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The Government had denied rumours on Sunday that a coup was under way as sustained gunfire rang out for hours from several military camps, with mutinying soldiers demanding more support for their fight against Islamist militants.

Government sources could not immediately be reached on Monday. Frustration has risen in the West African country in recent months due to the frequent killing of civilians and soldiers by the militants, some of whom have links to Islamic State and al Qaeda.

Nigeria too is heading in the same direction. The rank and file will one day become frustrated with the incessant killings of junior soldiers on the battle front due to lack of adequate arms and ammunitions, despite trillions of naira in defense budget year in year out. Added to the lack of prompt payment of meagre salaries and allowances that is paid late. Meanwhile the senior officers with political connections are living big.

I pray the Buhari administration sees the danger and quickly address the moral and equipment of our military fast before it degenerates into a crisis.

Oyiboman69:
you're not far from the truth also....
Let me put in some few points...oil was not discovered after the white men leave as they made you to believed, in fact, oil in Nigeria was used in fuelling their ships and plane during the second world war and the evidence is still there somewhere in Enugu state if I may recalled. go check one of this video from one Tony Nnamdi from YouTube and watch. you said our leaders should have taken advantage of their absence since independent and you maybe right... remember we're still operating with the templates they leave for us such as our constitution and the rest,our structural system of government, religion and they still control us,the major investment in Nigeria today such as those oil companies are all owned by the white and if you try to do against all these,you'll be sanctioned. through globalization,and we opened our market for free trade,that is why our textiles industry dies just to mention a few....
Any leader who is trying to make any African country great is either killed or removed... I maybe wrong but I can remember the way johe pombe magufulli of Tanzania died in his young age and how he is moving that country and like I said,I maybe wrong though in my assertion.

I'm also not disregarding the incompetence and greediness of our leaders but I'm also conscious of the templates we're operating on and that has been a yardstick for our under development as a country.

as for the harvesting our best...the problem is not new cos when they came during the slave trade, they selected our best, strong, young who can work in their cotton plantations, and their underground railway during their industrial revolution and this is not new now cos it is the same way they're still using but in different forms....

It all depends on how you're viewing it...but don't discredit the view of others in this same issues...

Africa is design to fail for since we're still under the control of the white men...they're also aided by the support of Afro pessimist which concluded the the black race is born to fail...as you said, our leaders are also a contributory factor but not the major problem,God bless you....

God bless you my brother. You are one of the rare enlightened few. And I don't mean western educated and brainwashed majority parading certificates as education. I wish we have just 100,000 Nigerians with your mindset, Nigeria will indeed start on its journey to recovery.

Colonial Africa was designed to fail. It was designed to perpetually act as a source of natural and human resources for Europe and the Americas. The Government, ecinomic and educatiinal structure was designed to achieve these goals. Until we realized these and change course we will be perpetual slaves.

musicwriter:
I think you all thought slavery has ended? Slavery will NEVER end, it can only evolve.

WE ARE STILL IN SLAVERY NOW.

And you all have to know that our ancestors were not stupid when slavery or colonialism was going on. No, they weren't stupid. They were as smart as we're today but in their HONESTY in dealing with visitors, they ended up being tricked. I say to you today, we're being tricked again and this little seemingly kind gesture would evolve into something unrecognizable in future. So, stop asking the question "what were our ancestors doing to have to be enslaved and colonized?"

Our ancestors were not tricked, they were greedy. So greedy that they sold their neighbours, their kinsmen and sometimes their family for material gains.

Till today black Africans continue to sell their neighbours, kinsmen and family members for material gains. Parents sell their children as house helps (domestic slaves), traffickers/pimps sell young girls as sex slaves. It is only black Africans in know that kidnap and sell young children to ritualists to be slaughtered for money rituals. Till today we value material gains than our neighbour's, kinsmen's or family member's lives.

And foreigners will always exploit that greed.

Having said that, I am not against the boy pursuing his education in America. Because he either go there or rot in Nigeria. When I finished secondary school I tried everything to proceed to university to no avail. No assistance came in from any source and there's no structure in Nigeria for student loan or something like that. So I dropped and instead taught myself.

