₦airaland Forum

You know an urchnn by how he tries to deflect the monumental failure of his party APC whenever economic indices are being discussed.

They want us to believe that every country in the world prospered from 1999-2015 and every country stagnated from 2015-date.

Bassstrds!

latonione:
You know great country with great leader during the time of abundant. What are the legacies built during those time that last century I.e Awolowo era. So, what are the legacies when Nigeria had the money is the hallmark of great leader. If we can't build or repair refineries during the time of boom says a lot about those leaders, which consequence brought the whole country to her kneel decade after.

You must be either a simp or a female hiding behind a male moniker.

There is NOTHING the young man mentioned that wasn't part and parcel of African Home Training not long ago.

Nothing he mentioned was abnormal in The Western world in the 50s.

That most women are lazy, argumentative and entitled nowadays does not change the fact that these qualities he mentioned were once the norm not too long ago.

Are you not even ashamed that these little requirements is what is tormenting you like this?

abhosts:
Save yourself the stress. Just go and manufacture the robot you are looking for.

Considering that you were never and will never be his supporter- who are you to speak on behalf of his supporters?

Speak for yourself and the urchnns you know.

The millions that came out to vote Obi in February will be joined by millions who manage to survive the hunger, deprivation and famine that APC will have spread across Nigeria by 2027

Slytiger:
Obi would get less vote than he got in 2023. He has lost more supporters than he had in the last election.

Stop wasting your energy.

She will never go to jail.

She belongs to a chosen tribe.

Calls are being made on secure lines.

Don't be surprised that the Oga at the Top had been informed she is not coming but did not tell the foot soldiers.

All these theatrics are just to keep the masses busy.

She won't spend a night in jail

Ola9ja23:
Wrath of law will catch up with her soon


The curses on her head is too heavy for her to escape

Werey woman

I know one must be daft to be an APC supporter but must you make your own case so obvious?

This project has been on for years.

Any person with an IQ of 70 will know that this precede this govt.

I guess that identifies where you belong

seeme2:
Jagaban, father and developer of Iboland !

A daft statement from an ignorant one.

"As long as I'm concerned...."

Why haven't you gone into it since it's a very lucrative business?

Instead of you to investigate what happened, you are assuming what you have no knowledge of.

VIKTO83:
When people do bad business they attribute it to government policies.
Syringe and needle business as long as I'm concerned is a very lucrative business.
If u investigate well now u will find out they did bad business.

This is a loaded with uncommon common sense.

CaveAdullam:
The average person lacks self-awareness, knowledge, and wisdom. Because building these virtues and values takes a long time.

A woman earning more than her man in the process of a relationship ought not to be a problem. But the average woman doesn't think beyond the first layer of her head. Hence, many become obnoxious and treat their husbands with disdain and disrespect.

Women want to be with men higher and better than them. Once a woman senses that she's better than you in one or two areas, resentment and disrespect start breeding in her heart.
Because she sees you as a leader, and expects you to operate from a higher dimension. You operating below her scares her evolutionary wiring - that you are a man who can't protect and provide for her kids in dire moments.

These challenges men face with women have led men into the field of innovations and different wonders. The burden of performance is always upon the man. The woman wants that assurance that she is with the right man.

Relationship isn't a competition. It ought to be two people working together to achieve a particular goal.

However, in sexual relationship, men must be ahead of their woman in all ramifications. It breeds respect, ensure the stability of the relationship, and gives the woman an assurance.

Men that have their women ahead must work hard to pass them and maintain first position. It isn't by pulling her down, treating her badly, subtle jealousy, subtle hate, and acting macho.

It is him going back to the strategy board to plan better ways and win his game. After all, it is his duty to lead his family, and by so must remain at the forefront.

It's easier to tell women to maintain submissions, modesty, and humility when they are on top and earning more than their husbands than for said women to deliberately act that same way.

Only advice for this women is to help stimulate their husbands in getting to the top. Not by anger, henpecking, nagging, subtle jabs, and negligence. But by love and humility.

It will not be easy. But it is possible. Because a woman wants to see her man at the top and it gives men joy to be at the top.

Thanks.

So Sim is ipob.

Where do all these dummies come from?

Is there a factory where they are produced?

Whalis:
Wike won IPOB again!

Name 5 other ministers doing well.

And mention what they have done in over 6months

Tunji-Ojo is the only one doing well and he is doing excellently well.

The rest are mostly garbage

Depriest2020:
One of the reasons I love Tinubu is because people he employs always perform. I know his ministers will do well.

If you had integrity you would have ended it after the first meal but your greed kept you going back for more.

We will soon find you on a thread attacking men who sleep with girls but don't marry them whereas you are the female equivalent of such.

