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Why are you nosy on your girl's private personal stuff without her permission?

You sound like a insecure jealousy freak!

Oh boy! It gets boring to hear repeated and repeated same old story about "osu" over and over and over. Please check out existing thread at below:

My Wife To Be is OSU
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-105911.0.html

Include inside that thread has 3 more existing links about "OSU".

Just his romantic at his heart to express his love for you! Extremely affectionately! Sensitive Compassionate! Real Love only for you.

Like @ifyalways and @adeboo has said it all.

YAWN!!!
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Continue drinking beer everyday make you potbelly that is where most women HATE!!!!

Drinking beer drunk all the time make you violently beating up on women and even children NO REASONS!!!

It kills your liver if you drink beer for rest of your life all the time---refused to quit!!!

Responsibly for safe sex protection! AIDS/HIV/STDs out there everywhere!!!

Lot of Nigerians are uneducated not knowing nothing about sexual education even AIDS/HIV/STDs. I heard rumor silly HIV positive Nigerian guy looks for virgin Nigerian gal to cure HIV. This is WRONG!!!

I have seen it before somewhere here previously thread!

I have nothing to against it. I have experienced dating white guys in the past as well as my cousins does dating interracially and still going to our family reunion, NO ONE ARE AGAINST IT!

Unless if white guy who grew up in the black project like Bronx, Detroit, New Orleans, Chicago, and any large black population major cities in the USA, i would date/marry him but i strongly prefer black man, specifically strong southern country well-educated, well-endowed guy.

I never have a chance to date someone who is Southern country guy!

@poster

I have seen it before from existing thread at below:

10 Insights You should take steps into serious relationship before you get marry her/him
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-95533.0.html

Anyway, thank you for bring it up AGAIN!

Sound like you have practiced for stage play as you wrote, "Me, My Love Life".

It is beautiful! You can love your love life yourself with your mind, body, heart, and soul!!!

@toyin, abi o _{(i learned nigeria language)}

I prefer someone who loves me , accepts who I am, and cherishes me enough to get married---the more I love this person in return.

@Siena

Lol! You read my mind, send same time for the same request few second ago.

@poster or anyone
Would you kindly explain what is "outcast" osu clearly? I still do not understand this at all as it is still existed. I did research on google---still don't get it!!!

For me, who cares if this person is osu you love very much but your parent are freaked out, this is your decision to marry this person, not your parent. Forget about old-fashioned culture where your parent's past generations were, focus on MODERNIZATION culture.

Here you may find more existing threads at below:

Would You Marry An Osu?
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-23527.0.html

Can I marry An "Osu" As Ibos Call It?
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-38277.32.html

I'm About To Marry An "Outcast' (Osu) Guy
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-48932.96.html

Osu Girls
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-103583.0.html

Yes it can affect your love life if you marry someone who is committed to his/her career seriously---cannot live without career----MUST WORK, WORK, WORK! He/She does not think about married life even children as well as immediate family. I mean he/she does not have time for his/her quality time spending with his/her spouse and children.

No matter how hard to try to reconcile their marriage- - - still rocky even sought marriage counseling does not work.

It happened to me in the past. Yes, it is fact that some people who is seriously committed to job more important than family or himself/herself, but his/her healthy will deteriorate in the future if he/she do not take care of hiself/herself, eating properly and too much depression.

For me, it is better if this person is seriously committed to career for the rest of life---better off being single, the less this person's life will be short, period!

Don't waste your typing up for this poster, please check his previous thread that is a self-explanation why this poster is disturbed at below:

Can't I marry My Girlfriend? She's Fifteen.
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-96982.0.html

I don't think so that he has the right to arrest his girlfriend's father without having a traditional marriage. His girlfriend and he are not even legally married yet!!! LOL!!!

@poster

Why don't you create Feburary dates on voting poll? it would be easier for all Naijas-London NL members to vote which is the best for them in order for you to decide which date score the highest to meet.

I easily get over with my crush to this person by if at below:

(1) this person has proposed an engagement ring to or date someone else.
(2) this person has boldly gut/straightforward telling me the truth that i was not right one for him.
(3) this person not pay attention to my "giving a hint" flirtiously that obviously show that i like him very much.
(4) this person not pay attention reading to my clumsy body language that can tell how much i like him.
(5) this person not pay attention seeing me whatever he goes, i go. (waste my time)

So far i have not crush anyone for a long time.

BTW i enjoyed reading funny presidential speeches - - - I have not decide which one is the best President of Nigeria.

I will come back later few weeks to decide, maybe Jan 25th, let them give a chance showing their manifesto.

It is fun seeing how silly president candidates run that make me laughing.  This is the best medicine i ever had in my life!!!

I can see Americanized president wannbe for this Nigeria President, but i never see anyone use its own Nigeria President speeches without using Americanized stuff (obamanisation and clintonisation).

Please try Nigerian manifesto, not Americanized-Nigeria manifesto!!!!

Especially for Toyin try to learn new rope of politic running female Nigerian President, i still wait for her manifesto!!!

If it is USA government site like this, http://www.akwaibomstategov.com/, has failed with USA Federal Section 508 Web Assessibility Law.

Luckily, Nigeria does not have that Web Accessibility law, let that web developer do whatever they want with bad usability and uniformity. There is no law in Nigeria about it. But in the USA, it IS A MUST if it is US government site.

I rather this site like this, http://www.akwaibomnewsonline.com/, more cleaner, consistency, and usability better as well as faster loading to retrieve any web page when it come to click the navigated buttons/hypertexted links.

What? You never seen anyone female marry bald-head husbands---no matter what ages.

Here in the USA, i have seen plenty everywhere all kind of races (white, black, yellow, red, whatever skin color is) hottest sexy bald-head guys dating, marrying, or even single wearing nice fashionable clothes hottest sexy either casual or business.

Are you tell me male Nigerians ARE FORBID having bald-heads? Only for elderly male Nigerians. Is that correct? Tell me!!

@poster
Stop compare this nice guy to your male cousin. Stop look for "bad boy wannabe" not good for you!!!

If I was in your shoe, i will go for it dating this nice guy. Because he will give you the best offer to show his real love for you. He will win your heart you melt like a butter.

Forget your male cousin (previous link you post "Help, I have a crush on my cousin" at https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-105621.0.html)

It is your choice giving all money to your boyfriend while u are broke. Do you think this is LOVE?

HELL NO! Come on THINK, THINK, THINK what did you go wrong? I believe that he uses you for MONEY upon his graduation coming soon this March---disregard you like a trashcan.

That is my opinion!!