You still don't get it. He is not pursuing his education in America. He already pursued it in Nigeria. He is only Furthering his education and career in America. Nigeria already educated him for about 15 years, America will only educate him for 2 years for masters and maybe another 2 years for doctorate. But he will contribute millions to the US economy and zero to the Nigerian economy.

As an individual he will succeed but his society will continue failing. Who will then develop his village/ state or country?

Let him go, at least the US is a better country to go. Blacks there seem to have African self consciousness than, say UK.

US is a better country today because the first settlers stayed, suffered and developed it. They had to endure famine, disease and lack of basic infrastructure. And they fought the colonial powers holding them back. They did not all run back to the comfort of Europe.

But it's still slavery in another name. We can change it when we get smart for real. Right now, we're not.

How do we change it when the ones with the human and mental resources are leaving, leaving behind only the dregs of the society. Remember the foreign powers and their cronies only need the natural and human resources from Africa to help develop their economies. They are not interested in making us self reliant.

HarunaWest:
America and other nations keep poaching our best and we are happy about it. For someone that was trained from the cradle in Nigeria. The black man has a fundamental problem...

That's the tragedy of the Blackman, been cursed by myopia. Others are poaching our best brains leaving behind the almajiris, cultists and militants. Any we wonder why we are not progressing but retrogressing.

Anyway we are progressing in the religious and spiritual industry.

DeepSight:
Do not lightly excuse domestic violence.

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Domestic violence is part of existence. We have to learn to manage it. We cannot be hiding our head in the sand and pretend it doesn't exist.


I doubt the wife is being held hostage by the husband. If she is not ready to manage or resolve the issues of domestic violence and dead bedroom with her husband, why not pack her load and leave?

DeepSight:
After being punched? With blood strewing from the wound?
Haba.

Na "agro" or "konji" cause am. Konji is not a respecter of rationality or reason.

Go listen to one of my favourite Tracy Chapman -
Last night I heard the screaming
Loud voices behind the wall
Another sleepless night for me
It won't do no good to call - the police . . . . . .


And when they arrive
They say they can't interfere with domestic affairs between a man and his wife

IJEYdiamond:
Seriously to be candid it becoming a big issues.

It's not becoming a big issue, it has always been a big issue. Since the beginning of time sex has always been a big issue for men and society.

Women should have to open up because i cant understand... this ooo... last year... it was this sex matter mostly from men... there is really something wrong... well like i use to say marry who u can handle sex wise... length size of d D... all those important things discuss it ooo..

This matter heavy oo!!

How can you say marry who u can handle sex wise when religious puritans insists on no sex before marriage? You are probably going to discover the length size, girth size and time size (how long he can last) on your wedding night.

Research as shown that men think about sex 19 times per day on average. Meanwhile they think about food 18 times a day. - https://www.cbsnews.com/news/men-think-about-sex-every-7-seconds-what-study-says/

In order words, men think more about sex than food.

So you see how serious the matter is.

She haven't said a word to me for over 5 days now. She cook for just herself and my daughter. she no longer sleep in our matrimonial bed, she would rather sleep in my daughter's room or the visitor's room, she no longer greets me anymore.

These are the points I am unable to understand or reconcile, who is paying for the food and the housing. Unless she is the breadwinner, I can't reconcile how she will cook and exclude you.

If she is no longer interested in the marriage, she should have said so and packed her load to her father's house. All these shenanigans is childish.

IJEYdiamond:
Its called Marital rape... Asian countries you will be jailed for it...... The sad one is she was bleeding from the mouth while doing it..

E heavy ooo... !!

That's why we are Africans.
Why would a woman marry a virile man and in less than 2 years into marriage deny him sex without any reason?

If my wife deny me sex for 6 months, I will just pack my load and leave the house for her and then restart my life. I will also demand a refund of my bride price and wedding expenses. In fact I would ask for an annulment of thr marriage and not just a divorce. It would be an insult to be answering divorcee to such a heartless woman.

Why should I keep feeding and housing a woman who has no feelings or regards whatsoever for me?

