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FamilyRe: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by Wallade(m): 6:25pm On Dec 29, 2019
There is a build up of negative emotions and perhaps anger in your husband over time towards you. The fact that he was good with you prior to the display of anger and beating does not mean the negative emotions were not there.

You must have been complaining about his choice of clothes in the past, that wasn't the first time you selected clothes for him to wear and he objected or complained and that is part of the negative emotions that was built up. You provoked the emotions by repeating the behaviour of picking clothes for him to wear.

However, he went for his own choice of clothes yet you despised and disapproved his choice yet again. That behaviour provoked him but he reluctantly went in to change his clothes.

You noted that he took close to an hour to change his clothes. He must have been fuming in there and trying to calm down. This should have been a warning sign to you but you overlooked it.

He came out with a different shirt but every other attire remained yet you went ahead to request a family picture and I can bet that you made a condescending, cheeky or disapproving comment in that situation. You might have been saying some negative comments behind his back when he was in the room and you felt he didn't hear you but he probably heard you. Think about it, maybe you forgot what you said or chose not to mention it to us.

I am sorry you got beaten by your husband on Christmas, that was not good behaviour from him and he knows it. That is why he is avoiding you afterwards because he is disappointed in himself, still sad about all you said and uncomfortable facing you.

Anyway, we need to create an environment where our spouse and kids feel comfortable, ease and less pressure around us. I don't like being too careful at home around my wife, it makes me tensed and prone to more errors. Let him wear whatever he is comfortable wearing to wherever, there are polite and pleasant ways of communicating your message to your husband and getting him to do your bidding without making him feel less of a human or despicable.

As per his current behaviour, be nice to him, keep cooking for him, pray for and with him. He will come around soon.

Best regards to your family.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: How Do I Handle This Issue At Work? by Wallade(m): 6:33pm On Dec 28, 2019
Jokerman:
I only shouted at the security man once coz I asked him to do something. He didn't coz I believe he's listening to talks. I have always asked him to flash my number when he doesn't understand something Buh he wouldn't... The next time I asked him to do something, and he refused blatantly, that's he's doing his job and his reason in front of other staff was that he didn't like the way I talked to him.. I wanted to call his company Buh my mom is saying I shouldn't although I would still change him

I feel he's feeling he's older than me, and I can't be ordering him around.

I stopped the collection of fees by this staff because they were using the money anyhow, borrowing other staff money and other people in the vicinity, so much it became a laughing stock. So when I assumed this post, I sent bulk messages to all our parents that school fees to any staff is stopped. Some found it hard to stop, hence why I introduced strictness

Now they go spoiling me this and that. I hear this stuff but I pay no attention to that. At my front, they behave, at my back, Na so so talk
I would suggest that you request the management of the security outfit to change that security staff that is involved in this confrontation:

"The next time I asked him to do something, and he refused blatantly, that's he's doing his job and his reason in front of other staff was that he didn't like the way I talked to him".

Going forward, avoid confrontations with staff and security staff. Gradually recruit new, quality and experienced staff at the rate of "one per term".

Be careful and respectful to older staff and maintain a cordial relationship with folks at work. Make conscious effort to make the environment conducive.
Christianity EtcRe: “Don’t Go About Eating All Over The Place This Season”- Dr Olukoya Warns by Wallade(m): 4:11pm On Dec 26, 2019
Calavagas:
I have watched with dismay the responses of people in here and I'm so disappointed in the attitude of some if not all here.

Irrespective of my denomination, I must say, this is not the way to address someone's assertion.

His way of discerning things is quite different from us except we/you have attended that level.

More so, Dr D.K Olukoya was ministering to his members worldwide and to people who holds to the doctrines of MFM.

Conclusion: No members of his has/have reacted negatively to these except people who holds different views. Until a situation drives you to MFM, We/you may never come to terms with what is going on. This man has heard and addressed a lot of atrocities all through his calling.
How are you certain about your conclusion?

