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ZombieTAMER:
Chelsea didn't lose
thats shows you never watched the match

Can you check the meaning of sore-loser. It simply refers to you in a situation whereby you don't have your way.

I assumed you should understand the phrase, I didn't know I have to put it to you like a 3-year old.

Why is Chelsea FC such a sore-loser? Stop winning, you drew the game and you need to move on with 1 point. Period!

CaptainZubi:
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The pastor functions and works in the house of God. Since our provision (offering, tithe, grants, honorarium) in the house of God is to be used for the house of God which includes the bill of the pastors and permanent workers of the church), the pastor will earn and benefit from members contribution to church.

However, the God will meet our needs in his glory through christ Jesus, God is our great provider - jehovah jireh!. He is the one that can meet church members needs since they are not paid employees of the church.

Happiboispot:
like say them never Bleep before smh

I don't think that is her First Kiss

Chillpill253:
I'm tired of this life. Ignorance is a disease indeed. I feel like commiting suicide. Have really damaged my skin with bleaching cream. Discoloration is now all over my body. I just have to end it

That is not good reason to end your life

truthCoder:
Apologies, but it is either you are not married or you dont have a close relationship with your siblings or both.

Your brother is never an outsider if you grew up together.

Some people’s best friends are their siblings.

A husband must protect his family. Period. In this situation, the husband has done nothing to protect his wife or kids. He is only sulking online and sharing distrust about his wife.

If you believe the woman needs no protection and should be the suspect here, no problem. Thats your opinion. I have also shared mine.

Cheers

I don't maintain a close relationship with my siblings in view of my marriage; every one minds their marriage.

If you fail to define the boundaries between your initial family (siblings, parents and extended family) and your own family (wife and kids), you will have more family issues to address.

You must get to the point where you realize that your brother, siblings and parents are outsiders in your marriage.

Let me ask you: how many toasters do you want to protect your wife from? Are you gonna be picking fights with everyone you suspect to be hitting on your wife or to be dating your wife? I suspect you are a SIMP already.

These are my opinions about the op and you; I am entitled to my opinion.

truthCoder:
Not once did you condemn the step brother's actions. You kept on finding ways to put the blame basket at the wife.

You talk about 'expectations' for the wife. You act like nothing is expected from the idiotic brother.

Let the OP man up and protect his family.

The half brother is an outsider in that marriage. I have no business with him, I can't focus on him because he is a mere temptation or trial personified in that marriage. The half brother is inconsequential.

truthCoder:
The wife has studied the relationship within the family and recognises where the power is. Power and control is currently not with the OP (irrespective of how 'masculine' he tries to sound).

The wife has observed many chances for her husband to stand up for his family but the man of her family has consistently chickened out.

The step brother is a narcissistic bully and by nature a manipulative fellow. He is playing all the power games and it is evident one of his dreamed prizes is the OP's wife.

If the OP doesnt act, the step brother would possibly rape his wife and the OP would only keep suspecting the wife for infidelity. The OP is blind to his potential weakness against his brother and can only attack the potential victim in this matter, in this case, his wife.

The wife needs all the help she can get from her husband against the bully, not suspicions.

So, let's assume the op doesn't act. Should the wife eventually give in to the half brother if he makes advances at her.

A wife can be called good if she politely turns the half brother down and if he persists, she is expected to discuss his advances or behavior with her husband.

She is expected to resist the advances or inappropriate behavior of the half brother, even to the knowledge of her husband and leave it at that.

She has not been doing that. She wouldn't take repeated calls from her husband but almost immediately took the call of his half brother. What does that mean?

It seems she has interest in the half brother or she is already into him.

lolu2019:
weyrey,kilode o fe pa ni.

He needs to man up and move on.

truthCoder:
You have a good wife but you are a dull husband.

Protect your wife from that beast.

Tell that brother to start respecting your family pr he should stay on his lane.

Dont lose your wife

What makes you think he has a good wife?

sixtus239:
Kindly have audience with both of them individually asked questions that u will draw conclusion from

This will fail and make the suspected lovers more discreet.

Mom007:
Even before looking at your gender, I knew a man wrote this comment. My dear Sir, the rules are different with women o. What a man will settle with just a word a woman has to shout and fight to get heard. Our gender is sadly marginalized. If you tell a man no, I'm not interested, he thinks you are telling him to try harder. If you tell a man, sorry, I'm married,(as if you even need to, e no get eyes to see ni?) , he thinks you are telling him to give you gifts and try to outdo your husband in order to get you. They keep pushing until you get firm by either insulting them or giving them a brain resetting slap. Why must it degenerate to all that when the man can simply set boundaries and keep his brother away from his family?

The situation has put the wife's loyalty, respect and love for her husband to test. The husband did not orchestrate it, it just happened that the half brother seems to want his wife.

