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This is terrible! Imagine someone that isn't that well off experiencing this.

I didn't miss the "Bobrisky called me" part. Bobrisky is balling sha and appears to be acquaintances of most celebrities.

SAN is overrated.

Ezeeboiy:
actually we didn't sign agreement sir. Well of course that's what he has been saying. Ok sir will give him little time

Any service you render in Nigeria, you need to shine your eye and be extra smart. Laborers are usually paid daily because it isn't a permanent job. Why did you agree to receive payment after the job was completed?

Dude, you let your guard down and that greedy mofo is trying to outsmart you because he has already collected the payment from the client.

If he keeps delaying, drop his contact and let us bomb his fucking number. By the time he receives 100 missed calls and messages in 5 minutes, his brain will reset.

She is just promoting the clinic.

26 years? Hmnn...

Solofresh2:
I came across this thread https://www.nairaland.com/7922825/husband-before-ask-wife-what and I see the OP trying to justify the saying "what does a woman brings to the table" anthem by men nowadays.

Saying a woman facing a difficult time giving birth to her child is a sacrifice is a no no.It is natural for a woman to give birth to a child,either difficulty or not.

It is also natural for a man to releases sperm,so as to impregnate a woman.

If a man find it difficult to impregnate a woman, will you call that a sacrifice too?

Infact,sacrifice is when a man provides everything for his woman because it is not compulsory.

Anybody can make money to provide for their own needs, not always waiting for your man to do everything for you.

It is your responsibility as a woman to carry your pregnancy if you want a child.

If you don't have a valid point, just shut it. I thought men were supposed to be the 'head of family'? So, why shouldn't a man provide solely for his family?

You guys should rest abeg! Giving birth is a risky venture and not everyone is ready to undertake that risk. A woman in my neighborhood died recently while in labor. I bet she would still be alive if she were not pregnant.

Anything that endangers the life of another is risky and pregnancy is one of it. I have seen women whose pregnancies weren't high risk, but they still couldn't make it during child birth.

If you think pregnancy isn't a sacrifice, then why is it such a big deal to you if a woman can't get pregnant?

BadMaster:
You don't have a single point. I made the above statement for people like you.

Prove you are a saint, then we can take it up from there. You are probably one of those online fraudsters who hides to perpetrate crime but think you can condemn others. Oloriburuku!

So what? Humans say one thing and do another all the time, so no big deal! Those of you criticizing him will do the worst things if you were in his shoes.


There is no saint in Nigeria. It's just lack of opportunities that make some people act godly.

As for his deputy, he is a traitor! If he wants to rule Ondo, he should buy the governorship election form, campaign and win the elections. Shikena!

Since your priority is kids, look for a woman that will birth 10 kids within a space of 10 months and leave that infertile girl alone.

Hmnn... Don't marry a partner who owns a gun. Before you sleep at night, make sure all weapons of murder are concealed where your partner will not find it. Haba, too much sense won't kill me.

But on a serious note, why are humans so demonic? I don't think his actions had anything to do with drunkenness. He must have planned for things to go down this way.

Prettychild:
Not true. My sister’s kids lived with me, all through to age 12, none of them look like me

Noted!

luminouz:
I have been crying since!!!

What exactly is my issue? I want to
get laid and stop being a nuisance.

Kpele!

IamAsiri:
Why don't you start living with a white woman and see whether you will turn white? Your biology lessons got commas.

Wise advice! Let me go and search for a white woman.

He has proved himself to be a very vile man. I pity the woman that will end up with him.

nairamaniac:
How do you discuss((enthusiastically) about details she is not in good-knowledge of prior to the marriage.


Ogaaa, there are certain things you cannit know intoto prior to marriage, hence you cannot discuss them with full-confidence.

U cannot be discussing/suggesting to your partner fron a far distance-of-knowledge, cos you hardly have the facts at hand.


So when a partner gets ripped off after marriage, don't go blaming the person with your Fon from your own comfort zone(in your Beer parlour or office).


Stop it, please!!!


You better accept with humility.

Israel's asslicking antics is over social media. Sheila said: "I don't want you disgracing me on social media. Stop asslicking your boss and establish a business that will get you a stable income."

The message is clear! This is something any 'REASONABLE' human would discuss before marriage. But you are still arguing blindly.

humilitypays:
Without sugardaddies, most ladies will live a miserable life and will never be where they are today in life; financially, career wise, business wise, Japa wise.


Married men keeping single girls as side chicks is one of the major ways Nigeria's wealth is circulating, because without that, tell me how Bola Tinubu, Adam's Oshiomhole, Yahaya Bello, Governor Dickson, Governor Ben Ayade, Dangote, Femi Otedola, Orji Uzo Kalu, Obi Cubana, E-Money, Davido, etc money will reach the poor Nigerians?



Yes promiscuity maybe bad because religion, society and civilization painted it as bad, but it is sure playing positive roles in Nigeria and around the world in making sure wealth circulates.


As a single girl dating and sleeping with one broke boyfriend whose only contribution to your life is I love you, baby I cannot live without you, and hoping he marries you tomorrow while he fvcks you weekly freely, you are committing the same sin of immorality with the single lady sleeping with a married man that helps her life financially, helps her career with promotion, job offers, helps her business with capital, help her academic dreams with financial funding and help her Japa dreams with funding and visa connections.



In this life, be wise, if you are wise and use your wisdom, you will be at the top without minding what people say.


Any sex outside marriage is the same sin.


