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There is a build up of negative emotions and perhaps anger in your husband over time towards you. The fact that he was good with you prior to the display of anger and beating does not mean the negative emotions were not there. You must have been complaining about his choice of clothes in the past, that wasn't the first time you selected clothes for him to wear and he objected or complained and that is part of the negative emotions that was built up. You provoked the emotions by repeating the behaviour of picking clothes for him to wear. However, he went for his own choice of clothes yet you despised and disapproved his choice yet again. That behaviour provoked him but he reluctantly went in to change his clothes. You noted that he took close to an hour to change his clothes. He must have been fuming in there and trying to calm down. This should have been a warning sign to you but you overlooked it. He came out with a different shirt but every other attire remained yet you went ahead to request a family picture and I can bet that you made a condescending, cheeky or disapproving comment in that situation. You might have been saying some negative comments behind his back when he was in the room and you felt he didn't hear you but he probably heard you. Think about it, maybe you forgot what you said or chose not to mention it to us. I am sorry you got beaten by your husband on Christmas, that was not good behaviour from him and he knows it. That is why he is avoiding you afterwards because he is disappointed in himself, still sad about all you said and uncomfortable facing you. Anyway, we need to create an environment where our spouse and kids feel comfortable, ease and less pressure around us. I don't like being too careful at home around my wife, it makes me tensed and prone to more errors. Let him wear whatever he is comfortable wearing to wherever, there are polite and pleasant ways of communicating your message to your husband and getting him to do your bidding without making him feel less of a human or despicable. As per his current behaviour, be nice to him, keep cooking for him, pray for and with him. He will come around soon. Best regards to your family. |
Jokerman:I would suggest that you request the management of the security outfit to change that security staff that is involved in this confrontation: "The next time I asked him to do something, and he refused blatantly, that's he's doing his job and his reason in front of other staff was that he didn't like the way I talked to him". Going forward, avoid confrontations with staff and security staff. Gradually recruit new, quality and experienced staff at the rate of "one per term". Be careful and respectful to older staff and maintain a cordial relationship with folks at work. Make conscious effort to make the environment conducive. |
Calavagas:How are you certain about your conclusion? Besides, we are discussing the celebration of Jesus Christ primarily not challenges that drives us all over. Is there any human without challenges in life? |
Christmas is a period set aside to celebrate the birth of Jesus Christ. It is not necessarily the birthday of Jesus Christ but to remember how, why and when christ Jesus was born. This period over the years adopted the spirit of love, sharing, giving, merrying and felicitation. It is a period when families, people and associates meet at gatherings and celebrate life upon recognition of the significance of Jesus and the gift He and God willingly gave us. Rev. Olukoya is simply trying to communicate his unjust reason of not celebrating Christmas with the world. That is his own opinion but not everyone's opinion. God loves and approved celebration especially the celebration of a unique personality like Jesus Christ. I will celebrate the birth of Jesus Christ on Christmas even if I am a member of MFM Church. |
The husband is not just gay, he is not committed to the marriage. I am not certain that the marriage will work. |
Freethought:Abort the pregnancy ASAP and go your separate ways despite the love. It is highly risky, I have a sister experiencing the same challenge in marriage and their first child is SS. |
ammyluv2002:Missed you so much on this thread. Welcome back. |
queenitee:If Omotola was quoted out of context, I expect that she would have seen these drama on social media about her comment and quickly issue a statement on her social media handles or pages to correct the impression, at least, and perhaps reach out to Enoiola to clarify her comment. The fact that she hasn't said any rebuttal or correction means she was out to despise and spite Enoiola Badmos. Simple psychology. However, that is so immature, cheap and despicable of Omotola Jalade Ekehinde. Anyway, Omotola's time in the movie industry is far spent so she may be interested in starting controversies to remain relevant. |
teadrake:It is the especial nature of Major General Buhari to be tyrannical. He is naturally a dictator. Those who witnessed his rule in the 1980s can testify to his dictatorial and tyrannical tendencies. |
Agboriotejoye:Tinubj will never preside over Nigeria as President! |
Garba Shehu understood the reason The Punch chose to henceforth refer to Buhari as General Buhari. However, to site the instances of Obasanjo and IBB in defence of General Buhari and refer to The Punch as being Partisan is simply ridiculous and annoying. So many instances can be sited as General Buhari's disrespect, disregard and desecration of the judiciary and rule of law. The instances are unprecedented under a democratic system of government and he expects us to stay silent and watch him drive the nation aground and into dictatorship. Garba Shehu should admonish his General Buhari to stop being tyrannical and subject himself to the democratic system that respects the rule of law. Nigeria is not under military regime just in case amnesia made him forget. |
