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Maybe you date wrong girl which you always chase after BAD GIRLS instead of NICE GIRLS.

I strongly believe that BAD GIRLS always be CHEATERS to dump NICE GUYS to go for BAD BOYS they prefer with. BAD GIRLS are players.

I don't know, i cannot give you the right answer.

@luvus, [answer to your question below where I enjoy being single working at home.]

Working at home is something you have skilled or expert or good at after gained your working experiences/accomplishments/contributions from former jobs in the past. Or apply for contract/outsourcing job to work for private company or government.

Something you like to sell product/service/export making profit/money yourself with great knowledge of marketing promotion, computer proficiency, creative, business plan, agreements/contracts/subcontractors and targeted audiences including quick-thinker, problem-solver, and act professionally, polite, and prompted greeting toward customers/potential clients.

Unique product/service/export MUST BE the hottest marketable easily to be sold or resolved problem FASTER to satisfy your customers keep coming back over and over and over.

Therefore; I am Jane of all trades in the mixed of website development/programming, computer upgrade/repair, documention conversion, office/internet administration, and knowledge of renewable energy solution on rural electrification system that is based on my excellent career background, excellent college background (two bachelor degrees/few certifications), many skilled/proficient and having a licensed Federal Contractor of my business on the government contractor database system. I had been employed over 15 years for BIG BOYS COMPANIES and 6 years for my home-based business.

Check out for business opportunities/ideas from existing threads at below:

10 Great Business Opportunities With Little or No Capital
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-103100.0.html

Developing A Business Ideas
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-94732.0.html

i couldn't imagine myself doing to have affair with a married man eewwwkkk!!! I am so glad that i stick with my celibate for a short while until guy finds me interesting that one day will blossom into relationship---who knows!.

Leave a married man ALONE, forget about long distance Nigerian abroad, and go find someone unmarried one!!!

It is hilarious and reminded of my former college roommate, who was from Thailand came to the USA for the first time with student visa, just exactly like your "TOO PERFECT" girlfriend.

Her black American boyfriend was complained just like you (@disturbed). I learned that she does not understand about our America culture on dating/relationship, because she grew up transferring to China for her school before return back her motherland (Thailand). In China at her times, dating was forbid. She was early 50ish but her youth looks deceived look like 20 years old because of very very small-frame bone skinny.

As of result their relationship was over because of TOO PERFECT!!!

Siena:
Amsky and EmemJU, please do a search, and check previous answers.

I already answered at previous topic I provided the link above!!!

See the following existing threads at below:

Guys Can You Wash Your Girl Under Wears?
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-67079.32.html

Can You Wash Your Partnter's Clothes?
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-100089.64.html

I enjoy the most about being single after finalized divorce are: freedom, stress-free from past marriage/relationship, money saving to buy foods/things only 2 people (me and my son), and whatever I want to do with my life.

Nobody tells me what to do!

No more worry/headache about financial burden!

No more nagging, threaten, fear and argument from husband/bf.

No more work for someone at BIG BOYS COMPANIES._{(I am self-employed working at home.)}

Please keep in your mind that some postings are either outdated, inactive or deleted.

Go look at existing Nairaland family thread you will find many American Women/Men date or marry Nigeria Men/Women issues on the following links provided at below:

*** Not only American, also for any country as well as vice versa for gender ***

1. Why Do Singles In the US/UK Still Prefers To Go And Marry From Naija
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-39615.0.html

2. Is It Possible To Marry And Genuinely Love A White Lady?
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-94894.0.html

3. American Women That Marry Nigerian Men
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-13194.0.html

4. Nigerian Men & African-American Women
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-406.0.html

5. Why Am I Often Approached By African Men? (An African-American woman)
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-10421.0.html

6. Do African Women Dislike Black American Women?
www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-21388.32.html

7. What's Expected Of Nigerian Women?
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-65395.0.html

8. Are You In Black and White Marriage Or Relationship? How Are You Finding It?
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-96888.0.html

9. Nigerian Love
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-98635.0.html

10. Interracial Relationships Are You For, Against, or Indifferent?
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-98030.0.html

11. Jamaican Female dating Nigerian: Advice
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-8931.0.html

12. Why Nigerian Men Are Attracted To Carribean Women?
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-18438.64.html

13. Advice on Interracial Relationship: I'm British and He's Nigerian
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-7145.0.html

