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Family › Re: My Mum Wants Me To Sack My Househelp by Westerhoffe(m):
Be fair enough to let her go, not because of your mum's words but for her future.
She's 34 years old, she also has needs and desires and has declared she wants a family… so just let her go.



tonicyril:
Don't talk like she's the one tying her down...

Why do people reason this way??
You're the one reasoning negatively because you did not read my comment to understand, but rather to reply.

Nobody said the OP is the one tying her down. But she comes to the OP's house to work everyday, that even the OP's mother had advised her to let her go. Or is it until the OP comes to post shocking stories before you tell her why hasn't she let her go since?

The said woman declared she wants to have a family, I've heard and read and seen similar stories that end up in tears because the right steps were not taken on time.

This is not about labeling the lady a husband snatcher, no, I'll never call her that, but you don't trust people too much till they come into your relationship, and even replace you.

So @OP, if you value your relationship, let that lady go.

You don't have to ill treat her; don't try that. Just pay her, tip her, thank her, and tell her you'd no longer be needing her services.
Crime › Re: Woman’s Decomposing Corpse Found Inside Gutter In Yenagoa by Westerhoffe(m):
shocked

What the!

How can be be bold enough to take the life of another human?
What level of hate can breed to that level?


Now, some people have been given the adrenaline to banter.
Celebrities › Re: Porkiyor Abuse Girls That Participated In The Viral Challenge On Tiktok by Westerhoffe(m): 8:08am On Jan 10, 2024
So, there is such trend again?
Politics › Re: Humanitarian Ministry Scandals: EFCC Seizes Edu, Sadiya Umar-Farouq's Passports by Westerhoffe(m): 8:06am On Jan 10, 2024
tetralogyfallot:
I now believe the old saying that "What a man can do a woman can do better extremely".
Politics › Re: YPP Gives Tinubu 48 Hours To Suspend Interior Minister, Tunji-Ojo by Westerhoffe(m): 8:02am On Jan 10, 2024
HeavenlyHolines:
The level of system corruption in Nigeria can turn saints to sinners.
How many times has sinners not become saints overnight in this country?
Not surprised at all.
Crime › Re: Nigerian Drug Smuggler Arrested With Cocaine Worth ₦‎133 Million In India by Westerhoffe(m): 7:59am On Jan 10, 2024
NoGreeForAnyhod:
Those are not Nigerians, Nigerians don't do drugs, only those that inherited criminality do crimes to develop all the parts of the world
grin
I didn't see that comment of yours o!
I did not even read it self.
Crime › Re: Nigerian Drug Smuggler Arrested With Cocaine Worth ₦‎133 Million In India by Westerhoffe(m): 7:55am On Jan 10, 2024
Nigerians should stop giving this country a bad image.
Politics › Re: World Bank Predicts Higher Per Capita Income For Nigeria by Westerhoffe(m): 7:50am On Jan 10, 2024
ivolt:
It is not what people accept that matters, it is what eventually happens.
Afterall, nobody would burn their income if it increases in 2025 due to bad belle.
In short words, thanks for this reply.

Is it today Nigerians have been hearing empty promises and predictions?
Romance › Re: Lady Always Posting Men Are Scum Now A Baby Mama by Westerhoffe(m): 2:11am On Jan 10, 2024
Jeon:
And is that a big deal?. Ladies that didn't shout "Men are scum" were still abandoned. Even married woman with kids isn't spared from been abandoned after many years with the husband.







[s]She can also deny the pregnancy by aborting it.[/s]
angry

That is the turn-off point...
Look how boldly you said that… do you know how it sounds? It sounds more like, "Kill off the innocent baby. Deprive it of life. Cut him/her to pieces and flush it down the sewer!"

You're dangerous… honestly.
You never should have mentioned the last statement you included at all.
Nairaland General › Re: If You Could Rid This World Of One Evil, What Would It Be? by Westerhoffe(m): 11:26pm On Jan 08, 2024
Religion.
Business › Re: The Ultimate Guide To Choosing The Best Mouse Trap For Your Home by Westerhoffe(m): 11:10pm On Jan 08, 2024
You mean these same mice that are holding vigil?