Bigdiddo:
If my woman abort my baby without telling me, its means she is been cheating with another man and the man owns the pregnancy. A cheating wife is more dangerous than poison. Becareful bro. If they stage your death , na that man wey they advice her and and f****k her go take over. Get sense bro.

That's the koko of the matter. She got pregnant for another guy and did not want you to find out. Why will a newly married woman do an abortion secretly? How did you even find out.

Back to the topic. This is obviously transferred aggression. She must be transferring the anger of losing her real lover and the baby, and you are to blame for both.

ono:
Erm, this is clear now. Sooo, what if PB and OK went to the rally? Did they go about burning malls and destroying properties like Antifa and BLM people did in the summer of 2020? Since when did it become a crime for a group to attend rallies - peacefully?

And if not for people like Epps, do you think that event would have gone violent and rowdy?

They went to a rally to stop the US Congress from carrying out its constitutional duty of certifying the elections.
That only sounds sensible to a MAGA.

So what did they expect to happen after the rally? For Trump to continue in office after January 20th 2021 or that Trump would be sworn in instead despite losing at the polls, at the states and at the courts.

Maybe next time maybe you guys should "protest peacefully" at the inauguration grounds on January 20th to stop the inauguration of a new president.

You guys just wanted to plunge the US into a political crisis because Trump lost an election.

I am ashamed for you after all the noise you made before the elections. Your shame lasted only a few years months as you went on a shame sabbatical only to come out making ridiculous claims.

ono:
My point is that people can manipulate "anything numbers" these days. Gone are the days of trusting in the "process" - especially in the US of A of today. Have you seen the polls lately, about the confidence levels of Americans generally in their institutions? Agencies like the FBI and CIA that used to be darling organisations that Americans love to work for and really look up to in times of national confusion or stuff like that have their ratings plummeting to all-time low - like never seen before. And this thing started largely from the days of Obama.

So it's Obama's fault that Republicans have lost confidence in the US electoral system? It seems the Republicans never recovered from a "black man" becoming US President. Obama destroyed confidence in the US electoral process and yet Trump won in the elections conducted under his watch.

It's is Trump that eroded confidence in US elections. Any election Trump wins is fair, but any election he losses is rigged. The irony is that when Hillary Clinton was ahead during the 2016 election Trump was already screaming emotional "the election is rigged", but when he eventually overtook Clinton and won, the elections suddenly became free and fair. Trump had never been known to concede defeat in anything.

In Newsom's case, his policies are unpopular in California, especially his shoddy handling of COVID-19, with his partying-while-the-state-burns attitude. But democraps rallied round him when the referendum was up.

That's why there was a referendum - to determine his popularity. That's the flaw of popular democracy. The most popular and not the best candidate wins.

So you expect the party not to rally around a candidate that just won a referendum?

Ciattrelli had to make sure and conceded (key point). Times have changed and it's a "shine your eyes" thing now, otherwise, democraps will impose their will on the people.

That's because Trump had polluted the electoral space.

What's wrong with Trump wanting to make sure before conceding? And if he's got evidence (like we are seeing now in Wisconsin, Georgia, Arizona, Philadelphia, Texas and elsewhere) what's wrong with that?

The problem with Trump is that he can never concede - never! He is prepared to split the baby in half if he doesn't get it.

In normal situations you present your evidence before the courts (from district court all the way to the Supreme Court). And you as a citizen should be bound by the decision of the courts. But Trump felt he was bigger than the courts and that he can impose himself as president extra constitutionally and judicially.

raumdeuter:
Has Stacey Abrams conceded that the 2018 Georgia Governorship election was lost and Kemp won fairly?

Is it fair that a candidate is supervising an election in which he is a candidate? If a Democrat should do that you guys will scream blue murder.

Did Stacy Abrams rally the Democratic party and her supporters to undermine the whole democratic process?

ono:
Like when Gavin Newsom recall fell short of the needed vote for an election in California and nobody in the GOP made any qualms about that. Same in New Jersey, the GOP candidate conceded defeat - even when the margin of victory was little, for a deep blue state like NJ.

Spin me something different.

