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I have answered my post on other topic similar you have posted twice. Check other topic link here:

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-106863.0.html

Hallelujah for Alisa2, DON'T LET ANY MEN CONTROL YOU changing you be someone else and DON'T LET YOUR MAN have power making you feel low-esteem!

@poster

I would not allow a guy who compare me for other girl, always talk about her all the time, as well as talk me crying over to complain about other girl---feel like I am so neglected while chasing other girl. It was NOT WORTH TO STAY RELATIONSHIP with a CHEATER who love someone else but uses me!

This is NOT A LOVE to me! It is called TWO-TIMER!!! Let him go! Let him go!

Be careful and be wise to protect your heart, just sitting down with her to find out why she promptly left you for other guy before your decision whether should you give her a chance or not. Watch her behavior and body language you can easily detect while discussing each other.

Let me offer you helpful tip whether if she is right for you or not at below link:

10 Insights You should take steps into serious relationship before you get marry her/him
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-95533.0.html

Yes blind people can see their dreams the same as normal people do equally---but just lost one of five senses. They are independent people with licensed seeing dog aided them around their home and work. In the US, blind people can go work on the job with braille printer and voice synthesizer on their computer system.

Some blind people can go mountain-climbing, water-skiing, jumping parachute, scuba diving, whatever a blind person want (of course with assistance). Blind people can do their hobbies such as art drawing, computer programming, listening movie/TV, and listening to newspaper, magazine, and book even website using their own computerized text-to-voice synthesizer software on a special scanner.

Most blind people can become lawyer, counselor, web developer, even teacher.

Most major cities in the US do provide "VAN-TO-GO" for handicapped and blind people to get ride going to work or having doctor appointment independently.  Most city buses do carry handicapped equipped to lift wheelchair people into the bus and accepting licensed seeing dog aided into bus. Those people who sit on the front are politely respect handicapped and blind people offering front seat PRIORITY.

Some public buildings with accessible do OFFER handicapped/blind people request for assistance with push "bell button" ring.

Because in the US has a law effective to protect the civil rights for disabled people called American with Disabilities Act of 1990 (ADA) that signed by President George Bush. We have thousands of disabled advocates as well as many disabled organizations to help them out in the quality of housing, employment, family/parenthood rights and legal rights. Also for all government sites MUST BE PASSED complying with the Federal Section 508c law, that is web accessible for blind, deaf, and low-visible people.

What an amazing technology accessible and ADA/Federal Section 508c law for blind people! God bless America!!

It sound like your gf is a thief to pretend to be your soulmate stealing your certificate for her own man (might be yahoo boy). Obviously your gf is desperate! Maybe I am wrong!!!

It would be nice if your location is not in Nigeria, you could report police to arrest your gf for theft and fraud crime.

Most of my clients in the US were prefer strongly seeing the proposal with fully details of schedule milestone, the breaking down the flat pricing of website designing and custom programming and 3 initial downpayment on 3 separated phases: 25%, 38%, 37% upon client satisfactory including free web consultation, free existing site critique feedback, giving 3-6 mock design selections which one is the best for client, daily status report of what i am doing working on project via email/IM and temporary secured web access for view unfinished working-site purpose.

It was 3 or 4-pages written proposal with self-explanation illustrated mock designing visually. That was very new to clients---never seen that before.

In the past, my proposal was winning to beat high-priced web developers in competition before 9/11 terrorism attack---my price was lowest and project duration met their needs to clear the picture what they want. Long before the new invention of WEBSITE DESIGNING WINNING PROPOSAL software package with 500 free sample proposal and legal contracts came in!!!

My own trademarked ideal written proposal does work for me that I refused to share anyone else.

My wishful thinking to evolve my car Chrysler Cirrus into Chevrolet Aveo 5-door hatchback! LOL!!!

I know Chrysler and Chevrolet are not matched for PIMPING MY RIDE project!!!

What a nice magazine you had great privilege of showing your car featured there! You asked me what model/made my car I have now.

I am aware the fact that you are specialized in Audi and VW cars. My 4th car is 1995 Chrysler Cirrus LXI that had a minor front-end wreckage my dad bought from the previous owner for sale. It can be replaced new front grilled hood with new pair of headlight, new radiator and new hood opening. That was supposed giving to my niece at that time she was 15 years old desperately need a car for her job. My niece does not want that UGLY MEDIUM-SIZED CAR. (now 18 yr old, has new 2007 small compact car)

Because my 3rd car, 1997 Geo Metro LXI 4-door sedan was totalled caused by other driver smashed into me at the rear not paying attention to the traffic light and me where I yielded for the traffic light turned from yellow to red light on NEW YEAR EVE of 2006.

