plsdisvirginme: The highest I have paid is 16,500. This month alone I have spent almost 101,500. The truth of the matter is that once you start sleeping with olosho, it is very hard to leave. May God help me
Bro, try to get a regular babe or steady "friend with benefit". You can probably budget to spend half of that amount on her monthly.
Gradually, that will help you to move on from Olosho.
From the friend, you can graduate to a relationship proper or keep the relationships at that level. I figured that you don't want commitment.
Hollybratt: Let me share this with you. A lady just got married on May this year. So the two couple posted their wedding pics on facebook till June. So there was a particular group named "Oko ati obo" which means"Dick and kitten" i was invited to join the group. I like the group because of their dirty and funny yoruba post, asking each member for s*x in a yoruba way. i joined the group. So i was surprise when i saw a post in that group made by the newly wedded lady, her post was"Toba fe dobo sms mi tio ba n gbeni oshogbo" which means"If you want to have s*x, sms me if you are leaving in oshogbo" people started asking for her number, she dropped it for them one after the other including her house address. I was like see the lady that just got married on may and she has started doing s*x giveaway on August the same year. I quickly send his husband friend request so i can explain what i've seen about her wife because i've already screenshot her post with the replies, na to send it for her husband remain. Do u support me??
Preciousgirl: I have been having an emotional affair (online) with an old man I have realized it is not good and regret everything so far We were sexting a lot and I shared my pics with him I have backed out But must I confess it to my husband?
I am asking for a colleague
No, please don't confess to him but God and forget about the old man and the affair for life.
Adetayo41: I will try it, but since morning, I haven't talked to her and also did not eat her food since morning, because i am pained, she has been asking me question, about what happened to me,, I just say nothing, I m about to go eat @ chicken rep
Oga, please discuss the matter with her. Let her know you realized she was giving it to a vibrator yesterday despite that you asked for it the previous night. Ask to know what the challenge or issue could be.
9jaCorner: Abena Dankwah Okai, a social media influencer and Youtuber from Ghana, has revealed that she’ll never date a man without a car.
According to Abena Okai, she was brought up by well-to-do parents who made sure she got everything she wanted while growing up; hence, she will never go into a relationship that will make her uncomfortable.
fadilaMaikiriki: Hello all. Please, I want to know if this is normal. Whenever I'm menstruating, there are usually some things that do come out like pieces or chunks of meat, I mean bloody meat. It's usually jelly-like and can be felt when it's dropping or coming out.
It occurs every month, but that of last month was much and the flow was heavier too, that I ended up using more than one pack of sanitary pads.
I don't know if this is normal. Please, if it's not, is there a way I can stop it from happening again or at least reduce it. Has anyone experienced this? Is it something to be worried about? Thanks.
Attached below is a picture of what it looks like.
Please check into a good hospital where they have a good gynaecologist. Make your complain and let them check your case.
newsc: A Nigerian woman has shared how her husband’s elder brother, in company of other men invaded her home and raped her. In a post shared on Facebook by social influencer Fegor Chime, the woman who preferred anonymity said her husband lives abroad. She noted that on the ugly day, her husband’s brother had come to their house and dropped his bag, with the pledge that he would later return to carry it. According to the woman, the man failed to come for his bag........
daylay7: I was in love with this guy so much that we do everything together. Aside from the fact that we share the same goals, religion put us far from each other. He was a muslim and I, a christian. I loss my virginity to him (we were both naive in that practice anyway). My parents forbid me and we drifted apart but I loved him still.
I met another guy afterward who shares the same belief with me and we got married three years later. Infact, my ex came for the wedding and celebrated me even during the reception( my husband already know his story and was not surprised when he saw him at the wedding).
A year after the birth of my son, I had an official assignment in another location where my ex's sister resided and because I could not complete the assignment that day, I decided to sleep over at her place. But on getting there, I saw my ex sitting in the living room. It was already late as at that time and I couldn't go back or book for a hotel and I decided to chilled out, telling myself that nothing must happen between us that day. My greatest mistake!
