was having difficulty in his business and the best that my brother could do was to ask him to park his belongings to go and stay in the village with his wife and children. If not for my intervention that I used 1.9 million to set up a business for him to be repaying me monthly as he sells. This is an amount my brother will never ever give any of us for any reason whatsoever. He would rather gift you 100k to put in your business and go about telling people how he has helped you but you have refused to grow the business. Please, what can 100k really do for a business man?

In fact, I can't type all that we have experienced with my brother who's supposed to be our source of upliftment.

For those that will say I should go and work and entitlement mentality thing, all I typed here happened in the past when we were still dependent. None of us demands money from him anymore as we're all independent financially now.

But recent happenings brought back those memories. My brother and his wife.

We thought that his wife and children would enjoy his money since they are entitled to it but we were wrong.

My brother has several duplexes in my home state and in Lagos yet he lives in a rented two bedroom apartment. In that two bedroom apartment, his children and house boys (boy boy) share the same room and this is not the well developed part of Lagos oo but it's closer to his market.

My brother can afford to buy land in the place that they live and build standard 3 storey building and give his children a good sense of his wealth but he will never do it.

When the wife asks him for money for hair, he will give her 5k. If she sees a hair that she likes that sells for 50k. My brother will bring out calculator and divide 50k by 500 and tell the wife that that money is enough for him to cut his hair for the next 10 years.

The children don't dress well like people whose father is super rich. He got an SUV that the wife drives which made people think that the wife is enjoying but inside that woman in the SUV is an unhappy woman that wishes she can turn back the hands of time so she could marry someone else.

Sadly, the wife can't even complain to us because she took advantage of the way her husband was treating us to treat us badly when she got married to my brother and considering the fact that my brother was the supposed bread winner. Well, we can't be dependent for life.

Now, the cock has come home to roost. She's enjoying the husband "as is".

Angel or ghost with aba made sneakers.

He will go to jail and be shocked. Useless people

Teejay13:
He should have killed the cat. Then and there he will realize how Americans respect and value the live of animals.

Please someone should help remind him that American is not Nigeria.

Here we go again. Black cats are many here. Nigerians wake up. Our ancestors killed us with useless believes!

Are you truly working? Be sincere to yourself buhari.

Child abuse. You employed a minor to care for a child. Failed and evil nation. In a sane country, the parents of that little boy will lose their child and go to jail. The 14yrs old girl shouldn't be doing such job and should be in school.

Nigeria isn't even a place to call country. What a shame. I warned you guys who voted fools Abeg let me go eat my oyinbo wife food. Lol

Holywizard:
Imagine an abokî telling a governor such nonsense, Chai!!!
In foreign countries like USA, a governor has a final say because they have state police departments. An abokî from Zamfara will be disrespectfing someone in his state here in Nigeria.
Nonsense system

Haha you see why Africans don't progress �

Hahaha you invested in a lawless country. You are a selfish man. You left America, Canada, UK, Europe where attorneys counters Presidents and Prime Ministers, you decided to come to shit hole Nigeria with your $16m where lawyers are scared of ssce police holders . In America you can invest in vacation homes, cars etc. You are a dump shyt ma nigga!!!

She can't even construct good English and she wants to speak like us in America she finna belong to the street bruh!!!

Haha if you are in America and cry for food, then you need your head to be examined. Most of these homeless people are on drugs, lazy, fvckd up records.

Do you want to see account statement balance? we ain't fvcking around bee

Iyaebe:
Mtcheww, all these abroad boys no get money,na just fake accent,its small small girls that see them as a big deal

Why does this shyt only happen in Africa? Loool

Nigeria isn't a place to do business and progress. What happened and how much did you lose?

dedons:
I was born into an average family with my parents always doing their best to make us happy during Christmas celebration very year.

Unfortunately, I ventured into business this year but lost everything due to the evil employees I had. They intentionally wrecked the business and disappeared. I've been weeping since October till date and left with nothing.

I woke up this morning but couldn't say a word of prayers, instead I found myself weeping again. I do hope on God for divine provision and restoration.

It is well.

Watch as fanatics will say the pastor is powerful and they came to kill him backwardness

Haha politics. Arranged to deceive their followers into 2023.

Animal doctor those days in America before obasanjo saved his life as a favor he did for him while in prison.

Haha and you thought she was having you alone? She had the other guy too in her circle period

T0T0fucker:
good day all,

I really do need your mature opinions on this issue, I'm a young man in my early 30s. due to my personality am the kind of guy that flex alot. night life parties, clubbing and the rest.sometime last year I happened to be at the club, just like any other day..I took a girl home. (one night stand) we had sex and in the morning she left after I sorted her out.

She took my number though and from there we started chatting, due to how we clicked easily.. just like every other guy..I decided turn her to a friend with benefits...from friend with benefits....she started acting all up like a girlfriend. (coming to my house to pass the night and she can decide to leave whenever she wants) during this period, we had consexual sex raw because I was beginning to trust her a little.... that she wasn't really that bad.

Fast forward to the ending March this year, one issue led to another...and she stopped coming to my house...though we still talked sometimes on phone... later I got to know she got hooked with one rich yahoo boy.( which I didn't Care, because me na block on my own)

Next thing I saw on her whatsapp status was her traditional introduction rights, inviting her friends and well wishers, I congratulated her and moved on. after some time I saw her upload a pics of her baby bump.

Na wa o, na so it dey quick, fast forward to yesterday evening she just put to birth... which she also sent on her whatsapp status. retweeting her friends who congratulated her on her status.

Now, I haven't congratulated her yet, this has got me worried.. thinking.... "WHAT IF THIS CHILD IS MINE" I have every reason to believe it's mine.

1) calculating the month we broke up and had sex last to this December she gave birth is like few days pass 9 months.

2) the way she acted on the issue that made her stop coming to my place again... showed she already had this planned out (picked the yahoo boy over me because she knows am not going wife her...due to how we met )


3) the baby she uploaded is quite fair, and I also am fair in complexion. (her man is black)

With this I have every reason to believe that child might be mine.... but am really confused don't know what to do... have been thinking ever since yesterday night.

Can I fight this now or I should wait till the baby is grown?


Moving on when I know I have a child somewhere, my offsprings is not an option.. because I feel scammed already.

Idiot. You blocked investor's from moving their money easily and you want investment in that dead smelly country.

Wow fugly.

Africans and backwardness watch as the Governor will fall too.

Hahaha I warmed you guys and you all called me names including my blood sister But I am glad she now made it to Canada God bless Jonathan and God bless America.

God bless my whity

No she doesn't want your body. She was embarrassed by your sexual satisfaction.
You didn't do it well Bruh

Amebong:
All my life it's actually my first time to experience this sort of thing. I have been dating this girl for a while and things have been going well until we decided to knack. On that faithful evening, we knacked and sat and talked like two matured adults and talked.
The next day babe called me and was like I should stop talking to her and any kind of intimacy we had shared should be forgotten.
She even said she has a serious boyfriend and I should stay off her life.
I was shocked really.!!
What went wrong? Was I just used and dumped.?
I think she just wanted my body! Girls are farking cheats.!!!

Hahaha no body does wife again oo. Baby mama no time.

HIV

Liars.

Information is highly needed.