Fortunately other driver, female passenger and I were not hurt. I loved my car, Geo Metro LXI so much for 9 years with over 200,000 mileage that I took care greatly---having no engine problem at all.  Because I was DAMN PROUD that I paid in full for my car at my own expense and thanked to my dad taught me new responsibly at my own (checking oil change, tire, timing belt replacement basically).

I had plan for trade-in my car, Geo Metro to Chevrolet Aveo 5-doors hatchback that i yearn BEFORE WRECKED and I was not ready for purchase new car until my budget become affordable. That's why my dad QUICKLY fixed up Chrysler Cirrus LXI for me. It was THE RIGHT TIME when I need a car for my church transportation. We lived far away 3 hours trip. What a coincidence!!!

Of course, the other driver's insurance company paid for 2 weeks rental car, license plate/registration transferred and purchased needed parts on Chrysler Cirrus for me until my dad finished up work to be delivered my car to my place. The insurance amount was too small for purchasing new car include downpayment, adjusting my auto insurance premium and new car loan payment that does not fitting my budget needs.  Don't forget that the insurance company also paid for other driver's totalled Honda Civic car that does not belong to that driver----come from female passenger's brother. That driver was her boyfriend. That is why i settled for Chrysler Cirrus better than nothing.

Please use google under www.nairaland.com, you will find many answers from existing threads to your question.

Here I suggest you to check out at below:

I Am Tired Of NEPA
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-102388.0.html

Energy Policy: Non-existent In Nigeria?
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-93724.0.html

ifyalways:
[quote author=Kissmyass! link=topic=100950.msg1828346#msg1828346 date=1199725540]there should be a section for reconnecting with lost friends, it's very essential

there is a thread for that _{not a section}
you want the link?buy me a **** _{i would luk for the link later please}[/quote]Here is the link at below:
Be Reunited With Old Friends
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-212.0.html

Maybe he want to be arsonist showing off his picture here!

Dis Guy:
back from where
why did you break up before?

Check out her previous postings that is self-explanation clearly at below:

Please advice me
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-100918.0.html

Should I Breakup With Him or Still Date Him
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-102150.0.html

@poster

Based on reading above links, please answer questions below:

(1) How long you and this guy been dated together?

(2) Does he respect you not to have sex until marry? If no, why in the world you want him who does not deserved to love, appreciate, affectionate you but want to devalue your virginity?

I mean he just wants to use you then dump you, because you are inexperienced virgin not know nothing about what the meaningful relationship is, I guess.

Wow, i am so impressed your "love-vendor MY RIDE" (CABLE TV SHOW) expert doing Audi RS4 project. You remind of my former two-years male best friend, who is deaf, former body shop/auto repair fixing up his used car himself. I forgot which model/year _{(he sold it).} Now he fixes up his Harley Davidson sport biker as hobby mechanic!!!

My dad used to be licensed mechanic, still today he commits as hobby on weekend. Too old for pimping my ride stuff, only focus on classic Dodge pickup truck as well as modernized bulldozer tractor and farm tractor he like to fix up that he went to the auto auction purchasing 3 wrecked school buses that he can take "3 engines" out for those pickup truck/tractor fitting. Three empty school buses are used as "storage shed". My parent's property are big enough with 10 acres land surrounding house and two home-made giant working gargage shop. My dad also was licensed home builder/carpenter too.

I wish I could hire you to be my "love-vendor MY RIDE" to spice up my old car (4th car purchase) turning into brand new one.

Remember famous quote: CHEATER IS ALWAYS CHEATER! This is guy born with liar and player to mess girls' emotion around!

Why in the world you wait for your man over 7-10 years of relationship---no propose for marriage? TOO LONG!!!

For you if you still love him very much and could not leave him----GO AHEAD MARRY HIM at your own wedding expenses and BE YOURSELF BREADWINNER! nothing wrong with it!!

For me personally, after 6 months to 1 year relationship getting know each other deep level, if this guy STILL IS JOBLESS, LAZY, COMMITMENT-PHOBIA and NO FEASIBLE PLAN----I dump him FAST! NOT DAMN WORTH FOR ME, i cannot allow anyone take advantage of me!