Besides, we are discussing the celebration of Jesus Christ primarily not challenges that drives us all over. Is there any human without challenges in life?
Christianity EtcRe: “Don’t Go About Eating All Over The Place This Season”- Dr Olukoya Warns by Wallade(m): 2:50pm On Dec 26, 2019
Christmas is a period set aside to celebrate the birth of Jesus Christ. It is not necessarily the birthday of Jesus Christ but to remember how, why and when christ Jesus was born.

This period over the years adopted the spirit of love, sharing, giving, merrying and felicitation. It is a period when families, people and associates meet at gatherings and celebrate life upon recognition of the significance of Jesus and the gift He and God willingly gave us.

Rev. Olukoya is simply trying to communicate his unjust reason of not celebrating Christmas with the world. That is his own opinion but not everyone's opinion. God loves and approved celebration especially the celebration of a unique personality like Jesus Christ. I will celebrate the birth of Jesus Christ on Christmas even if I am a member of MFM Church.
RomanceRe: What Those Bashing Me Don't Know by Wallade(m): 6:11pm On Dec 25, 2019
The husband is not just gay, he is not committed to the marriage.

I am not certain that the marriage will work.
RomanceRe: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by Wallade(m): 9:52am On Dec 17, 2019
Freethought:
I know a lot of you are going to blaim me buh please let your message to me come with an advise. We are in a state of real...
Abort the pregnancy ASAP and go your separate ways despite the love. It is highly risky, I have a sister experiencing the same challenge in marriage and their first child is SS.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Post Abuja Jobs Here by Wallade(m): 7:51am On Dec 13, 2019
ammyluv2002:
grin grin grin grin grin grin
Missed you so much on this thread. Welcome back.
CelebritiesRe: Omotola Vs Eniola Badmus: Yvonne Jegede Reacts To Omotola Ekeinde’s Interview by Wallade(m): 4:48pm On Dec 11, 2019
queenitee:
“You mean the actress Eniola Badmus right” would have been better if truly she was trying to make
a connection between the Tv and the actress. And besides I believe whoever was interviewing her would have added Tv if she was referring to the Tv production company.


What am I saying? I didn’t watch the video but I believe the tone of her voice is also a determinant to
Know if she was trying to ridicule Eniola or it was just a a misconception. Again, it’s not always what we say but how we say it(the tone of our voice)


And besides, Someone somewhere would also be like “Who’s Omotola Ekeinde,” that’s life. So Eniola shouldn’t kill herself, she’s equally recognized by certain people. The rewarding thing is to make impact in life not fighting for recognition upandown. Your impact will bring you recognition.
If Omotola was quoted out of context, I expect that she would have seen these drama on social media about her comment and quickly issue a statement on her social media handles or pages to correct the impression, at least, and perhaps reach out to Enoiola to clarify her comment.

The fact that she hasn't said any rebuttal or correction means she was out to despise and spite Enoiola Badmos. Simple psychology.

However, that is so immature, cheap and despicable of Omotola Jalade Ekehinde. Anyway,
Omotola's time in the movie industry is far spent so she may be interested in starting controversies to remain relevant.
PoliticsRe: Garba Shehu Reacts To Punch Newspaper's Editorial by Wallade(m): 4:40pm On Dec 11, 2019
teadrake:
I don't quite agree with your submission. You'll agree with me that the late President Yaradua was a thorough bred and a progressive. His Presidency, though short lived was unarguably the best we've seen in recent time. And please it has nothing to do with Islam. Let's call it that
It is the especial nature of Major General Buhari to be tyrannical. He is naturally a dictator. Those who witnessed his rule in the 1980s can testify to his dictatorial and tyrannical tendencies.
PoliticsRe: Garba Shehu Reacts To Punch Newspaper's Editorial by Wallade(m): 4:34pm On Dec 11, 2019
Agboriotejoye:
What does saraki have to regret?
I put it to you that in the annals of the nation's history, saraki occupies a higher pedestal than Tinubu. He will always be remembered as a former president of the senate, while tinubu, except 2023 favours him will be known as a national leader, which is meaningless even to the party he claims to lead.
Tinubj will never preside over Nigeria as President!
PoliticsRe: Garba Shehu Reacts To Punch Newspaper's Editorial by Wallade(m): 4:30pm On Dec 11, 2019
Garba Shehu understood the reason The Punch chose to henceforth refer to Buhari as General Buhari.

