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Papanwamaikpe:
Victorian please shut up! Haba!

Greatzeus:
I guess you Dodge a bullet then,you could have been the one suffering from that your Ex inhumane attitude now. I pray God perfects everything that has to do with your new relationship. Wish you all the best

funmisticqueen2:
Awwwn

Greatzeus:
Wow,I love your honesty,now I understand you. You are not alone in this,but thank God you learned your lessons and came out victorious. About dating someone from your state,it has lots of advantages really,but don't box God please,I know he has good plan for you, don't let your bad experience make you Miss God's best for you.
You can follow your desire to date/marry someone from your state but incase along the way,you see that God might be trying to do something different,don't box him,give him a chance,and I know you will rejoice at last,you will look back and give all the glory to God.

Greatzeus:
Your comment showed you still care,more like you still mad or angry about him or them,it ain't hard to tell

Agricaddict:
Smoking is enough to make judgement of responsibility

Suspense12:
A lot of things can make a lady run from visiting a guy at home...things like the guy forcing himself on her, stylishly asking her to do some chores for you-wash clothes, plates, clean the house, cook.


But come to think of it, there was this lady that came to visit a friend of mine. The guy then asked her to cook when she said she was hungry. In short, she made a mess of the guy's kitchen. She was a lousy cook! And anytime she says she wants to come over, the guy go sharpaly disappear for house.

Kondomatic:
Even people who cannot marry outside their tribe will come here to scream racist.

Papanwamaikpe:
You no dey shame? Indeed you're audiolly married

Papanwamaikpe:
You've started with these your lies again abi? Amelian audio marriage no dey tire you

Papanwamaikpe:
No wonder you're still single and searching

Larryfest:
I don't keep tabs on ex'es.

Newbreed2018:
Inferiority complex. You don't need to tell me all that cos it don't matter and I don't either. But in other to feel important u had to.
Keep deceiving urself with ur imaginary igbo fiancé.

Been hearing that for ages

Newbreed2018:
When will you marry?

Will you ever? I doubt.

For ages now u've had a fiance'.


You are no different cos age is telling on you.

truthsayer009:
Congratulations Sis! make you forget to invite us ooh.

By the way, this your inner voice calling you by Native name, Na Wa oh!

truthsayer009:
That guy that opened his mouth to tell you that kinda thing is a learner
You don't steal a Goat & start showing it Firewood, Pot & Maggi without tying down the Goat first

That being said, you don't have to be hypergamous to ensure you don't suffer, you don't need a stinking Rich person.
Simply marry someone in your class & you would be fine.
You already know how much work you put in your business, marry someone that is also hard working like that.

Many Women marry ass holes, then come to NL & preach regret to younger women. They simply made that choice with clear eyes, no one forced them.

Things that are important to consider are:
i: Is he working? If yes, What kind of work. Is it a Salary job or a Contract job that comes only once in a year?
ii: How much does he earn now & Is it enough to sustain a Family of 3 at least?
iii: Where does he see himself in the future?
iv: Does he have savings, how often does he save?

I'm very sure that guy that asked you for a Car will fail most of these questions above, I am sure.

WildChild00:
Just like some of them would come to you too in the near future.

WildChild00:
Just like some of them would come to you too in the near future.

okeyben10:
This is so ludicrous

He said he gained nothing from d marriage.

Was he expecting her rich brothers to place him on a payroll??

Silly people with their sense of entitlement

LeonMacJames:
You're welcome to do so ...

godblessuyirich:
PLS OOO DEAR DONT THINK OF MARRYING A BROKE GUY, BUT EVEN IF U DO THERE VERY FEW GUYS WHO HAVE GREAT GUYS, FOCUS AND HARD AND SMART WORKING. AND MOST OF ALL THEY ARE VERY APPRECIATIVE AND SOMETIMES ASHAMED OF NOT BEING ABLE TO TAKE CARE OF YOU, THOSE ARE THE ONES U MAY CONSIDERED COS THEY WILL MAKE IT UP TO U IN NO TIME
CHEERS THE WORST TYPE ARE THE ONES THAT WILL TAKE U FOR GRANTED AND THEY ALSO FEEL ENTILTED