₦airaland Forum

Uchesis:
Arsenal and Gunners are the same club.

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Na just the name dey different

A Widow is also a single parent (mother)

A widow is a single parent but that title 'widow' is what differentiates her from a 'single mom' who has never been married.

My point is, the African society use those titles to differentiate and categorize women without partners.

Uchesis:
Go to school, you no gree go

Now see the result

A widow who has a child and has lost her husband is a "SINGLE PARENT OR MOTHER"

Simple english una no dey understand.

Oloriburuku, you went to school but don't know how to punctuate. My opinion is my problem and if you don't agree, then Bleep off.

Chijeep:
Most people considers many factors before accepting to marry there suitor but they never check appearance which is one of important points because your offsprings will also take similar appearance.
But most of them are only after money and rich and influential people that they'll never consider that there children maybe ugly which can never change but a poor person can become rich later.
ITS A BEAUTIFUL THING TO SEE THAT YOUR CHILDREN ARE HEALTHY AND ALSO BEAUTIFUL AND HANDSOME.

So my advice is that whenever you're choosing your spouse please also look for the beauty you may desire to see in your kids which you don't have so that your offsprings may take a resemblance from your spouse.

This is rich coming from someone who is considered short.

Omoh! The part of him rolling down the bed to pee got me. That kid is smart, intelligent and organized. I like him already.

CameroonPepper:
How can you expect this ugly koku baboonish makeup artist to beautify you?

How?
Let's be realistic with ourselves

sometimes.

She uses her hands and not her face.

God1000:
We need urgent help from the united nations, African union and ECOWAS in Benue and other states in the middle belt

The federal government of Nigeria under Tinubu is not ready to protect and defend the people of Benue

The FG know how to mobilize soldiers to go quell crisis in other countries while there is war ongoing in Nigeria and nothing is done about it.

tete7000:
Marital status is different from motherhood status. Have you heard anyone said "widowed mother"?

What are the types of 'motherhood status'? The society clearly has a title for them. This is why NGO's and other organizations always prioritize 'widows' and don't give a damn about 'single mothers'.

Furthermore, someone can refer to their mom as ’widowed mother'. I have heard people use it before and it is not odd.

tete7000:
And widows struggling to train children alone are not single but multiple mothers?

Have you ever filled a form where it was stated to tick one of the following?
Single
Married
Divorced
Widowed

A single mother has never been married. A widow was once married. The difference is as clear as day.

DeepSight:
What if you marry, give birth, and lose your husband (to death), as someone above pointed out?

They are called 'widows', not 'single mothers'.

Nitabb:
What about the irresponsible men that just pregnant those women and disappear? Can't them be held responsible too?

A woman will NEVER get pregnant if she doesn't want to. Unless it is a case of rape, any woman who engages in reckless sex has herself to blame.

EreluRoz:
This Tunde is too short, short men are annoying sha plus anger issues.

For Davido to be taller than him is a clear indication that he is a dwarf. Now I understand why he is always going against people. Short people wahala!

DaddyRochie1642:
See the man smiling and shining teeth like goat,

Which kind blackmailing be this,

I am seeing up to three children from what I'm seeing, how will a right thinking single man marry a single mother of three children, make that man no gree o.

What if the man too has kids?

Crystal08:
He is an ozubulu man, do they have such rites?

I can't tell because I'm not from there. The rites people perform are mostly monetized. But saying that he has to pay her bride price before claiming his son is trash. No one does that.

There are some stupid rites that men are mandated to perform in order to claim an illegitimate child. But paying of bride price isn't one of them. Both your husband and the woman are trying to use your head.

Oyibo or albino?

She changed her skin color, fixed her body, wear designer clothings, but still suffering from low self esteem. I feel for her.

Ojukwu practically worshipped the ground she walked on. Now I understand why she choose him.

Bethrose:
Undisputedly one of the most beautiful and elegant beauty queens, if not the most beautiful Nigeria has ever produced.

