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Does not matter whether you date older woman or younger woman you want as long as you following link below:

10 Insights You should take steps into serious relationship before you get marry her/him
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-95533.0.html

Most older women do date younger men as well as older men date younger women. Even younger women date older men and vice versa. So What!!!

She is not into you! Move on! Don't wait for her another 4 years upon her finish college! She might marry someone else better by that time. Plenty of fishes out there to start new dating!!!

Study how do you know this is real relationship or not at following link below:

10 Insights You should take steps into serious relationship before you get marry her/him
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-95533.0.html

@poster

I don't think it is called "LOVE". She cheats on you; not into you; not serious committed with you; and she is player!!! It is sick that she has multiple male partners more than one.

It sound like she is a prostitute to me!!! She do not know the meaning of "relationship", "committment" and "marriage". Because she keep saying "i don't know" when u ask her if she loves you seriously or not!!!!

It is up to you to remain love her and marry her but as of result you will end up unhappy marriage because she will do continue non-stop seeing different men once she is your wife.

Are you sure that she is the RIGHT ONE for your futre wife? Check out the following link at below:

10 Insights You should take steps into serious relationship before you get marry her/him
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-95533.0.html

I used to be unattractive all my life during school year from elementary school to college where everyone make fun of me---skinny, small boob, flat-butt.

I became withdrawal after college graduation and had my bad marriage that my mom forced me into because of my deafness my mom were worrywart and paranoid about how I can raise my first baby despite of my deafness.

Both 10 and 20 years later i went to my high school class reunion, guess what!

All men swamped at me saying i look AWESOME irresibible sexy hotmamma---even bowed saying asking for my forgiveness. Because I no longer have bacon-look (skinny)---now I am more thick steak with bigger boob and butt. Unfortunately they all are taken, married or engaged.

What a laugh!!! I guessed they learned their lesson never hurt people who look ugly that turn out BEAUTIFUL SWANS later.

I suspected that you did not scan anti-virus on your audio CD before download to your Windows media library folder. It helps to detect any virus attack to delete before proceeding download audio file to your Windows media library. Most people not doing scanning any external files such as downloaded files or CD FIRST before transmitting to your hard disk drive or folder.

You got fake "LSASSE.EXE", a virus, spyware, trojan or worm creating fake folder automatically without your knowledge and is the same Virus with same name below:
W32.Nimos.Worm - Symantec Corporation
W32.Sasser.E.Worm (Lsasss.exe) - McAfee
W32.HLLW.Lovgate.C@mm - Symantec Corporation

I recommend you taking your laptop or PC to the computer technician taking care of virus removal of "LSASSE.EXE" for you.

Otherwise, do run full system antispy and antivirus scanning, including free Spybot and/or Ad-aware to remove it. If the problem continues, there are a number of additional and more time-intensive fixes, many requiring the presence of your operating system’s installaton disc. Seek computer technician to help you.

I suspected that you did not scan anti-virus on your audio CD before download to your Windows media library folder. It helps to detect any virus attack to delete before proceeding download audio file to your Windows media library. Most people not doing scanning any external files such as downloaded files or CD FIRST before transmitting to your hard disk drive or folder.

You got fake "LSASSE.EXE", a virus, spyware, trojan or worm creating fake folder automatically without your knowledge and is the same Virus with same name below:
W32.Nimos.Worm - Symantec Corporation
W32.Sasser.E.Worm (Lsasss.exe) - McAfee
W32.HLLW.Lovgate.C@mm - Symantec Corporation

I recommend you taking your laptop or PC to the computer technician taking care of virus removal of "LSASSE.EXE" for you.

Otherwise, do run full system antispy and antivirus scanning, including free Spybot and/or Ad-aware to remove it. If the problem continues, there are a number of additional and more time-intensive fixes, many requiring the presence of your operating system’s installaton disc. Seek computer technician to help you.

Check out existing threads at below:

Is Dating Someone For One Year Too Soon To Get Married?
www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-7591.0.html

How Long Should Courtship Last?
www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-921.0.html

Is 4 Years Too Long For Courtship?
www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-91599.0.html

@topic: would you sleep with someone to save your spouse?

NO! I will not sleep someone else other than my spouse in the event of dying wish getting money to save him. To me it is adultery committed. I rather to sacrifice my job and my goals taking care of my spouse until his death---showing him how much I love him dearly and cherished.

For me 1-2 years to study the loved ones on the serious committed relationship based on the following criteria below before accepting a proposal to get married:

[list]
[li]Trust[/li]
[li]Spirituality[/li]
[li]4 Characters[/li]
[list]
[li]Humility[/li]
[li]Kindness[/li]
[li]Responsibility[/li]
[li]Happiness[/li]
[/list]

[li]Personal Hygiene[/li]
[li]Communication Skill[/li]
[li]Personal Habits[/li]
[li]Strong Connections[/li]
[list]
[li]Good Chemistry and Compatibility[/li]
[li]Shared Common Interest[/li]
[li]Shared Common Life Goal[/li]
[li]Deeper Emotional[/li]
[li]Sexual Compatibility (i mean the knowledge of sexuality or sexual experiences)[/li]
[li]Agreed Financial Obligations/Compromise Equally[/li]
[/list]
[/list]

There is nothing wrong with Young Ladies prefer dating Older men or vice versa.

Look at the actress Vanessa Willams as villian at "Ugly Betty" date 24 yr old young man---she is between 40-50 yr old.

Look at the singer Tina Turner has interviewed with the Ebony magazine reporter in the 1990s-2000s revealing how she stayed look young despite of she is 60s. Her answer was enjoyed having sex with young men between age 20-30.

