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LesbianBoy:
It seems nigerians have a problem with rich people! Ahn ahn!

So because of that small thing wey davido brother talk (which he has even apologised) na him make this STOOPID girl write this epistle?

Modified: God punish all of you that mentioned me to insult me.....idiots! Are we the one that said you should nott hustle? Rubbish! You POOR PEOPLE can be very annoying!

Just imagine if Deziani or PEJ makes such comment. It's not about being wealthy. He has to show some decorum. Believe me, there are many people far rich than David O and co.

bukatyne:
Now this is 'harassment'

Where is the OP?

I would ony kemenize with you. Thats all....

bukatyne:
Kickback in cash and kind....

God help us....

As long as people have the power to 'help' others, most will always want something.... money, sex, favour, marriage etc.

I would like to help you.

fufuNegusi:
You are not the original owner of this write up

I have read it at quora before

This is plagiarism

He should have the courtesy of giving kudos to the originator. Bad attitude from the Op. The fact that he used Rand in the first place tells us that he copied and paste it.

Kakayaraznits:
Good write up @op.
But it depends on your place of work and how they value your initiative. I once used my initiative and my personal money to collect info for a presentation and my former boss nagged that who authorized me simply because I asked for refund of my expenses. Do I need an authorization before preparing a monthly presentation which is part of my job task.
Some Bosses feel pained when you use your initiative without their authorization.

Actually, some people will think you're doing ITK while some would appreciate an extra effort. I've worked in a school with a lot if workload that there's no extra effort to give.

bukatyne:
What if a commissioner says he must sleep with you before awarding your firm the contract?

You think business owners are also not harassed? especially when they need favours?

Well..... technically, it's not harassment. Just kickback. Lolz.

ednut1:
most of the babes working in one man firms Their ogas regularly have sex with them. all those sexy secretary and admin workers i no fit date dem o. d day i catch my oga and secretary for my former place i work i weak. The oga still attend her wedding lol. op saying report. if na d business owner dey chase after u wetin u go do. gals will just be lik instead of being unemployed gv him kitty afterall emeka, tunde ,felix and co don collect am tire for free

. Dem no lock de other room ? Me sef never see oh.

freeze001:
It is that small, subsistence agriculture for immediate family that breeds poverty. Is food the only requirement for survival? Will people not progress beyond food for the stomach? Even for d food can one grow everything? Will u not buy others like fish, meat, oil etc? Will they not wear clothes, buy electronics, raise children et al?

The Sultan's reasoning and yours are myopic. Basic agriculture gets one nowhere in the long run, it is the commercial industrialization that makes it viable and rakes in the income. That is where the government must come in and see to it that agriculture becomes viable at the highest possible level. Herdsmen remain backward in their nomadic style and continue causing havoc n mayhem yet we're nowhere near the top exporters of beef n milk. We even import those items!

No mind the mumus. When it comes to defending this government, their brains suddenly take a leave. When I used to live in a big compound with my parents, I planted all sort of things. Now I live alone in a tarred compound. How do I start planting?
There are people who live in block of flats. How do they start rearing goats or pigs or plant cassava? The Sultan is also admitting that he's also lazy. But guess what, he folds him arm in his palace and money still enters into his account.

seunmsg:
No reasonable person believed Wike and FFK anyway. PDP members are all shouting Ameachi's name just to muddle up the truth behind the money. Jonathan in his usual corrupt ways gave the money to NIA and also approved that it should be kept in a secret apartment under the guise of covert operation. The bulk of the money was used to finance the 2015 election and what EFCC discovered is just the left over.

President Buhari should immediately commission a special panel of inquiry to investigate the discovery thoroughly. The death of Obuah, GEJ's chief security officer from heart attack after the discovery was announced says it all. I have a deep feeling that GEJ and some of his PDP loyalist still have access to the money till it was eventually discovered by EFCC.

This is straightforward and there's no need for special inquiry. How can they not know who the owner of the money is ?
I know you would blame Gej. But isn't NIA claiming the cash ?

Teewhy2:
Mo Abdul is an accomplished entrepreneur who can afford that house if you ask me, I don't think she can be amechi's girlfriend, I think she will prefer someone she can control. She has even promised to take legal action if her name is dragged into their dirty politics game



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destinel:
Hi guys, I seriously need your opinion on this matter. Please take your time to go through my story:

I came in contact with this single mother of two kids in my church. This lady has every good character you want in a potential wife. Shes so selfless, God-fearing, down to earth, caring, very matured and willing to die for my love.

So we got really close, talking and started dating, it was then I discovered she had had two kids before, I couldn't believe my ears.
From her explanation, she really had a very rough past. she was dating a guy she really doesn't love.
After having a kid for him, they separated due to some reasons; then 2 years forward the guy came back begging, she agreed and then the second kid came.

