jumpandpas: Since the military under GEJ refused to give him the copy that is with them, now that he is the president, what is stopping him from bringing it from the military to prove a point?. Are the military still stubborn to bring it?.
skypeme: Dear reasonable people on Nairaland, please I need your advise
My wife whom I love so much and also loves me too is entitled to 17.2% of my monthly income, my salary is 175kpm and she take 17.2% of this amount, yet she feels very uncomfortable with it
I pay the bills, buy food stuff every month and take care of our little baby girl
My baby girl does not take any local food, she takes only fresogold, tea and pap, the cost of fresogold is very high and she can consume 4tins in a month
My wife isn't not working yet she is still schooling and I pay all her fees,
I've never complaint of my duty as the head of the family yet she still feels unsatisfied with the 17.2% I give to her
Her primary duty in the house is to take care of our baby and prepare my dinner every week days and both break fast and dinner during the weekend
Recently I told her to take our baby to the hospital for treatment, our total bill was 11,500 naira but my wife suprisinly told me that the hospital bill is 22,700 naira which I immediately wired to her account
So I called the hospital to make inquiries about the exorbitant bill then I got to know that my wife inflated the hospital bill to 22,700 naira
I confronted her and she spoke to me very rudly I was not happy about this, I kept quite and didn't say anything about it again
I am thinking I should penalize her for her rude behaviour and the dishonesty she has melted on me
Will it be advisable not to pay her her monthly salary for two months ?
Will this correct her brain to default and what would possibly be the implication of doing this ?
She has not apologised and she has not seen anything wrong so far in what she has done
When you marry someone who isn't just working, but a student, you will have to bear plenty expenses. Marriage requires a lot of finance. Since the whole bill is on your head, you won't find it easy. 30k a month is quite much considering how much you earn, but it may not be enough cos she would need to buy clothes, shoes, transport, air time, course materials. That's why it's good to marry a wwoman that's working. As it is now, you need to be firm and tell her to cut her clothes according to her cloth.
TheFreeOne: Can this CPS and his daftus of a boss juxtapose 600 arms/ammunitions with the numbers of farms/properties destroyed and benue citizens killed so far and tell if it's not better to let his people be armed than allow them be continuously killed by Fulani militia terrorists?
Ok o man of peace continue.
By the time Fulani marauders makes total 'mince meat' of your people and you have no one to govern you'll understand the real definition laziness, cowardice and incompetency.
There are some foolish people who do not deserve a response. It grieves me to listen to such thrash . That governor is daft, as simple as that. Have you heard of herdsmen killing people in Ekiti state ?
kilokeys: dont mind those mofos... if you examine the 4 quadrants ; employed, self employed, investor, business owner..
you'll notice many pple are eager to join the bandwagon of being self-employed.. esp in a country with poor ROI.. where u dont much capital to do anything.. at the end of the day.. most self-employed pple barely get by. the dont have the time, money , rest, experience most gainfully employed pple have.
and who told them you cant be gainfully employed and run a business ( with staff) and still do things after u leave ur office?
Some people are just daft. They think they know it all.
Growing up i knew i will never work for anyone in my life
I grew up in a little town in Anambra state, started packing blocks and building materials at construction sites, from there got the money to start buying motorcycle and reselling them, from there started going to China and the USA ,15 years later i Know how much i have in my bank account, no one gave me 5 naira
You live in Lagos, Onitsha, Aba and Lagos and you're still working for someone, you're lazy
Money is the easiest thing to do
Lazy people are the ones who take 9-5 jobs
Selling noodles can make you a millionaire, the question is how do i get the money to start my own business
Again, getting the money for your business is very very easy, i won't teach you what to do, it only takes you being smart and intelligent
Sell your phone for a higher price, buy another phone, flip it for a higher price till you graduate to flipping laptops from there you can graduate to buying stuffs from Alibaba
Money is the easiest thing to make
....but you have a business and employ "lazy" people. Don't worry, lazy people will crash your business.
