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Oct 20: [color=#990000][/color].@all...good evng nd hw body?In this month of perfection,God will perfect everything dat concerneth us.
Udoka...pls dear,what did yu use for the low progesterone?also,the ewedu wtout the potash did nt draw and i dnt like the look.can i add a little to make it soft when cooking orcan i blend it so dat i will retain its colour wtout potash.tenks.

No potash pls, just take it that you are taking it as medicine not as food biko. so that you can get the best out of it.
Note: covering any soup that draws (spelling) reduces the drowness.
Safe welcome back.
Ramadan kareem to my muslim sisters.

God, please help this little girl recover. You are in my tot and prayer.

@doublebls, why u they stress your Dh now? The journey is enough stress for him already. God no de look O period before he will bless you yafu yafu.
Pls forget about wetin happen, and smile/laugh. Cook a healthy delicious meal for dinner, come put yoghurt and grapes and enjoy a nice comedy tonite.
Men usually have urge early hours of the morning say around 3-4 am. But don't make the move. Let him rest plls.
Also check safe's seduction manual. Lol.
Have a nice week all.
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@nice and omonikiba congrats o. Omonikiba na me and you they same level be that o. Me na taxi man I bash e collect me 1k for repair.

nice14: @mamamT my heart goes out to u, to every problem there is a solution. Go to mums, cry but pls pls take it easy,talk less & don't take any rash decision. May d Holy spirit comfort u....(Hugs) @venus dear don't get me wrong o but u 4 leave dis ur advice & second wife matter 4 another time our sist don't need 2 hear dat now. Thanks

@ nice, oh was it an advice? I don't know if I specified that, but am just saying, cos we are Discussing ttc and things that comes with ttc, right. No offence taken.

safe06: @mamatriplet,where u dey oooo?d test result never commot?shuuuuuu,d test no dey take pass 10 mins na,at most na 30 mins,abi na carpenter u go give ur blood to do test?abeg come tell us its NEGATIVE make our mind come down. I hope u ar feeling a bit bera now?no cry pass 1 big baff oooo.
I wish u were close to м̣̣̥̇̊ε̲̣̣̣̥̊,I for com cook fish pepper-soup medemede,with chicken masala,nd peperonni puffy mossa,by d time u finish eating it,I wee make ur hair and make u up,so u ll see how beautiful u are and shouldn't allow tears wrinkle ur pwetty face,and then I wee help u pack ur bags again and we will charter keke-napep back to YOUR HOME.cook ur dh's best meal,when he comes back home,serve him,and then go to sleep. Believe м̣̣̥̇̊ε̲̣̣̣̥̊ babes,his heart will b full of worries and fear coz he would not be able to say what's on ur mind.Live like a stranger for @ least 2 days and when u finally agree to talk,just tell him uv always known all men are adulterers,u agreed to marry him coz u thought he was different,but he has just proved it that he's not,and u are dissapointed.
Ttc Ȋ̝̊̅§ for both couples,and u leave him with his creator for judgement. Babes,I swear ur dh no go fit sleep again.U are beautiful,U are strong,U are fruitful and most of all,U are God's child. Be strong babes.

make una no beat me o, I just had to quote. @ safe, who are u? You aRe so full of life. In the mist of tears and sorrow you bring humour. I just love every bit of this post. E make sense die.
Abeg mamaT show o.
@Omonikiba this your campaign for Art 2day na wa o. It is well. May God lead us right jjare.

