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yjay:
simple - taking responsibility!!!!!!

Taking responsibility for what? Shagging u? is your own made of gold that he cannot look elsewhere? or wait. . .  for the priviledge of calling himself your man?

Stay there and keep waiting for responsibility, another correct chic will soon snatch him from u

TheSeeker:
@TheBlessed Now that's a woman! Someone who can work and stand her ground, not some cheap-paid-a$$-$lut-b*tch-girl like some gold diggers here. I hate such lazy a$$ women. God Bless You jareeee


@Whitelexi I am wondering where she's been lately. She should come and shut these diggers' mouths up!

At times like this u want a mature woman figure to make issues clear, i've heard from a few like spikey and TheBlessed. . .  Those are the kind of forward thinking people u really wanna identify with. . .  not anything in skirt and blouse that think they are indisposable!

d-ROC:
You've just explained a "remarkable phenomenon" about boyfriend snatching. Them girls are looking for a baller or a spender to snatch. For instance M.K.O. Abiola was far from handsome but his wealth got him like 20 some wives( if i'm correct). The wives were all on an allowance(even till this day). Fela is another good example.
Most girls talk about class but at the end of the day it boils down to how much cash the guy has. Why then will an educated lady decide to settle for second wife to an affulent man, knowing fully well that he has a wife at home? They don't mind sharing him when it comes to that considering the security involved.

I've seen christian sisters get pregnant to trap a yahoo-guy because of his wealth and flashy lifestyle. Broke up with a girlfriend (the one that demanded allowance), In her tears she told me that if only she had trapped me like that sister did to the yahoo boy then I would'nt have had the chance to walk away so easily.
It's crazy

You really should be doing thanksgiving in church for delivering u from the evil of womanhood

@TheSeeker, when people start being abusive, its better to leave them talking to themselves

vikkieb:
whats this controversy about? A guy feels its wrong to give to his "lover"(wen he can afford it), fine then go on being tite fisted and see the outcome. love naturally gives so if you claim to be in love n cant give then it could'nt be love. Even a gurl can give allowance to her guy if shes in the position to do so, i mean its all about the word LOVE.if only you know what it truely means.
@sugarbella's first post, thumps up!

Rubbish

There's a difference between giving with your church mind, and having to pay a monthly allowance to a girl so that she can be your girlfriend.
Read between the lines.

Thor:
The maximum allowance I can give a girl is 15ml every 20 minutes

Your plant must be operating at maximum capacity

You should be donating some of that to charity

na2day?:
i am off to buy u that diamond ring

Is he a she, or is she a he

@Topic: Those who say a girlfriend should have an allowance only expose their cheap lack of ambition, and although it is their opinion, and of course freedom of speech is a b.i.t.c.h, we should all condemn what is obviously wrong. . . We should strongly identify with reality, and what we all agree to be the truth. Afterall, evil is an option but should it then be encouraged?

kokoA:
Nigerian girls are very poor, none of them can afford a keke NAPEP self.

Not true not true

sugabelle:
Hmmn, whitelexi, now it's a joke, abi? Well, you told me what you thought of me, and I was merely returning the favour. Anyway, being who you are, I'm sure you know all about girls with stinking mouth. Animal lover. I still maintain, you no dey my category. Quench.

Damned right about that one, u r one low down dirty. . .  I certainly wont stoop down to your level. Na u go quench from the same odour oozing from your stinking mouth. People like u r too proud to apologise when u r dead wrong - trying to twist this into a joke was a huge waste cos i know a joke when i see one and u were abusive down there as other users observed, so dont try pulling any fast reversals. Before this incident i didnt even know u, now i know u to be a joke of a girl, piss off pls

Lick your toes my ass, u need to grow up.

sugabelle:
whitelexi or what ever you are called, I know your type, your antecedents and your level; you're not worth licking one of my toenails. You and that barely intelligible person who has posted above me^^^^^^^^, kelvinj. I won't repeat myself so I suggest you re-read my posts, but next time with more objectivity and maturity.

