₦airaland Forum

pmoye:
Sis, please stay safe. Always remember that you are literally living in a jungle, and make all plans and take steps for your security. I am glad you came out of the experience with good testimony. I returned to Nigeria a couple of years ago to incorporate and start a company. I stayed back for sometime just to hire the right people and get it off the ground. My sister, I cannot begin to tell you the things I have faced from every angle. Employees stealing is even a small thing. It is like everyone of the hired employees applied for employment with the singular intention of stealing. One of the employees was once caught carrying a ritual from the company premises; the dumb guy didn't realize there were cameras around... I had been approached by someone I once dashed money who instituted he must give me jazz, and the idiot actually brought the shit and entered my office with it. Told me it's for my protection, and he still hasn't forgiven me for asking him to carry his dirty confusion out of my office. He still holds a grudge... Not long after that the company was robbed. In total we have been robbed at least three times within the last few years.

Now I wonder if it's the big shots that caused these things, or the masses.

And with respect to guys wanting your money, please don't fall for their tales of woes. We men face these things all the time from girls... The strategy is to not give room for anyone to tell you sad stories. Nigerians take advantage of fellow Nigerians using sad stories all the time. I prefer to make money, invest in setting up companies and employ anyone who is interested and willing to work for money. No amount of gifting sad talebearers will solve their problems (if they truly have one).

And I wish you get a man that is truly worthy of you. . One that is not just your match, but that you can look up to. Once you are not desperate.

Wow!
My brother if it's stealing? Forget it always happen. They will steal and steal until the company folds up and they will still be the ones carrying your news around , that u can't afford to pay them after they've ruined the company up.
And the jazz thing again? That's serious.
It's an insider thats carrying out the robbery attacks with help from outsider. May God help your company o. You plan good, but people u employ are desperate to wreck it down.
Later they will say it's buhari and politicians. Na WA o

My dear I don't listen to their sad tales anymore. I just ignore and stop chatting with them. Me, that I don't have parents, I hustle every day and Saturdays to make ends meet and not be a burden to anyone. Then One agile fresh guy with family and parents will be expecting me to empty my bank account for him, Because of love? he's a joker. I'm no maga! Make love pack one side, ain't interested in such love.

I'm not desperate dear. Cos immediately they see or notice desperation, the woman is finished or man sef is finished. I'm content with the way my life is. I can't shout Biko.

Our good to humanity will not kill us in Jesus name amen.

pmoye:
You're 100 % correct!
I am glad their plans against you didn't work out in favour of the devil (the bolded). There is simply too much envy and hatred in Nigeria. Once the so-called masses notice you're making some progress, they will go up in arms against you. Let us admit, we Nigerians are generally wicked.. It even shows in our prayers and all...
I used to believe in that philosophy of helping people around you that you can help, but quite a number of things I did to help literally backfired. You give someone money, or pay their school fees and they immediately conclude that you have money and you must be robbed, and all. You call the police in the middle of robbery and they simply tell you they cannot come, no petrol, they don't know road, etc. Tax officers come to your company and all they want is how they will chop you dry.

Everyone in Nigeria exploits everyone else! That is for a fact. The few exemptions are not enough to invalidate that.
The masses in Nigeria are your neighbours, colleagues, village people, and they are the very wicked and dangerous part of Nigeria. They make the country a jungle.

Honestly it's that bad.

Last year biz was good for me but I kept low profile about it, so this year I made up my mind to renew And re-branded my office and biz just December last year / January just last month.
Mehn! Come and see attacks both verbally face to face and spiritually from a client . I was shocked, perplexed and I was like what's wrong with this lady? Does she know me before? Did I steal her husband or boyfriend that I'm not aware of? I couldn't even reply her back, I was just surprised the way she was attackin me angrily on top my own services I rendered to her and she was meant to pay me my balance . Everyone around was like I should keep calm and she's a customer. I couldn't even say anything and she left. I was so shocked.

Later I realised strange things happening to my body that I don't even understand myself, after the verbal attack, Mehn I had to rush to my Pastor,after 4 days when I realised my prayers were no longer effective. And it's as if my body is becoming numb, like I'm carrying a concrete slab in my body. I was also looking bloated. I said this shiit is not ordinary.
Just one evening church service of holy communion and anointing service all the strange things I was feeling with spells of faints I was feeling vanished! I became strong again till today. Must better and stronger now and no more bloated and dull looking again.
I was like I knew, this is not ordinary. My God!

