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shilling:
Won't even bother marrying a poor guy even though he may become rich tomorrow. Total waste of time for me

Same applies to the rich, stinkingly rich today, some containers drown for high sea, you're poorer than a pauper
Marry rich man, and end up struggling

If you're tired of men, then free men naa
Stop dating, or try women, where's your sense of adventure?

Hehehe

[center][size=20pt]MEN ARE SCARCE[/size][/center]!

If na me, the marriage will wait oh, until u feel the fire. If it is not yet here, when will it come? Abeg marriage na life long entrapment, i no dey for regrets in the future - i dodge am!

spikedcylinder:
I agree.
Its better for you to tell me you just want a fling than tell me you want to "love and adore" me then later come back and say you want to "do" me in your office.
If a guy is straight about that with me, I would appreciate it more. . . . it might be painful if I really like the guy and he tells me he just wants sex but I'D appreciate his honesty.

Honestly speaking, u of all people would not take that from a guy no matter how much u like him
Thats like saying "excuse me, i think u're a pretty slut and i'D like to get down with u. . .  How much will that be for a one night stand?"
He'D be lucky to get away with a lyrical battering

Edak sounds like a very sad person. . . I mean sad as in. . . amazingly sadistic. Life is not always fair but u pick yourself up when u take fall, rather than lie on your backside and moan like a cow about it

spikedcylinder:
@whitelexi,
Better?

Better

spikedcylinder:
Nah babes. . . . you're still dumb.






Oh. . . that "loving you in the clouds" thing was hypothetical by the way.

Wait, I didnt add "in the clouds" before did I?
Oh well.

Kai! see as we don deviate from the topic at hand sha. . . Oya! rewind small and fall into formation!

spikedcylinder:
Lol!

I aim to please.

This thread is all about telling the truth always

spikedcylinder:
Yes yes, I see it. We've both been with chickens.

That was straight out of my thoughts - as usual
You never cease to impress me

spikedcylinder:
Whitelexi. I love you.

You don't know this and you have no way of knowing, does that make you dumb then?

Nope, perhaps it would occur to me if we were banging like every other day that u might just love me

spikedcylinder:
You see?? It DID cost her the man.

Moral lesson? Always stay mute. Even if he asks what you wonno eat for dinner, stay mute because who knows? He might just hate the way you say "Chicken". . . . thinking you may have "been" with the chicken.

It did cost her the boy - i think its fortunate for her.

Aint they all boys

No they aint all boys

@Spiked: Now the puzzle makes sense. I now see how we're related

spikedcylinder:
He might not be dumb. He might just be innocently oblivious and ignorant of the goings and comings of his girl. Afterall, he was sleeping with her was he not? So if she claims she's pregnant, he should expect the possibilty.

Innocently oblivious = Dumb

Ogbu mma adighi e kwe ka mma ga ya n'azu!

spikedcylinder:
I think you should still keep saying that. He will find out on his own.

It appears to me like this guy is pretty dumb, not sure he will find out.

1) Do u pity or fancy the guy?
2) Did u have a quarrel or fight with your girlfriend?

Pataki:
YES. However she do have to convince me that her change is total.

I would place her on a trial period, any slip from her. . . . . . .

Exactement! Mais seulement si elle a une histoire ou la promiscuité

_{Exactly! But only if she has a history of promiscuity}

spikedcylinder:
That would really be telling a lot and it might have cost her that man which would definately be the case if he is the close minded sort who would like to believe the woman he's with hasnt been sexually active before him. Some men really can't bear that thought you know.

It could cost her the man: If he's a boy, yes thats possible. . . Almost every man has has a quickie that is not very plausible and often quite embarrassing, but its best for the guy to know from her rather than hooking up with the guy later and hearing from him. . . That will even help him make up his mind quicker about her.

Men who like to know a woman has not been sexually active before him: I seriously dont like to know that i'm dealing with someone of little or no experience, perhaps men of that category exist in sizeable numbers - i dont know. As long as u spare me all the shenanigans about how it happened and so and so, i dont mind knowing that u slept with a few men.

Ujujoan:
So Whitelexi, tell me you'D be 'honest' enough to say . . . I didnt date her, but I had sex with her once.

