₦airaland Forum

There is no implication. Your children are yours, not your father’s. Personally, my children will bear my name as their surname. I’m my father’s child, so I will be the one to bear his surname while my children bears my name as their surname.

These people always feel that they can intimidate the poor or struggling Nigerians. Nothing has been done on the incessant increase of fuel price.

HacheNoire:
Waste of time!

No going back!

Tertiary education is not for all. Only those who can afford it should be in the university.

If NANS needs bribe, they should come out clear, instead of using protest to threaten the government.

It’s glaring that, if Nigerian universities want to compete and attain standards, the government can NEVER fund it.

Is it that you agbado fools are really fools?? You people just keep tabs of every post to write nonsense. If I check you out now you’re a school drop out or you probably didn’t even attend one. I pity your generation. The economy of Nigeria is going down the drain. It shall never be well with Tinubu and his foolish supporters.

People should be very careful when drinking with friends. Your friend is a stranger that you met in the street or neighbourhood. That your friend is not your blood relation and wouldn’t think twice to kill you if the need arises. Friends are easily jealous and envious. Be guided.

This is what they call true love. The love that Nigerians that want a good country have for Peter Obi is too massive. This kind of love for a politician has never happened before in the history of Nigeria. So touching!

Do not resign now. Look for another job before resigning. You have a wife and 2 children. You should always put their welfare first. You made a mistake by not accepting the 350k job simply because of traffic. I won’t advice you to remain in a job where you are constantly blamed and insulted. The truth is that the owner of that company will regret when you leave because they can’t do what you’re doing. You’re experienced, you will easily find another job. Good luck.

This is the President that over 80% of Nigerians voted for. He is loved across the country regardless of tribe. Only a few agbadoes have refused to see the light. This should be replicated in all the states of Nigeria.

Wedding is a thing of joy if you’re marrying the right woman. It’s not a business venture where you plan on recovering your money or making gain. I and my wife spent roughly 2.6M and we only recovered 260k from the spraying money. The money was even used to balance up expenses. We didn’t save to do our wedding. It was a joint effort. Marrying my wife has been a blessing so I don’t regret one bit.

I heard that the last one they finished some few months ago they haven’t paid the winner. They should pay that one first before bringing another one.

What exactly did Emefiele do that Tinubu through DSS is arresting him? Emefiele was only obeying the orders of Buhari. If Tinubu wants to arrest anyone, he should go arrest Buhari. Because Emefiele didn’t allow him see cash to distribute during the election, now he is a target. Mahmood Yakubu that obviously did wrong by stealing the people’s choice of President and giving it to Tinubu is still walking free. Anybody that worked against Tinubu during Buhari’s tenure is now a target. Tinubu and DSS is a disgrace.

Once any pastor sees that you’re a giver and you attend church everytime, they will capitalise on it to rip you off. Go to church but be careful not to overdo it. Those pastors are doing their jobs, don’t go to church everyday while your own job suffers. Talk sense into your mother.

If you like believe it or not. All the hook up girls or ashawo as locally called you see both on Instagram and on the road side have all been used by yahoo boys. Now, you don’t need to kill someone to use the person. All the babalawo needs is the person’s spirit and it can be gotten through sex. Most of these hook up girls are walking corpses. Nothing good can ever come out of them apart from their physical appearance that they display everywhere. The devil is now using sex as a tool to capture a lot of people. Be guided.

Don’t only look at the medical side of issues like this, also look at the spiritual side. I and my wife got married and for over a year + she wasn’t pregnant. I married my wife a virgin so it couldn’t have been her rough lifestyle. I’m also very fertile. My ex even got pregnant for me before. We were going from one lab to the other doing different tests but nothing significant was the issue. As time goes on, we decided it wasn’t normal and seeked spiritual help. Lo and behold, it was a spiritual issue. We never offended anyone but someone out there doesn’t want us to have our child. After prayers, now my wife is pregnant. So, seek spiritual help.

This your so called relationship is all about the girl give me sex and I give her money and gifts. It’s not a matured relationship at all. The girl is obviously still seeing herself as your responsibility. I doubt she loves you from the tune of her response. A lot of girls now have sex with guys they don’t love just to get money and monetary gifts from them.

Now the yorubas that are always talking trash against the Igbos have all gone mute. This country is where everyone lives in. Nobody should be praying for bad things to happen in any region. We’re all humans and should be our brother’s keeper. Let this tribalism currently at its peak in Nigeria end.