Do you know since the day the lady left my school angrily, she hasn't come back till date. I bet she's waiting to hear bad news from my office. But God in His infinite mercy has destroyed her plans against me.

And when it comes to exploitation? Have seen it happen several times. It's not new to me again. Fresh looking guys coming to woo me, some already have a sad story to tell Just two days of being my friend, so I can start transferring money to them. I angrily told two guys that look because I don't ask u guys for money doesn't mean I'm a fool. So please keep your sorry tales and problems to your selves. I have my own issues too. And moreover I'm in a relationship, seems I didn't remember to tell u. Please don't stress up my life the more Biko!


My dear, make God just dey help and save us o. Only few Nigerians have conscience and are good, the rest ? Conscience is dead. It's a pity.

pmoye:
Phuck the masses!
In the name of the masses our politicians have stolen the country dry. Phuck them, the politicians and the masses together.
You start killing yourself when you start thinking about the masses and Nigeria's problems. The so-called masses are one of the dangerous bunches I have ever seen in my life.
A friend who had been in Europe for so many years decided to visit home two months ago. A strong and vibrant man. Instead of returning to Europe to continue his life he is presently 6 feet under because he was poisoned few weeks ago. Poisoned by the same masses in his village.

It is the masses that rob us. It is the masses that rape us. It is the masses in police uniform that harass and take away our dignity in broad daylight. It is the masses that behead us in the name of religion.

Phuck the masses.
It is everyone for himself in Nigeria. There is no humanity anywhere in Nigeria. If you don't know that, then you need to attend the Federal Street College...

If your hussle is pure and God has blessed your sweat with money, enjoy it with your loved ones. Forget the masses, if you don't they are the ones who will kill you, not Buhari or the big politicians.

As in ehn? You are so right.

The more one is rising in success, the more enemies increases from nowhere.

Bad belle too much in this country. If not for God, I would have been 6ft under since!!!!

You think good for people, they plan evil against one.

It's God forever!!!!!
Hushpuppi can spend his money as he wishes, he owes no one nothing! except his loved ones.

May God help us in this country.

dlw09:
beautiful

Awwww thanks dear

proclinician:
You touched his lips with yours and you drifted into a coma I don't get. Do you have epilepsy or momentary seizures?

It's well.

Op, I'm amazed u don't want your wife to buy a car for herself.
It's her money, so why refuse?

She wants to make her life and marriage easier for her to manage. But u prefer she jumps busses and Okada with the baby, while u cruise around wit car, because na u need car pass.

Some Men sef, I wonder at their mentality.

Always love seeing their wives suffer and working their bodies tirelessly.
Anyways it's her money, whether u agree or not? She will buy it.
He who wears the shoes knows where it pinches or else be ready for her to label u as a wicked husband who doesn't care about her and that's where your once loving home will start having crisis and issues.

Na wa o.

Shugavee:
Mtchewwwww u no get problem! Next

Lol.

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Some Men don't learn the easy way.
When a woman is not in love with you or not eager to marry you and she says so in the beginning, please thank your God and move on.
No. Money or love u give her will make her stay with you for a lifetime. If you end up marrying her with everything u have, one day she won't be able to keep up with charade of such marriage anymore. She will become fed-up, suffocated and wants to leave by all means possible.
If u are not careful, u will Meet a empty home when u get back from work with all her luggages gone and a note of IM SORRY I CANT DO THIS ANYMORE.

But some Men will never learn the easy way. Op may God help u but what u need Is a divorce from your wife. If u don't free her, she will eventually free herself from u.

My dear even if he's the wrong man , be thankful u had something going on, that produced a pretty daughter or else in-laws stress would have been on your neck day in, day out with your marriage to coker.
You would have aged so fast with worries.

Just thank God, for the past and let it rest.

Haba! People should take a chill pill.

Camel toe or not. Is that pussy region not swollen enough for y'all? Must it look divided wit a line inbetween?

Free the babe jor!


The thing swell reach!

jabor4Naija:
Ur life, ur choice. You don't owe anybody any explanation.

