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abi @Lord_Reed

Hi5 is a form of global webvideo/photo social networking website unlikely Nairaland. (Facebook, MySpace, and many other where it has capability of accessing with webvideo (webcam), audio, and photo to interact with their own friends, family, and whatever freely.

However, still Hi5, Facebook, MySpace have lot of spam, stalker, crazy, CyberLove, cyber-rape, goes on, just like Nairaland, no difference!  THEREFORE, THERE ARE NO SAFE INTERNET AT ALL globally!!

i strongly believe in staying marriage with the right guy! But i used to be married that was forced by my mother on the ground of two reason:

(1) my parent does not believe in wedlock pregnancy
(2) my mom was very skeptical of how a deaf child (me) raise her own baby ALONE.

My ex-husband was not right one, no matter how hard we tried to make our marriage work thru marriage counseling. It does not work! I do not support domestic violence I cannot tolerate! As of result, irreconcible difference/abusive/neglected/abandonment was my finalized divorce! (14 yr now)

Let's me pat your back, Siena! Awesome Job! Awesome Job! I hand in a trophy to you at below:

https://www.gasolinealleyantiques.com/transportation/images/Automobilia%20Page/trophy-sportscar.JPG

spoilt:
siena now im really curious
i think you are a good guy. [s]If i pm you, will you spill. i wont tell.[/s]

Siena's silent about "Who is Mrs. Siena" is OUT REVEAL somewhere TODAY! Congratulation to Siena and Mrs. Siena!

For me, guy don't have to say "ILY" back, show me affectionately and attentive is enough for me. Because some guys have trouble expressing to say three words, i guessed!

As @eclair has said, "Thanks I appreciate", to me is good enough for me. Nothing wrong with it!!! I guess we are on the phase of dating soon the next level of relationship deeper. Or he might think i was not right one for him---to be safe let guy not say "ILY"!!!

That is my opinion!!!

I would not reveal my annual income on guy on the first date, BIG NO! BIG NO!

Only serious committed partner you love and plan to get married soon, then reveal your annual income. It is important for each other to know how comfortable financial obligations are in the future before getting married.

Depend how much you trust your partner in length at least 6 months to 1 years to each other!!!

I go with money from my job to defray the cost of living expense as well as to meet my children needs: school supplies, school clothes, personal hygienes, and favorite hobbies they love to play with in the quality of my children's happiness knowing that MOM IS THE BEST IN THE WHOLE WORLD!!!
_{(sorry i am single divorced mother, my children understood about single hardship despite of my deafness)}

If i am single over-ambition driven person, i would choose career first---hold for getting marriage until everything is settled down, then buy home before getting married. We need a place to live to get started having babies. One bedroom apartment is IMPOSSIBLE for all of us as family (me, husband, and soon baby will be born)

If I am over-ambition driven married with husband, i would choose both career and home only if my husband is not great at financial management he don't mind my taking over. I cannot leave my career unless my health fall apart.

That is my opinion!!! By the way i am computer proficient using online banking system to pay bills as well as mobile banking sending special code text message to credit account via cell phone ELECTRONICALLY---HATE PAPER WRITING CHECKS!

Here is enclosed link provided to find Solar Panels & equipment distributors in Nigeria at below:
Either click
1) By the Type of Solar energy product in Nigeria

2) By Business Type in Nigeria

3) By Business Name in Nigeria

[be aware of ripped off unprofessional distributors - - -i heard from Nigerian complaints]

http://energy.sourceguides.com/businesses/byGeo/byC/Nigeria/byP/solar/solar.shtml

I myself consider into NSR come from my both parent (still alive) and maternal/paternal grandparent (now deceased) who are stictly VR.

I learned from my VR paternal grandparent who thought that i was TOO DUMB understanding about sexual stuff when i was about 6-8 yr old because of my deafness. Only one time! They grabbed my arm taking away from their living room I suppose watching the TV my favorite cartoon into their bedroom during summer times when school closed. I was confused not know what's going on! I thought i was serious trouble.

All of sudden, i was      seeing my paternal grandparent stripping their working clothes off hurriedly to get ready make love to each other on their bed. Everything A to Z. That's how I got bad influences gaining the knowledge of sexual and pest asking my parent, who is also VR, too many sexual questions without they know from what I saw.(i never tell them until my paternal grandparent deceased)

Reason my parternal grandparent did that, was because they were so paranoid to do if i wandered off their home surrounding LARGEST CORNFIELD and WILD FORESTS, back 1960s and 1970s there were no crimes around small rural farming area---no need to lock the house. That was dumb---what they thinking, but they never knew that i was addicted watching TV cartoon every morning and afternoon knowing what time it comes on---impossible for me to wander like that. Common sense to set their time schedule (sex needed they cannot live without) matchable with my TV schedule!!! lol! lol!