Girl, i've heard some good things about u in the other thread where guys analyze girls. . .  but if this is how your tongue wags, then i'm sorry to say that some people surely have the wrong impression of u. Can u not take a joke? I just tried to play down your beef with TheSeeker and u wanna turn on me??

BTW who told u i'll even think of licking your dirty toes?? Thunder fire that your stinking mouth there, animal

LadyT

I like LadyT but LadyT doesn't like me sha . She posts some serious and mature stuff shen she is serious. She's quite sporadic, now she's serious and then the next thing u know, she at it again
She probably a BBW, posts out of London, no idea about her status. . . Not sure about her being a bargain, but will make a good girlfriend if the man is strong handed

congoshine:
whitelexi,you're allowed to differ,but please don't question my motives. . . .we all see things from diff perspectives . State your own & I'll state mine.

If u take offense cos i said you're on your own there, how do u expect spikedcylinder to take your comments?

I feel u exxagerated and i aired my views on that issue, spikey has to be fair to all as a mod, and that will give her some negative talk, but u should not overestimate that.

Luxoire: I dunno nothing about where she's from or where she's at, but she comes across to me as one mature and realistic babe. . .  I would always be interested in what she has to say.

congoshine:
Ok. .  .
Subject : Oyinda:

Analysis:
Deeply religious _{(like all 99% of all naija babes)}

Seems to be the really sensitive type,y'know the type u have to be reallly,really careful not to offend. . . .(& may just shoot u if u cheat on her  ) .  

Prognosis: girlfriend material  

Pure speculation thrash talk, she is just like many naija babes who will pretend their asses out only to show their true colours in future.

congoshine:
Subject : Spikedcylinder:

Analysis:
Has plenty of internet time  
Working,Naija based (good guaranteed bank balance  )
A shade too aggressive ^{(the reasons behind this ,still being studied,I'll report back once I find out)}

Prognosis:  Solid wife material!

Spikey is one of the most realistic female posters on NL, just create a poll and guys will tell u that. She has a solid reputation and is more of a wife material than many i know.

congoshine:
Subject : Michelin:

Analysis:
Aka 'The Teeny Bopper'
Edo (Ishan) origins
EU based
Generally mistakes internet access for maturity
Sharp tongue(translated to keyboard),tho' this may be linked to No 1 analysis above

Prognosis: Girlfriend!

I think Michelin demands extra attention from a guy, that doesnt make her require extra gestation. She is quite down to earth and realistic too. . .


It looks like u have targeted some girls for bashing, but any guy who knows whats up will ignore u on that level. . .  I think u r on your own there

sugabelle:
TheSeeker, is it for me you wrote that many many project? So you still haven't grown up. Because someone actually agreed with you 110%, we no go hear word. Rubbish and nonsense. Don't worry your head if my own is salary or not. I no get time to read you pointless post but one thing's for sure: you're not mature enough to be posting on the Romance section on the NL forum. First girl to feel your venom indeed. Is that the best you've got? ((((yawwwwwwnnnnn))))

@TheSeeker: I'm sensing some really deep emotional connection here. . . You should get in there mate

_{And dont forget to give her some salary}

Used to be hot on Alicia Keys but right now i'll double up with Jordin Sparks as well

@TheSeeker I saw that post, i just didnt reply cos i knew it was not gonna be good

I get easily irritated by such comments from lazy ass girls who cant be bothered to pick themselves up and get busy. So you've been with him for ages - so what? He still doesn't owe u nothing, if u wanna talk of sex - its a 2-way thing he gave u, u gave him, so whats the beef? If u didnt give him, he woulda got it from elsewhere, so why r u expecting an allowance? what does that make u? what does it say of u? A guy can give when and how he deems fit, u cannot sit there and honestly tell me u expect a monthly allowance cos u've been with him for yrs. . . Thats ridiculous.

