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Dude, The fact that you've given it a thought gives me the impression that u already see a possibility of it happening.

The truth is hard, the truth is cold, and the truth is bitter. A woman is a woman, body no be firewood, the next hot guy that gets her in a tight corner is probably gonna do her. . . They are fragile, and if you're away for long, then they graduate from fragile to vulnerable.

See why naija cannot move forward? Dem still dey fight against technology

Thats a massive shame

luxoire:
because they can!!

And cos we're very busy too. . .

Can a jehova witness girl get married outside?

Can a cock grow balls?

@Poster, u dont need to look for love, continue the way you've been going, love will come looking for u soon. . . hopefully!

_{Snaps fingers frantically and continuously shakes head}

Umunwayi sef! Kai Tufiakwa!!!

Honestly, i dunno the background to this story but my instinct tells me there is another thread with some more depth because many here have commented on your profession and poor grammar.

Based on what i already know, I have to say that marriage is a different ball game and as long as you've not gone into it yet, you need to consider your options properly first. . . and that is irrespective of how many yrs you've been with anyone. If u feel she has a temper problem, u should consider whether u can put up with it till death do u part.

People who have a temper problem can make u do things u would ordinarily not do, and when u lose that temper. . . you're as good as at her mercy, and u know what i mean.

You need a lot of quiet time in a place that offers serene comfort, there are some key questions u need to ask yourself.
Why have u been with her for this long?
Do u think u can control your anger when she's burning hot?
Think of the positive attributes that endear her to u. . . how u guys met. . . what u probably went through to get her love. . .

You honestly need to do some thinking.

Wonderful!

_{Shakes head}

Wonderful!!!

I think the confusion here is a cultural thing.

Most girls in naija will do that initial gragra thingie with a guy by saying no when they know they might change that in future, but u dont get that with most girls in europe or other continents. . . If they like u, they will even come to u and make conversation, but if u approach them and they say no, then it means no.

Dude, i've read through your post and i have to agree with Ifeleke.

Your relationship is currently in complication, however it was not always like that. . .  I started from somewhere, read my siggy below: "Shit dont just happen, shit takes time, and effort, and planning". If the facebook relationship status has changed to "Its complicated", then its safe to say, u r now only assuming u have a babe! As far as i can see, her feelings for u changed with her status message and she's now telling the entire facebook world that she's in a difficult place and soliciting for one hunk of a dude to come and save her.

My advice:  Move on, change your own facebook status to "Single", and have fun. Make sure u end it officially before u move into something new though.

Good luck

You say this like u r really young, how old are u?

ammamat:
Am quiting my relationship today, , i need friends to keep me going, the funniest part is that the guy went away with plent of my stuff to mention but few, cell phone, international passport, 3 ATM cards with other document,

please i do not know where and how to start,

Are u planning to end a relationship after it has ended

gen2genius:
@ Whitelexi, that's sarcasm, right?

Biola, talk (abi na type) not wink!

Honestly. . . The part about the west is not sacarstic. Even if she has been saying YES YES YES, but just as you're about to put your thingie into her she changes it to NO, bros stop right there, cos its a bridge between u walking free and u having a criminal record.

Look at it this way bro, if u r in naija and u r not goodlooking, and u have no job, no house, no car, but u have good prospects. . . Chances are u will get this sort of response from girls at first but they may change if they see some seriousness in u. In this case, NO can become YES.

However, if u r in the western countries, a fine boy, have a super job, a sports car, your own crib - worth £10m, can control cashflow, and a guest of honour at any major function. . . If the girl says NO, then No means NO - No questions about it, because in minutes u can be reduced from your high horse to a tramp.

I've been hearing people talking of this koko mansion but i never knew it was for real. . . I'm sat in-front of my tv with my eyes popping out and my mouth wide open at the girls and how they're disgracing themselves on international tv!

They're in there talking about how they'll be very good wives and i am shocked at how they even wanna achieve that. . . On high definition, u can see the strands of hair in their head and all i can say is they're nearly all razz and dumb. I wonder what kind of men they hope to attract with this sour display

Do u really need to open a thread just to say thank u? me thinks u could've said thank u in any of your initial threads .

I dont want to bring u complications
I just want one night of satisfaction

I think a little jealousy is necessary if the person means anything to u at all, but an excess of it can be said to be insecurity and that is destructive.
Years back when i was very conscious of these things it made me look insecure, but now i dont let those things work me up. . .  If she starts getting cosy with guys, i invite the craziest girls over and ask them to feel at home

If your bf/gf never bats an eyelid when other girls are flocking over u, u really should get worried. . . If she confronts u with mild criticism - it is good, but where she starts ranting, just put her in her place and shut her up!

Better stop her from telling u lies at this early stage of your marriage, before it goes too far and too deep.


See my siggy _{\/ \/ \/}

luxoire:
i agree

I dont think it affects the men as deeply as it affects women.

Bros, nothing do u jare, reply the emails, check more profiles. . . Enjoy

I no fit shout

luxoire:
so they are testimony that those type of girls Do exist. like me abi? (dont even say it smarty--pants!!)

women who spend a lot of time aroung ppl of similar behaviour will unavoidably pick up some of the traits around them good or bad!
it is a human thing even men do it - havent you seen where a man starts behaving like an idiot because his new group of friends are certified clowns?!! me i have ohh

no stereotypes - it is a human thing

but apart from that there is nothing to say a woman in north America will have the same reaction to something as a woman in Mongolia.

Very good points but i did mention nigerian girls in my post so leave the mongolians and the yanks out of it oh1

luxoire:
hahah as long as you no mean say i be one of them then no le-le

Naaaa, u r [and i dont mean to swell your head] my favourite female poster by some distance. You seem to control your posts properly and your arguments are not biased many ways
I would skip many posts to read what u have to say before going back to read other opinions. . .  I'm still looking out though, for the day u'll make a horrendous post. I have a strong feeling that might take some time though

The sweetest part is that u get to wash her entire back. . .  

luxoire:
on a serious note - not all fine girls sha!! , i am living proof - lol - oyah start on me make i hear

I love my life, i no fit fight nairaland girl kingpins - those ones wey dey drink panadol on another person headache. . . Their mouth no dey connected to their brain at all at all