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My desire passionates are:

1. to help out unfortunately people in the quality of electricity/house solution or improvements using renewable energy system (solar, wind, and biofuel generators) for poor nation/rural village to obtain well-reputated microfinance investments.

2. to exhort wounded people in heartbroken and confused relationships to overcome and correct their mistakes turning their new leaves.

3. I am also DVD movie and cable TV freak. computer bookworm to study new programming.

4. I am also web programming love to learn new challenge writing in PHP/XML/Flash actionscript to employ actions and behavior resulted on the websites including incorporating all external files such as video files, audio files and PDF/DOC documents. Unfortunately i decided to end my 7 years web development business soon at the end of this year to pursue new business mentioned #1.

5. to chat with my friends on IM the same page as i am sharing my personal testimonials in educational, business, career, and marriage-divorce-family relationship background.

6. to learn depth about Nigeria culture and language for my business proposal submission in renewal energy elecification system with residential community housing construction. I had been done my homework online and library finding out that West and North Africa such as Ghana, Gamina, and South Africa had been granted microfinance funding for housing (solar, wind, and biofuel generator) renewable-electrification energy solution for poor nation/rural village over 3 years; THEREFORE, NONE OF NIGERIA has receive those housing renewable energy solutions---i MEAN none. Just small projects Nigeria had done in solar heat system, solar water, solar lighting, and solar chicken houses they got FUNDING AWARD!!! What about wind generator and solar generator on residential houses in Nigeria? (i googled them)

7. as @jkpretty has said, I agreed to enjoy taking every breath of God's creations on earth, giving God thanksgiving to bless us his only unique image differently. Thank God to keep us ALIVE everyday!!!!

Sex on first date is BIG NO, NO, NO!!! It shows guy to think you are cheap or weak. Guy, who had sex with you on first date, will not trust you, will not bring you to his mother, and will not choose you as his future wife (refer to Proverbs 31).


If you rely on sexually needed basis, then I don't think this is called a dating to you. It means that you are casual dating without string attached (no emotional attached and no romance involved) just like @NaJa HaJe has said it all.

You picked inexperienced immature girl who do not know nothing about real relationship or dating, i guess!!!

I agreed with efuah---NO means no!!!! YES means yes!!! This is not secondary school or childish game!!!

@Orikinla
Awesome posting! Preaching in the spiritual of exhortation to God's daughters and deliverance of evil spirits!

Amen!!!

Be bold to tell 5 girls that u have found someone special and cannot be with them. Can we be friends?

That's simple!!!

If you want to know how Nairaland forum grow so rapidly, because Nairaland forum is the TOPNOTCH of all search engines such as Google, Yahoo search, many more, using properly meta name tag in HTML script.

As well as many NL members' word of mouth advertisement spread rapidly anywhere, everywhere, and anytime. That's how it work!

I burst out laughing to find out what HEADMOUTH is!!!

Go look the link and thread title I provide below:

"What would you do if you find out that your bf/gf turns out 2 be a headmouth"

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-38659.0.html

Hell No! What for to expose my nude pix over the phone?

Don't you realize that guys can distribute your nude pix over internet without your knowledge, how embarrass it can be?

iice:
The ladies have spoken! and i concur!

I seconded!

Hell no I won't marry a guy who is yahoo guy!!! Have money does not make you happiness!!!

My definition of a REAL MAN:

1. REAL MAN, who is caring family man, always be there for wife/girlfriend and children as well as his family. Don't have time for male buddies/social life except for special occassions such as Christmas eve, New Year eve, Thanksgiving, and the forth of July.

2. REAL MAN, who is breadwinner to provide for family needs as well as entertainment needs,  agree with all financial obligations paying bills on time and 50%-50% sharing responsibilities on housechore duties unselfish.

3. REAL MAN, who has great compassionate, supportive, caring, understanding, unselfish, honesty, attentive, affectionate, hard-working, and matured patience. Well-educated, well-employed, and stable financial support. Doe not believe in spending recklessly on lavish unecessary materials and gambling---no reasons.

4. REAL MAN, who have strong resistance against temptations, fallen, weakness, evil spirits, jealousy, control, and violence rages/hot-tempers.

5. REAL MAN, who wants to be LIKE Jesus' image---but no body's perfect!!!

In reality, there is no such as REAL MAN existing, just few REAL MEN.

Hey sylvao2000, be wise to protect your heart from evil spirit! I agreed with @efuah, moondust, and replenish have said all!

Let her go and MOVE ON changing your new leaf!!! Take slow into getting relationship someone special u got!

Why don't you ask your aunt or brother to help you applying visa you want to go? Which type of visa you want to apply for? Student visa?, Business visa?, Tourism/visiting visa?, Religion visa?, or Employment visa?---which one?

Official US Diversity VISA (DV) Lottery

www.dvlottery.com (site does not affiliated with the United States State Department).

http://www.unitedstatesvisas.gov/

http://travel.state.gov/visa/immigrants/types/types_1318.html


Find your nearby US Embassies, Consulates, and Diplomatic Missions:

http://usembassy.state.gov/

@realdosh

I checked the website you provided us: www.usafis.org, unfortunately I THANKED TO MY SOFTWARE INSTALLATION: McAfee Security Protection - SiteAdvisor quickly prompted me A WARNING RED ALERT DIALOG , site suspicious as typical phising site. Avoid it.

