₦airaland Forum

SAMBARRY:
Lmaoo what a joke.you haven't settled the issue of hunger and poverty you're arresting people hunting for food.


Meanwhile innocent people get killed everyday yet they're not arrested

You have said it all!!!!
People are dying of hunger and you say they shouldn't hunt animals? The height of Nigerian governments insensitivity to the plight of the poor is unforgivable. They try to find food to eat without scamming, stealing or using people for rituals and you arrest them.
Take a look at them and you can tell that these guys are starving.
Give them legit employment and a means to feed and they wont be poaching.

SAMBARRY:
Lmaoo what a joke.you haven't settled the issue of hunger and poverty you're arresting people hunting for food.


Meanwhile innocent people get killed everyday yet they're not arrested

You have said it all!!!
People are dying of hunger and you say they shouldn't hunt animals? The height of Nigerian governments insensitivity to the plight of the poor is unforgivable. They try to find food to eat without scamming, stealing or using people for rituals and you arrest them.
Take a look at them and you can tell that these guys are starving.
Give them legit employment and a means to feed and they wont be poaching.

2019 here already.

One is never too late or too old to learn.
If one still has passions and one is still up to it, then by all means go after your dreams.

anjilgreat:
No matter what her husband did to her, burning that car was a wrong decision. What angry and violent people don't understand is that violence can never solve a problem.

BTW, this woman just justified the reason why the husband wants to divorce her.

You have said it all. She has actually justified his decision by this senseless and evil act. No man or woman should stay with such a violent spouse. She didnt even consider that she could burn the other cars. Her action is not one that can be easily forgiven

Good one. Thanks for this!!

This is the height of wickedness, trying to make profit off peoples pain and tears.
I pray God arises for this family so they are reunited with their daughter safely and speedily.

If this is true she should be arrested.
Get childcare/protection agencies involved so she's arrested and take the child for treatment. She is not fit to be called a mother if this is indeed true.

This is so heartbreaking!!!

Dalby:
Frankly it might not have made any difference. Why?
I am sure Adam promised God not to eat of the fruit in the midst of the garden. He eventually did when Eve gave it to him.
What makes life what it is, is the prevalent uncertainty, and in that uncertainty breeds hope, and a reason to forge on.
The person you are today is not the same person you were 5 to 10 years ago. So when you make a promise 10 years ago, you are actually making that promise from the stand point if I continue the be, to think and to act the way I currently am. The point at which you make the promise.

Alas we often never remain the same and promises are broken and on and on

Judas betrayed christ, Peter denied him 3 times before the cock crowed....we can go on and on

A person that has been diagnosed of a terminal ailment more often dies faster than if the person had not been told why?
My reasoning is that in lifes equation the portion of uncertainty has been removed consequently there is no more hope. With no more hope there is no more drive which is life force and eventually they die.

Why do people commit suicide, because they are not able to see beyond their obstacle or challenge!!!

In summary, nothing in life, absolutely nothing in life is full proof

Pastor u are very very correct.
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This is really deep. Wish i saw this long long ago. However its still useful.

Dalby:
This is a very responsible answer.
I have another question, the man in this case re-married and goes to have kids, his income stream has not expanded. Prior to this incident his plan was for 3 kids. At this point he has 3 with the new wife and 3 with the old. For him to have peace in the house he focuses on the 3 at home. Would he still be a bad man?

Even if the woman says nothing, God who sees and judges faithfully will punish him.
The right thing to do is to send an upkeep for your children not to neglect them totally. You may not necessarily be able to take care of all their needs because of your/his added responsibilities but doing something which is reasonable within your/his means is the right thing to do!

Dalby:
Let me paint a senario for you so you judge!
A man caught his wife in adultry with evidence, later he moved out of his house when he noticed the wife was still secretly communicating with her lover. The wife works and earns a salary. She insist that all the kids will be with her. The man rents another apartment and is paying rent.
The woman goes around crying wolf that the man has abandoned his kids that he does not pay for their accommodation anymore. He was still paying their fees and sending feeding. Later he stops sending feeding and she continues to cry wolf wolf that he has abandoned his responsibilities you no longer care for your kids accommodation or feeding. 2 year down the road he no longer sends fees, now she is crying the loudest. What will be your verdict here!

Do the needful to his children and ignore her.
Your/his responsibility is to your children and not to her. Irrespective of her action pay/pay part of the children fees send her feeding money. Keep the evidence of transfer to her account or to children's school and show the evidence everywhere she goes to shout.

The man has a very wicked heart. What have the innocent children done to deserve his negligence?
He walks away from his responsibilities, allowing the poor woman bear the load alone and he thinks things will be well with him?
The man has been shying away from his responsibilities to his kids by pretending he has no kobo to his name...and the woman has shouldered the responsibility all by herself. Only to see him getting married to a new wife.

