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ChidiAlaigbo:
Marriage? What nonsense is that?

Heyhei, e be like say na lions den I enter so.


Anyway sha, I just dey advocate for more diplomacy and more communication in marriage.

I believe that with more mutual respect and communication, things can get better.



Sometimes too, people have a reversible or irreversible situations. With mutual understanding, bad or good, work the situation. I don't care what it is, even if asteroid dey come towards you, like one Pete edochie movie I accidently over hear some years ago, he said "dont let your emotions exceed your strength". I even go further in saying mentally or physically.




Show emotion but manage it especially in bad situation. If she or he no gbadu you again. Try reason with them how you feel, if no road ahead, change direction.



If I was the guy in this case, I go para if I accidentally see them for my house, if I like her like that and I dun mess up before, I go see if I go fit revive our love, if e dun too cast between us, then we separate. Time no dey to dey hang onto a very dry tree branch.

Chidorx60:
It seems you do jump from one matrimonial bed to another...u better change...


All these trash is not an excuse to cheat with ur husband's best friend

Lol. I no dey o.

Oga abubakar I hail.


As for the oda guy, I see nothing but a thief and he is one of the main reason why nigeria is too uncomfortable.

Mr husband free dem abeg.


Some men think say marriage na paperwork or paying dowry alone. While some women dey for the marriage celebration and the title.


Balance and daily restrengthening gatz dey involved. Guy work on your marriage, no cun dey cast anyhow.



Things that can disavow vows


bullying (which I suspect this guy for)

Not respecting opinions

Too much money chasing without communication

And just general communication of knowing and reasoning with the other half.

Action man. No be audio Mata.
The guy no even like do camera Mata like that. He just like working for his state and Nigeria.


One of many projects in one of the poorest state in Nigeria.


Him and his team have raised ebonyi level. This is not Lagos where finances is not a problem, and still is not the most beautiful or most organized in Africa.


Oga Umahi just dey carry go. You have shown me and many Nigerian well wishers that not all leaders in Nigeria are the same. If haters wan see miracle make dem go ebonyi.

Chai. Nna eh. Dele get mind o.



I no dey support this kind thing, but you can tell say dele no wan do am. Chai.



Dele I pray you find peace and love on the other side. I pray that your family can adapt in this world without your own love for them.



God go see you through in life and in death.



To all the people wey dun loose hope, just hang in. Die trying. May God bless dele in the after life and others wey let go.

Fg need to step in at this point.
The state intent is valid but the way they are going about it is wrong.



Bring all the state number 1s, and try to harsh out a solution to security.



From fg's path, they need to agree that

cattle roaming is not feasible if it is not in a dedicated site.

Those hisba and religious police or laws, are not feasible.

The state number 1s need to be ready to use the budget money on lawsuits relating from these unlawful groups. They need to sign an undertaking against tribal, religious, gender, nationality, and disability discrimination.


And many more.

You can see our national way of politics in this, you call am number 1 but him id na 0002. Who cun be 0001.

Ever since some wise minds dun dey call umahi and zulum best governor, every riff raff dun dey chuuk head dey answer best governor.



Na by mouth abi activity wey dey ground.



Look at Biden, he dey plan to begin serious solution problema on day one. Umahi and zulum fall into prepare come leaders, so that they won't spend time preparing instead of doing. They are adjusting.

Onelove508:
2baba no dey this your analysis?

2baba na plantashun boiz na.

When the higher ups steal national money, nobody drops a pin, meanwhile their stealing has brought Nigeria to its knees, no light, good water, or good transportation.


Babangida is there acting like one don. Orji uzo, Tinubu, wike, and other crooks at the top.



Am not in support of this treatment, one year and seizure of property in court, is more than enough

I dey use sense givers Association of nigeria (USGAN)



Sometimes cheerful sometimes sanctions. Depending tinz.

20 years ago by this time, na plantashun boiz dey pop for naija. P square two years later.
Craig david for UK.
Ja rule, dmx, Jay z, the lox, Eminem, snoop, and Eve, been dey run things.


