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Yes you can cry over your lover you love her so much---if you trust her with your heart, body, and soul with serious committed relationship. It is nothing wrong for men to cry over. It shows your genuine sensitive, passionate emotion person.

@poster, you really make me sick to hear too many those people fall in love or have crush or want to marry to their own blood or distant cousins. God forbids me like that----_{zoom off}.

You must be muslim to allow incestious relationship. Check out existing threads link at below:

Is It Really Right For Me To Marry My Cousin?
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-92414.0.html

Having An Affair With My Cousin
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-1046.32.html

Help, My Sister Is In Love With Our Cousin
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-97611.32.html

Nigeria has 250 languages and 300 tribes/ethnic groups. _{(make correction)}

Majority language they use: Igbo, Youruba,  Hausa

Of course English are their second language as official.

Ah! I see Davidylan points applying to my questions previously against rival, i got it and go back re-reading Davidylan postings above.

Again one more question i want to hear all of you answer at below:

How can you resolve agbada militocracy into better democracy?

Great for I-man, Faketan has answered my questions. Hmmmm!!!

For Davidylan, Is that all your answer at below?

davidylan:
you want the ideas of a corrupt dreamer with multiple IDs who's primary "hope" is to land a Nigerian on a non-existent planet?

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I still wait for Sly and other soon later.

[quote author=I-man link=topic=105131.msg1846668#msg1846668 date=1200183638]@usupry1

You want a serious answer or an Obamesque answer ? [/quote]Very funny - - - Obamesque answer---I don't vote any kind of elections---because i don't trust dirty politic all my life!

I want your answers on following my questions above if you all were Nigeria President. Be Creative!!!

Welcome @Saphric_1

First, you would like to share your thoughts and ideas on Nigeria issues on the subject of Technology, Business and Politic, select which thread (Technology, Business and Politic) you want to choose child board then hit "New Topic" button. It creates new thread of yours.

Second, if you want post existing thread, select specified thread on spectified child board to choose subject you would like to post by clicking "Reply" button. It creates inside subject of someone's thread.

I hope it helps. Again welcome to Nairaland forum, a public forum for Nigerians and friends of Nigerians. It fails, refer to "Help" button give you a guide about this forum.

***RAISE MY HANDS*** I have questions for those potential Nigerian presidents (Davidylan, I-man, Sly, and faketan, also others) at below:

(1) What about Foreign Trade Policy for Nigerian?

(2) What about Human Rights? Disability Laws?

(3) How can you improve technology such as database system, broadband, other telecommunication? What about relay service for hearing impaired telephone callers as well as foreigners?(if you know what relay service is?)

(4) How can you improve Economic here?

(5) What about Energy Policy with the emphasis of renewable energy solution?

I want to hear your answers or plans---since I cannot vote any of them because I am not a Nigerian.

ATTENTION TO: @JamesOkwy, @joshjosh, @bawomol, @Bankole01, and all posters _{@kobojunkie already knew.}

Check out this existing thread link at belowOriginal Nigeria newspaper: Vanguard dated November 18, 2007)

An American Deported To Nigeria
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-94620.0.html

I strongly believe that GRAYSON ERNEST EUGENE here is completely identity thief of this person like @kobojunkie has said it. No way he can remember his OWN MOTHER'S home (South Carolina) phone number in the USA ask for help if she is still alive. He has been here in Nigeria for 2 years since his 2006 US deportation.

toyinrayo:
really? hmmm. . . .different people different opinion, i guess

This poster seriously seeks for girl at age between 16-20 in the name of a serious, commitment and loving relationship.

All of sudden this poster complains about specified ages girl does not recognize TRUE LOVE, can you help him how to recognize them?

Help yourself be his teacher in the TRUE LOVE KNOWLEDGE!

@poster

From your previous posting at " GIRLS ONLY, " https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-105012.0.html, you seek for girl at age 16-20. Those girls at age 16-20 are too young to be understood about true love. PERIOD!!!

@poster

You can have bad girls but those bad girls are NOT WIFE MATERIAL, i mean they are not serious on committed relationship/family life/marriage life. I mean the relationship does not last longer with bad girl. You cannot change BAD GIRL turn into GOOD GIRL!!!

That is my opinion!!! Wish you luck to try that on bad girl turning into good girl accepting too many flaws in relationship.

Both, tea and coffee.

For tea, i prefer using store-bought herbal spices tea bag: raspberry, mint, cinnamon, and many other berry flavors to make hot tea drink with 2 drops of sugar to add my taste. I also use Lipton plain orange-black family-size large tea bag to make iced tea drinks with squeezed cut lemon and half cup of sugar into a large pitcher and put them in the refrigerator for chilled.  Pour it to serve my favorite glasses to drink on any meal: Breakfast, Lunch, Dinner and in-between snack.

For coffee, i prefer using store-bought GENERAL FOODS INTERNATIONAL coffee with flavored: Dark Mayan Chocolate, French Vanilla, Viennese Chocolate, Italian Cappuccino and Hazelnut Belgian. I use my purified facucet pouring into my cup and microwaved it to make it hot with 3 scoops from canned coffee and two scoops of sugar stirring. Serve this one hot cup with my 90% fat free Turkey bacon and oatmeal every Breakfast only.