A recall is not a general election, it is a referendum or a vote of confidence. Gavin Newsom had no opponent that can reject election or concede defeat.

It took 10 days after polls closed and a lots of pressure before before Jack Ciattarelli conceded defeat to Phil Murphy.

After Trump's election loss denial, no Republican would concede an election loss ever again. Even if a Republican looses by 99.9%, they would still challenge the election.

A Democrat won a US House seat this week with 79 percent of the vote. Her GOP opponent has not conceded.

An election in South Florida this week may serve as a marker for where the Republican Party stands in 2022, and how much American democracy has already changed since Donald Trump lost reelection.

The Democratic winner, Sheila Cherfilus-McCormick, is interesting. She is a progressive who spent her own money to win and backs the concept of universal basic income. She also becomes the first Haitian-American woman in Congress to represent Florida.

She won 79 percent of the vote over Republican Jason Mariner, who was born in Boston and founded a drug and alcohol detox center in Florida. Mariner got less than 20 percent of the vote and trails Cherfilus-McCormick by over 32,000 votes. For context, Biden beat Trump statewide in Georgia by 11,000 votes.

“Now they called the race, I did not win, so they say, but that does not mean that they lost either, it does not mean that we lost,” Mariner was quoted by the Miami CBS affiliate as saying.

He said he will file a lawsuit. Election officials say it takes 14 days to certify the results. Mariner, then, has 10 days to challenge them.
That said, this week’s episode shows the Republican Party could be drifting toward a new norm of refusing to concede — even in landslides.

In Washington state, the Republican candidate for governor refused to concede, even though results showed he lost by over 500,000 votes. Of course, Trump reiterated this week in an interview with NPR that he still wants to talk about how he believes the 2020 election was stolen from him.
https://www.bostonglobe.com/2022/01/13/nation/democrat-won-us-house-seat-this-week-with-79-percent-vote-her-gop-opponent-has-not-conceded/

mecussey:
Don't mind those saying otherwise... The op took the best decision.. Marriage not by force...forget Nigeria unity they say its by force. However, if I was the op I will have a time frame. May be after one year and she doesn't miss me, I get another wife or move on.

One year kwa? Why should the wife be away from her marital home for a while year without any valid reason? If she was away due to work or medical emergency, it is understandable, but to go live with her parents for one year because she needs space from her husband is unacceptable.
What about the daughter? Does it sound reasonable to deny the husband bonding with his daughter. The most important bonding between father and child is within the first 3 years. If they miss that opportunity, the father and daughter may never really bond again.

VickyRotex:
As in. The OP is just looking for an excuse to cheat. If not, allowing his wife to leave the house is not the solution here.

The OP and wife went back to dating after marriage. He is living a bachelor life again.

DeepSight:
Haba, marriage being a lifelong affair , there is bound to be "downtime" for either or both parties quite naturally.

marriage is a lifelong affair in theory, in practical it can be a short term affair.

Yes there are downtimes and uptimes for every thing including sex, but a down time of sex lasting over 6 months is enough ground for divorce by either parties.

This sounds way too rigid and mechanical for the nuances of sexx as I understand them to be - complete with all the "human" nature and mood swings which may be attendant thereto. The bold in the above, in particular, make it sound like you expect a wife to write a formal application for "leave" from sexxual duties, which must be presented with justifications and defended before a panel of inquiry.

If a wife wants to take a sabbatical from sexual duties, he must inform her husband, and the husband must consent. If the wife unilaterally decides on her own to go on sexual leave, then she should be prepared to allow the husband get sexual satisfaction from other means - including olosho.

Kai, so you are among those who are okay with the practice of banging the head of an unborn child with your prick.
Yuck.

The prick comes no where near the head of the unborn child. The prick stops at the vagina, the baby is safely tuck in the womb.

I dont know but it almost comes across as though you are designating the woman as a sexxual slave. I personally dont believe in "conjugal rights" as they are expressed in this context. There is too much nuance in sexxual matters for such a mechanical approach - and with that approach you reduce something that should be a natural chemical response to one another to a mere duty and physical chore. As far as I am concerned, even (and probably especially) within a marriage, the sexxual relations of the parties should be approached with as much gentle coaxing and seduction as was deployed prior to marriage. If not more.