10years ago for naija, na psquare, timaya, davido, wizkid, dagreen, and a fading dbanj and mohits, been dey run naija music.

For Yankee, na lil Wayne, drake, Nikki minaj, t.i, soulja boy, ying yang twins, young jeezy, Mike Jones(2008), etc were running American music.




Today I no know whether na rema abi na omah lay.


Time dey fly sha. Me wey be small boy those years dun turn mature jungle now.

We can't judge what those in the past would have done. Go farm, come back, work for house, then the husband is to make village noise, etc. We don't know.

All the way until the 90s and early 2000s, Lagos was flyover and mezmerizing to other nigerians not from Lagos.


Times have changed. If our moms and dads, or grandparents had the same technologies, we don't know how it would have impacted their relationships.


I can't give past generation credit on discipline if the tech influence and courts are not factored in.

Good job on social priorities by bayelsa number 1.

He has gone to nass for his selfish reasons not because of any vision.



A former failed state leader and current failed leader at nass.



You know you are reaching when your relative have to explain your accomplishments, when no be street talk.



Orji uzo kalu and many like him are the non intelligent and account padders that we have in nass. Nobody like him should be in nass or any other leadership post. That is a Nigerian problem, electing korokoro national money thieves.

We don't want statues wey no even too fine.

Only God know the kind statue this man dey plan build on fg level, abi na coronavirus statue you wan build. Abeg we no wan see, make una carry una joke go play somewhere else. Okorocha abeg go do intern work with I go dye, we go see you, when we go see am.



If Nigeria vote for these people again, I go really know say wahala dey; in the past we attribute their vote to ignorance.


Okorocha abeg receive sense, pray for it.

See as dem gada to sign one paper.

Abi dem dey gada make dem confirm the amount wey dey invovled.

You dun borrow finish? Abi you dey write up another borrowing letter.


Rubbish talk from a funny person.


Fashion and amaechi have been an embarrassment. I hang it on the highest leadership, they gave them post based on the budget size and the borrowing potential, not based on intermediate knowledge of the issues they are leading or long term experience on the issue.

If they are Nigerians, going about their business, they should be let go. Do they have nin id, if yes, let them go to their intended destination. But if their cars were packed with arms, then the culprits should face the consequences.

Only Nigeria in the world of countries, that doesn't have a clear tax procedure or rules that even the experts know about.



If you go to finance or interior affairs or works or even cbn, nobody knows. You will end up going in circles. No clear business rules of conduct. That is why, anybody can come up to your business and just request you pay this or that without a credible proof of authority.



The sg need to work with fg, and clear the rules on these things, including for international business people in Nigeria.

Mind boggling.


He should be arrested and jailed for some years, then all his propeties should be shared among his wife, kids, and this girl equally.





He should be in jail with hard labor. He should thank his god that she did not kpai. I for wish am the worst punishment.

If I be Biden, I will say capital NO.



After him term, make them bring the case up.



After years of dunceful Trump, then you wan cun change my authority.

Rip.

May God heal the family.

Even the Chinese and Russian top people want the American or British one, because of past accountability structure.



If something happens with the Chinese or Russian ones, they will play deaf; if something happens to the American one, they will investigate and go back to the drawing board and Even pay you and treat you if they are liable. No body is perfect, but as a serious people, they stay prepared.

A good product need no hard sell.



Just bring your A game, and let the chip fall where it may.



The other governors can't catch up now if umahi and zulum stay on their focused pace, which I suspect they will, in terms of staying prompt with salary payment, maintaining existing infrastructure, supporting equality/fair and good business structures and laws. Add clean environment to that.


Business structure, one place payment. One or two places to go and resolve issue or get assistance. In person, mobile, and online.


Electricity is supposed to be led from the fg not sg for it to make sense. It is clear as day that the states need major help there. If it is not done from fg, if one state has electricity, then the other state without electricity will have many illegal line tapers, which will stress the machines doing the job, depending on size and quality sha. You want states to have their own style of electricity, so that if someone lives by a border state, then, it is not a problem with border overlap.



Anyway, electricity.

We need to be famzing with the experts in producing electricity.