According to my SiteAdvisor report investigated that usafis.org is located in Israel and very popular on phising email bulk for both USA and London since January 2007! It has 7 different affiliated links for usafis.org.

Good luck!!!

because i became grandma already (11 days old grandson) TODAY, still have not find a Proverbs 31 husband since my 14 years divorced---last broke up guy 3 years ago---he ran away with cold feet not ready to get marry me(5-years relationship). _{---he is much older than me.}

My look deceives too many people thinking that I am 20ish!!! I have alot of male friendships who are taken, they keep telling me not to worry about and i will soon get one. When? When?

I submitted my prayer request to God sending me one soon just like my favorite biblical scripture: Proverbs 3:5-6.

Oh no! You form a love triangle relationship.

1. girl you love very much but she is taken

2. other girl you already get into relationship taking it slow.

3. last girl who just broke you off, suddenly want you back. (other thread: What does this mean?)

Are you player?

sylvao2000:
l am still a virging, though have sex but no baby yet that still make me a virgin, or what do you think

YOu ain't virgin because u already have sex before. You are not a virgin anymore!!!

It sound fishy to me! How long you and your girlfriend been together before she broke off with you a month ago?

I agree with @labiyemmy to ask her why she suddenly broke off then suddenly getting you back? Maybe she realizes picking wrong guy, want to back to you bec u have everything she wants.

Maybe she is two-time lover to keep two men behind your back. Who knows?

Remember you last posted in other thread, "10 good things you need to know about women", i thought you follow all 10 good things to avoid, suddenly how come your girlfriend dissed u for someone else.

Check the table of Passport/VISA fees that is found at:

http://www.immigration.gov.ng/Fees.htm

Check the Abuja Immigration Service (NIS) located at:

http://www.immigration.gov.ng/Contactinfo.htm

Good luck!!!

@labiyemmy
Tell me what does "TRAVEL" suppose to mean to you?

There is nothing wrong with Nigerian travel to New York visiting to see the Bronx Zoo. Very popular for tourists!

Why not you go visiting other foreign countries zoo? Washington DC zoo? Chicago Zoo? Miami Zoo? California Sea World? New Orleans Zoo? goes on,

This is a repeated thread originally by the same poster (realdosh) at below link:

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-77293.0.html

Advices for you to do your homework before traveling to the mainland China:

1. Are you experienced licensed exporter/importer to distribute China products to Nigeria? In the other word, are you official real licensed distributor that is approved by the mainland China manufacturer/company?

2. Have you set up your own Nigeria incorporation kit with business tax license bringing China products into Nigeria? And has it been approved by the Nigeria Corporation Affair Commission to grant you a Nigeria corporation sealed and stamped official?(check with Nigeria Ecommerce and Corporation)

3. Can you speak China language to communicate with China business owner(s) of product you want to buy for Nigeria? (great bonus if you have bilingual: Nigeria and China speaking) You are lucky if you got English-speaking China business owner of product(s)!!! China is majority chinese-speaking , therefore; their English are their second language---the same way Nigerians do speaking second language in English.

4. Do you have China sponsorship or letter of employment invitation for you to travel to their manufacturer/company in order to obtain Business  (B1)VISA entering to a mainland China?

5. How well you are strongly familar with the China product manufacturer? In other word, are you strongly familiar with China product(s) you want to sell?

6. Do you think this China product(s) are GREAT INFLUENCES impact Nigeria customers to buy? In the other word, Is this China product(s) marketable to deliver fast sold quickly to Nigeria customers?

7. Do you know who are Nigeria target audiences buying your China product(s)?

8. Does your Nigeria customers know about China product(s) very well?

9. Do you know where the China product manufacture at? Full business name, address, phone number and the name of  salesperson of the company who help you becoming a licensed distributor as requirement.

If all above are YES, then you can get Business (B1) VISA application to be applied with all support credible documents at least 3 months prior traveling to a mainland China. Good luck!!!

@SwtNsoFLyy

Those links at below are accuracy factual US government-based Citizenship & Immigration Service sites:

http://www.dvlottery.state.gov/

http://travel.state.gov/visa/immigrants/types/types_1318.html

Green Card is not a student visa. Green Card is a permanent residence alien in the US you want to live and stay permanently (give up your motherland where u currently live at), by the way you can get dual green card to keep your motherland citizen and US citizen.

You say that you want to travel aboard and study in the USA, you need to apply for a student visa requirement with your valid passport issued and supporting credible documents.

DV lottery is another different type similar to Green Card, but select random only 50,000 qualified DV foreign applicants per year. DV lottery application for next year (2008) accepts starting on October 3rd, 2007 and ending on Dec 31st, 2007. They won't accept 2008 DV lottery application after Dec 2007 ended.

All of them are different VISA issuance fees: Green Card, DV lottery and student visa, not the same.