However, to site the instances of Obasanjo and IBB in defence of General Buhari and refer to The Punch as being Partisan is simply ridiculous and annoying.

So many instances can be sited as General Buhari's disrespect, disregard and desecration of the judiciary and rule of law. The instances are unprecedented under a democratic system of government and he expects us to stay silent and watch him drive the nation aground and into dictatorship.

Garba Shehu should admonish his General Buhari to stop being tyrannical and subject himself to the democratic system that respects the rule of law. Nigeria is not under military regime just in case amnesia made him forget.
PoliticsRe: FIRS Workers Threaten Strike Over Fowler’s Handover To Abiodun Aina by Wallade(m): 2:29pm On Dec 11, 2019
Gaggi:
Semantics, as long as you understand what people imply.
It is a unique virtue to be able to accept corrections. I had to develop that virtue in life.
PoliticsRe: FIRS Workers Threaten Strike Over Fowler’s Handover To Abiodun Aina by Wallade(m): 2:10pm On Dec 11, 2019
Gaggi:
There is what is termed 'permanent' staff. Those that are career staff and are expected to work long term and retire at the organization. On the other hand, a contract staff is brought in on a temporary basis, usually short term and is expected to leave at the end of the contract. The contract can also be renewed, depending on the terms of the contract.
In a way everyone is on a contract, but when we say 'contract staff' in Nigeria, people understand what we are talking about.
I quite understand the concept you explained to be temporary staff. Every staff, including permanent staff, were signed on with a contract agreement - which could be permanent, temporary or further varied.

I have heard a lot of people indicate temporary staff to be contract staff and I sometime ago call it contract staff too but I was corrected.
PoliticsRe: FIRS Workers Threaten Strike Over Fowler’s Handover To Abiodun Aina by Wallade(m): 1:09pm On Dec 11, 2019
Gaggi:
Can't you read? He isn't even a director. A contract staff brought by Fowler as his Special Assistant. That smacks of tribalism to me.
Can you explain your concept of contract staff; I thought every staff of any organisation are on a contract anyway.

Did you mean to say temporary or casual staff?
PoliticsRe: Family: 'Sowore Injected With A Substance, He Must Not Die After Humiliation' by Wallade(m): 11:57am On Dec 11, 2019
joshcaleb200:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/thenationonlineng.net/sowore-must-not-die-after-humiliation-family-members-cry-out/amp/
The subject of this thread is very and deliberately misleading given that the content of the article as pasted and perhaps copied does not categorically indicate or support the subject.

This is part of the excuses we present to the government to propagate the Social Media Bill Agenda.

Seun, please get the "joshcaleb200" to review this subject. His subject is a deliberate misrepresentation.
PoliticsRe: Aisha Buhari: Garba Shehu And Mamman Daura Undermining Office Of The First Lady by Wallade(m): 11:53am On Dec 11, 2019
This is an unintelligent approach to handle this development in the presidency. If such allegation is established, a discrete investigation can be conducted and If it is determined to be true, sack Garba Shehu and stop this media trial.

Aisha Buhari spoke against Social Media freedom yet she expects the social media to be used in crucifying her political enemies.

Anyway, please tell Aisha Buhari to tell her husband to release Sowore and others from illegal detention.
PoliticsRe: Family: 'Sowore Injected With A Substance, He Must Not Die After Humiliation' by Wallade(m): 11:40am On Dec 11, 2019
The subject of this thread is very and deliberately misleading given that the content of the article as pasted and perhaps copied does not categorically indicate or support the subject.

This is part of the excuses we present to the government to propagate the Social Media Bill Agenda.