I had a gf who was just like this yrs ago, and the mere thought of her makes me cringe - she was the most materialistic person ever and i really wonder how i put up with her demanding nature for 8yrs! Damn.
Naija Girls should learn to get what they need by themselves, when u get gifts from a guy: 1) u understand and appreciate that gift more cos u know what it takes to make money yourself, and 2) u actually come across to guys as someone who can take care of herself and with that comes a greater respect threshold.

They'd b.i.t.c.h at each other all day and astronomical levels of gossip would be rife

There'd be cat-fights up every single street and the threshold for lesbianism would be zero%

It'll be unimaginably slow with no economical growth and i cant even imagine how the govt of the day would look like with governors more interested in the latest fashion than in their civil duties e.t.c. Damn! what a world that would be

@Poster: are u a lesbian??  Just out of curiousity of course

TheSeeker:
Just as she must have been smart enough to ask herself that question about you, she furthered queried herself, "how would you be kissing a girl of such tender age?". That is how it is. You can't make a commitment, you don't get no kiss and she's smart enough to get that.

But, she may have this kind of sexual hormones that comes throbbing whenever a man lays hands on her and speculating what kind of man you might be, she decided to back on at the "kiss" stage.

But why cant she just give it to him straight - like that pear cider made of only pears?
Why not just say: Eyonigger, u need to step up the plate and make a commitment or else i wont be kissing u for more than 20secs a day??

I used to do that, then i heard news about where my money was really going. . .  So i had to revisit the issue and now, the only person who has a monthly allowance from me is my mum. Not like it achieves much for her, no, but the mere fact that she will appreciate it and pray for more blessings for u - that alone is a good incentive.

@Topic: Thats a no-no!

@TheSeeker - 110% correct!

Busy_body:
I can't handle him, i ain't got the ball to bell the cat, not even when he is not going thru PMS Whitelexi, I am on my way to get a new keyboard, honest

My luv, no mind my haters jare, u know how we roll na

_{BTW, i hope u got that new keyboard sha. . .}

Ouch, looks like someone's got their backside kicked

smooooooth:
nice thread, but u dnt expect most pipu to be sincere with their replies. expecially the ladies, who will celebrate 21 today, 22 tomorrow, then next 20

we shld rather concentrate on how matured we are at heart, that reflects in our post. so i dnt need to se birth certificates to know pipu like, topup,

sistawoman, Mr brown, whitelexi, izeek, are matured, even though they may really be under 20. i always read their post and listen to what they

have to say to serious issues. BTW i am 12, and i am getting married next year.

We thank God, we thank God

St. Leo's Catholic Sch/Maryland Convent Private Sch - Primary Education

St. Gregory's College S/West Ikoyi Lagos - Secondary Education

Enugu State Uni. of Sci. and Tech - BSc Hons
Univ of Nigeria Enugu Campus - BSc Hons

Univ. of Greenwich London - MSc
London Business School - MBA

Herro is it me you're rooking for

You need a lot more impressing to get my number

StephenP:
LOL we all want to feel important, dont we whitelexi?

Seriously, i sent out texts to 5 girls and one of them came back saying i should leave her out. . .  it turns out she was my primary suspect and suits the description just fine

spikedcylinder:
All these people feeling like James Bond sef.

James bond sef go fear

It will be easier for u if the person involved is a guy, in this case sha, the reverse is the case

Best mate! Girl can sit there when we're married

I've recieved pleas from the girl involved. . . She doesnt want to be named. I have to respect that. . . sorry.

What will make a guy change drastically b4 just marriage?

_{The answer my friend, is flying in the wind - the answer is flying in the wind}

Allow me identify her?

If there's anyone blessed with the knowledge of NL girls that dont post much, it should be my humble self.

I shall provide 5 names and then narrow them to 3, at that stage u will know that i know who she is

That word "Cheating" is just so over rated!

I may catch my fun, have flings, do any kinda thrash action. . .  but one thing i know i'm not doing is cheating, cos i have zero commitment levels with anyone and since i supposedly cheat with girls, if i cheat then they also have cheated init