Gaggi:It is a unique virtue to be able to accept corrections. I had to develop that virtue in life. |
Gaggi:I quite understand the concept you explained to be temporary staff. Every staff, including permanent staff, were signed on with a contract agreement - which could be permanent, temporary or further varied. I have heard a lot of people indicate temporary staff to be contract staff and I sometime ago call it contract staff too but I was corrected. |
Gaggi:Can you explain your concept of contract staff; I thought every staff of any organisation are on a contract anyway. Did you mean to say temporary or casual staff? |
joshcaleb200:The subject of this thread is very and deliberately misleading given that the content of the article as pasted and perhaps copied does not categorically indicate or support the subject. This is part of the excuses we present to the government to propagate the Social Media Bill Agenda. Seun, please get the "joshcaleb200" to review this subject. His subject is a deliberate misrepresentation. |
This is an unintelligent approach to handle this development in the presidency. If such allegation is established, a discrete investigation can be conducted and If it is determined to be true, sack Garba Shehu and stop this media trial. Aisha Buhari spoke against Social Media freedom yet she expects the social media to be used in crucifying her political enemies. Anyway, please tell Aisha Buhari to tell her husband to release Sowore and others from illegal detention. |
The subject of this thread is very and deliberately misleading given that the content of the article as pasted and perhaps copied does not categorically indicate or support the subject. This is part of the excuses we present to the government to propagate the Social Media Bill Agenda. Seun, please get the "joshcaleb200" to review this subject. |
Every southerner supporting this government of APC should be ashamed, especially Southwest supporters. |
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planetx:Unfortunately for you, that is a big lie. We will prove it in 2023 and subsequently. Northerners must relinquish power willingly or otherwise. |
They simply needed Fowler to introduce the magic done in Lagos to generate a lot through LIRS. The moment they saw the magic in play and understood it, they constantly put him under pressure to show more and more. They have seen the potentials of FIRS especially in the area of generating income, employment and most importantly, how powerful the agency can be. They are now keenly interested. There was no way they were gonna retain Fowler. The only painful part was that Fowler failed to flood FIRS with the Southerners. He kept assisting the northerners to flood FIRS with their persons. Their strategy is to load up the essenetial agencies and parastatals with northerners so they retain control even if power switches to the southerners. Fowler should have known that he couldn't have convinced them to retain him. Just flood the place with southerners especially the top management level. Simple. However, southwest people are always disgraceful when it comes to executing such agenda. Northerners, Southeast and Southsouth will do it without fear or hesitation. |
anigbajumo:Na you Sabi ohhhh |
motionarena:Yes, you are overreacting. It is not enough reason to stereotype her. |
olutop:Your count is not accurate on the basis of collective awards, run your count again. Besides, I thought you mentioned: Players that have more collective awards than Messi are probably, Dani Alves,Maxwell, probably IBRA WC. That is also wrong. |
olutop:Oga read the information on these links and discover your lies: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_career_achievements_by_Cristiano_Ronaldo https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_career_achievements_by_Lionel_Messi The original and authentic GOAT remains CR7. If you can objectively read the information, you may just see the need to respect and appreciate CR7. |
Expert17:Oh yes, one man's food is simply poison to another. World best player award no longer tickles his fancy. |
olutop:Under age World Cup and Olympic! Nice achievements but have you taken time to itemise all CR7's achievements? Pick a pen and papers and start itemising them, you will end up writing books about CR7's achievements. |
Expert17:Really, mention his family wey cry to you or the world. Why is it painful to you guys that he refused to show up, must he be there? Are you sure you aren't the ones crying yet assuming his family is crying? |
mystical109:It is often funny when idiots simply think every other person that doesn't see things the way they do are the idiots. The more I wonder about such instances, I get amused so I simply let them slide. |
Jaytecq:You can fairly compare Messi to CR7 when he clocks these achievements in FC Barcelona at 2 European clubs in separate leagues. For now, CR7 na him father; the original GOAT. As per the 6-5, CR7 is no longer interested because that award don loose value, motivation and relevance because of sentiments. |
Expert17:CR 7 already won it 5 times, it is no longer new or extraordinary to him. It is even so cheap now that someone like Messi or Modric can simply win it based on sentiments rather than objective standards. They can keep it abeg, na old item to CR7. |
olutop:All Messi did with remarkable results were in Barcelona FC, never in any other club. He hasn't been so successful for his country anyway. Please help Messi move to another club and perform excellently, then you can compare him to CR7 fairly. |
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