Romance › Re: "there was once a forum " by Westerhoffe(m): 11:07pm On Jan 08, 2024
codedgalaxy:
If the military come together to discuss about better ways to defend their boders against unprecedented attacks, whats the buisness of a bloody civillian in such gathering?
Ramdom thought...
Bloody civilian huh? undecided
And after their discussion, they'll still come back to give the report to the "bloody civilian" you call him their President and Commander in Chief while waiting for order from this same "bloody civilian"…

I hate senseless talks. angry
Crime › Re: Deobra Delone Redden Who Attacked Nevada Judge Back In Court In Shackles by Westerhoffe(m): 11:03pm On Jan 08, 2024
He's now been considered hostile and a major threat…
Now the judge will smile, turn the table and say, "My turn."
Politics › Re: TB Joshua. Nigerians React. Must Read Captions. by Westerhoffe(m): 11:00pm On Jan 08, 2024
Arrest him for autopsy… I guess… undecided
Family › Re: My Mom Has Stopped Looking Good, What Do I Do? by Westerhoffe(m):
I still can't figure how some people are trapped by mere words from anyone... Like how do you guys do it even when what you're told is not in line with the word of GOD according to the Bible?

How can you stop looking good because you converted? undecided


Well, to my future partner, as a woman:
*You can't cut your hair. Don't even attempt it.
*You can't plait your hair looking like Nene or Nana from the forestry reserve where no humans have been to.
*You must have your jewelries on when going out unless you forget to use them. And these comprises of both earrings, necklaces/chokers, wrist bangles, wrist watch.
*No nose piercing or double ear piercing.
*No tattoos.
*You must always look good and attractive.
*No tying of wrapper around the house or when going out.
*No tying of scarf around the house or when going out. If you must cover your head, get a hat or face cap.
*No wearing of low shoe except for sneakers.


Let me stop here.
cool
Christianity Etc › Re: The Request For A Christian Specific Only by Westerhoffe(op): 11:59am On Jan 08, 2024
Alphamentips:
grin grin
Yea… simple as that… instead of attacking me. cool
Christianity Etc › Re: The Request For A Christian Specific Only by Westerhoffe(op): 11:02am On Jan 08, 2024
Alphamentips:
Okay, that is to match the declaration you see when you check the Islamic section, abi?

In the same light, Seun should also consider adding a declaration also for those of us who don't believe in a Sky Daddy in the science section.

It could say:

I believe in science. I believe in cause and effect. I believe there are known unknowns & events yet to be explained by science. I know with time science could explain things better and if it doesn't i choose not to contribute it to a Sky Daddy. I believe in humanity and using my brain for critical and analytical thinking.

I believe the universe is a living being and interconnected. I believe the universe creates and destroys.


That makes sense.
If you want that, you can always tender your request.
Christianity Etc › The Request For A Christian Specific Only by Westerhoffe(op): 9:32am On Jan 08, 2024
Good morning Seun.

As there are ongoing changes on Nairaland being proposed and implemented for the growth and betterment of this platform, I hereby request on behalf of all Christians on Nairaland that there be a specified Christianity for Christians on this platform to avoid any display of religious bias and favoritism but a true religious diversity.

Anyone who would comment on that specified would need to confess to:

I believe that JESUS CHRIST is the Son of GOD.
I believe that JESUS CHRIST is the Way, the Truth and Life.
I believe and I accept JESUS CHRIST as my LORD and Saviour.


Looking forward to seeing this implemented.

Thank you.

Westerhoffe.
Romance › Re: So A Lady Decided To Test Her Man's Loyalty, And This Happened (See Here) by Westerhoffe(m): 9:17am On Jan 08, 2024
The guy fall hands.

The guy have mind o!

He's sure a global property.
Romance › Re: 10 Years In Marriage He Is Yet To Raise A Voice Or Cheat On His Wife(photo) by Westerhoffe(m): 9:05am On Jan 08, 2024
This generation trying to normalize abnormal stuffs. Must he fight his wife? undecided


But… if this man try that, he won't survive it if she just sit on him. cheesy
Politics › Re: Let's Police Ourselves For The Betterment Of Nairaland. by Westerhoffe(m): 9:01am On Jan 08, 2024
Ireportlive:
grin grin
Is this when they say, The Internet Never Forgets!
Or
Monitoring Spirits!

Which one oga? grin grin grin
Family › Re: Happy New Year by Westerhoffe(m): 5:27am On Jan 08, 2024
DiamondJude:
I'm not blaming God for my short coming, just wish He created me different.

Many will easily blame the devil but I know I'm responsible for my bad actions.

I just want God to intervene.
If you want GOD to intervene, what you do is PRAY,
and not to question GOD.

Have you not read what He said here:

2 Corinthians 12 (KJV)
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⁸ For this thing I besought the Lord thrice, that it might depart from me.
⁹ And he said unto me, My grace is sufficient for thee: for my strength is made perfect in weakness. Most gladly therefore will I rather glory in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me.
Family › Re: If Your Wife Wakes Up At 4 AM To Cook For You, That Food Is ….. Reno Omokri by Westerhoffe(m): 5:23am On Jan 08, 2024
okoIYAyin:
Y'all should please stop already! Making it look like it's such a big deal for a wife to cook for her family. Lot of people have been doing it for ages and we didn't hear a noise.
Nigerians and trending nonsense sha!!!
kernniejay:
It is because civilisation has turned many africans against their culture and values, and gender equality and feminism have made nonsense of our moral values.
These two quoted comments have it.