Even the law recognizes "conjugal rights". Both partners have conjugal rights, meaning a husband should not deny his wife her conjugal rights. If you wife demands sex, it is your duty to satisfy that desire unless there are other extraneous factors.

DeepSight:
No it generally works both ways, thats why you have prenuptial agreements.

That's when prenuptial exist in the first place. Most marriages by couples smitten by the love bug don't even know what prenuptial means.
It's after being stung by a selfish partner that they insist subsequent marriages must come with prenuptials. Or if one party is from a wealthy home and the parents insisting on prenuptial to protect family fortune.

descarado:
For those of us living in diaspora even if Ghana.
The golden rule is NEVER EVER FORCE YOURSELF ON A WOMAN ESPECIALLY YOUR WIFE. YOU WILL ROT IN JAIL.
They have laws that work.
Nigeria don't.

Ghana is just trying to copy western values and system. If your wife can deny you sex ad infinitum, then you can also deny her affection, protection, security and comfort. What about the children? Who will provide for the children?

Even though I am a strong advocate for protection of women and children, the western world has taken it too far, by emasculating men in general. A man can't marry 2 wives, you can't commit adultery, you must provide for your wife, you must share your properties with your wife (she is not obligated to share hers), but she can refuse you sex at her discretion.

Anyway in Ghana, I hear it's the woman that pays dowry.

safarigirl:
LOL

Are you a child?

There are times when sex will not be on the table, there are times when sex will be an option. If your wife is pregnant, there are periods she will medically be unable to have sex

Why will sex not be on the table? Except there is a terminal disease like cancer, I don't understand why sex would not be on the table in a marriage.

Yes there are times when sex would not be an option, but a reason why it's not an option at a particular instance must be given and duscussed with the husband. She may be seeing her period, she may be ill, she may be too tired or stressed. But to deny your husband sex for months without reason is cruel and insensitive.

Obviously you have never been pregnant. There is no period during the pregnancy that a woman is medically unable to have sex. In fact her sexual appetite doubles after the first trimester. This is due to raging hormones acting up. A woman can have sex a day before giving birth.

Marriage is for many many years, decades, and even a nymphomaniac will one day, not be in the mood for sex, so, what is this childish talk about marrying someone else?

That's why I emphasize sexual compatibility before marriage. Marriage between sexually incompatible couples will not last many years before you talk of decades.

Some of you just come here to talk like kids. Your idea of marriage is laughable.

So what's your own ideas of marriage? What are the roles and obligations of each partner im a marriage? Are you married?

Elinosweet143:
No, on top say him beat her join, that my dear is bullshit

Yes it's Bullshit. But it is what it is.
If wicked "Konji" hits a man, he can do anything.Testosterone is an aggression hormone. Too much stored up in the blood stream is a bad thing.

Omoluabiii:
you didnt act like a man.
Beg her to forgive you, thats all.
Just beg for forgiveness.
But next time you ask her for sex and she refuse,,
You too man up, and withdrew all form of being romantic to her.
But dress hot, smell good, and give her space...
Then at night, sleep seperately from here, dont sleep on the same bed...
Its what i ve tried tested and proven.
It works like magic.
Whenever i opt in for sex, and she says no.
I began to dress my cutest, and put on my best...
And at night i leave the bed for her, i ll go into the parlour,
it took only two days, the third day, she came to lie with me in the parlour, and i was the one asking her, what happened?
The rest is history..

This will only work when you are just newly married or in the honeymoon phase. After 15 years of marriage with added responsibility of multiple children, work or career pressures, increasing stress levels and extended family wahala, believe me you won't have the time or energy for such shenanigans.

The basic issue is understanding each other's needs and making attempts to fulfil them.

InTheCloudySky:
1. It doesn't matter if you're dating someone, or are married, no means no. Whether na your babe or wife, rape is rape and is a crime in both instances.