This woman has done no wrong by calling out the lowlife scum!!!

Heyyyy

@OP, This is an extremely profound and insightful post. WOW............Thanks
I so wish we women could just be there for each other. #SpreadLoveNotHate

OP, Nice one.

lawman88:
Happy new year Nairalanders, my wife is very churchy and spiritual. I love her for that but she told me this morning that the spirit ministered to her to sow something huge to a reverend father, so she carried all her December salary and gave to a reverend father. I asked her why she didn't notify me before she undertook it and she said such instructions should be carried out without anybody's knowledge. I'm not a catholic member, I'm RCCG. catholic members in the house, is that how your doctrine is? We are young couple and I wish we don't have any serious disagreement for now.

Please forgive her have a heart to heart talk with her that it shouldn't happen ever again. If possible share everything/secret with each other.
As much as possible talk to her about not seeing the pregnancy/conception stuff as an issue. Both of you should be patient and thank God.

Also please do not bring your issues to a public forum. Look for sensible people you admire as individuals and their martial life style. Go to them and ask their advice without necessarily telling them its your wife. You can say your friend or neighbors wife. please
A public forum is full of all manner of people who do not even know the type of person your wife is. Their will use their own perverted minds or perverted experiences to put all manner of tots in your head please.

I know its a weird n selfish topic but I realised I have been yearning for some clean innocent fun from the good old days.
I yearn for the days when the whole neighborhood was my playground.
I yearn for the days when a guy tells a lady I just want to help out and truly you find you have a brother you can lean on.
I yearn for the days when your next door neighbors were truly neighbours.
I yearn for the days when you could take a man's promise to the bank.
I yearn for the days when ladies dressed and there were no boobs on display
And most of all I yearn for the stewed rice, chicken, knock out and Briscoe that comes with Christmas.

Please please "Abeg where I fit see Briscoe knockout buy?

Merry Christmas peeps and may 2018 be blessed for us all. 1 love

I know its a weird n selfish topic but I realised I have been yearning for some good old clean innocent fun from the good old days.
I yearn for the days when the whole neighborhood was my playgplayground.
I yearn for the days when a guy tells a lady I just want to help out and truly you find you have a brother you can lean on.
I yearn for the days when your next door neighbors were truly neighbours.
I yearn for the days when you could take a man's promise to the bank.
I yearn for the days when ladies dressed and there were no boobs on display
And most of all I yearn for the stewed rice, chicken, knock out and Briscoe that comes with Christmas.

Please please "Abeg where I fit see Briscoe knockout buy?

Looks good but nah only Nigerians go do natural hair come kill face with trailer load of makeup.
It should be natural hair n you also tone down the make up.

Extremely funny.
You have a great sense of imagination

[quote author=CaringDad post=61566369]That's even more impressive to know when it's actually coming frombfrombbbbbbbbbb

CaringDad:
There 's no greater feeling in life than feeling loved.It actually changes everything about you & how u perceive the world .
But now Oh ! Sex !,sex !!,sex !!!& sex !!!! is the new definition of love.That's unfortunate.
Sex cannot & will never keep me in a relationship.Never !!!

Spot on!!! However only people with depth understand this.
Really would like to connect with someone like you.

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm..........................lets not hear stories that touch the heart sha

Fashola did well in Lagos so if he campaigns for president i will not only vote for him happily, i will also campaign for him.
If he replicates half of what he achieved in Lagos, in Nigeria it will be a step in the right direction.

So instead of paying her the N6k owed to her, it better to arrest and torture her.
Where is the help for the poor in this country

OP very well done. Nice one.

hmmmmm

chloride6:
I hate Nairaland eh. Why are you all being sentimental?

In my opinion the woman was only a little harsh. Come after me if you like. This kid needs to learn how to sit down and the truth is that she won't learn without pain. Sit down she no green sit down. The essence of that training is not hold her into position but to let her sit on her own.

You can see she made a conscious effort to change the chair when she kept hitting her head on the bed. Even ordinary potty training you can't do without slap. So she should not be slapped because she has cerebral palsy.

Abeg sentiment too much. She sat on her hands, do you know if it was some sort of training?

You no fit train pickin make you no slap am. Not to talk of the special one sef.

Are you for real?
I watched that video and cried. In my house am regarded as a disciplinarian. Yet I watched it and cried.
Please modify or delete your comment. That means you are as heartless as she is.
its only a wicked mind that can do such to a child.

Continue to fight until you get justice for your daughter. Do not remain silent.
People like this continue to get away with such things because we remain silent in the face of such crimes.
Raise your voice for your daughter and all other people facing such issues.
Continue to speak and cry out until you are heard.
Its really so sad that your innocent child had to go through such.

God bless you and your family!!!!