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Shollypopz: This is not judging oooo, it's a fact! The girl's mind has been toyed with by whatever man domineering environment she grew up in. It's very sad

when she starts typing with her slave like mentality. SMH!

Now this makes you stu.pid! Men don't mess with me! When I talk they listen! I'm independent, but I don't see it as a medium to challenge men! If you meet me one on one you will shut the fuc.k up (sexkillz excuse my language).

A real woman understands the difference between a man and a woman, so grow up and stop being a lousy foo.l.

Shollypopz: This vivian chinaza girl is in serious mental bondage...... SMH!

Lol, oh no baby, you are the one who is delusional. Be realistic for once.

sexkillz: [color=#000030]Mr pastor Whoever, with all due respects, shut tha fark up!
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I hate it when women cheat!!! Nd I don't understand why I prefer to see a man see to that of a woman! If I'm a man and my woman cheats, she will be out on her bony azz.

Men are men, the sooner we understand that telling a man not to be a man is like telling a rainbow not to be colourful the better for us. I'd dump a man than cheat on him. Well, that's my opinion.

I hate tattoo!

I can allow my partner to help me, i.e we do it together once in a while not that I will be in the bedroom sleeping, unless I'm very sick. I love it when I'm the kitchen and my man comes to help me, it weakens me kinda, in a good way.

However, this shouldn't be an opportunity to turn the man into a house help.

ichidodo: HEY PROUD WOMAN, WHAT'S HAPPENIN? HOW U DOIN?

How are u? I'm doing great, thank you.

I'm so proud to be a woman!!!! Tho its been very challenging, but I thank God for the woman I have become.

tomakint:
wao i kinda love the last line, wish you the best! sweet you

Thank you dear. God bless you.

ghettodreamz: @OP;
You sef fvck up, nah legswagen you carry go ask her for direction? No be new levels na, na wetin de sup with naija gals. Some go even look you like say no be God create you n waka commot ur side (bragging on top nothing)like say u wan woo them. Some de wey get brain among dem sha, dem go respond politely.

But no gock am padi,if you baff up wella or de inside car wit baddest AC,correct car perfume plus cerious gbedu wit confirm hiphop selections wey de vibrate like say u de inside club. Who born the girl well? Na just make u pull over for her side,roll down the passenger's side door window and see whether she no go use big smile welcome you or not. Most of those girls wey de form too much nah dem worst pass, make u no talk sef she go use eye take communicate you so tay you sef go forget say na direction u b wan ask her in d first place. Some go even wan carry u go d address wey u be de find sef.

For naija most of those gals wey form past na dem come from ghetto past. Hous wey be say u go need bend ur head before u go fit enter their room aka Face me,I slap you

This will attract only Jss 1 teenage girls.

Will definitely do the three.....traditional marriage could be low keyed, court and then church wedding. Not necessarily a fairy tale wedding. We will plan it according to what we can afford. When I think of the day I'd get married, I usually picture myself in a lovely wedding gown.

chucky234: You are on a long thing because one oyinbo sisi don tie your bobo down for yankee,you better apply for US visa now oooo

True talk o my brother, my ex stays in US, while I was here being faithful to him, he was busy sleeping with all the girls in san pablo, california. See those yankee guys (most), forget them. Anything outside this naija country, COUNT ME OUT!

Ayorh4you: singles dnt have partners. U cnt hv a partner n stl b single. Simple English

Its either you are single or married! No other status is official even if you have a girl/boyfriend. Pray for understanding when next you go to church.

Ladies buying things like weavon, clothes, gold, shoes, etc on credit has become the order of the day. Its no longer news that when you meet some ladies, factor all they are putting on it runs into thousands of naira but most of all these accessories are acquired on credit basis.

I remember the day I went to a shoes plaza to get a pair of sandals, I met a lady who selected shoes worth 105k, I thought she wanted to resell them but she told me they were for her personal use. I envied her.....I was like "oh vivian, when will you have this kind of money to buy shoes worth this much at once." I now sat down and was looking to see when she brings out the bundle of money to pay and to my utter most surprise, she brought out 4k and deposited. I really found the situation funny.

The truth is most things some ladies own have not been paid for. As a guy, do you have problem with this lifestyle? Ladies why do some of us buy things on credit? Is it normal? Or being greedy?

Pls let's interact...........thank you.

Are you not the squirt woman on sexuality section?

fluid26: Do not wait. He may not come. Go out and look for him.

What if she finds him here and distance puts a barrier?

DailyNews: Hmm, dnt let him go just like that...dnt just take advice from ppl u dnt knw, dnt even knw if they want good for u. its ur life, pls think critically & do sit down with him...be his frnd, that will give u more room to advice him without fear. pls n pls always zip up no matter what, if u dnt, ur respect is gone & he may hardly value ur advice & will believe ur after his wallet & just pretending to be a good person by advising him to stop spending like he do. zip up at all cost, but dnt push him out, be his frnd. stop taking ppls advice in all things, God gave u wisdom, & u can as well introduce him to certain professional counseling on financial mgt, & also draw him closer to God, yes I said God cos any true God fearing man knws how to spend even when he has it in excess thats y its good to be very close to God

Lol, ok my relationship with him has nothing to do with intimacy. I have tried to advise him but to no avail. For instance, the day he made that over 1m commitment we talked about it and I was supposed to go to the seminar with him but couldn't cos I had to be in school and phiam he went and wrote them a cheque against what we discussed, for what? For just pleasure? He had a car, so why in a rush to buy a new one when there were already uncompleted projects. I'm a financial manager,.....if he doesn't take advise from me, then who will he take it from? Honestly, I can't babysit him that way.......

slimyem: Being with one of such men and have one as a friend at the moment...
All my attempts to tame or manage the extravagance was fruitless.Even when i tried taking charge of his money,he would always come back to ask for it as soon as he went broke.
Sometimes i won by insisting i wasn't letting him have it and sometimes,i lost.
He just never changed.He would spend the money as it comes and wouldn't care what happens tomorrow..
Trying to work on my friend who's like that too and so far..it hasn't produced results.he has simply told me he cant change and i should stop bothering.
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Grown men hardly ever change and its a sad truth.
You could try Pendo,Dayokanu or Pro01's idea....it might work for you.
Goodluck!!!

Thanks babe! I can't go with Pro01,s advice. Since there is nothing I can do, I will just have to let him go.

DailyNews: I didn't say u are stingy, but I am trying to let u know what u can change in him & what u cnt change, I hope u got my msg ryt?


Maybe u dnt know, most rich guys love to marry stingy & conservative ladies to help them chase unwanted family members away while they stay in d background acting innocent I am talking from experience, I do most times when I comment. So not saying u are stingy plz.

Ok.