Look at book author Terry McMillian, "How Stella Got Her Groove Back" that she is middle-aged woman married to young Jamaican boy telling a story almost similar to this book. _{(now she divorced)}

Don't be narrowed-mind about dating older men or vice versa. By the way there is more existing threads for similar topic at below:

Why Young Women Often Date Older Men?
www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-2247.0.html

Why Would A Girl Date An Older Man But A Guy Can't Date An Older Woman?
www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-79543.0.html

Would You Date A Man Twice Your Age?
www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-3277.0.html

Can You Date Or Marry Older Than You?
www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-20604.0.html

In Love With A Much Older Man
www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-69947.0.html

Check out existing thread at below links:

How To Open A Fuel Filling Station?
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-58781.0.html

Filling Station For Purchase?
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-46174.0.html

@poster

Next time when u see a lady is on the way before passing by, you, YOURSELF, make a move walking out of your office desk to create your first impression to her, just saying,"hello, may I be serve you about my service business?" or "hello, i'm so sorry that i cannot help your smiling is so irresible to me past few days ago. May I introduce myself to you?"

Something like that!!! Good luck!!!

I have answered for you. Check your existing thread at following link below:

Strange Behavior
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-104829.0.html

Shutdown problems in Windows XP can be caused by many factors, just like earlier versions of Windows. These included: a damaged exit sound file; incorrectly configured, damaged, or incompatible hardware; conflicting programs, or an incompatible, damaged, or conflicting device driver.

Therefore, I need to know what application that caused a strange behavior on your PC/laptop. Be specific malware virus attack on which application.

Simple, write down on the piece of paper telling me: what was the error warning dialog prompted asking you to "End Now"?.

Sexgirl/Clip999 is a malware virus.

Check out how to solve this virus attack at below:

http://forums.techguy.org/malware-removal-hijackthis-logs/658976-solved-sexy-girl-clip999-firefox.html

You need to install 3 things: SDFix, Spybot and HijackThis software to malware virus removal on Sexgirl/Clip999.com.

Goodluck Niceuzor!

If you are look for anti-virus software, check out the existing Nairaland thread at below:

Best Anti-Virus For Better Protection
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-99212.0.html

Answer your questions at below:

[list]
[li]Why you accept downloading unsuspected file from www.clip999.com that automatically change your FireFox homepage without your knowledge of that site is virus attack?[/li]



[li]Have your anti-virus security protection software installed on your PC? If not, then you HAVE MISSED THE OPPORTUNITY having anti-virus security protection to PROMPT YOU a warning dialog about virus attack before download any file/site. [/li]



[li]Did you enable "anti-virus", "spyware", and "anti-phish" FireFox add-on modules to protect your FireFox from virus/hacker attack? (it means to turn modules on or activated)[/li]



[li]Did you get a notification from FireFox prompting you to ask for FireFox update adding new patch downloading to protect from harm attack?[/li]



[li]Google it how to uninstall "www.clip999.com" removing its own toolbar somewhere![/li]
[/list]

Yes, it is same procedure the way you would date someone you met from social bar, club, school/college, work, church, etc. No difference!!!

Check out the existing thread at below:

Can You Marry Someone You Met Through The Internet?
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-101819.64.html

All This Internet Dating, Does It Really Work?
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-26165.0.html

How To Find Boyfriend Online
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-57129.0.html

@poster
From my own experience when it come to date Black American guy who does the same thing what Nigerian girls down there want for SEX, SEX, SEX, don't give a damn about serious committed relationship. SIGH! SIGH!

Some are money spending recklessly on luxury things, drugs/alcohol---they ain't celebrities!!! _{(end up repossessed vehicle, tax levy, debt delinquency, deadbeat, etc)}

Some Nigerian girls cannot accept THE TRUTH that they are obviously so much desperate, cheap, inexperienced and ignorant girls/women out there to clingy on Nigerian/foreign guys who has money, car, job, and house---even guy who is yahoo yahoo or bad boys or player/womanizer or married boss.

What is wrong with nice guy who is hard-working, educated, and compassionate ones?

That is why I, myself, do not have A REAL GIRLFRIEND to hang around, talk with, laughing with, and shopping together. I cannot stand those type of girl: desperate, jealousy/possessive, man-stealer, gossipers, even man-bashing, and etc.

I agree with @aisha2 and @efuah has said it all.

Helpful tip to make your relationship stronger despite of religion and stereotypes at below link:

7 Reasons Why Females Get Hurt In Relationship
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-94423.0.html

10 Insights You should take steps into serious relationship

before you get marry her/him
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-95533.0.html

Check out existing threads at below:

Nigerian Men Don't Marry Early Enough?
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-23363.0.html

What Is The Approximate Right Age For Marriage?
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-91806.32.html

What Is The Right Age To Get Married?
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-24.0.html

I think you probably have poor office mannerism/greeting when it comes to person approach you at your desk while you talk on the phone without notice the person at present waiting for you.

Go look existed thread for similar situation at below:

Does Love and Money Work Hand In Hand?
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-101046.0.html

Does Love Have Anything To Do With Money?
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-1861.0.html

Yes, a guy can love two women simultaneously. One for gf or wife and the other for mistress or even one for gf/wife and the other for strictly platonic female best friend for rest of his life until death!!!!

It is everywhere in the world you seen anywhere, even vice versa for women can love two men simultaneously too!!! No questions about it!!!!

@Eagle-Eyed

Why in the world you want to fall in love with your boss despite of the plenty of single guys out there?

Go look at existing threads on same topic/issue---FALL IN LOVE WITH MY BOSS at below:

I'm Attracted To My Married Boss
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-80404.0.html

Would You Sleep With Your Boss To Secure Your Job?
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-2832.0.html

Sleep With My Boss or My Resignation?
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-80377.0.html

I'm In Love With My Boss
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-35120.0.html