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he is already an adult.too bad and almost way beyond easy.

am not a parent(yet), but if he were my friend this is what i would advice you as my friends parent to do.

1) Make it known to him with no holds barred attitude that such life-style is unapproved and will never be approved no matter the circumstances past present or future.

2) I will suggest you get as much info about his co-scammers(they usually have a click), his daily itinary, and any other data you can lay your hands on. In fighting a disease/plague you need as much info about the enemy as much as possible.

3) If you have a police/military personnel as a close confidant, intimate him or her about this and get the young lad to have a meeting with him. this will make him a little bit scared of the situation.

4) Yes, sieze the car. And never let him leave your abode to go sleeping out(any day or night) or move-out totally. This starves him off comfort and company with his co-yahoozee.

5) As much as possible give him maintenance cash so as to restrict his urge to go scamming again.

6) Call his friends and warn let them know you do not approve of the whole scenario. The more associates of his that get uncomfortable with him the easier you can cow him into leaving it, cos that starves him of confidants on the business.

7)Just as many have said pray, pray and pray and if i may add call your Imam/pastor to councell him.

Seek professional advise from behavioral experts.


MY OPINION

Everyman has a right to practise whichever religion or ''irreligion'' he so wishes as long as he doesnot force it down the throat of others.

@poster all I advise note ''advise'' is that you dont marry him.
the most consuming topics/issues on plant earth are religion and tribalism/nationalism.

Believe me If your clan(family, relatives and friends) turn away from you by virtue of you marrying him then ''I PITY YOUR FUTURE''.

But what can one say to dissuade someone thats in love.

honeric01:
I hope Madrid fans have their own official thread on NL? i would like to always visit that thread, it seems we have quite a number of Madrid fans on nl

PURPOSE OF VISIT:
just to piss us of like other jobless catalans.
please stay clear.

                                                            
                                                   
                                                     
                                                           
                                                             
                                                            

astuto:
Real Madrid, stand up and be counted!! You know the odds are somewhat against you, but if u believe, you can make it. Afterall, it took an offside Zlatan Ibrahimovic goal to separate you from Barca the last time.

Real Madrid!! Believe!!!

white blood in my veins.
forza madridista

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kobikwelu:
i have not seen any real analysis here.

the no 1 question here is , "WHO WILL MARK FOR MADRID"


when all the madrid midfielders/attackers wud be busy rushing to score, they would leave hapless diarra to mark.


and remmb the golden rule, you cant score without the ball.
barca as usual would keep the ball for 76% of the time and those adjebos in midfield wud be watching and then wud be picked apart.

lets look at the defense for madrid, metzelder,albiol,marcelo, garay and ramos. only 2 of these are worth their salaries.

dunt forget, these same clowns were down 2 goals to sevilla till the later capitulated.

you guys are not obviously madrid fans, cos if u were, you wud know the problem of the team.

madrid has no balance!!!!! with vart, granero, alonso,diarra and ronaldo in the midfield, will they stand up to xavi,keita,iniesta,busquets

by the way, barca close you like mad , their work ethic in the midfield is 2nd to none.


lets c , in the end, those priemier league bad belles wud dissipate

who does the marking of all the players for barca, guess its not only one player, so it wont be only diarra's/gago's lot to do the marking alone.
Haba, which match(name one) in which barca had possesion for over 70% of the match.and this same 'adjebo' midfield had scored more goals collectively than your barca by 'watching and being picked apart'.kai na wa for u o.
obviously you forgot we have a resourceful defender in arbeloa that marked out messi while still at liverpool.also our marcelo is the defender with the highest number of assists in laliga.ramos is better than your alves(he is not in brazils first 11).garay and albiol may not be as experienced as pique and puyol but they can hold their own too.even metzelder that has not played any game for over four months still gave a good account of himself against racing when we were short of legs.
about the balance,true you have good legs but dont tell me you think they are far superior
alonso-xavi
VDV-iniesta
lass-keita
granero-busquets. You be the judge.
BTW the work ethic burned out against arsenal that led to a 2:2. So can it still happen.
VIVA BERNEBAU