Seconded.

Photoshopped.

Orlu13:
u are just not worth my time...useless olosho

I learned oloshoism from the best; your mom. Didn't she tell you it was during her escapades that you were conceived?

In fact, she told me that 5 men fathered you. While your big head shares a DNA with a man, your hands, legs, rotten mouth and tiny dick share DNA with 4 other different men. So pathetic!

jconsulting:
I read this story and am just laughing, men and their uncontrollably prick , i remember my own escapades, i dated a corper shower her with gifts , black berry those days and money for upkeep just to get het, the day she finally came to my house i was like let have intimacy and she said no, i left her alone that night, i was even helping her to kill mosquitoes despite wearing revealing night gown, the manhood rose and fell on its own many times that night, but next day i didn't even talked about it , instead i continued showing her love,.......

Following week she ask to come spend the night again , i said ok, in the night i didn't even bother making advances at her, shockingly...... shockingly.... i woke up from sleep and saw someone shining my manhood with her mouth..... she almost kill me with style....
Later when i asked her what of the other day, she said , she was just not in the mood .... that if i had force her she would have stabbed me or hit me with something hard.....

Women are different homosapiens

Are u not supposed to be a woman?

Orlu13:
where is dat mumu gal called We4all dat was angry dat a guy left Nigeria..come and see d country u are fighting for...nobody knows who will be kidnapped next

To any reasonable person, d best thing to do now is save enough money and leave this country asap...things have surely gone out of hand...this is a multiscale kidnapping going on...even the security personnels are overwhelmed

Oloriburuku, why would I be angry that someone left Nigeria? I said if you leave Nigeria without your extended family members, then stop jubilating that you are safe because your relatives are still in danger. Is that too hard to understand?

Orlu13:
I was thinking I was a fool but I was wrong...I am a matured fool and a coward...

I just don't have sense. Who will dash me sense?.. I am tired.

No wonder.

Orlu13:
foolish lady...keep constituting nuisance...just give ppl enough money or do free visa fr Nigerians and see d number of ppl dat will troop in to leave this country...it's just money that is still keeping most ppl from leaving

u come here dey cap nonsense.. idiot

Ode, I have enough money and richer than your broke generation, but I am not planning to live my mansion and go dwell in a tent where I will be treated like a slave.

If you feel Nigeria is not fair to you, stay back and fight. Don't run away like a coward. Are you not a man, so why can't you challenge your fellow men who are ruining the country?

The lady is very pretty. But that lawyer though, who send am message?

EreluRoz:
So he has a girlfriend and now fiance hmmm


So all these boys doing bro bro in the church have cravings too

Those boys are even more promiscuous. I am speaking from experience.

Keaton:
Your pain deh sweet me 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Oloti, I am not the one who is slaving myself in a foreign land. Why should I be pained?

Orlu13:
mumu...hw has ur English speaking and punctuation helped ur life...I'm not a hater like u dats why I am glad abt wat d guy said and I pray dat God also grants me good health and enough money to leave this hell hole of a country...see how ppls sisters and brothers are being held in the bush as if we are a war torn country...Citizens of Gaza are even more secure dan citizens of Nigeria who pay tax and hope on the govt.

Anu, will the whole Nigerians leave because people are being kidnapped? Why not start a revolution if you care so much? People way younger than you have been doing it in other countries. Don't be a coward.

Who is he and of what economic value is he to Nigerians?

Perhaps they are the best because they are olodo givers. But they will give with their left hands and collect plenty with their right hands.

Orlu13:
how is that your business..the young man is happy dat he has left the country and you are asking stupid questions... do u like wat u are seeing in this country

Oloti, go and learn how to punctuate first then come back and face me.

Keaton:
Channel your frustration to your father. He failed you, not me.

Oloriburuku that is living off the fraudulent funds his father stole is yepping nonsense.