Exactly.

She has never suffered in life before that's why.

People like me who gone thru thick burning fire and back, will take it as part of life's journey.

As long as their Is life, there is always a way to bounce back.

One room is not the end of life. Be strong inward.

Life is no bed of roses.

A good wife stands by her husband through thick and thin, no matter the opposition and trials.

I'm happy they are still together.

Happy Anniversary.

ednut1:
. There is no proof to substantiate ur claims that the women are more spiritual. Female actresses too dey die. Omoge campus and bukky wright both died of recent in canada due to health issues. So ur yarn is bullocks

I don't need to prove anything.

I'm simply airing my observation. It's not compulsory u must agree to it.

You are entitled to yours. And I'm entitled to mine.

So stop arguing foolishly.

nazablossom:
Spiritual indeed

You don't need to agree on what I said.

Everyone is entitled to their own views.
As others are airing theirs, so am I too?

U can simply read and ignore. At least I wasn't directing my answers to you or ednut.

Or do we now have selected people who are allowed to talk publicly?

Na wa o.

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ednut1:
cant believe an educated person wrote this . The women are mostly into runs and can afford to use the best hospitals. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.informationng.com/2019/06/davido-finally-finds-ify-onwemene-the-nollywood-actress-down-with-cancer.html/amp see an actress that is down with illness too.

You are so naive.

You've not seen the depth of life.

You think in Nigeria, been healthy and stay healthy is all about best hospitals?

Smiles, I shake my head.

No wonder men die more than the women.

No need going into long stories. Life is not in black and white. It's deeper than that.

Built2last:
Whats happening to NollyWood Men.

most falling sick and dieing and the women balling

The women are more spiritual than the men.

The men don't believe the spiritual can affect the physical. That's why the women are in good health. They take care of themselves all round, leaving no stone unturned.

Give your life to Christ and save yourself from becoming a vegetable and play thing in the hands of enemies.


witchcraft and evil powers exists .

Be smart about your life.

Only God can save and protect fully.

Aammee77:
Who cares?

Lol

franchasng:
If I have a daughter, the way I will love her, people will think she is my girlfriend

Yuck!

It can be part of the reason.

I notice hes too close to his daughter, as if she's his wife.

He hardly takes his wife out.

The bond between daughter and dad was too close for comfort.

goslowgoslow:
So na enemies dey cause stroke.

To explain it, will take a long story. But from the physical level

if you know u are hot temper in nature. Don't allow anyone trigger the hotness in your head. Don't worry yourself over anything. Do your best in life and leave the rest to God. Anger , fights, sleepless nights worrying over someone's attitude towards u can cause stroke.
Enemies we talk about is not spirits, they are human beings.

If u have a troublesome worker or trouble some spouse knowing fully well u have anger issues which u cannot control, please sack that worker, he or she is an enemy to your peace of mind.
If it's a spouse and he or she doesn't listen to reason but also trigger your anger thereby the bp rises, please divorce such partner before stroke happens.

Because if stroke happens, he or she will still leave the marriage while the victim battles the stroke alone and possibly die in it.

Avoid people who deliberately annoy you for the fun of it. In fact cut them off!

I know how many friends I have cut off, just for my peace of mind.

DropsMic:
Job was close to God.. Yet Satan shredded him.. What's your point

Satan shredded Job with the permission of God to test Job if he will still love and serve God if all the things God blessed him was taken from him.
Satan was roaming the earth, bored with nothing to do and no one in his sight to torment. Then God said to Satan, look at my son job, such a wonderful man that loves me so much.
Satan laughed and replied love who? You? Look God if not that Job is living a wealthy and comfortable life, he would have hated u with all his being
Its because u blessed him with so much. He has no Choice but to love you.

Lemme just show him. A little pepper and take all he loves and have in his life, u will then see the real heart of Job. He will curse you God and die!

So God allowed Satan to test job with so much suffering and take everything he owned but warned Satan don't kill Job. His soul is mine.

Satan said OK perfect! I will take every good thing uv given to Job and we will see if Job will Not curse you! God.

God said go ahead, let's see if Job will renounce me as his God.
Quickly Satan started work on Job.