Seun, please get the "joshcaleb200" to review this subject.
PoliticsRe: AMCON: Buhari Replaces Muiz Banire With Edward Adamu by Wallade(m): 3:29pm On Dec 10, 2019
Every southerner supporting this government of APC should be ashamed, especially Southwest supporters.
CelebritiesRe: Bovi Celebrates His 'Darling' Manager, Ann Obaseki. Gets Blasted, He Fires Back by Wallade(m): 1:41pm On Dec 10, 2019
itsme01:
cool


lol give ladies control of this world and watch them demand many biased gender based nonsense

Darling means my beloved, if bovi calls someone his beloved manager it doesnt belittle the manager nor mean anything sexual

Thank you for sharing this meaning of Darling to some uninformed folks out there.



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PoliticsRe: Tunde Fowler Lobbied For Second Term In Leaked Memo - Farooq Kperogi by Wallade(m): 12:49pm On Dec 10, 2019
planetx:
You Southerners especially Yoruba will not taste power again for a long time, you have shot yourself in the foot. Enjoy your fulani federal republic.
Unfortunately for you, that is a big lie. We will prove it in 2023 and subsequently. Northerners must relinquish power willingly or otherwise.
PoliticsRe: Tunde Fowler Lobbied For Second Term In Leaked Memo - Farooq Kperogi by Wallade(m): 12:41pm On Dec 10, 2019
They simply needed Fowler to introduce the magic done in Lagos to generate a lot through LIRS.

The moment they saw the magic in play and understood it, they constantly put him under pressure to show more and more. They have seen the potentials of FIRS especially in the area of generating income, employment and most importantly, how powerful the agency can be.

They are now keenly interested. There was no way they were gonna retain Fowler. The only painful part was that Fowler failed to flood FIRS with the Southerners. He kept assisting the northerners to flood FIRS with their persons. Their strategy is to load up the essenetial agencies and parastatals with northerners so they retain control even if power switches to the southerners.

Fowler should have known that he couldn't have convinced them to retain him. Just flood the place with southerners especially the top management level. Simple.

However, southwest people are always disgraceful when it comes to executing such agenda. Northerners, Southeast and Southsouth will do it without fear or hesitation.
SportsRe: 35 Times! Messi Overtakes Ronaldo As The Player With Most Hat-tricks In La Liga by Wallade(m): 7:10pm On Dec 09, 2019
anigbajumo:
By ur wack analysis, Anelka and Ibrahimovic is better than messi,ur mumu level is legendary sir
Na you Sabi ohhhh
RomanceRe: Should I Marry A Girl That Pierced Her Nose And Has Multiple Earrings? by Wallade(m): 9:16am On Dec 09, 2019
motionarena:
Can You Marry A Girl that Pierce Her Nose And Has Multiple Earrings?

Hi guys

You know it has now been a norm for most women and girls to have multiple piercings in their nose and ears.

I really don't know what they see in it.

Well i have dis girlfriend we have been dating for a while and i plan to marry her. She works with a software company and she is very intelligent.

She returned from a trip and i noticed she had 3 sets of earrings in one ear and also had a tiny piercing on her nose.

I was devastated and asked her why she did it and said it means nothing that she just felt like.

Now am thinking of ending the relationship as i regard girls that do such as loose and runz girls.

Am i overreacting or taking the right move
Yes, you are overreacting. It is not enough reason to stereotype her.
SportsRe: 35 Times! Messi Overtakes Ronaldo As The Player With Most Hat-tricks In La Liga by Wallade(m): 4:03am On Dec 09, 2019
olutop:
Do you know how to Count at all, Messi has 36 collective trophies to Ronaldo's 25...messi also has higher individual honour.
Just take your time and count the awards from the links you just posted.
Your count is not accurate on the basis of collective awards, run your count again. Besides, I thought you mentioned:
Players that have more collective awards than Messi are probably, Dani Alves,Maxwell, probably IBRA WC.

That is also wrong.
SportsRe: 35 Times! Messi Overtakes Ronaldo As The Player With Most Hat-tricks In La Liga by Wallade(m): 9:59pm On Dec 08, 2019
olutop:
Guy Messi has more collective trophies and Better individual awards than Ronaldo....Google is your friend, Players that have more collective awards than Messi are probably, Dani Alves,Maxwell, probably IBRA WC I am not sure of, but not Ronaldo...The only thing Ronaldo has more than messi is Total country goals, Messi has more club goals.
Oga read the information on these links and discover your lies:

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_career_achievements_by_Cristiano_Ronaldo

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_career_achievements_by_Lionel_Messi

The original and authentic GOAT remains CR7. If you can objectively read the information, you may just see the need to respect and appreciate CR7.
SportsRe: 35 Times! Messi Overtakes Ronaldo As The Player With Most Hat-tricks In La Liga by Wallade(m): 9:42pm On Dec 08, 2019
Expert17:
He's no longer interested in World best player award .....