Barcelona right now is the most outstanding team presently. We(real madrid) will not be playing against messi alone but the entire 'barca machine'.that said,it dont mean we are to be written-off. This season so far we have performed better than barca against the top laliga teams and even outplayed them in their backyard, although we lost by a lone goal.
this time around we will be better because we havent dropped a single point at home and are on a thirteen match unbeaten run with at least a e goal par game margin. So, barca too will surely have a handfull.
Last seasons 2-6 loss cant happen again cos we have our full arsenal at hand and only have kaka as our injury worry(quite unlike last season).
also catalunya have a likely problem of overconfidence and overdependence on 'the creative' messi. But we also have CR9 for them to contend with(i pity maxwell, walcotts gonna be childs play).
moreso, the pressure will be more on the 'cules' to perform based on antecedents.
I have faith and belief that all things being normal, LOS BLANCOS will win the day.
VIVA MADRID.
HALA LOS BLANCOS
VIVA CASILLAS

becomrich,
i used to like your divergent views to many.at least it gets one to see things from another perspective. But it seems your becomingpoor interms of when and what not to do things.
those pics were plain dumb and out of point to whats being discussed.if u can link or correlate them to the thread I will take back my words.until then stay rich and dont becompoor in reasoning.haba.

the level at which i see things now, even if he comes public like yesterday people will still not believe that its the real yar adua.

9ijaprince:
I strongly believe that Yaradua has been cloned. Soon we will see cloned Yaradua on our tv talking.

why on earth is audience being refused to the other arms of government.(his legislature and judicial heads)

YARADUA HAS NOW BECOME AN EXPENSIVE COMMODITY

all these is just another publicity stunt, by yaradua cronies.they are just mystefying the man the more with all this intriguing sightings.

Walahi 'l azim, am getting tired of these politicking with a mans unfortunate circumstaance.

why shroud him in so much secrecy, no great man past of present became great by virtue of a secret personality.

I tire o.

wish i were married

aieromon:
Hell no,that's [size=8pt]not an option[/size].
If they want to help out,let them loan me some money to get an apartment.

its actually an option, maybe not the most appropriate in the circumstance given. imagine a scene in which the only available abode ready to accomodate them is that of the wife they need to sleep there even if its for afew nights.

but its better they move to his parents house if its within reach.

another publicity stunt by our presidents psychophants/apologists

imagine playing politics wit a sick mans health all in the name of POWER PLAY

larez:
This day is not a credible Newspaper. You just need to try posting comments that does not help their politics, and see if the comment ever shows. Bunch of crooks owning Newspapers.

this I had known since the day the paper always gave a different story from the ones we were interviewed for all through-out me and my sacked colleagues ordeal with intercontinental bank.
since then I vowed never to buy the paper again,ever

its like people aren't interested in this topic, yet it made front page.

@topic,
Even if the whole 9ja wants Good Jonnie to run,of which I beleive many do so as to change this unwritten rotational presidency thingy, PDP would waork assidiously against him becoming C-IN-C.

No wonder a crook like IBB is wanting to comeback to Aso-Rock.

How I wish Mutallab tried his stunt at the PDP's secretariat when they were having their wicked caucus meeting

One last option left is for all to fight the demon ridden PDP to a stand still come nexttelection.

MY OPINION

@poster
you should understand that this law was made when we still lived in a close-nit communal setup.wherein what happens in one household is known to the whole village.wont you sleep in your wifes house if her parents stayed abroad(say U.K) for instance.
you should also note that those that promulgated the above law, also said a lady that is being courted should not pass in front of her suitors house during the whole period of the offer-and-acceptance period.
But you wont find it odd that your GF(then)slept in your apartment even before you set eyes on her family talkless her parents.

ABEGI,sleep well well.and please i can come sleep with you if light dey there.NEPA don take light here.

agathamari:
women from other countries find this highly degrading. watch wedding videos from other countries. 3 things happen. they feed eachother in turn both siting or standing, they feed eachother simultaneously or they smash the cake in eachothers faces

here we dont see it as enslavement, its our culture(or at least part of marriage procedings).
and just cos they dont do it in their own part of the sphere makes it babaric. no man here fights the wife if she dont do it when they are alone in the confine of their home.

BTW smashing the cake in their faces is to me ludicrous

This is a comparism of their ability to evade and dodge the world for lenghty periods of time.