Hypocrite

Animegirl:
So, there's a man who wants me to be his wife. Honestly, he possesses the qualities of a good husband, but I can't deny that I don't find him attractive. Despite my efforts, I can't seem to develop feelings for him. Seeing his face makes me angry, even though he treats me well and spends generously. His height and face are a deal-breaker for me. If I accept his proposal, I know it will cause pain, but no matter how rude I've been, he won't let go. I'm considering running away from my community altogether. I don't want him to know my parents; otherwise, I'm done.

That's Mission Impossible that is too difficult for even Tom Cruise sef

wis3:
Refund everything he has ever spent on you

Another ignorant one has spoken.

The first sign that you have never read anything historical about the Hamas issue is when you start bleating Two State solution.

Hamas was founded to wipe out Israel and they said so in their founding charter which I know you haven't even bothered to read.

Hamas have no interest in a two state solution. That's something ignorant Democrats and Africans talk about.

Pls open a history book, it won't bite you.

So much history is online now.

What's your excuse?

Gandrova:
They can kill their members, but they can't kill ideology because it's deeply rooted.
Two state for Palestine is the only solution.

Your own candle can never gain light when you try to switch off that of another.

Name the councillors in your state that provided 800 street lights at once.

If not, you will remain in darkness

Badgers14:
Street light from a senator is now celebrated??

Street light is a councilor level project... senators have bigger budgets for constituency projects and she should do more for her constituency.

Thief catch thief.

No big deal

DeLaRue:
Suspended for misappropriation after just 2 months of appointment?

What an embarrassment she has caused her family, and those who lobbied for her to get the role.

Thank God we now have a proactive President.

It's hilarious reading something and knowing that the person that wrote it believes they have said something witty whereas they have typed crap.

Nigeria is currently 40-80yrs behind the developed world in terms of technology and human development. In terms of democratic maturity we are 100yrs+ behind the West

The developed world is still moving forward but you are saying that people will be looking for visa to come to Nigeria in 30yrs time.

You don't even know how silly that is.

Countries like Ghana and Rwanda are making themselves visa free now to most foreigners which will boost tourism and business prospects while you are thinking backwards to make Nigeria more difficult to visit by even Diasporans in the future

You sound like an APC supporter.

Also, what you are even implying is that all Europe, Canada, US etc will stand still and wait for Nigeria to advance and overtake them?

Hahahaaha

How daft!

nothingspoil70:
Let all our youths japa so the Chinese can take over this country and turn it to paradise.
In twenty or thirty years time, the japa people and their children will be applying for visas to japada to Naija, this I have seen

And yet Olamide is a Yoruba.

Your school fees was wasted and your parents are regretting it.

They would have gained more if they used the money training you to set up a farm.

accordadoga28:
Hehehehe

In Yorubaland, we don't wake up our elders with sidekicks.

We are not like some people from one region who lack home training because their stubborn great-grandfathers died like rats and couldn't live to train them

Happy New Year All

But your love for men who used their mothers for rituals to become rich knows no bounds

Jennyclay:
The heart of a broke man is dangerously wicked and evil .

My hatred for broke men knows no bounds.

Typical African mentality.

You are one of those that think that setting someone up in business is all that is needed for the person to be successful.

You don't need to learn customer service, no need to be polite to customers, you don't need accounting training, you don't need recruitment skills, you don't need money mgmt skills.

Just get someone to pay for and stock up a shop and all will be well.

Joke

UnfairLife7:
You didn't see where he said he plans to set her up after marriage? no be everybody go marry i beg to apply woman

If you think all woman are the same as the girl then you are deluded.

Woman are in ranges on a spectrum.

The best are well brought up, have home training, have a strong work ethic, are value adders, are honest, respectful and embrace your family.

Those are very few

The worst are like the OPs girlfriend.

shortgun:
It's logical to tell you to leave the girl or run for your life....but to who?
The experience you are having is just how women behave, you won't find a better one anywhere!
The only ones who will appear to be better are those who will pretend but will later show their true colours.
Any man who has made up his mind to get involved with a woman must be ready to put up with their nature and illogical dramas or just stay single.
You are even lucky she doesn't get angry with you cos you are cheating on her in her dreams.

The areas where I see you lacking is in dominance and assertiveness; you need to dominate her to conquer her.

You require comprehension skills.

Nowhere did the girl state that he does not look after his daughter.

That emanated from your wild imagination.

She is claiming him for marriage.

He says they no longer have no relationship outside of co-parenting.

You seem to have some trauma that you haven't dealt with

Taribizy:
What does the man mean "she is just my baby mama?" They both have a child together and he hopes to just walk away like he doesn't know he is supposed to take care of his daughter? Truth be told the new wife may be laughing now but will be crying soon enough. Baby mama my foot.

Advice to young ladies will be marry first before giving birth to children to reduce headache and stress.

Advice to young guys is if you cannot marry her pls leave her as you met her to live long and avoid curses

This is why people fail exams after requesting extra sheet.