Few years going forward, things really got nasty. The guy impregnated two other ladies, making her very depressed and frustrated. So she left him and had since over 7 years now been with the two kids and the guy had since then neglected her her and not even bothered about his kids; mind you, there was never a legal marriage between the two of them.

Now on my own part, I was a virgin when I met her. So she was the one who disvirgined me and we had intimated a couple number of times of course we felt guilty, remorseful and sorry for it cos it was very wrong of us. I really do love her though and she loves me, there were sometimes on three different occasions we had to break up cos I felt I couldn't go ahead with the marriage, but she falls terribly sick in the process and I myself I couldn't handle the feeling cos I always miss her. So we make up again

My pastor doesn't see anything wrong in our getting married but advises we pray really hard about it. Now, I'm quite worried the kind of resistance my family members will put up if I bring that type of lady for marriage cos there this lady ive been dating for years, she happens to be a virgin, so there was nothing intimate. I think I lover her too but not as strong as what I feel for the single mum.
She kind of broke up with me saying she needed time for herself and education, so I let her be. It was in the process I met the single mum. But we are still good friends, we talk, we laugh gist and all.....

She disvirgined you !! Are you sure you truly love her? I believe it's because of the sweet sex you both had. There's nothing wrong but it takes a lot of courage

Zabilon007:
You have got it spot on!... Except, who in Nigeria has NGN200million to use as capital (except of course, the corrupt politicians).
As a Government worker (civil servant), how many years of work will you put in, to make 200million?...
Don't even talk about 'loan' Cuz to have collateral for 200million is riches on its own....
Then again.... 100,000 milled bags..... You be Government bdat.... Cuz Where the land go come from......?
Let's cut our coat according to our cloth Abeg.... Pesin wey Get 200million no dey Nairaland.

Farming requires capital. One just needs to know what he can invest. Getting land is the major challenge.

ZarZar:
You're not getting my point. The popular use of the word manicure is often associated/synonymous with nails done professionally. When you do your nails at home, I have never heard anybody calling that a manicure. People simply say, "Oh, I'm polishing my nails, etc". The only time average people use the word manicure, is when they get it done at a nail bar or any professional setting. If you call your own DIY a manicure, then good for you, but most people don't.

Manicure is manicure no matter who's doing it.

rheether:
I have been to UNN zoological garden and its not there same thing with National children parks and zoo Abuja.

Buffalo is in that Abuja zoo but it's not this specie.

Eglobalma:
i dont mean just one girl, i mean so many girls everywhere he goes random girls crush on him and hes broke

You sound envious

Lawalemi:
My co-Sokopa (more than 10 years ago). RIP

Hmmm. Same as me. Where was your station ?

ademola2017:
Hi Nairalanders,

I am in a state of dilemma as my marriage is shaking.

Before we got married, my wife treated me like a piece of shit and never gave me any regards or attention. Any little quarrel would be blown out of proportion and wouldn't talk to me for days. I did the calling always and each time I ask her why she doesn't call, she would say I should get used to it. There was a day when a baseless quarrel occurred, she accused me falsely and we didn't talk for more than two months. I stayed single and was already moving on until her friend came begging on her behalf. I wondered why she didn't come herself but all the same I accepted her back. She changed like she was doing me favor but I still persisted because I loved her genuinely.

Fast forward, we got married and I was hoping for a good future with her. As usual I was very open to her and discussed every issues with her. At a point, I found out the marriage was one sided. I gave more but got little or nothing from her. I never burden her with house chores or cooking at all. We sat always to talk about her attitude but she would say things are fine while I will be grieving and having sleepless nights. She will wake up in the middle of the night to check my phone to know if i was cheating. I swear I have never cheated on my wife... She knows my password and never hid anything from her.
As we went on in the marriage, her behavior became worse and couldn't condone it again. She never saw anything wrong with her attitude and would say her apologizes are expensive.

I decided to do a background check on her and found out she double dated all through when we started dating and gave the guy more attention for 2years of our relationship. When things went bad between them, she fell back to me and unknown to me, I accepted her back. She and her ex were still in good communication till the night I confronted her. She would rather confide in her ex than confide in me (Now husband) Now, I feel so hurt, betrayed and used and can’t trust her again.

She has been very apologetic and says she is ready to change. So if had not found out about her double ways, I will still be condoning her insolent ways. I am seriously finding it hard in my heart to forgive her. Even if I do, I can never ever forget because I do not trust her again.

What will you guys advice?

You went through all this and still got married to her What's wrong with us men ? I can bet you that she'll never change no matter what. You don't need to treat her softly.
Nkw that things have gone this bad, ask her to give you some time to think about your marriage. Don't eat her food or sleep with her for a while. In fact, tell her you don't waht to see her in your house. Observe her for 2 weeks and see if there's any change.

erenax:
Does ladies like slim guys? Am a slim guy actually

As long as your pocket is not slim...