The apartment was just 3 bedroom. A master bedroom for the sister, a room for the children and the other for a visitor. Now we are having two visitors who once shared a thing for each other. My ex invited me into the room but I declined telling him I would rather sleep on the floor in the living room or he should bring a matrass for me. He brought the mattress in the visitors room into the living room and we both slept on it. One thing led to another in the middle of the night.... . And it happened! Coincidentally, my husband called at that time. I had to switched off my phone.
When I got back home the next day, I apologized to my husband that I had a flat battery and he didn't say anything but my husband never looked at me the same again. He never quarreled or said anything even after couple of years later. But the way he talks sometimes as if he kws I am hiding a secret from him and he wants me to open up to him. My fear is that if I should open up, I might lose my marriage and my family. What happened between my ex and I was a one time thing. I never went back or saw him again. It has been 10 years now and I am still feeling bad about it especially when he talked about cheating couple.
This feeling is eating me up. I don't know if I should still open up to him or I should forever remain silent about it....
cc: Relationship matters
Don't ever tell your husband. Forget the one-night-stand with your ex forever and don't let any one persecute you on that account, provided you would never go back to the ex anymore.
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Chillpill253: I'm tired of this life. Ignorance is a disease indeed. I feel like commiting suicide. Have really damaged my skin with bleaching cream. Discoloration is now all over my body. I just have to end it
truthCoder: Apologies, but it is either you are not married or you dont have a close relationship with your siblings or both.
Your brother is never an outsider if you grew up together.
Some people’s best friends are their siblings.
A husband must protect his family. Period. In this situation, the husband has done nothing to protect his wife or kids. He is only sulking online and sharing distrust about his wife.
If you believe the woman needs no protection and should be the suspect here, no problem. Thats your opinion. I have also shared mine.
Cheers
I don't maintain a close relationship with my siblings in view of my marriage; every one minds their marriage.
If you fail to define the boundaries between your initial family (siblings, parents and extended family) and your own family (wife and kids), you will have more family issues to address.
You must get to the point where you realize that your brother, siblings and parents are outsiders in your marriage.
Let me ask you: how many toasters do you want to protect your wife from? Are you gonna be picking fights with everyone you suspect to be hitting on your wife or to be dating your wife? I suspect you are a SIMP already.
These are my opinions about the op and you; I am entitled to my opinion.
truthCoder: Not once did you condemn the step brother's actions. You kept on finding ways to put the blame basket at the wife.
You talk about 'expectations' for the wife. You act like nothing is expected from the idiotic brother.
Let the OP man up and protect his family.
The half brother is an outsider in that marriage. I have no business with him, I can't focus on him because he is a mere temptation or trial personified in that marriage. The half brother is inconsequential.
truthCoder: The wife has studied the relationship within the family and recognises where the power is. Power and control is currently not with the OP (irrespective of how 'masculine' he tries to sound).
The wife has observed many chances for her husband to stand up for his family but the man of her family has consistently chickened out.
The step brother is a narcissistic bully and by nature a manipulative fellow. He is playing all the power games and it is evident one of his dreamed prizes is the OP's wife.
If the OP doesnt act, the step brother would possibly rape his wife and the OP would only keep suspecting the wife for infidelity. The OP is blind to his potential weakness against his brother and can only attack the potential victim in this matter, in this case, his wife.
The wife needs all the help she can get from her husband against the bully, not suspicions.
So, let's assume the op doesn't act. Should the wife eventually give in to the half brother if he makes advances at her.
A wife can be called good if she politely turns the half brother down and if he persists, she is expected to discuss his advances or behavior with her husband.
She is expected to resist the advances or inappropriate behavior of the half brother, even to the knowledge of her husband and leave it at that.
She has not been doing that. She wouldn't take repeated calls from her husband but almost immediately took the call of his half brother. What does that mean?
It seems she has interest in the half brother or she is already into him.