My parent sat down not comfortable answering my sexual questions, that's when they gave me their consent taking advanced sexual education at deaf residential school. One thing bad is, my parent never taught me properly about biblicals (stay virgin until married) until I discovered the truth too late before college graduation. My parent were upset me got pregnant 4 months before college graduation, that's what happen i evenually married by force and without love because they do not believe in wedlock pregnancy.

Today, as single mother of two hearing children, i determined to educate my children about sex education before they entering middle school to avoid too many misconception by peer pressure and false teaching. I left my rural church 4 years ago where there lack of providing me signing interpretion, to join big city church that provided deaf ministry fully sign interpreted to catch up what i left behind in Sunday schools, bible study, and all church activities/ministries/conferences i love to participated in. My parent astonished my knowledge of christianity that they felt bad to left me behind all my wasted years---they supposed to do.

I agreed with @lalife has said it all.

How many divorced ones on Nairaland?

I used to be married in the past, my one-week honeymoon was at my lifetime member of Vacation Timesharing Resort Condo on the Easter/Spring break in the Appalachian mountain (US) after my first child was born but before returning to work from maternity leave.

@poster

Read the following topic that will help you understanding about the relationship FIRST at below:

7 Reasons Why Females Get Hurt In Relationship
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-94423.0.html

10 Insights You should take steps into serious relationship before you get marry her/him
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-95533.0.html

Then go back to meet your girlfriend. Have you and your girlfriend sit down discussing FACE TO FACE ASK HER on the following questions you posted previously at below? It should help you making your final decision hearing what her answers be.

[list]
[li]does she love me ?[/li]
[li]is she ready to be commited?[/li]
[li]what does she want?[/li]
[li]can she easily love?[/li]
[li]is she suffering from ordeals of past relationship[/li]
[li]does she trust herself?[/li]
[li]is she a flirt?[/li]
[li]what is there in life that she hasnt had a enough of?[/li]
[li]can she ever remove the spirit of pride herself? [/li]
[/list]

Hope you both the best luck!

londonlady:
it begs the question, how well can u really know someone?

Knowing someone you do really like or love very much based on the following characteristics at below:
[list]
[li]Trust[/li]
[li]Spirituality[/li]
[li]4 Characters[/li]
[list]
[li]Humility[/li]
[li]Kindness[/li]
[li]Responsibility[/li]
[li]Happiness[/li]
[/list]

[li]Personal Hygiene[/li]
[li]Communication Skill[/li]
[li]Personal Habits[/li]
[li]Strong Connections[/li]
[list]
[li]Good Chemistry and Compatibility[/li]
[li]Shared Common Interest[/li]
[li]Shared Common Life Goal[/li]
[li]Deeper Emotional[/li]
[li]Sexual Compatibility[/li]
[li]Agreed Financial Obligations/Compromise Equally[/li]
[/list]
[/list]

That will blossom into the strongest foundation of the marriage where both each other belong together. Evenually both will do accepting only few flaws to work out that shows both are ready for marriage, NO PROBLEM! NO WAHALA! NO LONG THING!

Abi @Debosky, @Yemiton, and @efuah have said it all, stay away from those devious, heartless woman is NOT WORTH into relationship to wreak man emotionally and financially!

baby4u2:
if u really want to have sex, get married.

Abi!

Fruit Spirit startled hearing his long lost fiance saying, "this has got to be a JOKE". He suddenly awake grabbed on a wooden canoe drifting down the river at the same time called her name, "Diligence, where are we now?"

Diligence answered," Sorry for startling you, we now are on second river called Diligence River passed from Knowledge River to escape the giant and your people. Calm down and relax."

https://www.earthtoys.com/articles/05.10.01/minihydrogen/fig1.jpg

How it works?

All energy comes from renewable energy sources like wind, solar, waves, hydro and biomass. The energy is either used directly as electricity or stored in hydrogen for use in transportation or to create electricity when the sun is not shinning or the wind is not blowing. The renewable energy is stored in hydrogen by splitting water into hydrogen and oxygen by use of electricity. This process is called electrolysis. Other productions methods will also be used to create hydrogen from fossil fuels. After the production hydrogen functions as an energy carrier that can be used to supply energy wherever it is needed. A fuel cell is used to convert the hydrogen into energy again. In the fuel cell hydrogen and oxygen (air) reacts and creates water as the only emission. The reaction creates electricity and heat that can be used in various applications. As fuel cells are very scaleable they can be used in all applications that needs energy, ranging from mobile cell phones, cars, buses and even as large heat and power plants. Fuel cell as a technology will be the next energy innovation step that will bring progress and prosperity to our societies, with as great an impact, as the steam engine and the combustion engine have had.

Relying only on renewable energy also solves the threats of oil depletion and pollution in the present energy system. This also makes it possible for everybody to produce their own energy creating more politically stability and benefits to all of us. But much has to be done before hydrogen is for real.
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Therefore, do your research homework to resolve Nigeria Electricity solution in the name of hybrid renewable energy.

For stand-alone human waste energy system for electricity in Nigeria, I would not support.