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HOTTEST TIPS: How to bring your Fiancee/Married Nigeran Men entering USA visa:

1. Information For An American Coming to Nigeria To Get Married
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-97494.0.html

2. Going through the immigrant process to bring Nigerian husband to the US
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-63879.0.html

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Powerful helpful relationship tools:

Please so kindly to read the following existing topics to refresh your new next steps---
forget about the color, nationality, and major generalizations you heard at below:

7 Reasons Why Females Get Hurt In Relationship
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-94423.0.html

10 Insights You should take steps into serious relationship before you get marry her/him

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-95533.0.html

It shows that the partner LACK OF on the following below:

(1) affectionate
(2) communication
(3) romantic at heartfelt
(4) emotional
(5) compassionate
(6) thoughtful
(7) SERIOUSLY COMMITTED

Above characteristics are required on my importance criteria to stay in the relationship. Without those characteristics, it affects me as whole to feel neglected and heartbroken thinking either at below:

[list]
[li]he obviously does not love for me, or[/li]
[li]possibly having an affair to someone else behind my back, or[/li]
[li]does not know how to tell me straightforward breaking off the relationship.[/li]
[/list]

My choices of guess color on ur Audi RS4 project that matches your personality. I wish i get know u longer enough for color identity of your car.

(1) Navy blue
(2) Bold orange (more like tangerine color -fruit)
(3) Silver Pearl
(4) Macroon (my favorite one)

No, I will not put DNA test on my kids no matter what. Because I know who is the father of children at the time we were married and I got pregnant whole time.

Now I am single divorced mother for 14 years; therefore, no need for DNA testing on my kids.

Siena, I am guaranteed sure you have capability to assemble your shaping up as your masterpiece work.

I am sure NL members do not realize how amazing your skills you have. That is GOD-GIVEN gifted only assigned to you!

You GO FOR IT---love-vendor MY RIDE!!!

Hmm!! how old you are? Is he your FIRST BOYFRIEND?  Does your boyfriend have a job or is he a student?

Have you and your boyfriend sit down discussing deeper about FUTURE PLAN to get married and have children?

14 year relationship is F**KING TOO LONG!

I strongly believe that on the following below:

(1) Your boyfriend is not into you,

(2) he does not seriously committed to you in the name of marriage,

(3) he plays you to pretend claiming that he does really love you,

(4) he uses you,

(5) he is smooth-talker, slick talker,

(6) he asks you to borrow money, money, money, and finally. . .

(7) he does not love you. PERIOD!

A womanizer is ALWAYS A CHEATER, constant player! I think you must be clingy to hold your FIRST BOYFRIEND too long that you not able to let him go!!!!

I had stable period that last 5 days every 28 days, only one period missing every 11th month per year. All of sudden in 2005 i got trouble having 10 days irregular period every 25 days for three months painfully. I suffered to buy 2 bags of period pads enough for 10 days period---i hate wasting my money on it.

That was something not right in order for me seeing GYN. As of result that I had a swollen inflammatory fibroid that needs to be medically surgical as soon as possible. I go for it having total hysterectomy with bilateral because of five reasons i made decision at below:

(1) I am middle-age.
(2) I already have two children. (now age 14 and 19). No more babies.
(3) I am sick and tired of buying periods pads, hate suffering pain from menstral cramps.
(4) no worry about ovary cancer. (i don't have one but don't want go thru near future)
(5) ******* ******* _{(two words, i won't tell public, due to personal private)}

Good news for me, i do not have any menopause effect since my 2005 hysterectomy. No need to obtain prescribed medicine for my rest of my life. Neither I do not have PMS nor sexual dyfunctional. I still have my favorite active normally as before surgery---nothing to take from me, whew!!! Hooray! Hooray!

Abortion is the worst, but abandonment the child toward to the trash bin or highway/street instead of hospital or church is also worst. Therefore; my answer is both!!!

I have seen on nationally TV news about a carjacking with a baby along car seat equipped in the rear car seat, the carjacker stopped in the middle of the busy highway to loose a baby/car seat and zoommimmminnng in a hurry to leave them behind.

Fortunately, other driver with different car stopped near median curb leading the curiosity what is that blanket covering car seat in the middle of three lanes highway---OMG, a baby is there sleeping peacefully. Took it to the safe place (median curb) and called 911 request for police.