And God's fire killed job's cattle, livestock, while Satan killed his children and destroyed everything Job has, just remaining Job ND his wife. Satan then struck Job with an illness. Job wife got fed-up, frustrated and cried Job u claim to serve a living God, now see what your God has done to you. Your God u praise and worship so much has failed u. Curse God and die! What's the use living again!

But guess what Job said! Woman I will not curse God. He's still my Alpha and omega. His wife angrily left him. Then Job cried to God, tore his robe, fell to the ground and still worshipped God and said naked I came from my. Mothers womb and naked I will.leave this world . The lord gives and also takes, I Worship u oh Lord. May your name be praised.

And guess what God called Satan, can't u see my son Job still loves me even in suffering and sorrows. His love for me cannot be questioned. I will restore him back. Satan walked away angrily.
And God restored Job back with so much blessing and success, and with a new family.



What does Job story tell us: God will always try our faith and love for him. Before bestowing a better blessing on us
If you fail and renounce God because u are suffering terribly. Then so be it. God will know u only love him when the going is good and will turn his back on you to keep suffering. But if u love God and worship Him even in suffering, the blessings coming ahead will be too much for u to even understand and that's when gullible people will say u do money rituals.

They have forgotten when u suffered so much even begged for crumbs.

That's life.
Serve God in truth and spirit, come Rain, come Sun and see if God will not bless you abundantly than before.

I am a testimony of God's test, trial and tribulations but I still held onto God and He restored me back. But I saw hell before being restored and I thank God for what I have today. I now know better.


God forever, till. My dying day!


If Ernest has mend his way, change his bad habits and given his life to Christ after being healed and given some millions to start up. The spirit of stroke wouldn't have struck back again. He must have gone back to his old ways.
And will evil spirits when they know the inner being of someone has been swept clean by deliverance, if you don't protect your body with constant prayer s. Stronger demons times 7 will come back and resettle in the person's body again . That's just one secret of keeping ones body holy.

Prayer!

If only he was close to God.

His enemies wouldn't have reduced him to this pitiable level.

Be it rich or poor? You are on your own when story starts to build skyscraper ontop one's head.

God is the only way !

fatymore:
The guy really loves his family.

I hope no one who come forward with a male child and says he is the father

He's not a Nigerian man.

So no fear, no one will.

Perfecttouchade:
Anger is bad and deadly, it destroys alot of things. ...learn to control every situation before you allow anger makes you do those things u might regret in future...may we never be a victim of had I know.

And do u know some young ladies of today are so proud they get angry so easy and fast.

They will beat their chest to their friends, that even if their boss do rubbish, they will beat the boss up.

I shake my head and smile at their foolishness.

What's my own. By the time their anger lead them to their deaths, na RIP remain.

funmike83:
If they had taken him serious then and prayed about it maybe this could have been averted . Prayer works and changes things

Who are the " they"?

If u expect people to pray for a wealthy man doing so well at his peak of his career even though they knew he will die at a certain year. News flash no body will pray for him or her
In this life, you are on your own . Nobody owes anyone any prayer .
As human being to live long and die peacefully at their appointed time, u must pray for yourself and recognise ones existence is purely by Gods grace.

I watched one documentary years back about Kobe and i was like this man believes his victory and wins is all done by himself.
He looked so sure and cocky about his successes , i admired him but at one hand, i said to myself what he sleeps and couldnt wake up tomorrow, how cocky will he feel?

I shook my head, looked at him through my screen and said hes just too sure of himself,what a pity. Such a fine young man.

I never knew he will die a terrible and painful death after some years ahead.

As a human being ,dont be too sure of yourself. Death can creep in at anytime and its all over.

beatmonster:
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Its well.

Kelechi009:
Hello Ma'am, please do you have the original version of the story?

To get the original version, it clear u need to visit Tunde at home or in his office and ask him one on one . Simply ask him, Bro please nairalnders and myself want to confirm , how many men did your ex wife Tiwa, slept with when she was married to you?

Also confirm if her sex with tuface, donjazzy, sid and other artistes in the industry triggered the suicide moves u made during that time u were rescued on third mainland bridge.

I just want to clarify sir, so people on nairaland will have your undiluted version first hand . Permit me to use a tape recorder for this purpose.




By the time u ask from the horses mouth , please come back and relate to us your ordeal in Tunde's hands , as u no get work do.