2. Learn to read. He said "recently", meaning her refusal is recent, not over a long period. Even if it were over a long period (which isn't the case), the right thing to do would've been talk to her or seek professional help together to get to the root of the matter, not abuse and rape her. Forcing anyone to have sex with you, whether na your babe or wife = rape.

After spending a fortune paying dowery and other marriage expenses and working himself to the bone to provide for her?

So what does the husband get in return for all the sacrifice?

If she does not love him anymore, why not say so and leave?

She wants to continue to have her cake and eat it.

Noah9:
Good morning nairalanders. Pls I'll go straight to point.

My wife and I have been married for 3 years, God has blessed our matrimony with a beautiful daughter. My wife is so decent, caring and beautiful inside out. I have been a great husband and father to my pretty daughter. I have never cheated on my wife since we got married.

Recently, she barely give me sex. Infact it would take a whole month before I could see Just the color of her undies and I wasn't happy about it.

Last week Wednesday, I committed an unspeakable abuse, I'm so ashamed of myself. I Raped my wife and I hate myself since that incident.

Honestly, I don't know what came over me that particular day, I tried to make advances towards her, she refused and she pushed my hand away. Out of anger I slapped her on her face (she bled from her mouth), I overpowered her and forcefully had my way through. She cried all through that night.

I regretted my actions, I feel remorse, I hate my Life . I have begged her seriously to forgive me but she haven't said a word to me for over 5 days now. She cook for just herself and my daughter, she no longer sleep in our matrimonial bed, she would rather sleep in my daughter's room or the visitor's room, she no longer greets me anymore.

I have never abused, beat or raised my hands on my wife or any woman before. Last week was my first time I did such an abominable act in my Life . What If any one notice we're having issues now, how will I explain to them what actually happened?

I don't even want my little daughter to know we're having issues. I don't know who to talk to. It's a faceless forum that's why I'm sharing my pain here . Pls how do I restore back happiness in my home, I need my wife to forgive me. I'm truly sorry from the depth of my heart and I promise it will never happen again.

Please Help Me.

I am sorry to say, but to me your marriage is over. She never really loved you to begin with. How can a wife deny her husband sex for a whole month without any valid reason?

Even though it was wrong to hit and then rape your wife, I truly understand your reaction. It's probably due to pent up sexual frustrations and anger that exploded. Thank God you are in Nigeria where spousal rape is not yet in our statute.

To be candid with you, she has checked out of the marriage. I don't know who wears the pants, but if it's you, then it becomes very unfair for you to pay for for house, food, groceries, etc, and still be treated like a piece of shit.

You need to do the 180. Ignore her, get fit, improve yourself, and give her an ultimatum. Ask her if she still want to remain married or you guys should jejely go your separate ways.

If she is interested in preserving the marriage, then both of you need to work on your issues - her denying you your conjugal rights and your anger issues. If she does not show any willingness to continue the marriage, then move out and start divorce proceedings. Life is too short for unnecessary stress.

HacheNoire:
That notion is not valid. It’s a forced general believe. What makes you think FFK cannot give his kids the psychological and Moral support they need. He is a man, and we know best that we deliver to our kids the best of all.

Man by their very nature are not equipped to birth, nurture and raise children. And that is the case among all animals. It's the females that nurture and raise children, males only offer support, protection and sustenance.

After a hard day's work looking for daily bread for the family, dealing with the stress of Children's issues is impossible.

Let me tell you one fact, compare kids raised by single mothers and fathers, you will find out that kids raised by men have more chances to be upright. This is not hidden….. So the idea about women giving emotional and psychological support is void. It’s statement used to deceive and gain custody.

False! Most children from the Niger Delta are raised by single mothers and. Many fathers are just sperm donors. Most times the children and up successful. I have never seen children raised solely by their father before (I mean before the age of 10). If the mother is unavailable, the fathers usually leave the children with their grandmother (and not grandfather).

FFK has everything to support those kids. He has the resource to give them the best of exposure and education, without lacking anything.

Raising children goes beyond resources. It includes psychological and emotional balance.

HacheNoire:
And the father is not accepting. This are matrimonial issues that should be settled between both parties. What’s the whole social media fuzz about?