But the bigger animals often pose a challenge to the carnivorous reptile as the above clip displays.
The footage shows a huge python wrapping itself around a lifeless antelope in the long grass.
With its prey freshly dead, the only struggle is finding the perfect part of the animal to start feasting on.
But the hungry snake makes the mistake of choosing the fallen antelope's head to chomp through.
And it doesn't go to plan.
While trying to open its jaws wide the python's mouth gets caught on the horns of its dinner. The snake recoils in shock as it struggles to rip its lips from the antlers.
For a moment it looks like the reptile's face might get turned completely inside out.
But the python manages to pull its jaws free and quickly slithers off into some bushes to avoid any further dinner drama.
abdeiz: My fellow nairalanders, I'm a Muslim corper from one of the states in the north central serving in a state in the east.
I'm have a conundrum right now, I was lucky to have the opportunity to change my ppa to a new one because of reasons. I have finally gotten a new ppa but the problem is the accommodation provided for me has a dead person buried in it and I do not feel comfortable at all with that(obviously).
The new ppa have claimed that there isn't any other accommodation left which I highly doubt, problem is they furnished the room and provided other miscellaneous just for me to make my stay very comfortable and I'd feel bad if I turn them down.
I decided to wait till when the next set of Corpers are passing out leaving vacancies abound but my cash situation is tight and I can't wait further.
Note: I could accept them and enjoy the place until I get a another new ppa which I'd have peace of mind but I have conscience and I can't do such.
OR
I should reject the new ppa and manage my current ppa with its damning conditions, exercise patience and suffer for a while till I get a better place?
If you believe in GOD, no harm will befall you. I, personally won't feel comfortable in such house but no harm will come upon me. I believe in the supernatural. And yes it is possible for such house to be haunted. But if you have faith in God, it's not an issue.
jeffizy: [color=#004400] Ma, how many lips have you kissed.? Saying something is the best means you're comparing it with others. #mindyourwords #troublefinder Lol. [/color]
EternalBeing: Tackle it medically first, and spiritually. Go for medicals and if they said it not a medical problem, the earlier you go to MFM Church for Deliverance to fire that arrow of impotence back to the sender the better for you. Excesive mastubation caused this permanent damage. Sex is addictive and it has been scientifically proven that excesive sex make people duller and less productive. devil knows this and use this to waste so meny glorious Destinies. There are 2 bloods in Man; the red blood cell erythrocytes carries life-oxygen, the white blood cell lymphocytes carries your protection and defence (spiritually too). Spam is cells; white blood cell. The more you waste it unnecessarily, the more defenceless you (and your Glory) become to microbes and even spiritual scavengers. I've not seen any one that genuinely totally submitted to GOD and regret it later, unless those self-deceiving Christians. Like myself, most of my genuine Christian mates are doing fine now. Unless you are married, abstainance makes you spitually Strong and invincible. To run away from sin is not a favour to GOD but a sure protection for your Glory and Destiny.
What happens when you have frequent sex with your husband/wife ? Will you become duller s you postulate ? There's only one blood in man but there are two types of blood CELLS. Haba
I don't know whether you meant to say sperm or spam. As in spam mail ? So spam or sperm is white blood cell . Na wa. Na wetin I no go hear ?
Franzinni: Sir as a married man myself it is hard to not come accross issues like this, the first thing is it is obvious your marriage is boring... Secondly you seem to have let let go of a lot of things that makes her happy in the first place.... Everyone cheats it could be physical or just a fantasy... You need to lay the cards on the table and let her know how you are hurt... Ask what is wrong and how it can be fixed let her know a fling is always just that but the effect ripples for generation lastly give her the benefit of a doubt but if she doesn't change....
DUMP HER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Life is too short for none sense.... Unless you can endure and in that case garri done pass water....