The question was prioritise one of three elements.

You prioritized 5 elements but only included two out of the required 3.

Chaiii

ednut1:
Finance 65%
Romance 25%
Common sense 10%
Contentment 5%
Patience 5%

It's not easy being a govt apologist.

This announcement is a revelation of mediocrity.

Part of the bridge has been closed down for months now.

Why wasn't that time used to do these repairs simultaneously?

Mediocrity sees nothing wrong in doing one thing after another when both things could have clearly been tackled within the very same time frame.

buygala:
Trust Nigerians to criticise the Governement for trying to ensure that any part of the bridge doesn't collapse, thereby claiming casualties

If the Government folds its hands until the bridge collapses killing many, the same Nigerians will say the Government isn't living up to responsibility.

Considering the heavy vehicular traffic on that bridge, including static load of vehicles on it during hold-ups, it's not hard to figure out why the Government has to ensure that there is no funny business regarding the bride's structural integrity

Nigerians are very hard to please

This your last statement should be stamped on the visas of all who are relocating. It is pure gold

INTEGRITYA1:
The suspect stated that he relocated to the UK a month ago and has a three-month-old child.

Physical relocation is meaningless if mindset didn't change for better.

There is a reason why no woman has ever made a mark in the field of critical thinking and logic.

Even Philosophy has no female giants.

Your post is bereft of even the most fundamental common sense.

You foolishly come to a forum where there are at least half a million men and women who are more intelligent than you and claim that most men are perverts without any studies to show same.

Not concluded with your stupidity you now equate the observation made by many men that this woman is a rare breed with your foul conclusion below.

Let me inform you as I suspect your father slept with you as a child, pls take note that he represents an infinitesimal proportion of fathers.

He was sick and I feel sorry for you. But to tar all men with your father's brush is plain stupid.

I do not know whether his action against you has inhibited your ability to reason but I advise you seek professional help as you come across as very far gone

We4all:
In other words, women should never leave their female daughters alone with their fathers since the few decent men that exist doesn't negate the theory that most men are perverts.

You tried to sound smart but to anyone who has driven around the East and seen the harvest of the decades long neglect by successive govts will see your post fkr what it truly is.

And before you mentioned Second Niger bridge.

Note that it was purposely designed to be so low to ensure ships are unable to pass under

It's actually a master stroke against the East, ensuring that Ships will never be able to follow the River Niger to berth in Anambra or the surrounding SE states

OKUCHI11:
I want to ask... All these people doing agitations in the SOUTH EAST...


when you are filling a form and it gets to nationality .... What country do you fill in...


A. Nigeria B. Biafra C. Zoo D. Stateless

What a pointless post!

Why the dick measuring contest?

Who called for comparison now?

DyingFetus:
The 3D printed pistol by cord is more deadly than a Glock

Aren't you even a little bit ashamed that this post is making people reel with shock at the woman's joy in the midst of deprivation.

If this was the norm, would this be a story?

If this wonderful woman did what most Nigerian women did, would there be such an uproar?

Is it not this same Nairaland where entitled woman come and declare how many cars a man should have before he is ready for marriage.

Why are you so illogical in your thought processes?

Anyway, may God who has brought them this far take them to greater heights.

May she encourage other young women to emulate her and may he encourage other young men to stick to the lady who stuck with them when they were poor and wretched.

In Jesus name

Benbisco:
All the men on nairaland that have concluded that Nigerian ladies are nothing to write home about and are a complete waste of time, because thier antenna dey only get reception only near men with fat wallets, una don see this post?

This ignoramus who belongs to the religion that claims to be peaceful but kills people everywhere it goes.

You haven't freed Palestine from it's Billionaire rulers who all live far away in safety in Qatar?

Hahahaha.

The 4 top leaders of Hamas are worth a collective $11B.

Money they stole from aid sent to Gaza.

Shame on you and your ilk

CoronaVirusPro:
One thing is certain, Palestinians will be free from the river to the sea!

It happened in South Africa, and here we are today!

An epistle written by an ignorant one.

You have no idea in hell what an Alpha male even is!

Correction. You do, as you and your classmates swooned whenever one walked past you when you were back in school and you surrendered your virginity to one who probably abandoned you when he was done.

But you are still angry at all Alpha males especially now as none have your time again and you see yourself ending up with a simp.

Take heart.

You are not the only one who suffered at the hands of an Alpha Male

dominique:
Before we conclude or judge, we need to hear the other side of the story. Alfa mails have taught me how important the other side of the story is. Oga Tony see your life outside. These men don't ever learn. Stay in one place, mba. See as he has brought trauma to his family at a period they should be celebrating the festivities. No RIP to waste on randy man.

Yes this is me victim shaming, can you Alfa mails see how horrible it looks if the tables are turned?