I strongly believe that your computer is virus attack. read existing thread to help you at below link:

Strange Behavior
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-104829.0.html

Suggest you to buy and install one WIFI-based wireless router/lan for pc and one wireless lan adapter for laptop. Use pc to set up for internet connection/networking in order for wireless lan adapter detection automatically.

read existing thread explaining how it works on my posting at below:

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-101931.0.html

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-105210.0.html

read this link above, do you want to be victimized like this above?

For me, she is not into you, move on!!!

blackgucci:
do men like this still exist?

Yes some men like this do still exist----sick lovestruck both USA, UK, and even everywhere in the world.

I had experienced with my male best friend who lovestruck to married woman in the USA even he is single for 4 years relationship---I tried console his pain complaining about her. That married woman still has a husband and 4 children she won't leave her own house, at the same time her husband has girlfriend from college. Her husband works as college professor. She works as government postal worker. That married woman is just exactly like here posted heartless infidelity girl. (20 years marriage something like that)

I gave up letting my male best friend 2 years ago. He is hard-headed refused to let her go until he changed his church seeking for private counseling that hit him hard not know about sinful dating to married woman consider adultery! That is what I tried telling him so many times. Now he has hard time forgetting about her, move on dating another unmarried woman with 5 children for similiar past relationship!

I never understand my male best friend at all---i glad let him go!!!!

So far I learned those below from my Nigeria friends on YIM for one year. I am an American-born, not a nigerian.
revised>>> LANGUAGE: Yoruba

haba - come on
bawo ni - how are you?
mo wa - i'm fine
ni bo lo wa? - where are you?
jire - wake up safely
gist - tell me about
mo wa ni ile - I am at home
ma binu simi jooo! - Don't be mad at me please!
stunnaz - sunglass
jere - profit
odabo - bye
odaro - good  night
odiola - for until tomorrow
ya ra mi - initially yes
ko ni nice week - have a lovely week ahead
mo ni ife re / mo feran re - i love you
pun - sell
pupo - so much
dere - there
kia - take care
e mi noo - me, too
another - another
wa gwan baby - you funny baby
ki lon sele - what's happening
wahala - trouble
lo jeun - go and eat
ko de yo - get full
ma duro de o - i'll wait for you
ebi pami - i'm hungry
ki lo je - what did yu eat?
onje - food
mi lo je - what did I eat?
onje mi is - my food is
mofe lo jeun - i want to go eat
mo ti jeun - have finished eating?
sho ti se ru? - have I done with my hair?
chadle - later
no kwams - no problem
shomo - you know
gbagbeyen - forget it
gbaga da a laga - got argument with my dad
shee! - right!
collo - dumb or insane or crazy
baba - father
obirin - daughter
oko mi - my husband
iyawo mi - my wife
boi - boy
omo - baby
bubbling - alive
ait - all right
no du - no fake
suya - roasted beef
this - this
tot - thought
mo lo wo friend - I went checking a friend
mo lo so ja - I went market
oja - market
peti - small
neo - black
aw - how
na wah - (just express saying ) what a shame!
noi kore - a mistake
ashewo - prostitute

***other slangs I won't post here --- few curses i learn. (for my personal chat purpose)

UK slangs I also learn:

loo- bathroom
wafer - cookie, sometimes biscuit

things I look for in a man are maturity, family-man, same characteristics, same page, same common interest, same beliefs, same intelligent debates, open-minded, sexual compatible, well-endowed and well-educated as mine.

No Questions about it! I called this THE RAREST GEM you won't find anywhere but God knows where/who. Just like find a needle in a haystack!!!

Ok, i am single now. Only things i hate my exhubby were: (at that time we were married in the past)

(1) too stingy refusing to compromise on financial obligations.

(2) refused to admit that he is wrong. (Mr. Know-It-All or Mr. I-Always-Right! type)

(3) money spending recklessly and lavishly unneccessarily. _{(after my divorice finalized, he confessed me he was gambling addict)}

(4) constantly workalochlic, does not have a time for wife/children on his own quality time. Never take his paid vacation leave on his job---i mean never take 10 days vacation off plus two paid days off he still go work on two days off.

(5) refused to listen to me as his wife, always listen to his friends.

(6) never have time to play, talk, spend his time, build strong bond with his own children I raise with.

After my divorce went finalized, eight years later, he now WAKE UP and SMELL THE COFFEE, apologized what he put me thru horrible loveless abusive marriage that he wish he could changed long time ago. (marriage counselor does not work well) Because he got 3 cancerous organs spreading around his body THAT IS WHEN HIT HIM HARDER!!!!

He never listen what his family, his doctor, my family, his boss, his supervisor, coworkers, even me tried warning him at all, he don't eat right---eating too much unhealthy food (too many fast food restaurant buying excessive foods (that is enough for 3 people he eat whole himself), he does not sleep right. Always sleep 4 hours or less everyday more than 10 years going to work all the time.

His health now collaspes!!!

I guess he is mulism. Age 16-18 girls are not ready for marriage committment---too young to be understand about the relationship. Check out existing thread at below:

15 year old Girl with a Boyfriend of 28?
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-567.0.html

Am Seriously And Madly In Love With 15 Years Old Girl
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-98547.0.html

Can't I Marry My Girlfriend? She's Fifteen
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-96982.64.html