I remember my mum and dad laughing it out when discussing their married life with us that dad would at times ask for food in the middle of the night and she'd spring to make it happen. All I see on their faces discussing the past were the joy and happiness of those memories and lessons to us all.

Honestly, things have changed now with these set of generations bred from who knows what.
Family › Re: Happy New Year by Westerhoffe(m): 5:12am On Jan 08, 2024
DiamondJude:
So where can a mentally foolish man gets help?

So you think even the so called foolish people are happy being foolish?

If someone is seeking for help, if you can't assist the person don't make it more difficult for him.

So you think it's wrong to question God or you haven't read where God said someone will perish and the same God repented and changed his mind.

My problem is self made I know I'm just and even if I'm foolish I can still try to look for solution.

You might not like how I put it but this is my own way of trying to come out of my foolishness.
You think it's right to question GOD for your mistakes? undecided

I won't want to engage you on these words of yours…you could have just tried to seek help and not think you can question GOD.

Who do you even think GOD is? undecided
Politics › Re: Nigerian Soldiers Are Trained To Compete With Civilians Not To Fight War by Westerhoffe(m): 10:22pm On Jan 07, 2024
Nigeria is already a tired tree…
Christianity Etc › Re: God Doesn't Exist. by Westerhoffe(m): 7:19pm On Jan 07, 2024
EnemyofGod2:
Jacob fought God throughout the night and won God 😂
You might think you're reasonable with this, but you ain't.

What do you think someone who did this to Jacob in the thigh do to him if it was his neck or other part of his body, "if" he actually wanted to smack him down?

“And when he saw that he prevailed not against him, he touched the hollow of his thigh; and the hollow of Jacob's thigh was out of joint, as he wrestled with him.”
— Genesis 32:25 (KJV)
Christianity Etc › Re: God Doesn't Exist. by Westerhoffe(m):
FRANCISTOWN:
We talk of spiderman, batman, Antman, superman yet, they do not exist. So your argument is 50 years dead.


If you didn't understand sacarsm, then that's on you. The OP has never stated that Satan exists.



The OP has not said in his heart. He has said it loud on Nairaland. This as well doesn't apply.

Any question?
It's senseless always trying to make unreasonable points with Spiderman, Superman, Antman, Unicorn, bla bla bla. Were you not informed they were "human comic characters or movie actors?"
They still exist in their movies and the humans who played the characters ain't non-existent.
Please say something reasonable.

There is an adage which says, "If you think you know how to speak, remember there is someone who knows how to listen. And if you claim you know how to write, remember there is someone who knows how to read."


EnemyofGod2:
so your God is watching Satan destroying his children and he is helpless to save his children, no wonder people are dumping their bible in the dustbin this days and you are crying like hungry goats
What is the quoted above implying?
A form or mockery?
Sarcasm?

"He said it on nairaland, and not in his heart" according to you, well, the same Bible said:

“O generation of vipers, how can ye, being evil, speak good things? for out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaketh.”
— Matthew 12:34 (KJV)


People like you and the OP needs a bit of reality for your mind to reset.

I'm not going to argue this with you or him, but one thing I'll say to you both is ,GOD is, and you'd find out someday when you get into the realm that is out of this one you currently are.
Politics › Re: Jackson Ude Accuses Betta Edu Of Looting N12billion In 6months by Westerhoffe(m): 4:29pm On Jan 07, 2024
When women are in power…
Celebrities › Re: See The Response Regina Daniel's Gave Her Husband After He Asked Her This! by Westerhoffe(m): 4:23pm On Jan 07, 2024
Answer not yet conclusive.
Business › Re: This SENEGALESE Man Built A Successful Fashion Business In Nigeria by Westerhoffe(m): 4:17pm On Jan 07, 2024
Nice one.
Christianity Etc › Re: God Doesn't Exist. by Westerhoffe(m): 2:02pm On Jan 07, 2024
It is because you know GOD exists you are saying He doesn't exists.

You don't talk of what does not exist…
Nobody talks of nothing that never existed, for that's why they will never come to the human mind.

You believe Satan exists, but not GOD…? How hilarious!

Well, the Bible says, either you believe or not:

Psalms 14 (KJV)
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¹ (To the chief Musician, A Psalm of David.) The fool hath said in his heart, There is no God. They are corrupt, they have done abominable works, there is none that doeth good.
² The LORD looked down from heaven upon the children of men, to see if there were any that did understand, and seek God.
³ They are all gone aside, they are all together become filthy: there is none that doeth good, no, not one.

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