Now prefers Serie A best player award.........

WOW..... Dis s Buharis fault
Oh yes, one man's food is simply poison to another. World best player award no longer tickles his fancy.
SportsRe: 35 Times! Messi Overtakes Ronaldo As The Player With Most Hat-tricks In La Liga by Wallade(m): 9:41pm On Dec 08, 2019
olutop:
I don't even want him to leave Barcelona, you can't be a Barcelona fan and want to lose the Best Foot baller of all time, Na Ronaldo know wetin him they look 4, I know he left Man u because of money and he left Madrid because of Perez and Spanish tax issues, he never leaves a club because he want a new challenge, he left because he is not ready to face challenges..... Football is not Tennis or Golf that a single player can determine a team success, even Ronaldo's Euro he no even play final BTW messi won Olympic and Under age world cup.
Under age World Cup and Olympic! Nice achievements but have you taken time to itemise all CR7's achievements? Pick a pen and papers and start itemising them, you will end up writing books about CR7's achievements.
SportsRe: 35 Times! Messi Overtakes Ronaldo As The Player With Most Hat-tricks In La Liga by Wallade(m): 9:36pm On Dec 08, 2019
Expert17:
Old item dats Making his family cry over social media like overgrown babies grin grin grin grin grin
Really, mention his family wey cry to you or the world. Why is it painful to you guys that he refused to show up, must he be there? Are you sure you aren't the ones crying yet assuming his family is crying?
SportsRe: 35 Times! Messi Overtakes Ronaldo As The Player With Most Hat-tricks In La Liga by Wallade(m): 9:32pm On Dec 08, 2019
mystical109:
u say Messi is average for Argentina but Ronaldo is phenomenal for Juventus? I won't argue with you anymore. U win. No difference between Penaldo's fans and Buhari fans. They are all useful idiots
It is often funny when idiots simply think every other person that doesn't see things the way they do are the idiots. The more I wonder about such instances, I get amused so I simply let them slide.
SportsRe: 35 Times! Messi Overtakes Ronaldo As The Player With Most Hat-tricks In La Liga by Wallade(m): 9:29pm On Dec 08, 2019
Jaytecq:
Barcelona superstar Lionel Messi became the only player to score 10 or more goals in each of the past 14 seasons in Europe's top-five leagues with a hat-trick against Real Mallorca


by the way the scores btw dem 6-5
You can fairly compare Messi to CR7 when he clocks these achievements in FC Barcelona at 2 European clubs in separate leagues.

For now, CR7 na him father; the original GOAT.

As per the 6-5, CR7 is no longer interested because that award don loose value, motivation and relevance because of sentiments.
SportsRe: 35 Times! Messi Overtakes Ronaldo As The Player With Most Hat-tricks In La Liga by Wallade(m): 9:23pm On Dec 08, 2019
Expert17:
Okay....

Ronaldo shud win World best now ooo

because MESSI is still balling
CR 7 already won it 5 times, it is no longer new or extraordinary to him. It is even so cheap now that someone like Messi or Modric can simply win it based on sentiments rather than objective standards.

They can keep it abeg, na old item to CR7.
SportsRe: 35 Times! Messi Overtakes Ronaldo As The Player With Most Hat-tricks In La Liga by Wallade(m): 9:16pm On Dec 08, 2019
olutop:
That is why Ronaldo have zero hat trick since he got to Serie A....and Messi still boast a better Goal to game ratio than him (Career total).
All Messi did with remarkable results were in Barcelona FC, never in any other club. He hasn't been so successful for his country anyway.

Please help Messi move to another club and perform excellently, then you can compare him to CR7 fairly.

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