@omonikiba aNd safe. You girls are so realistic I like that. Am not much of a talker/typer but I always love to be blunt. More than half of men cheat wether ttc or not. Will it make the woman go cheating too? NO . It is in there nature to flirt and cheat.
That is why patience, understanding, love, trust and prayer is all that is needed. If ur husband fear God and you ask him to take another wife for what ever reason, things will be done right. I have weighed all my " what ifs". And if its meant to be it will be.
And the person asking "if I have lost hope" No, infact am very much hopeful than ever. All I want is to be happy and my man happy. Not that its easy sharing ur man with someone else but its just a reality one must face. If you can face ttc for more than 5yrs, you can face anything.
Am sure if you seat down with your God fearing dh and talk to hhim and his pple no one will throw you out of your house if you respect yourself.
For the woman , if its your hubby that has the problem, and you are not happy and patient then leave the marraige. If you also can not do a donor sperm.
Its really dificult trying to explain some of this things but the truth always hurt. Its my personal deciSion sha o. So far it has not happen, but if God say's it will happen. No stress.
Note this is not a topic for debate. Make una go do ivf. Its nothing and the person that will be preaching to you not to, will not hesitate to do it if he/she were in ur shoes.

@ All lovely mamas, please permit me to say this, I have been wanting to say it for a long time now.
You see men are very fragile and they always want to prove how manly they are even if they are the one with fertility problem, they will never want to admit the fact.
Thank God , in my religion God permits more than one wife, for this reason and others I have decided to support/allow my husband to take another wife. I can't bare to see him cry, suffer or look at other peoples children in pain/silence. I will not stand him cheating on me and thank God so far so Good on that.
Most pple here hav one or two cases or suspicion abt there spouse cheating but won't own up. Only the brave ones will. Some hubby will do it perfectly that you will not know till after a long time maybe, when he has a child outside and the child wants a serious relationship with his father.
Another thing I noticed is that men listen to there family very we'll. Becos if they don't listen his relationship with his family sour while yours with your family blosom and he will be jealous of that. For this reason he will try to make his family happy to keep that relationship .(Blood is thicker than water o)
So my sisters what am tryin to say is whether christian or muslim pls ask your hubby to marry another woman if he wants, to avoid cheating and sexual transmitted deaseas. COS NA Dat ONE GO PAIN YOU PASS . Its nothing that bad I teLl you. You will have peace of mind, his family will stop bothering you. You can help him in the process ask him to take his time and choose a good woman frm a good home and do a HIV test for all 3 of you.
Or tell him he can marry another woman far away but you should not know and he should make sure she's free of hiv.
Hello hope am making small sense here.
Wish you all well.

Oh oh @mamaT God I could not hold the tears. I so feel for you. Oh men Y na. God will surely comfort you.
I pray you wil come back and tell us its a dream. So that we go kabash on d devill head o

Ha ha! This isn't good at all. This Doctor needs to repent o.
@reedemersave. Am sure its his akamu o because its so cheap. IMO I think he thinks he is trying to help couples but his doing it so so wrong.
You know, its cases like this that makes some pple scared of going for ivf and co. Cos there are many "what ifs" eg " what if my eggs or sper m is switched with another persons". God is in Control o.
@ blendy and co, pls at what stage in my procedure should I ask for a progesterone test. Though I personally did a lab test on my own and found out my progesterone is very low. So should I jjust tell my clinic about it so that they can up my dose injectable and suppositories or I should have them run another test just befor or after my transfer?

@Golden love, thank you guys for remembern me oooo. God will bless us all soon. Mwah. I took a peep at Godsent's thread and I saw you guys said a prayer for me. Wanted to reply but I slept off. I appreciate.
@pinky. I don't complain if my name is on the list or not, but I pray for all my ttc sisters with the master list in God's Supreme hand. And I know our time is NOW.
Omonikiba don get belle shakara don end o. I take God beg you don't burn the Roof o.
Happy new month girls.
And guess what, I bought my first maternity sexy hot dress yesteday.

Tuwon Rice and groundnut soup . So delicious

@atonementchild, I knew I saw some gyneacologist at National hospital it wasn't that difficult. Except if they were not specialist. Pls do you no the names of their specialists? Do you go tro there private wing??

When I came here today, I saw camrygmails post and also asking about pslam23 the pioneer of this thread. I decided to do a little saerch on pslam23 and I got to read about her divorced in the family section. I wept reading about divorce. I pray God blesses her with her heart desire and give her another chance. Below is a quote from one of her post. So touching. I found myself thinking about her all morning.
"I got a lot of love and prayers on this forum and I
thank you all from the bottom of my heart!
As for my journey to have a child, all i can say is
this, as the sun rises and sets, my heart desire to
be a mother will surely be a reality!
Much love!"