I was wondering if that was the advice you are giving him. Dumping her is not a bad idea since she's still bent on cheating.
ogtavia: bro,i never said that I feel no sympathy for her,far from it....however 14 isnt too young to take a decision for yourself,...its because of this kind of thinking we have immature adults..twenty - somethings who think,act and behave like teenagers or like my friend Yuneehk will put it...overgrown babies...what you should have probably said is at that age and her surrounding circumstance,she needed a mentor or a mature adult to navigate the difficulty of that period,..the real problem isn't the fact that she became a prostitute,the problem lay in her poor choice,who knows what other terrible thing would have happened to her...look 14 isnt too young to take a decision for her life,if I remember, she was a secondary school graduate..permit me to use that word graduate...at 14...she should have at least a faint picture of the future she wants for herself..
My brother can you put yourself in her shoes for a minute? At age 14, where were you and what did you go through ? I'm sure your parents were taking good care of you. You ate what you like, your father or mother would have mentored you into the adult you are now. The only mentor this young girl had was a prostitute. Most Nlanders are too judgemental. The only problem I will have with her is if she chooses to remain in that profession.
mccoy47: Mtchewww! Silly girl! Boo huu! So what if u wia raped! Is the prostitution justified? Oprah Winfrey was raped too at a young age and yet she went on to become one of the most powerful women the world has known!
Better wake up from ur slumber and find something to do with ur life! Nobody cares about what u'v been tru. Ur failure in life won't be excused!
It's not yet over for her. She can still make it. We should try to be compassionate to others. You've not been in her shoes before. It's not fair to start comparing her to Oprah.
neoclassical: I woke up this morning with the news that FCSC has shortlisted lists of successful candidates in the ongoing recruitment exercise by the Commission in various Federal Ministries.
Succinctly, I have a friend who studied Business Administration with 3rd Class, while I have Msc and Bsc (2.1) all in Economics. Both of us applied for the same position (SGL 09) in the Ministry of Trade & Investment. Perhaps, to my greatest perplexity, this guy's name was shortlisted while mine was conspicuously missing. Just a few minutes ago he opened up to me that the father made "some calls" on his behalf prior to this time.
For your information, we are of the same age bracket, applied for same position, from the same State. So what criteria could have been used to disqualify someone with Msc and Bsc (2.1) and someone with a 3rd Class was selected.
Holding other factors constant, I am so happy for him and I am so expectant that mine is coming. But this has kept me in an awe position, as the whole scenario depicts lack of correlation between merit and success in this entity called Nigeria.
WHAT A COUNTRY? So help us God!
Thank God for your friend. 2:1 is good but does it mean every 2,1 graduate is necessarily better than everyone else ? Some people buy grades, you know! I've also seen a situation where a 3rd class graduate performed better than 2,2 and 2,1 in aptitude test. However, having a 2: 1 is better cos you have a lot of advantage. Try oil company, KPMG or any multi nationals.
HonOlagrace: Its my first time working officially after Nysc, so I don't no if it's a crime to fall sick?
I fell sick(Malaria) on Wednesday around 9am@work,was able to manage myself till 1:30pm when my colleagues told me to go home when I couldn't cope. Got permission from the school's HM and left;was admitted at the hospital so I couldn't go to work yesterday but went today aganist the doctor 's advice that I still need to rest. Got to work today and was told that I was fired because I fell sick and was absent for a day & half.
My Question is, Is it a crime to fall sick when employed?
They're not worth working for. To hell with some of these private organisations.
Lawlahdey: I'll be rooting for leicester city cuz they are the only EPL club still in the competition. And I want Real Madrid out for real. They won it last season, they cannnuh make history this year.. NO.
And well... if leicester city doesn't make it, I will be rooting for my fav La'liga club, Athletico Madrid.
When you begin watch football ?
. I'll support Bayern to win. Just love them. Leicester won't go pass A. Madrid, but that's football.
Family › Re: I Feel My Father -in -law Is Trying To Control Me by vislabraye(m): 4:56am On Mar 25, 2017
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. It happens. U can give your 1st born as first fruit too.