It happens in the US. Yes, carjacker caught eventually. The baby's mother was frantically and felt so humiliated to leave unlock her car at the gas station walking into a cashier inside to pay for gas---suddenly her car was gone!

Therefore like i say before, abandonment is also worse especially carjacking.

fastmoney:
@uspry1
lol, how do u expect us to believe that blind people jump off plains with parachutes, your dumb

@fastmoney,

Thank you and yes, you are right that I am DUMB since you never underestimate the power of technology world. How do I know? I watch on cable tv "Discovery Channel" or "TLC" channel where brave person go dare things where no men beyond that.

Start with taking parachute class at somewhere airfield hanger in the US, the blind person learns about how does it work and practice to jump parachute on the ground before go the real one on the plane.

Through highly experienced parachute teacher or assistant along with walkie-talkie, the teacher communicate to blind person jumping off the plane (not plains) with parachutes. Starting to count knowing when it is due to pull the string for opening parachute and to listen to his/her earphone from walkie-talkie by experienced parachute teacher/assistant who jumps together guiding to know where to land the "X" correctly without seeing it.

Any question, next!

Check existing threads that might be answered for you at below:

Post Your Vista Problem Here
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-58218.0.html

What's Actually Wrong With Vista?
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-101770.0.html

Microsoft Vista - A Serious Pain In My Rear
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-88122.0.html

Did you buy the upgraded Microsoft Windows Vista ultimate CD itself? It contains its own activation license differently from what you already have basic Microsoft Windows Vista CD that come with your lappy.

Ultimate and basic Vista are completely different package with different activation license each other.

True about customized cars are lot less, but engine, transmission, sensors are quite expensive.

Let me ask my dad's The Whitney (sp) automotive accessories magazine to look at and reply you back later.

I guess it would be wise purchasing junk engine/transmission/sensors for pimping chevy aveo hatchback, i don't think so! I prefer up-to-date customized 5-door hatchback small compact car.

Here is FREE INFORMATION how to connect your single Dial-up/LAN to your other PC(s) and the following quoted at below:

paribus:
This can be easily done with a features  that comes free free with Internet connection sharing (ICS) in windows 2000, XP or vista. Or RRAS if you are using Win 2000 or 2003 server.

Step-by-Step: Wiring up Internet Networking

Written by John Gibb
Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=John_Gibb and http://EzineArticles.com/?Networking&id=273186

https://www.c-manual.com/net.jpg

Wiring up a LAN (local area network) can be very easy, or it can be very difficult – it all depends on the size of your network, and how you’re trying to go about it.

For a very small home network, you can get by without using any special equipment except the wires. If you want to use a network to share Internet access or a printer, just plug an Ethernet cable into the computers you want to network, and then use the simple networking features that are built into Windows, such as Internet Connection Sharing. This approach has many downsides, though – you’ll need an extra Ethernet card in each computer for every extra computer you connect to the network, for one.

Instead of connecting each computer to the next, it is better to simply connect all the computers to a central router. This is a very efficient way of connecting computers together, as the data you send will be quickly and easily routed to its destination: the data goes to the router, which knows which wire to send it down for it to reach the destination address, and simply sends it that way. This also allows you to turn on and off computers as you please with no ill effects, as the router is always-on.

If you want to connect more devices to the network than the four or five ports on a router will allow, then you need to get a network switch. This allows you to create a separate sector of your network especially for one group of devices. For example, you might have your computer and your printer both plugged into a switch. The computer and the printer can then communicate between themselves without the data needing to travel out onto the wider network – but if they want to send to or receive from the wider network, they can do that too.

John Gibb is the owner of ethernet resources For more information on ethernet check out http://www.ethernet-intelligence.info

@quikengr

Depend on what kind of antivirus software manufacturer name you use, be specified manufacturer name to visit website, register as user member to look for update virus patch that allows you to activate automatic antivirus update for you. It could be McAfee, AVG, Norton, etc.

@Cedar4u

If you are look for anti-virus software telling you which one is the best for you, check out the existing Nairaland thread at below:

Best Anti-Virus For Better Protection
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-99212.0.html

Do you have your own licensed (not pirated) upgraded Windows Vista ultimate CD installation that contains inside the activation license (product key code) somewhere on the CD disk or boxed?

In the USA has plenty of wine makers everywhere, i rather not for my spouse as palm wine tapper in Nigeria without electricity solution that is need for purified wine manufacturer.

