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Some men get bored easily ok, I don't know why but it just happens! Be nice and distant..........he might come around but if he doesn't? Drink a glass of red wine and suck it up!

Idowuogbo: @op
I rada make my trad wedding d Big Deal, den move on to do a marriage blessing afterwards. Simples!!

You know people get brain washed when they are ignorant of the law and how it works!

Traditional marriage is equally binding, cos generally accepted customs are laws.

In fact, the only reason I'm gonna do a white wedding is just to present my marriage before God, have my old man walk me down the aisle in my ever lovely gown. Then cut my 10 tiers wedding cake.

Period!

Idowuogbo: Rice ke? I prepared d most luxurious food in town, u go chop eba?

Mehn, you head dey there!.....I be bird wey dey chop rice? Abeg carry the eba come jare *make I go wash my hands* I hope say enough bumps dey the soup?

Idowuogbo: Hey! Now dats personal! Me no likey at all... She stated her stance on dis particular topic, and u busy using her opinions in previous threads to mock her? Stop it! I don't like it.

Babe what's up? You cook rice?

Depending on the name he called, if its another woman's name, I would flash a smile, turn to my family and friends and apologise for the stress the supposed wedding must have caused them, wish the guy good luck and walk away.....with my head so high!

Reason: I can't be with a man whose heart is with someone else!

Do whatever marriage you choose to do, none of them immune you to uncertainties............

As for me, Traditional and white wedding all the way! Court wedding is optional..........

fresh_dude: I'm surprised to hear this from a female, the court case seals the status. You don't get dumped frivolously.

First of all, why would I go into marriage thinking of divorce or what I'd get out of the divorce?

Second of it all, when a church is lawful, as in incorporated, its certificate is binding! Take for instance, the catholic church.

Take a journey to welfare offices and you will shut up on court marriage makes it hard for you to get dumped. When a man makes up his mind to dump you? There is nothing any one can do about that, some men value their peace of mind to material things.

Lastly, if I really do something that warrants a man dumping me, fine and my bad, I'd take the blame for that, bear the consequences for my action and suck it up! But if he just decides to dump me for no reason? HIS LOSS!

Like seriously?

Honestly I don't give a rat's azz about court marriage unless the guy insists........Traditional and White wedding all the way!

Angered. = cry, do chores (get busy).
Bored. = movies, music, talk to friends.
Frustrated. = pray, sing.
Stressed. = sleep, hit the club afterwards.

No.

My dear, let the money go for the sake of the love you guys shared. Take it as one of those things you did for love.

@legacy_systems; lol..........i dont know what to say to you, honestly.

legacy_systems: Whats Up with these advertising by the trio of these after market babes (Candieangel12 and Vivian chinaza and freecocoa). Its best to hookup in ur neighborhood not on ...

Onye nke a osikwa na obu gini biko nu? Pls define advertising?

blaise26.abj:
Yes ma'm. But how do i make u aware that i misunderstand you without quoting you? Help me get it untwisted.

Ok, like I said, I play by my own rules......... My friends are my friends, it doesn't matter who calls first ok.
But when a potential toaster (if I may call him that) collects my number and intentionally waits for a month before he calls me? He shouldn't bother! To me its childish!

So would a guy that just want to be friends with me bother about being tagged "desperate?"


I love communication ok, in as much as I like you I'm gonna call you often and I won't get tired of you calling me, then if a guy gives it another definition and I find out.....I'm so dumping him!

blaise26.abj:
then i take it that whenever a guy asks for your number, he wants a relationship with you.

@OP: well, i'm so guilty of that. I am forever a busy person. I wld rather say one or two things on bb and close "shop" for the day. No long thing. Come to think of it, i have some numbers i haven't called yet.

Guy don't get it twisted ok? Don't quote me if you don't understand me.

ikekings: Dearest.. Nice morning... How was your night?

Spent every second of it thinking about you. Wished I could rest my head on your chest while I listen to your heart beat.

ikekings: Lol... You must be sitting on a long tin... I will take her to the altar this december... Signed and sealed... ...

My love, good morning.

freecocoa: Can I have your account details?

Lol...

ambrosini593: . B4 nko. Abi halla me jor. U neva can tell o

Lol........ok I will holla. But don't take it to heart o.

freecocoa: Use your mind's eye imagine the rest jare, it was fun afterwards sha

Lol........Oh no! Don't wanna do that! Hope you understand why?

Double194: Its all bout the maturity, the more U tryna call, the more desperate U seem. If U finally call, 'em go form ignorance but bros na wash, 'em they feel U die.

Must there be a rule in everything one does? Well, I don't play by someone else's rule! I make my own rules.
If a guy collects my number and intentionally waits for like a month before he calls me, he is so not worth it! Cos I don't wanna be in a relationship where I will have to play mind games with a man all the time.

freecocoa: As in eh, I remember one guy I met on my trip back from Abuja, the dude was so fine, intelligent and his accent and command of the english language almost turned me on in the bus, he collected my digits but didn't call, after 3 weeks I started wishing I had collected his, after a while I forgot about him only to get a call 2 months after the trip together. Well he apologized and explained that he was out of the country that's why he didn't call. I just form vex small sha come later mellow.

Babes download me the full gist na........as in you know na *winks*

ambrosini593: . Let me help u. I live at kpansia before jasmine hotel n suite. But please come with money nd I hope u re beautiful as well. Just in case. Halla at me 08030973195

Lol..........hmmmm you dey find fine woman abi? You try wella, lol! nah, left yenagoa already. Ain't coming back till the flood dries off.......

Thank you.

freecocoa: You dey do am wella, you know the way

Babes, its so annoying!

freecocoa: It can be annoying o I no go lie(especially when he's cute and classy) but when he eventually calls, I don't sound mad or anything, I even feign being ignorant of who's on the other end.

After letting the phone ring like forever............

Donalð Genes: Come sleep for our house ok! Don't worry you will be just ok.com

I hope say u no go give me ribena? Ok, drop your address na.......hope say you ready to accommodate me till January? Cos the flood in my house......I don't just know......I try so hard not to think about it. So oya drop am sharperly.

Thank you!!!!

ikekings: Good dear.. And yours? I missed you more...

Alright gorgeous......we will talk tomorrow. Kinda feel sleepy.............. Sweet dreams baby.

ikekings: Lose you? ... That won't happen... I'm now cautious...

So how was ur day? I really missed you.

ikekings: Not at all... I'm all yours now...

All mine now? What about then? I don't even know what to say to you............baby be careful o, I won't forgive again o unless you wanna lose me.

ikekings: Lol... Where have you been?

I guess Itsmodella is the reason you haven't seen me all this while abi?

ikekings: Dude she dumped me... She was once on my list... But, not now... You can have her... I'm recovering from the trauma I went through, when she dumped me..

Hhmmmm, I see.