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sistawoman:
I feel yall for real. I like to know you are thinking of me but shit too much of any thing is gluttony and that is sinful.

God bless the day you were born
You are a true daughter of your father, your mother was only the witness

spikedcylinder:
Life is never easy. I'm guessing they start seeing it as choking when they've had enough of other things.

You should revisit that movie - How to Lose a guy in 10 days

He had not had enough of anything but he was already tired of all the calls and all the clingy behaviour. . . It gets worse when, as a guy, your friends notice

I know ideally u should always want to be with the one u love but when they get all clingy and all demanding of your time, energy and resources, then it becomes a burden - for me sha. I think the key here is to find the right balance to it all, a girl should be able to tell when its begining to get on the nerve, she should know when to just stop or pause a bit.
I could get frightened away when a girl starts pushing the limits quite often, many guys dont like that.

don't over blame the dude abeg, some girls are just so good in bed while others are just better, not.

Missy B:
It's 'Be-nice' . . .a name should begin with a capital letter.
I still say. . . the last statement you quoted from my previous reply is correct. . . .
otherwise,correct it.

PS:I started this jst* to letcha* know that when correctin' sm1,there's
no reason to be rude. . . cuzz* you aren't perfect.You owe Be-nice an apology  .
Be-nice sorry for digressin'. . . I'm out now.

@be-nice: With all due respect

I'm so sorry that i cannot apologise for reprimanding you after that howler of an error you made up there. Reason being, that you have still not made the correction

Missy B:
Jst take correction and not seek error where there's none.
1-Record/Records=same
2-Space between the word and comma?you must be kiddin' me.
3-what's wrong with'Make sure'?

You sef take correction like be-nice did and stop justifying your blunders. . . By the way, "Make sure your E is written in a capital letter" is wrong!

Missy B:
Just for the records,when next you wanno spell 'English',make sure the 'E' is written in a capital letter.

Firstly it is record and not records, secondly there should be a space after your comma, and thirdly, you should not say "make sure your 'E' is written in A capital LETTER"  

Scared your husband might be watching u

We've had enough of u too, please free us

NO, they're very flat

@Be-Nice: it is QUIT, not QUITE

Kai! This generation sef, all u lot know is how to chase men even before u r able to speak good english.

I think its a refreshing switch, let them chicks understand what it means to live off their bf's

Dont let the guy she's cheating with come and mend u

steaming:
Here's another:

Why can't a girl love a man that has been very nice and good to her? What does it take to love and be in love with a Guy?

Not all girls are like this. Having said that, i think some girls already have a rough picture of their dream man. . .  I once met a girl who said her man would bump into her in a supermarket and they would both go on their knees to gather her shopping from the ground, and then she would realise how gorgeous he was and they would go ahead to date and marry. . .  She's still waiting now and all her younger ones are married with kids
When you focus your mind on the dream guy, it can be difficult to notice the best things happening around u. Most times u realise everything when it is too late or when a rude awakening happens to u. That is the answer to your 1st question.

The 2nd question: what does it take to love and be loved?
Simple, mutual respect, mutual trust, mutual love and mutual focus and understanding. If your minds are moving in the same direction, and u understand how your actions impact on your partner, then u have passed the 1st stage.

spikedcylinder:
Speaking from experience are we?

Yes

I always see it coming when they start acting strangely, and i break off before the sh*t hits the fan

Even if i'm madly in love, even if na my wife, even if anything! it wont get to that ohhh, i rather remain a bachelor

Dayuuummmm

spikedcylinder:
Ok. Here's one :

Why would a guy date a girl for 7years (and counting) then "suddenly" realise that she's not "the one"? How the hell do you guys recognise "the one"?

7yrs is a long time and something must've gone fundamentally wrong to cause a separation. I think the answer to that question lies with both of them, they probably stopped trusting each other in the heat of temptation and jealousy. . . Such relationships are not failed by lack of love, but by lack of trust and severe jealousy - the type that leads to insecurity, which in turn causes too much investigating and snooping, which brings about the desire for space, which can cause constant outbursts and arguments, which leads to frustration and anger, and eventually a need to entertain some peace of mind by being alone.

ammamat:
@ whitealexi sorry for the gramatical error i was actually busy while a friend was helping me. you can post your corrections, observations and comments, maybe that will be corrected , still need your contributions

Its Whitelexi

ammamat:
My sister just enter into a relationship that is not upto 1 month yet but the guy is behaving some how.
Please I need advice here for her because her relationship has never last for 1 year.
This guy just finish from Maritime Academy e, Let me just go streignt to the point,
How they both meat was through my sister's casual male friend, this guy has always looking forward to see my sister and same with my sister, but since when this guy came back his acting differnt , he will promise calling my sister but he will not, He said that he love my sister and he will wish to settle dowm with her.
Please i need advice on how my sister will handle this , because right now my sister has already given him her heart.
And i don't know how to advice her, please help

This english na wah ohhhh
This is shocking, i can point out over 10 errors in one short paragraph!

I think big bros is doing u a favour, seriously - cos obviously, u are not doing your job!

u need to thread with caution here, what if u get what u want but its so good u want more? have u thought of that? the issue of a one-off is not good because emotions will come into the picture. My advice? u cant eat your cake and have it, choose one guy and drop the other, if u enter this emotional thug of war, there can only be one looser and i know in the back of your mind u know who that is

Tranngirls:
Whitelexi let me guess you want to mess the prom
queen but you know you have to be better than
the prom king to do that. (Read my other posts)

Dont even push your luck girl, i derive joy from your post because it shows how childish the posts before it are. . . Its like differentiating between marriage material and girlfriend material, but thats where it stops.
Which one is prom king and queen? na u sabi that one abeg

Tranngirls:
Ujujoan what is your problem i hate it when girls like you
start your crap.Playah P i know that we women are crazy
people but as a man we need you to be our hero and if
you fall we will comfort you( at least i will). So hang in there
as Sean Connery said in THE ROCK "loser always talk about
going their best but winners go home and mess you prom queen"

I love this post

richo:
charles law states that volume is inversely proportional to pressure at static temperaure. p1/v1=p2/v2
as a master of physics, my advice to u is to increase the volume of money you spend on ur chic and pressure will honestly drop ^{i too much jo}

Nice write up - but thats physics and this is relationship!
@Poster: the easiest way to break a monopoly is to introduce competition, allow me suggest that you bring in a 2nd girl, trust me, the first will sit-up or go, especially when u make it clear that your heart is with the 2nd.

Any woman proposing to me is wasting her time. For the singular reason that u proposed to me - even if you're my God-given wife, i no go accept