While Osama has the longest streak of not been ''available'' even wif U.S government ''technological gadgets'' and james bond security outfits
Our dear president is also learning real fast.Or should we say ''the cabal'' is the one learning real fast/

Unlike Osama that is highly regarded as an afront to U.S imperialistic lordship(even if his methods are not widely accepted)
Our darling presido is instead being considered by many of his citizens as the ''enemy''.Or should i say Turai,his beloved sweetheart/

Contrary to Osama's regular short-videos that is aired to the world
President Yarádua could only manage a few minutes audio interview wit just one media(BBC).Although, Nigerians(except the legislature and PDP) see the audio-telecast as invalid.This is quite disappointning since even a so-called fugitive shows face to the world a so-called world leader cannot even be heard on a regular basis talkless of being publicly seen(except by the birds and trees of aso rock of course)

Osama bin Ladun,(fyi thats the correct pronunciation) occasionally comments on world issues
Alas our very own president does not even blink at national issues.Haba, na wa oh.at least NEPA improve small sha.

Lets hope sooner than later he can come out(not his clone as alleged in some quarters-conspiracy theorists) before Daily trust or next234 or the other news papers make more money ,i;ling us from selling ridiculous headlines to us all in the name of journalism or should I say ''yellow journalism''


MY OPINION

I dont have a cellphone

I never knew people would fink arsenal would win.

I hope they actually win, cos I dont like barcelona.

dont even know what to say because its a close call of who to do with the myriads of the unemployed youths and what to do on the part of businesses that are trying to cut cost and maximise profit by hook or by crook all because the right policies and polity is not in place.

but surely I trust NEPA would relapse into their unfortunate habit.
which is quite disheartning.

here in my axis in ketu we had uninterrupted power supply for at least 25hrs two days ago.

right now they only took away 'light'for only less than 3hrs in the last 48hrs.


should we not be worried

even our transformer has refused to malfunction. we are very concerned in the area .

tEsLim:
My friends wife cheats now and I can't tell him , he'll die to know its because of money.

SOME TIME LATER

My friend now about this, and he is soo hating me for not telling him.


MY OPINION

coolier:
A happy married life is dependent on love, trust, loyalty and understanding. If you have all these you'll both be able to stand the test of time and weather all storms. We cannot all be millionaires, we must learn to live within our means and cut our coats according to our sizes. Money is not a yardstick for a happy married life. My point is you can have all the monies of this world and still be terribly unhappy.

I dint say with money a happy marriage is guaranteed. Its just that its also imporant.as a preventive(unwanted hardship) and cementing(undying love) measure.

MY OPINION

I am of the view that money is of high importanc in marital life.

Prophet Muhammad(S.A.W) said;"A man marries a woman for four reasons: for her property(money inclusive), for her rank, for her beauty, and for her religion (and character). So marry the one who is best in the religion and character and prosper

So although we dont make it the paramount reason for going into it, its quite important you put it into consideration.since it is one of the pivot (if not the most important) of a happy life.At least no single human being will be really happy living an impoverished life, so why want someone to share such a life wif you.

Even if one or both of the spouses looses his/her source of livelihood they will still work something out since they must have likely have the basic foundation of wealth creation which is knowledge.(remember the maxim KNOWLEDGE IS POWER)

So a happy married life is also dependent upon a regular or foreseable source of wealth.

MY OPINION.

after reading more posts on this thread i tend to believe that your GF's mum is actually trying to con you or both you and your GF.

obviously they are angry at their own stupidity for falling for the con-men.

and sadly your GF is too dumb to realise the obvious(that itsz not your fault, but her mum)

I'l advise you give her, ''undermature'' intelligence time to see beyond the fog( I love my mum no matter what), hopefully she will come to her expected senses. If not then she will exhibit more stupidity in any future occurences.


ALL THE ABOVE IS BASED ON WHAT YOU NARRATED. IF THERE IS MORE TO THEIR TAKING SUCH STANCE THEN ALL I SAID MY NOT TOTALLY APPLY.

the reason why I was getting scared was the fear of Area boys and the fact that the last time I had a flat tyre at Ojota around 9pm on my way back from the island(shoprite).

they forcefully wanted to ''help'' me change the tyres. I literarily had to be dragging the spanner,then the jack and the tyre from them that I can do it by myself. fortunately an O.P.C. guy was around and he just intervened.he then just advised that I drive-off that if they become more that it would be harder controlling them.
eventually I just drove with the flat tyre.sure of course it was condemned by the time I got home.

the link below tell more of the topic,

you can base your judgement on it.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Acid_rain


but air pollution in Nigeria is far far far from what obtains in the developed countries(except in the niger delta)