That is why BIG NO NO NO dating office coworker at work----cause you heartbreak that she dumped u back to ex!!!

Move on!!!

Yes it is possible only for matured strictly Christians who are not bf/gf and does not believe in sex called HOUSEMATES in the name of expense sharing while going law/medical school or any hetric jobs not have time for social life.

I have seen lot of 2 women and one man or 2 men and one woman in the same living without intimacy to each other---HOUSEMATES!!!! I also seen 3 men and 3 women same living without intimacy---they are not bf/gf each other but have outside bf/gf that not live with them.

PHFFFT! old thread back 2006!

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I do not believe the story----it worth 2 cents. It belongs to soap opera or TV for movie!

Every twins has different personalities, habits, and characteristics easily to detect the differences unless if twins set up to fool/take advantage of you in the name of MONEY, MONEY, MONEY!

BOTH are either compulsive or natural lair!

@poster
I am asking you why you so bother asking NL members about BAD BOYS with compulsive lair, manic sex freak, and Nairaland addict when it comes to romance/sexual/relationship problem against narrow-minded frigid women.  It sound like you have been jilted not know what you want from man.

The following threads you post previously that show who you are:

Do Men Respect Ladies With Trashy Talks
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-105394.0.html

Can You Fall In Love With A Bitch?
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-106378.0.html

Or maybe either she is victimized of sexual abuse or raped fear of getting married? ?

Or maybe she thinks ALL MEN ARE DOGS so she won't/never marry anyone replacing pets HER BEST HUSBAND she commits with!!!

Or maybe she is HIV POSITIVE!!!

Similar to other people, who cannot love person, seriously committed to job for the rest of her/his life.

You can continue love her for rest of your life to respect her wish WITHOUT MARRIAGE! Nothing wrong with boyfriend/girlfriend with cohabitation for the rest of your life!!! That is your decision!!!

@topic

Love is NOT ENOUGH alone!

Nope, I cannot tolerate any woman beater with hot or short-tempered, possessive/jealousy, and control-type in the name of LOVE. NO WAY! NO WAY! NO WAY!

I grew up enrolling to white denominated city hearing public school all my life until transfered to deaf state school institute/residential/boarding that was my first culture shocks seeing different races from all over US.

I used to be "rural/country" girl transforming into urbanized lady. Just like I say depend on women's background to be familarized with white culture like I do.

Mine, blend with deaf culture, white culture, black culture, and new Nigeria culture (now i study for one year).

@poster

I do not know about African/Nigerian women to express their romantic feeling! The way I notice that some Nigerian women don't speak up when it comes to romantic or sexually even communication due to lack of expertise that field.

For me as black American, I do normally expressed my romantic feeling toward to white guy the same way as black guy equally. I loved to hear white guy's love expression that was SO ROMANTICALLY and patience with me to have fun.

But from my own experiences in dating, white guy is more romantically, showing real appreciated and generous than black guy. Pretty almost similar to this movie called "Something New".

Keep in mind that most black American guys do not feel comfortable with dating deaf black American women like me, specifically hearing, not deaf.

Ironically, white guys ARE SURE DEFINITELY dating deaf black American women. I do not understand what wrong with black American guys at all! I got the answered from other forum discussion as well as had interviewed in 1990s by black female hearing journalist for African-American magazine that she sought all deaf black people in the US.

In Africa, he is the head of his family regardless of no job. But other countries like USA, wife is the head of the house and breadwinner while husband is jobless, lazy, or househusband.

Please check existing threads at below:

Need Help With Letter of Invitation
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-96330.0.html

Advice Needed On How To Send A Letter Of Invitation To A Friend
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-15213.0.html

Help! What Documents Do I need For A Visiting Visa to the USA?
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-75769.0.html

ASL (Age, Sex, Location) are very common to American/UK teenagers at age 12-18 chatting on YIM/MSN/AOL-AIM through Hi5, Facebook, myspace and other popular forum/blogs.

That is why too many yahoo boys/uneducated Nigerians copycat what westerners/UK are doing online!!!

I learned "ASL" when I first joined NL a year ago---when it comes to hit "YIM". I asked them why bother to know my ASL even though they are NL member not to look up at my NL profile! They said,"not know where to find NL profile"

They are IDIOTS!!!

That's how I checked their NL username reading their profile with "0" posts, obviously they are yahoo boys in order for me to block them. Now it is very rarely pop-up from my YIM.