It is important for him to see his wife's reaction to the advances especially because she will get advances from other men while in marriage.

If a woman is not interested, there are ways they make it clear.

Mom007:
Op, if you know you have liver, show your wife this post. Each time I reason this your story, find something wrong with it. All the instances you quoted against your wife are instances that should be used against you. Instead of you to address your brother's mess up, you are there expecting her to fight for herself. When she has you. Are you not ashamed of yourself? So she should disrespect your brother today and then you all your family will turn against her that she is the one bringing discord amongst you. You and your mother are aware of his erratic behavior now, but you are keeping it under wraps and looking for how to set the poor lady up. You sef, is there nothing sacred to you? Another man asks you to forward your children to him for whatever reason, you not only do it but you send your wife. So that you can turn around tomorrow and suspect her of doing shii. I don't even know where to start with you abi is your brother the one feeding you and your family? Better turn all this aggression you are feeling towards the right person. I mean internalize it because the only person guilty of any wrong here is You.

She doesn't have to fight the brother in-law, she only has to reject the advances or inappropriate behavior, even if she has to do that in the presence of her husband. Even if the family think she was disrespectful to them, the husband would never conclude so and the opinion of the husband is paramount.

Before the husband starts a fight in his family for her, he needs to be assured that she loves, respect and honors him.

Mom007:
No body is bleeping his wife joor he is just weak, doing my brother my brother with someone who is trying to take over his world. Pstcheew. Maybe He should go and watch the oddeysey and see how odeysius handled those men who were trying to marry his wife and kill his son... Maybe then he will man up.

Let him conduct his investigation before he concludes that no body else is sleeping with his wife.

We are not in oOdeysius time, you will be charged for murder if you do that in our time. He has to deal with his wife, if she truly loves, respect him and is loyal to their marriage, she will not tolerate such inappropriate relationship from the half brother of her husband and she would have reported to her husband if the half brother made sexual advances to her.

There are a number of red flags on the part of the wife that I will not let slide in the story.

Profperfect:
Dear Fam,

Please help me out(advice) on this , I am writing at this odd hour because I have lost my peace and I can't close my eyes and sleep .

................

Please help me push it to the front page , she is a nairalander too, she sees nothing wrong in the wrong things she does . Let the world hear my story and correct me if am wrong on taking the decision

My conclusion is that you are mad already and you need to first address your mental health.

A woman you are dating told you she can't be submissive to you and she can't respect you.

She is even still acting the disrespect by accepting an offer to keep fu.c.king a boss she has f.uc.ked countlessly, in the name of a job. Wait, what job do you think the man offered her other than to be his f.uc.kmate.

You caught her severally cheating on you and you kept letting it slide. Do you think she will ever stop? Did she jazz you ni?

May God punish you if you remain in that relationship, idiot! Na that lady go kill you, infact, you are already a walking corpse.

grop1040:
Hi guys,

Something happened 9 months ago, I decided to keep mute or probably just wait for the right time to commence my investigation to actually know what is going on between my step brother and my wife. So im 9 years already into my marriage, and we have 3 kids. My step brother who is the 2nd of my mum has temperamental problem.
He's ..............

Since then, I have let it slide, but what actually made me bring up this issue again, was when I went to my bros house to pick some stuffs my sister sent from the USA, madam
was off to the market, I called her to ask if she would like the only size 10 of the shoe I saw cos she wears 9, she didnt pick after calling like 4 times, immediately my brother
called her with his own phone, she picked and was like sorry when you called I try to pick but it was nt connecting, I just weak at that moment sey wetin dey sup.
Guys, ladies, from deep experiences u guys must have gone through, what do u think could be wrong and what do yall think I should do, something could be happening
that if I dont unravel early, it might be the cause of ones demise or destruction.

I am gonna put myself in your shoes to respond to your request for advice.

I will stop sending my children to his house.
I will conduct a DNA test on all my children.
I will sound my wife out on the affair that I suspect she has with my half brother. I will let her know that the day I confirm the affair, the marriage to her will end.
I will set boundaries for my half brother and my family (wife and children).
He is only welcome in my house when I am at home and if my wife welcomes him in my absence, the marriage is over.

I will make the issue a matter between my wife and i. If I can't instruct her, even to avoid a family member with good reason, then she has lost respect for me. Then I can't trust her and my love for her will diminish drastically; the basis of the marriage has been destroyed.

Your wife is strongly into him and may have graduated to sleeping with him.

LIVE08:
Nigeria will soon shock the world, Naira’ll be strong again – Pastor Enenche



https://dailypost.ng/2022/08/11/nigeria-will-soon-shock-the-world-nairall-be-strong-again-pastor-enenche-in-fresh-prophecy/

This is just wishful thought or speaking by faith, the activities on the government of Nigeria, precarious economy, activities of the residents of Nigeria and debt profile of Nigeria does not support this pastor's opinion.