Stellasmeza: Beef salad with peppers, strawberries & pecans (nuts).

This is going to be so yummy. I want to try it. Can I gEt a recipe pls?

Loving ot here thought I post mine too. Potatoe porraige, with diced meat and groundnut

Oh God soo much bad news today. Even me got a little bit of a bad news as regards ttc.
May God keep us strong, increase us in faith and protect us from the evil in this world and in the here after. Amin.
@ pink22, Omonikiba,Wonyi, flakeey. And all of us going tro' so difficult time right now. May God ease our pain and see us tro successfully.

@fruitful ruby, welcome to the thread, both doctors have had good success rate. You just have to pray for God's direction. If you can be paitient to read afew pages backwards, you would get their full adresses.
As for your poor response/few eggs. I advice you take like 3 months space b4 ivf to detoxify, and eat healthy. You can also get some herbal supplements too. Also look for pikinmama post she has a handffull of advise of eating healthy.
In all its GOD that gives. I pray this be our year. Amin.

[quote author=iya-ibeji]@Omonikiba: You are highly welcome. I believe the cold was a good cold....you know now, bfp symptom . So shall it be in JESUS name. Infact, it is already so.
I'm so sorry about Mama's death. I pray the Lord Almighty will give you, your DH and his siblings all the resources you all need at this time. Ojo ajina sira o! (Sorry, I can't intepret this one).

Thank JESUS you are OK now.[/quote]@Omonikiba, Sorry about all that happened. May she RIP.
@"Ojo ajina sira o". Even me when no be yoruba go interprete dis one. Am replying before I read further so that make I no go see expo, dats if someone has interpreted it. Means, Our day(death) will be far apart, like praying for long life for the living. The yoruba mamas hope I got it. Am a 10/ 10

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Congrats mummyF hhnm. Woaw so many bfp here and on the Ivf thread. I pray we all get our's soon- at the appointed time.
@ safe start collecting money for aso-ebi oooo.

Congrats @ Ticha. HHNM.
" The darkest our comes Before the sun/ morning". Somebody correct this my saying abeg, I no sabi talk am. But. Am going tro a dark time now. And I pray my testimony is very very close o.

inwangobio: Thanks so much for the list, its been of immense help to me, this is exactly what we were discussing this morning with my wife and I assured her that I will get every info that we need and this list has come handy now. Pls if u still have any other items to add don't hesitate, and for multiple do I need to buy all these items by the number they are or can some items be shared? What are those things that can be shared? Pls forgive me if the questions look silly.

Bros, I de feel you die!!! Abeg no question is silly o. You have to learn what you don't know at least. Butu er ehm! Make we ask our mama generals some of the sharing question since she's EXPERIENCED in that area.
Me too am learning from here o. Good job Madam tjski. Even though my big sister wrote me a list since last year. So I will just do plus and minus.
May God give you all the strength to cater for this children
@ madam Tsjiki, his expecting triplets o. We don't even know yet if God will do his miracle and make it four..

@rainyday, thanks so much. May Allah ease our affair and bless us with what will bring joy to our lives, what will make us Closer to him. Bless us with what is good for us in this world and in the here after. Amin.
@Ononoplanet, Insha Allah you would come out of it soon. Its not that easy. Just take it step by step and thank God for not givin you sometin that would cos u pain.

Thanks all you guyz are the best. We all just need our miracle soon before person go run mad.

Oh oh! Sorry about that dear. But some of this doctors are really wicked.
@Oviasouth, long time, hope u are good?

I heard there's a hospital "Care fertility Clinic" in abuja. Its the cheapest private hospital in abuja.ivf procedure is 500k and test for couple is around 110k. Pls anyone with more/useful info should avail us. Have a nice day.