AsiwajuNdigbo:
I put the question to naptu himself, waiting on answer.

Back in 1970 and the decade up to 1980 the poorest our 12 states back then was richer than this uae.

I dont want to preempt naptu but i suspect this is an open check to steal money. They are using shipbuilding contract to loot nigerian treasury and launder the money via war equipment contractors.

Where would uae get steel to build the ship hull? They have to import it. It is not even impossible that we supply the steel to begin with.

Our history is filled with many samples of such loot-holes.

They don't care to plan at all. Like you rightly said, this is a way to launder money in cohort with the UAE partners, who will help them with mysterious accounts.

I don't like this, like I didn't like many other things.


Why go to UAE to build, when UAE is going to America to build and buy. If we can't build at home, then we should go build or buy from the best builders out there. Now we are letting UAE improve their building skills with our own, while we dont have any experience in building it. No sense in that to me.


It is the same thing that happened with a whole Nigerian number 1 oga yaradua. They took him to Saudi to kpai, meanwhile Saudi number 1 went to America to kpai. I would have preferred yaradua kpai in Nigeria, because it makes me feel like Saudi didn't do their best for our king. I think Nigeria or a place with the best competent expertise could have done more to help keep him alive.




This why electricity should have the highest focus among other priorities.

With electricity, creativity and industrialization will be immerse. That will give us 25 to 40 years of straight economic real growth, not the pitiful growth that exist now.

It depends on what the tax intentions are for.

It might be to help, in addition to state finances, to help make the market organized, more secure, and conducive for business.

Oga Zulum no dey do/too do mumu/nzuzu things.


On a serious note, I hope he reduces the street hawking to give the shop owners or designated places more chance to succeed. If you are a good hawkers, get a business or go work with/for somebody with a shop.

Also increase your designated places that people can get free food, cooked and uncooked. After all there is instability there.

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In Lagos, a bus driver will pay ekelebe, pay tout, pay others, pay the same thing in five places, all in the same day. That is on top of other taxes, and they still go and borrow money to put the state in debt. Mediocre results in many projects.



I look forward to knowing his intentions on this issue.


I study Zulum and Umahi leadership pattern and wisdom. So far so good.
My loyalty no be tattoo. I believe them sha. I wish dem well.

It would have been better if it read all that and said "in court".



All the people those amotekun made uncomfortable should be able to take them to court, and the governor is suppose to be liable for the cases presented.

gypsey:
Me don't care either, Obama is not a black man, you people may want to call him a black man but in all honesty, Obama isn't a black QED! My son is mixed white, I know! Obama was just put their as a puppet by white people to appease black people, make them feel better about themselves, Obama had No powers, did nothing for black people, more black people were killed by american police during obama's regime, white people ran the show all through obama's regime. Yes! am part of the disgrace although i am not black in africa, Every black be it in in africa or otherwise is part of the disgrace

White people still run Africa, Asia and arab countries, imagine African waiting always for white European leaders advice on how to run their countries, give them charities, provide food, medicine Aids,loan africa monies, especially Nigeria. I agree with you that it is shameful in the case of Nigeria. As for south africa white people still rules south africa. Africans may have gained independents but not completely white people still rules africa, they have designed it to always be that way. Keep africa poor so as to still rule aftica from England, America and france. Even china has joined in recolonising africa. Africa/Nigeria could never depend on themselves or ever compete with Europe/America. blacks be it in America, England or africa could never be priviledged as a white individual. It was designed by white people to be that way.

Blacks/africans do not even love themselves, shamefully. African leaders are even worst. Yet they (africans and their leaders) criticise Trump.. believe it or not Trump will still be okay, he is a white man!

Africans are not even capable of digging out and refining their own natural resources, they always need white people to do that for them, africa could not feed their ever growing populations. It is shameful.

Now that it appears Europe's and Americas eceonmies are not improving i suspect they might inevitably recolonise Africa again only not in a brutal murderous way as before. This time it will be emotionally and psychologically they will use.

Hmm. I got some knowledge widening from this talk. Nice 1.

There should be a base pay on the fg side. Pp