This is one of the mist foolish postulations I've ever read.

Nwodosis:
For those of you asking the worth of Efe, Efe is now worth 75m and two brand new cars in the waiting! Don't be an enemy of progress, join the train in making this dream a reality.

I'm happy for him. Entertainment pays.

Fonereporters:
They tot they were dealing with GEJ then

They better thank Trump..... . I hope they see how his policies are affecting Nigeria

Angeleyez0811:
no 1 is seeing the man as a saint. and didnt u see the part where the woman was begging the boss for money

But that lady's advice is disastrous..

Mznaett:
@Vislabraye,read @Freewoman's comment and tell me what you think.
Morning.

Every damn d!ck crucifying the op's wife while the boss is seen as a saint?
I pity women

. I'm just reading this comment and I don't know whether to laugh, cry, shout or smh ! NL breeds so many garbages. Can you imagine that nonsense

Chai . Why expose cleavages when you've passed that stage.

Mznaett:
I'd like to mention you on a new thread...

Why another thread ?

illegalGangla:
Weti this opolo sorry op dey talk......a servant should do like His master...pastors should behave like Jesus...he was called a liar,prince of demons and so many names yet he didn't even say a word to defend himself.

Ibiyeomie na big maluu.
He is a liar
And God wet dey expose go expose am.....
Look him babas them which of then sue...?

If you no know wet in to talk op go dey watch African magic

We are talking about his rights as a citizen. He can choose or choose not to be defamed. We should look at it from the legal aspect.

enshi:
After making a distinction in national diploma computer engineering from a federal polytechnic the future looked as bright as laser Light..
With much enthusiasm and believe i proceeded to apply for direct entry into one of the Universities of science and technology to also pursue a degree in engineering..
As a result of the delay in the University admission process that year i couldnt wait till i was enlisted for the degree program so i applied to further with my higher national diploma in my former school. The Hnd admission came without delay and luckyly for me the admission with the University also came along and believe me i took both as a challenge and went through them successfuly..

Due to the gap between the two admissions i was able to run them concurrently. At This point no youth in nigeria could be assured of a brighter future than i was..

Again i made a distinction in higher national diploma and a second class upper in my B. Eng... All in computer engineering.

Mobilization for NYSC came through first at the polytechnic so i served with my hnd and with a distinction i was posted to a federal university... What other assurance do i need for a brighter future ahead...

DAYS OF AGONY

with a month to the end of my service year i already had my CV, cover letter and i was prepared to go out and showcase my abilities.
April 14th 2016 i was so happy to drop the khaki and the jungle boot and with a happy heart i headed home..

Firstly i started with the online applications and after some months i started submitting hard copies from company to company..

After six months my family started showing signs of being human after all and i tell you this is the quickest invitation To depression.. In two weeks from now, it would have been a year sadness, dashed hope and ofcourse loneliness.

To cut story short i am beginning to think that education, sound result, qualifications, and the promise of a better future via academics is just a mere mirage..

This days i find it difficult to let people know i am a graduate... They get to find out them selves later and the sorry face they put up is a killer to my self confidence

Borrowing airtime from mtn, cutting my hair twice a month, trekking has become the Best means of transportation, laughter has become ostentatious, the worst is i no longer attend church services cos my regular appearance in same clothes is making Me an officer...

I need help but hey suicide has never been an option and would never be... I know it wont be like this forever but who knows where the help can come from.... I speak english Yoruba and igbo fleuntly... And i dont mind relocation as i am available for Immediate consideration

Stop complaining too much. Things are not all yhat buoyant in the country. One year is long but people have spent longer. Just keep believing.

Mznaett:
Firstly,you aren't a cheat. The problem is from those guys who wouldn't mind disturbing one's peace just to accept them. It's not as if they have anything good to offer o I'm very sure @op must have told them she has a serious date already? But would they ever listen?
I'd advise you cut every ties you have with those guys if only you want the best for yourself o.
The way some guys react whenever they see the opposite sex is so disgusting... Tufia

. This is the most hilarious comment on relationship I've ever read. Or were you trying to be sarcastic ? It's just like some blaming his opponent for scoring against him.

Jengem:
Stupid threads like this is why bob risky, pretty mike, dat lightskin warri boy that sells cream, denrele and all the other homos are selling.

When men want to make themselves the prize...instead of developing themselves and attracting a prize. We are meant to woo women. I know naija girls can be full of themselves sometimes but get off your broke behind, get some money and they will comport.

Money and success is a language every Nigerian understands.

You can't say all the points are useless. And it would surprise you that it's not all about money or success. I realise that giving them too much attention can be counterproductive. The key is finding the balance.

Op, so una sef dey penetrate