Good luck to apply for US student visa entering to the US with valid letter of acceptance enrolling to US college/university and paid tuition fee requirement as your proof of supporting documents.

@vikiviko

Please send me free report of travel volunteerism at my NL YIM adding to "@yahoo.com".

Thanks.

@Nanana and Sunshine8

If you, Sunshine8, are an American citizen with stable financial support, seriously love with and want your foreign citizen, Nanana, to travel to the United States to marry and live in the United States, you Sunshine8, must fill out the required immigrant Fiancee (K1) VISA application at below:

[list]
[li]**Petition for Alien fiancé(e) in the United States (Form I-129F) (US $455.00)[/li]
[li]U.S. Embassy nonimmigrant VISA issuance (Form DS-156) (US $100.00) [/li]
[li]Application for Permanent Residence (Green Card) or Adjust Status (Form I-485) (US $930.00)[/li]
[li]Affidavit of Support  (Form I-864) (US $0.00) [/li]
[li]Medical Examination fee (costs vary from post to post) [/li]
[li]Petition to classify status of Alien Relative for issuance of immigrant VISA(Form I-130) (US $355.00)[/li]
[li]U.S. Fingerprinting (US $85.00)[/li]
[li]Other costs may include translation and photocopying charges, fees for getting the documents
required for the visa application (such as passport, police certificates, birth certificates, etc.), and
expenses for travel to the embassy or consulate for an interview. Costs vary from country to
country and case to case.[/li]
[/list]

**This petition I-129F, you must file at the Department of Homeland Security's U.S. Citizenship and Immigration Services (USCIS) office that serves the area where you presently live.  YOU CANNOT FILE THE PETITION I-129F AT AN EMBASSY, CONSULATE, OR U.S. IMMIGRATION OFFICE ABOARD

Once USCIS approved petition I-129F, it sends to the National VISA Center for processing prior to sending to the embassy or consulate where your foreign citizen will apply for K1 nonimmigrant visa for a fiancé(e).  The approved petition I-129F is valid for ONLY FOUR MONTHS.

After getting the approved fiancé(e) visa, your fiancé(e) enters the U.S.  through a U.S immigration port-of-entry. The U.S. immigration official gives your fiancé(e) instructions on what to do when he/she enters the United States. You must get married within 90 days of your fiancé(e)’s entry into the United States.

After marriage, your spouse must file Form  I-485 Application to Register Permanent Residence or to Adjust Status with the USCIS office that serves the area where you live in the United States. You must fill out the Affidavit of Support,  Form I-864, with the USCIS for your spouse's application to become a lawful permanent resident (LPR). See Permanent Resident at the  Department of Homeland Security's, USCIS internet site.

After getting the Permanent Resident, your spouse must fill out application obtaining new Social Security Card.

===================== WARNING ======================
The normal processing for all of this above ranges from 3-months to one year depend on complete required applications you follow properly instructions and paying fees on time---it will be shorter (3-months). Any incomplete application will cause further delay more.

Good luck both of you, Nanana and Sunshine8

I am tired of reading too many student visa applications or visa declined HERE, I wonder to know how many of you had applied for tourism/visiting visa to any countries SUCCESSFULLY, would you so kindly sharing your successful testimony, where you go after granted to approve tourism/visiting visa? which Embassy issued your tourism/visiting visa application that granted to approve? how long it takes? Is there required credible supporting documents?

@poster

look at existing NL posting already mentioned previously with picture displayed:

Wind-Generated Electricity Energy

fatty27:
How will u knw he has or has no feeling for im ex if he no tel u?

Obviously you are no experience in relationship, that is easy to catch the sign whether he has feeling or no feeling for his ex despite of no telling u.

1. Tell me what will your guy do when his cellphone ringing in front of you being romancing on or talking to or dining out with you?

A. answer his cellphone in front of you, then tell you who it was?

B. ignore his cellphone it rings, continue romancing/dining/talking to you?

C. rush off giving you cold shoulder without saying excuse---hide himself other room talking on his cellphone?

If you pick C, he does not really love you, because he is so excited talk to someone else behind your back, neglect you completely.

2. Tell me does he babble you all about his ex-relationship all the time?

If yes, he babbles you all about his ex all the time, HEY you are fool, he still loves ex instead of you.

@sylvao2000

I read all things you claimed about women, in my opinion the way you describe women who are inexperienced, immature, materistic, wild girl, never been married before, never been in long-term serious committed relationship, and no sexual skills or low sex drive, too much clingy on girlfriends---not grow up be wisely, even not know how to take responsible themself---too much depend on men who have money.

Their mothers never discipline teaching all daugthers to gain the knowledge of sexual, housechores, and what men want for a wife when they turns 18 yr old.

Obviously you pick wrong woman u look for. What happen to Proverbs 31 you suppose to seek right wife?

Keep in your mind that I am American-born, not Nigeria!!! Two different cultures how women behave---but basically same relationship issues everywhere!! Same problems everywhere---no matter where you are from: US, UK, Africa, Australia, China, Japan, South America, goes on,