@Iyabetajos, even dou me too de rant now. Abeg just ignore all of them. What I used to say is "anybody that has problem with me not having a child yet? Should go and query God, cos its him that gives. Make anybody no just disturb me"

Thanks @kaynee, lizzy and mama pink.

Am so so so tired apart from ttc, nothing is working out for me, everything is just at a standstill. Seriously, God, I don't deserve this am a good girl why am I the one suffering ? Okayyy na me get power to bear all the bad thing abi? Isorait.
Dh's mood swing this days is getting unbearable, If someone annoys him at work he brings it home and every thing na ontop of my head. Am really trying to make myself happy but his not helping at all. Just wanna be on my own and let him get his life and d children his so crazy to have. I tired joor.

At times I just wish I should get a divorce! As if that will change the fact.
Yesteday got a call from an old male freind , pple think through there anus o. After a long time of no calls cos I stop picking his calls. And didn't have his number again after I changed my phone. He didn't even ask how am doing o, he went strait to ask "u don born"? Me- " yes.". Frnd-" boy or girl"
Me- " girl"
Frnd- "wats her name or its not long u hrd her "
Me- "yes, not long 5 days ago"
Frnd- "and u no even tell me"
Me - "no vex"
Frnd -" ok, takia blah blah blah"
Even with dis am sure he could tel I was lieing, cos there was no sound of him bin happy for me or anytin close hmm. Thank God o. I had wanted to sms him and blast him .. But abeggi

I remember I also got a diferent towel for my face, that I wash every 2 days.
@ safelicious well done. But I use all this things and more but no show for my side. Dou I was not patient I would just use for a week and expect a miracle.
Also hormanal imbalances, stress and different medications we take during ttc also causes out break.
@kay , unlike me u should try to be patient and don't use every thing all at once. Select items u will not be lazy with and are easy to get. Use for more than 6 wks lol b4 u expect result. Will add more when I remember.
Operation Pimples Most Go.

@kay. Also try as much as possible not to do make-up touch up when you all sweaty and dirty I mean that in a polite way. Okay like uve been outside for some time or you went to d market came home and you immediately want to go out again, don't go strait to apply powder, wash your face first or get a baby wipe, put this in your bag and use it when you outside or after making your hair at the salon.
These are the things that have helped me a great deal. And people have been admiring my face and aSking what I used. But I de do them shakara. Now I feel like when I was 16-18yrs o. The spot are not totally gone but very minimal.
@Shiloh - I hrd Retini*A is good some one once reccomended it but I couldn't get it then so I just got a neutrogena face cream with Retinol. But neutrogena makes me dark and I knw pple that have complained of that too.
Kai hand de pain me ooo. Am a weakln wen it comes to typin o. So don't mind my errors plsssss.

@kaynee babe, this description fits me. I have had the horrible pimples from like age 20yrs. That was when the hormonal imbalance started to manifest. Then, you would see all sorts of colours/ kinds of soap in my soap dish. All sorts of cleanser. It reduced a bit when I got married I don't know how. But I guess some things helped me a bit ::- my environment, the things I eat, wasn't goin out often.
Fast forward to the last 6 months, I have only had like one pimples on my face evry 2 months. Enof story make I go straight to the point. .
I hardly scrub my face with sponge when I bathe, so I started scrubing every other day ( but I made sure I had minimal or no acne b4 I started scrubing).
. During this time , the soap that was within my reach was ; septol/ dettol so I used it for like 2 weeks and to my surprise no single pimples during these time. So when I had the chance to go to d mrket, I both Aveeno soap.
. Before then I had started using facial creams with spf . I had used neomedrol and funbact-A but it only reduced the pimples.
I later added olay facial cream with spf 15 and dr miracle bath milk (it has licrice and bearberry) which I had is very good.
Am trying to eat very healthy too cos of ttc which has so far only helped my face.

Thanks so much dear @cocodiva. Will be using the one in kaduna if everything goes as planned, Insha Allahu.