Glory to God, I have used all. I have entered both international and local flights. Air peace is my preferred local flight but I have boarded some others. I have entered trains lots of times. I have entered buses a lot of times and I have also entered keke taya.

Maybe you want to die prematurely because you think you have a daughter that needs you. Your daughter needs you alright but you can be in her life from a distance. How will you even think of being with a woman and her 4 sisters in your house? Just try it and see what becomes of your life. Anyway, if you want to sacrifice your life for your daughter, you can do what you’re considering.

This is a SCAM. Most people you see there are working together in the scam. The moment you commit yourself with 30k, that will be your first payment. Your next payment will be over 50k. That’s how scam works. Don’t respond to them anymore.

A man’s wife is actually not a member of his immediate family because they’re not blood related. What combines a man to his wife is actually the children they have together, not the marriage certificate. The marriage certificate is just a paper and love can die at any moment. The moment love dies, a woman can simply leave her husband because they’re not blood related. Your mother can never leave you no matter what but that is not the case with your wife. So understand the difference. BTW, a maid or anyone can take care of a man in his old age.

Without money, it’s impossible to have a happy marriage because money is needed for everything. You need money to pay rent, you need money to feed your family, you need money for clothes, to pay school fees, etc. In fact, money is the bedrock that marriage stands before love. Without money love can’t blossom and succeed.

Tinubu and his cohorts know that presidental election was rigged with impunity. It wasn’t only rigged, it was stolen and given to a thief that obviously knows he’s not supposed to be there. It is a big shame that Tinubu is parading himself as the president of Nigeria though I don’t see him as my president.

I can’t believe that I’m still seeing hateful comments about Peter Obi from people. So even with this hardship that a lot of people are going through within just 4 weeks of Tinubu as the said President, people still don’t have common sense. They can’t still differentiate a man with good intentions from a man that doesn’t care about the masses. It’s a shame that tribalism has eaten deep into some people. It’s a big shame.

I still do this even though I have money to buy hundreds of dozens of it. Sometimes it is fun and sometimes I might forget to buy. For people like us, it’s not about being poor.

You should be working to earn and save money not working to enter deficit at the end of the month. That job is not for you. It’s either you find a place close to your office or you quit. Being employed is not all about wearing shirt, trousers and shoe every morning and moving from one point to the other. Being employed is earning a decent living and you my friend you’re not employed, you’re only slaving.

As a lady, once you’re no longer in a relationship with a man, your common sense should let you know that you’re supposed to return all the significant things that the man got you. The man shouldn’t even be the one forcing you to give back his gifts. He bought you the gifts in the first place because you’re in a relationship with him. When you’re out of the relationship, return everything to him so that you will know that you don’t have anything that will link you to him.

It is only a greedy and worthless lady that will still want to continue using what he ex bought for her. You should be ashamed of using the phone your ex bought for you to call another guy. Your new guy should get you a new phone.

This is not news. Oil theft has always been carried out by the military and those in government.

It’s obvious that these boys want to live street life. They’re already doing Yahoo over there. The OPM man should just leave them alone.

This is slavery job. You work 7:30 am to 10pm for 45k as a man with kids?? How do you live on such chicken change. My advice is that you leave that job and focus on getting another. Except you’re making some money from the side. If all you get is 45k, I don’t see that as a job.

I didn’t see Davido that’s calling Burna Boy new cat. Davido should know that Burna Boy is not his mate in Music.

This just proves the fact that most women are unfaithful in marriage. This generation of women and girls are cursed with sexual immorality. It’s a pity.

As a man, if you’re in a relationship with a girl that is not a virgin, the tendency of her cheating when she has the opportunity is 90%. Only 10% will not cheat regardless of the temptation or pressure from the man. You can only have peace of mind that your girl will not cheat if she’s a virgin because she will be scared that you will surely find out. Being in a relationship with a girl that is not a virgin and marrying a girl that is not a virgin is a risk most men has taken and will continue to take. Anything you find out you accept. Most girls have done nonsense things and have had sex with several guys but will form saint when you approach them. It’s only a virgin girl that you can trust will not cheat on you. Know this and know peace!

As a 41 years old married man with kids, I wonder why you will have jobs of 95k and 500k and still be asking which to go for. Or you just want to show us that you have a job that pays as much as 500k? Go for the 95k since you’re confused. You want small money abi. Is 95k money to you right now?? Go for the 95k o since you don’t know what you want.