LikeAking:
How many disciplined and moral people have the world celebrated? My guy life is all about winning Laurel's.

Good parents na parents wey dia children make am...

Success is d most important.... No body cares about ur discipline and morality..

I use to think like u bf... I regret those sheepish years of my life.

Shell,Mobil, etc will not check who is moral, disciplined or not before employing,etc. Same with polictics and life in general.

Let's focus more on knowledge,wisdom, plus hard/smart work..

You have a perverted mentality.

LikeAking:
Wo morality and discipline help?

If it's by discipline, then u shud b among the richest or most successful men in d world now.

Guy it's about wisdom, not cane.

Every form of discipline most b geared towards productivity.

Tell me how spare the rod and spoil d child don take elp Naija?

Be wise, Op!

Na discipline male teachers dey take shift female student pantss.

One again, wise up, wake up.

Come on, your opinion is ridiculous

T9ksy:
Who are these "we", you keep mentioning? You definitely must be an imposter if you can say, you don't know of Yoruba Nation.

Sooner or later this unholy amalgam will eventually disintegrate whether your ilks like/want it or not.

I have got no time for divisive people.
Break up Nigeria now before Nigeria happens to you.

Oh BTW, am Yoruba - quintessential "Omoluabi" - not a Nigerian. Don't even know how to be a Nigerian nor do I care to be one.

We are not concerned about people who are not Nigerian, since you don't know how to be Nigerian.

I am also discussing with Nigerians not non-nigerians like you.

I have got no time for divisive people.

Tboymessiah:
NasoLifeBe!!!

If you give her ur brother, nothing bad.

Abi! You can also help her

Dsalvo:
What on earth are you talking about? Mumu. You're the one with a comprehesion deficit and a silly, uncouth and worthless agbero to boot.

The SW Governors are not advocating for the separation of Nigeria.

Neither am I because smart Yorubas know better than to agitate for something that may be a fruitless waste of time and years or even decades.

Go and ask Igbo and their Biafra market they have pursued fruitlessly for decades to include fighting and losing a war over.

Okay mr Yoruba man or advocate, apologies for misunderstanding you.

I hope you are happy now

SmartPolician:
Look again; you didn't reply my comment.

Mvmu

Oga, shift. I no get your time. When you treat people with hate, you will get hate in return.

Dsalvo:
Yoruba this and Yoruba that. You envious dingbats should give it a rest. While you're still rolling around in the mud of ethnocentric hate Yorubas have made it clear they have seen the future.

Go and worry about the lack of direction and hopelessness of your respective States and region that makes you all keep flocking to the SW incessantly.

Proposal for return to regional structure does not translate to demand to be separated from Nigeria.

I thought you were schooled in a tertiary institution or secondary school, at least. Can't you comprehend simple english.

T9ksy:
Yoruba Nation.........on my mind.

We know no "Yoruba Nation", it is alien to us in South West. We are Nigerians, period.

SmartPolician:
You dare accuse someone else of spewing hate?

What do you call this, love?

I only responded to your divisive and hate opinion. E dey pain you now abi

gidgiddy:
Thats what people have been saying since 1914 when Lugard created Nigeria

I am not in the time of Lugard. We are in the year 2022 and I am saying: Biafra can go ASAP!

T9ksy:
what a load of hogwash!

Oga, you and Biafra can go. We no dey beg you to stay. Go ASAP!

ThrownBack:
We are already getting our votes together, and it's massive already. Expect to be surprised.

Well-done, please surprise me. I will be waiting!

ThrownBack:
Baba, patriitism is doing anything we can to stop those who are wishing the country to fail. We cannot find our hands and allow you destroy Nigeria with a vote to a senile old criminal.

You can cry me a river, I don't care. INEC indicated that it is my vote not yours; everyone is entitled to their vote.

Get your votes together and we will get ours together the aggregates determines who the leaders will be.

You are destroying the whole of your South East with IPOB, unknown gunmen, Kidnapping and killing your fellow Igbo people and non-igbos and claiming someone is trying to destroy Nigeria. You are the ones exhibiting destructive tendencies in Nigeria.

Thinkam:
Move away with your hypocrisy, your Yoruba lots do same too if not even worse..

Sell your market full stop

Mention the hypocrisy that I have displayed here or anywhere. Put it on this space and let's talk about it.

gidgiddy:
And thats why we should be talking about disintegration. If Nigeria has failed and there is no hope, why are we still together?

Nigeria will remain but we are willing to let Biafra go. Nobody wants to keep you in Nigeria against your will. Infact, you are fast becoming problematic and toxic to the existence of the Nigerian nation.

We want to be progressive and successful as a nation not with divisive, arrogant, overbearing and toxic people.