If you are having sex with a guy you call boyfriend or fiance' in the name of he is your boyfriend or fiancee and another lady is having sex with a married man she calls sugar daddy who helps her life get better, both of you are committing the same sin of immorality so ladies choose your own sin and immorality wisely

You have said it all. I agree with you 100%.

Omoapena:
No let these girls bobo you
No sugar daddy will pay 500k for a round sex...

You don't get it. It doesn't have to be after Just one round of sex but what they get for upkeep. It could be weekly, monthly or every forthnite.

purples25:
Which man would give 500k to 1million for sex. All these lies. No man will remove such an amount for sex alone. Unless you guys are business partners as well as sex, as he would still benefit from that your business.

Dey play. Some mumu Nigerian men even give more than that. I used to know a babe whose sugar daddy would drop money like he plants it. .

500K weekly for just groceries, 100K for fuel, and other expenditures. Girls are cashing out!

The truth is, if you are a sexually active girl, then it's no big deal dating a married man for monetary gains.

If you can sleep with your 'chewing gum' boyfriend for almost free, then sleeping with a married man for millions is just you being smart.

Most men will gladly do the same if they see the opportunity but will be quick to condemn women.

nairamaniac:
So you finally realized that "you can't plan money that hasn't been earned yet, yet you initially said the bolded. Calling it a mistake that "most people make before getting into marriage.


Ogaaa, pick your motive when u enter a discussion.


Are you entering the discussion so people would respect you as a very intelligent person

Or you are entering the discussion to contribute positively/Substantially.

I advice you choose the latter.

Yuck! What are you even on about? What has the statement you highlighted got to do with planning for unearned money?

Did Sheila tell you she was planning for unearned money or wanted her husband to establish a business or build a career without asslicking his boss?

This is why I said she should have discussed it before marriage. What has that got to do with planning for unearned money?

I'm more concerned about the lady in question who is pregnant and already living with you. Does it mean she's got no plans for her life and wants to end up as a baby mama? What about her family and what's their take on this?

As for you, I think you are still bruised and needs healing. If the said lady is going to be just a baby mama, then why did you allow her move in with you? I think it's better to define your relationship early so she can know her place.

As for the mutual respect you think you have for each other- This is more like a lack of connection between both of you and not respect per say. It is how two strangers living together feel toward each other.

Unfortunately, this isn't a healthy relationship for someone who is carrying your baby and already living with you.

I find it repulsive when a woman thinks she can use pregnancy to compel a man to propose marriage.

A woman can NEVER get pregnant if she doesn't want to. So, if you get pregnant and the man tells you he doesn't want the baby, then do away with it or keep the pregnancy and do away with the man.

Do not force a man to accept a child he never wanted or planned for. In addition, learn to close your legs because after the pleasure, comes the pain. Men do not get pregnant, but women do, so be wise!

nairamaniac:
Are you saying there at the bolded that "they should be discussing how to spend an amount of money that has not been earned yet before the marriage"?


As in they should discuss EVERYTHING with FIGURATIVE-ACCURACIES/CALCULATIONS prior to when what your are calculating has arrived?


They should be discussing how to spend/invest 10million naira, with imaginary one-one million from 10 different places?

Oggaaa your response was convoluted.


I doubt you can easily answer if;
1. You were agreeing with my post.
2. Disagreeing with my post
3. Adding to my post.


Cos it seems you were doing all 3 of them.

I guess you just feel like talking. As an individual, do you plan for money that hasn't been earned?

nairamaniac:
Are you:
1. Agreeing with my post?
2. Disagreeing with my post?
3. Adding to my post?


Which of the 3 precisely are you doing?

Read and comprehend first before trying to be sarcastic.

nairamaniac:
Discussing something especially an illness that is hereditary is mandatory as it could affect the couple's children.
I'm sure if they were both AS-Genotype, they would have discussed it severally before marriage.

Now, on the other hand, discussing diversification/expansion of Streams of income may not come up before marriage. But it wd come up as the marriage gets older and capital flows in from current-stream.

What I'm saying is that "it's not EVERYTHING one can discuss before marriage. At times, change in conditions brings up those discussions.
It takes some level of respect, education, love, trust and confidence to discuss and listen to your partner when these sorts of topics are due to come up.


If it's true that She wasn't carried along by Israel for planning of the wedding, then it should also be true that Israel wdnt listen to her as regards finding other means of earnings besides depending on Davido.
It's her right to talk to her husband about it either before or after marriage.

You can't discuss everything that boils down to things that are negligible and petty, but you should discuss everything that you think will either make or mar your marriage.

How can you get married without discussing about the number of kids both you and your partner expect to have? There is also the issue of home financing, likes, preferences, visitation from relatives and everything that are important.

If you don't feel comfortable discussing these important things, then perhaps you ain't ready for marriage yet.

Morbeta11:
Forget that one.....these ones na my blood hook line and sinker!!! From spermatozoa to full fledge humans...no adulteration.

Lol......I admire your confidence sha. But what if they are not really your blood, what will you do?

DNA is very affordable now and he should be able to foot the bills. Why must he ask Nigerians for help to sort out a family's issue?

I would also like to believe that he received some donations during condolence visits. He should use part of it or ask some of Mohbad's close friends for assistance. It is irresponsible of him to ask Nigerians.

Morbeta11:
Am so grateful to God that my three kids, all na mini-me from hair to toes.....I have no business with DNA.

I don't want to be the bearer of bad news, but if you live with someone, you begin to look like them.

Your children's resemblance with you is because you live together and has nothing to do with you being their biological dad.

Mexicans should stay in their country and help develop it. As for the apostle, I am curious to know how he makes his money.

This 70 year old man is childish and unbearable. Now I understand why the wife left him.