Therefore, I strongly support the hybrid power system is the combinations of renewable energy sources such as PV (photovoltaic or solar panel), wind, micro-hydro, storage batteries/invertors, and waste (human waste, confiscated alcohol, & animal remains) powered generator sets to provide a reliable off-grid supply (a source of energy not connected to a grid).

https://www.renewableenergyaccess.com/assets/images/story/2005/12/12/1332_hybrid_panorama_final.jpg

Please you be kindly to research yourself finding the existing topic FIRST before posting new thread by using at the bottom of this page, "google" with selected radio button of nairaland.com!!!

Oh boy! It gets boring to hear repeated same old story about "osu" over and over and over. Please check out existing thread at below:

My Wife To Be is OSU
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-105911.0.html

My Girl Wants To Marry Me But Her Parent Said No (Osu)
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-106262.0.html

Would You Marry An Osu?
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-23527.0.html

Can I marry An "Osu" As Ibos Call It?
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-38277.32.html

I'm About To Marry An "Outcast' (Osu) Guy
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-48932.96.html

Osu Girls
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-103583.0.html

Confused the "title" says "spouse" and posting says "girlfriend", which one? Sorry i cannot give you better advice.

Exhausted the same old topic over and over like @almondjoy has said it all!!! Did you know how to research any existing topic FIRST before posting on new thread?

Check out existing threads at below:

Dealing With Cheating Husbands
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-101762.0.html

Are Women In Nigeria Supposed To Expect And Accept Cheating
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-9863.64.html

Why Do People Cheat In Relationships?
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-48900.0.html

I am not sure If i can be assist you, the heartbroker, based on your profile. You seem frustrated how to approach girl.

However you have plenty of your life ahead pursing your interests trying to forget the pain you went thru. Forget that girl you have a chance to ask for date previously. Move on your life finding someone new!

Next time when it come to date a girl, make sure you follow the helpful tips at below:

10 Insights You should take steps into serious relationship before you get marry her/him
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-95533.0.html

Yes it is possible!

Not for me, I cannot tolerate to fight my blood sister over the same guy! No way!!!

@almondjoy and @siena

Yes, it was happened in my high school year (20 yr ago), almost all female dorm rush flooding into a deaf girl's room to see the evidence. That deaf girl was not in dorm, gone away weekend at that time, not even know what happened the whole weekend until Monday she back to school to find out and ran hidden in shame. School infirmary staff, resident advisors (housemothers) and school staff provided her free one year supply of period pads.

She came from poor project where her parent were drug addict not able to afford anything for her. State deaf school are free for all US citizens deaf students---their tuitions came from US taxpayers.

LOL, this topic is SO HILIAROUS!!!

Grab eating popcorn to learn more pidgin!

For me, ewwww, @poster wear the same pant for one week, no wonder seeing him on the street as bluebottles follow him everywhere he goes.  Here in America (yankee), i called gnats (tiny swarming houseflies-look like that attract stinky smelling).

Also i never heard about a girl who wear same pant for three days, where did @poster pick up that girl? ewwww!!!

It reminded of my deaf residential school where all deaf students reside in dormitory, i got a nasty gossip spreading around school about a deaf girl wearing the same period pad for one year, saying not afford to buy new period pads and ashamed of asking female roommate to borrow extra period pad. Her closet smell stinky---found out it was same blood-dry period pad sitting there. eeeeewwwww!!!

kobe:
the one to do what?
do you mean like neo in the matrix?

@kobo
steal my posting from previously thread by different poster at below link:
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-107990.0.html  

m omer:
Hi there!
                  I am new to this group, could any one plz help me in making simple 200 W UPS.I further interface it with micro controller 8051.

@m omer,
you posted wrong Nairaland Romance board, your posting should be in Nairaland Technology board in the  child board: "Computer".

@poster

Don't be feel afraid wanting to marry a Nigerian girl! Don't mind other people warn you negatively and don't listen to your 3 friends who went thru badly.

If I was your shoe to have great desire settling down with a Nigerian girl, go for it with deep cautiously come down to Nigeria to meet your Nigerian girl in order to observe her everything she claim over the phone/dating online whether if she is honest or not. Check out her background everything!!!

If you feel that she is the right one for you, then I hope you are aware about getting immigrant paperwork that take time at least 3-6 months if you doing right thing to bring your Nigerian girl coming to the USA. This is not easy!

I talk about a Fiancee visa with the support affidavit document requirement within 90 days to expect to get married in the USA, check out US travel site for details.

Because i heard many horrified stories for example one Nigerian abroad bringing a girl from Nigeria after Fiancee visa was granted to get married---later this girl from Nigeria was not telling her newly US husband that she is not able to make baby anymore due to 8 abortions when she was in Nigeria. All she wanted just "paper". That is sad story!!!!

I am not trying to scare you, but you need to be aware everything down there very cautiously when it comes to dating a Nigerian girl.