I don't know why Uju is picking on me, i've made my position clear. In the scenario u mentioned. . .  u can claim to have been diplomatic or to have been exaggerating a little bit, but in my dictionary, u told a lie. Saying u worked with him or u were close is not the entire truth. a better way to put it should've been:

"we worked together at a time and had this crush for each other, we didnt particularly date but in a moment of madness [one night when we had to work overnight], we had sex. . .  After that day, we avoided each other and i guess it died there."

This might be harder for u as a woman, but if u truly want to know, the answer is "YES", i would've mentioned we had sex.

Ujujoan:
Thats a lie!! You can't possibly tell the truth all the time. You might not always lie outrightly, but you can't always tell the whole thruth. It's not even advisable.

Sorry love, my upbringing was based on extremely strict rules about telling lies, so as a baby i was already telling the truth regularly - i had to! Not when u're the last born
Old habits die hard, i have lived with it since and besides i realised it was not a bad thing so i stuck to it tooo.

spikedcylinder:
Whitelexi, long time no see.

Spiked, I dey ohh, just too busy and also learning to jog and run again. . . Its doing very well sha
How your end nko

I want to lay in bed,no sex, no kissing, no cuddling, just talking, laughing, enjoying each others company, listening to john mayer, or perharps john legend, "ordinary people" would do, u know feel good music.

You dont need a man yet, you need a boy first

Yes, i always do. . . I dont place potential outcomes ahead of truth - i say the truth and forget what happens after. Surely, everybody can do that.

izeek:
sure whitelexi,
but am sure u would not want to lay an easy tin too.
afterall hiv dey for town, no dey show for face.

Chances are that the average guy will lay an easy pretty girl rather than keep chasing an ugly girl playing hard. . . That said, i would also like to point out that the easier the pretty girl is will determine how many condoms are used as a precaution

Ujujoan:
I'll watch my tongue when I NEED to. There's a dating and meet-up zone, she can go there and beg for dates and spare us such distractions in this section.

My problme is with misplaced requests and please what has my being ugly got to do with being irritated by stupid posts. And why is everybody pitying her. is it because she's s girl?? If a guy posted this rubbish I can imagine the number of girls that will be jumping down his throat now.

Uju, i dunno if u realize u're fighting this battle alone. . .  This is not the first time u've insulted a poster because of threads u feel are not right. . .  If it is not right then one of the moderators will get it out or move it - it aint up to u please.

izeek:
@ easybabe,
even if she is that ugly,
she is not that easy to lay.

my dear is better to be ugly than cheap.
u no commit crime.

Nobody wants to lay any ugly thing

Easybaby:
Good luck


@ujujoan, what is your problem?
Are you that urgly? [/color]

My thoughts exactly

Brash!:
agree in a way with some of your comments but one thing i don't agree with is sheer lunatics creating new ID's just to abuse the section!

some people post stupid threads delibrately even though they don't really need it, but just want to create a scene by force

_{I bet this poster has another user ID}

I understand u too, but it will only be effective if anyone even as much as responds to the invite. I felt that people will probably not respond appropriately but not in the form of insulting the poster. . .  We want to encourage people to be themselves without risking an assassination of character.

All these oyibo theories are not always tailor made for situations concerning naija peeps. . . We know how we handle these things amongst us, just bone and tell the person koro-koro, its in the best interest of all parties concerned, shikena.

Ujujoan:
Why can't seun just get rid of mumu posters like this

You need to watch your tongue sport! If she wants a date whats it got to do with u? This is the romance section, why shouldnt she advertise?
Free the girl abeg, if she puts up her pic and gets herself a nice guy - goodluck to her, but thats fairplay. You dont have to sieze the opportunity to attack her PLEASE!

This can be anybody including kanu or amara sef
It can be a jealous ex, a diapproving family member or even one of kanu's friends
I just think it is unnecessary to start digging these tunnels now, its too late. . . Dem don marry, born 1, born 2, and e be like say dem don even born 3, so PLEASE reserve your vexation for another lifetime, PLEASE!

Most men fall into one of or a combination of two or more of three categories namely:
Drinkers, Smokers, and womanisers. If u find one without any of these traits, then prepare for the worst

tope2000:
Damn rite, by the way you can't find him on Nairaland

Not true, Not true  

The answer to "How Do You Know If The One You Want Wants You?" is: you dont need to know!

Mehhnnn, this is one of those crazy questions that are so difficult to answer. . .  Like asking me to tell a girl that i'm about to break her heart. . .  or asking me to admit that my wife is ugly. . .  How do u think this is gonna happen? Its just not fair, Period!