Maybe I would stick with OLD FASHIONED palm wine tapper if spouse do not mind teaching me the ropes.

@poster

Really, do you think it is possible pimping Chrysler Cirrus into Chevrolet Aveo 5-door hatchback from medium-sized into small compact hatchback car?

To me, it would be great but i don't have cost feasible unless i write creative grant proposal receiving fund for this project.

Why in the world your gf carry a whole bag of condoms in her purse? What for? One or two condom is sufficient carrying in her purse, leave the remaining bag of condoms at home.

Not want bf thinking when seeing bulk of condoms in gf's purse to jump the conclusion thinking she is ashewo. WRONG IDEA!

I have heard this joke before many times.

My wishful thinking to have role swapping to be considered exchanging roles with my spouse at below. BTW, I do not have a husband myself. And spouse will have no problem swapping my roles easily bec of my children are already near grown adult---light housechores responsibility!!!

I would love exchanging roles with my spouse who is one of those occupations: auto mechanic, stockbroker, woodwork crafter, computer repairer/upgrader, website developer/administrator, real estate flip-flop/renovator, or real estate broker that i am strongly familiar with those procedures, operations and jargons unless my spouse is CEO allowing me come visiting his employment very often to observe what he is doing while a once. He knows that I am fast learner! Prefer family business!!!

In case of something happen to my spouse in illness, accident, or family emergency, he would allow me taking over his place temporarily until he fully recovers or returns.

Yuck working on auto mechanic job, because of grease everywhere into my hands---ewwwwwkkk, but i easily read the auto manual handbook following the step by step working on engine something minor simple stuff (changing oil, brake fuild, wipershield fluid, and replace air filter, spark plug, or headlight or dashboard bulb/fuse---lol!!). For complex mechanic stuff, I let coworkers do the job, not me.

never too old to have kid with great medical advancement possible at least if you do not have any health complex and you have always go see doctor health routine(pap smear, mammogram, physcial exam, dentist) yearly under the circustances as doctor screens you everything---fine at age 30-50!

Also if you are biological clock and not find a soulmate to have kid before age 30-50, you can go sperm bank inseminating them into your womb producing baby at your own expense and ready to raise kid at your own with well-managed financially yourself. I know it is against African society/custom!!! Usually for those independent constantly work committed women---cannot stand dating guy but want to have kid so badly, they can afford going to the sperm bank themselves.

What an amazing medical technology discovery to help you whatever you want!!!

Not into someone who has already in relationship with someone else while dating you that is called TRIANGLE LOVE lead you more trouble/wahala later!

Wish you the best luck whatever you decide getting into mess or stay out of the mess!!

It has happened to me from those guys whom i dated with saying IT'S OVER and telling me reasons, i simply let them go.  All of sudden they changed their minds to come back! I cannot tolerate giving them a second, third, fourth, whatever chance(s) because of ugly nasty insult/reason to me that was totally unacceptable! I am HARD TO FORGET AND FORGIVE person.

Those guys are completely confused and complex inferiority even immatured, worse than sick lovestuck over exgfs they rebounded.  Those gals whom they dated with are gold-diggers, materistics, and heartless unromantic liar---because those guys whom I dated with are attractive, has job/car while gals do not have---no job, no car and having multiple roommates at apartment due to highest cost of living in a major cities gals not able to afford with. Keep in your mind, those guys ARE NOT COLLEGE EDUCATED ONES, most of them are high school graduates got good stable government jobs.  I am not gold-digger, not materistic not even jealousy/stingy/whatever disturbed but i have car, job, and house i own at my own expenses.

I do not understand those guys at all---what they want from me when they saw ALL THE BEST POTENTIALS with me saying that I AM THE PERFECT PACKAGE (ideal wife) THEY WANT. I guess my sincere with brainy on technically side along with college-educated background, open-minded, inhibited type are not guys' type. They chase BAD GIRLS leaving me behind!!!

That sum that i am better off remained single independent divorced woman waiting for my last 2nd child finish high school 3 more years left in order for me travelling whatever i want to go catching up what i have been missing out the last 14 years since my divorce finalized---have fun and my happiness!!!!

Oh sweet love I feel both of you (@zheroes and @ubobabe)! I felt love and let go! Sweetest love just for myself to be taken care of including my family and my children!!!