This is well predicted of FFK as he has replicated this act before. He is very good at frustrating and silencing women. He has the cash, connection and powers to make be, as it stands against his latest ex wife.

So this shouldn’t be news you scream out. We all were watching you when you dived in.

It’s like Regina Nwoko coming out today to tell us that Ned is maltreating her, will you take sides with her?

We must always learn to be responsible to take FULL responsibility for our actions.

You married a world renowned dog, and still had effrontery to come out and complain? Who does that?

Maybe You need deliverance or hypnosis to understand that the issue is not about FFK or maltreatment of Precious. It's about the 4 boys . Children should not be raised by just one parent. If the situation not ideal for both parents to raise the child, then the child is better off with with the mother having primary custody (In most cases anyway). Women are more suited to provide better emotional and psychological support for children. While me are more suited to provide physical and disciplinary support for children.

FFK cannot provide emotional support to those children. He himself is not emotionally stable and had not provided any emotional support for any of his previous children. Where are all his daughers today?

HacheNoire:
Is FFK not their father? Now you sounding like the mother is the parent?

You know my point, she knew who FFK was. I am not taking sides with FFK but I put blame on her. Why the sudden rants? You knew what FFK did to his previous wife but thought you will be special?

And now that all is on the board, you kinda acting victim and paying bloggers to get your predicaments to main stream.

If she can afford to get another sugar daddy, that will be great for her. What’s important is that she moves on.

When you dine with some certain class of powers, you will realize that the fact that you have dined with them before gives them that power to either make, break or end.

She knew all this….

Forget about your hatred of Precious for a second and think about the kids. Children need their mother even if she is a mad woman. She birthed and suckled them. Separating them from their mother this early in life might have long term psychological damage.
Do not punish the children because you hate the mother. This cannot happen in a sane society.

You want her to move on and abandon her 4 children? I don't know how to respond to such idiosyncratic person. Even a lowly chicken with 10 chicks would not abandon one without a fight.

HacheNoire:
You too dumb! Didn’t the gold digger have access to FFK’s history with women before diving into a relationship with FFK?

And you kinda proud you got a mother and father, cos I can see you claiming to have one! Please don’t call those losers your parents. You are an orphan.

If they have invested the right resources and put you through quality education and training, you won’t be here spewing gibberish about my parents that could employ your entire generation as gardeners and still get a thank you.

Who is your father on Earth?

All these your anger directed at precious Chikwendu does not matter. I am sure she will find another sugar daddy to lick sugar. Take a moment to think about the children. Money is not the only thing children need for a well rounded physical and psychological development. They need to bond with their parents and family.

1nigeriamyfoot:
Not about tribe

Go n check your stats, Igbo gals marries Yoruba men than Yoruba gal marrying Igbo men

Yoruba men are caring n loving

FFK is a bastard but Previous chikwendu is a foolish gold digging harlot who married her father age mate because of money

No wonder Regina Daniels married his grandfather age mate cos of money

Young gals should desist from marrying older men cos of money, if they love money too much then they should work for it instead of looking for sugar daddies up n down

Its not about FFK or Precious, it's about the 4 boys caught in the middle of very irresponsible adults behaving like children. Denying the children their mother would be detrimental to their psychological development. Nigerians society is anti children and anti women. They enjoy punishing children for the sins of their mother.

ihimiray:
abi... Which one is bringing them to the park.., she should go to the house if possible spend some days

Is it by force to go to his house? That's blackmail. Why can't the children go to their mothers house? Precious should have as much rights to the children as FFK.

In a sane country FFK would be in jail for flouting court order.

Ficeo:
Its not only a curse but a curse that MUST come to pass.
You think God can be mocked? You will know that Thou shall not commit fornication is a commandment from God. My friend, better tell her to give birth to that great Child, else the consequences will be severe for both parties responsible.

False. I don't know the bible you are using, but fornication is not a commandment directly from God. It adultery that is part of the 10 commandments, precisely the 8th commandment.

The bible demands that if you have carnal knowledge of a young maiden, you are obliged to pay her dowry and marry her. But then men don't like taking responsibly in sexual matters and easily defy that "commandment".