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yemi1504:
The views saying it is intentional seem to have a point! Because if it is really more than twice, that is not even in the negligence territory anymore!

Mazterrr:
Go and read section 223, 224 and 225 of the Nigeria Criminal Code. Then you will understand whether prostitution is legal or not.

DeepSight:
That's why it's a medieval society. Who wants to be stuck in the middle ages.

yemi1504:
There is a solution to this if you have the means, money that is. Once your mom gets well, that maid that knows how to cook her food along with her, should go back to your mother's house to be cooking her food while you get another maid for your house. Chikena. Also, treat that maid well to avoid had I known in the future. I will take this drastic decision if I were in your shoes, no matter how your wife feels about it. It will send a very strong message that there are consequences for being lackadaisical and lazy. My 2 cents.

kingthreat:
There's alot of immorality and drug abuse in the land. Sometimes dictatorial moves are required to correct some certain maladies. I got nothing against alcohol.

DeepSight:
The child is king, in fact, the child is GOD.

edimaan:
Well said.

Lungs can be damaged by blows without damage to the ribs. However, if the lungs are damaged by blunt force trauma to the ribs, without damaging the ribs, autopsy would still pick up the trauma impact spots on the ribs.

The spots on the ribs where the blows landed would be picked up by the autopsy, even though the ribs are not damaged.

The family autopsy never reported damage or trauma spots on the ribs.

CSTRR:
What is this?

Why will a man marry a woman if he can't trust her with the welfare of his mother.?

What is her usefulness to him then?

Theonlysonofher:
Unfortunately my sweet mother left us

Greatidonis:
Guy I'm the kind of dude that will be very angry with this kind of situation but this is the first time this kind of stuff is happening going by your story.
Please don't allow it to destroy your family she may have done it out of carelessness and laziness. No with the intention to poison or kill mum, remember she is still the one that took mama to the hospital. Allow peace to reign give her one final warning remember your beautiful daughters.

Babastrong:
I won't come to this forum to take advice from these 3 set of people.
1. The kids.
2. The inexperienced people.
3. Get-in-side sons.
OP, this issue is best discuss with matured family members or your wise friends. And thank God, your mother is still alive. I wish her a quick recovery.
my advice: enter your mother's room after her recovery, hold her legs, apologise to her. I bet you sure. She will tell you what you don't know and profer a posible solution to your problems.

Theonlysonofher:
While others are celebrating the new year today I am here sobbing because my marriage is at the verge of breaking.

I loved my wife with all my heart but I don't think I will ever forgive her for what she has done to my mother.

I am the only child of my mother. I have three sisters on my father's side.
I am married with two beautiful daughters. my mother suffered from diabetes, bp and high cholesterol. She is on a special diets strictly no salt or too much sugar.

She came to stay with me because the person who was taking care of her wasn't doing her job properly so I had to bring her to my house so I will be monitoring her health.

I have a house help who prepares all her meals with less salt and she also makes sure she takes her medicines on time without fail.
Everything was fine, my mother is not a troublesome person, she gets on well with my wife and most of the time she is in her room resting.

On the 20th of December my house help had traveled to the village to see her people and she will be back in January 4th so my wife and I have to take care of my mother making sure that her foods is less salty and medicines on time.

Since I am always working so my wife had to take most of the responsibility. It is only for a week and fews days until the house help is back.

She had agreed to take care of my mother during this periods of time and I thought everything was fine but I noticed my mother become distant and tired unlike her and I had no idea that she was actually dying and I have never suspected that my wife was maltreating her.

So Thursday being 30th December I was at work when my wife called and asked me to join her at the hospital because mama had a seizure.

I rushed to the hospital and my mother was in a coma state and I asked her what happened to mama, she said mama woke up that morning complaining about shortage of breath and she told her to go back to bed and rest hoping she will be fine by the time she will wake up.
Only for mama to fall off the ground and started shaking with foam coming out of her mouth.

I was in panicked I couldn't stop praying for my mother to get better and I didn't leave the hospital, my wife went home to take care of the children because she has left them with the neighbour and I had spend all night prayer vigil at my mother's bedside and glory be to God my mother woke up yesterday being 31st but the doctor report was not a good news for me.

Actually my mother was poisoned with salt and guess who did it? My beloved wife couldn't bothered to cook a different meal for my mother, she used to feed her the same meal we ate knowing full well that mama cannot eat the same foods as us because we are salt lovers, especially my wife, she love eating too much salt which I have warned her over and over again because it is also not good for her health.

I confronted her, she said she only fed mama the same meals we ate twice only but according to the doctor it was more than two times.

I am hurt that my wife doesnt love my mother or treat her like her own mother because if she truly loved her like her own mother she would have put her diet on consideration and not allow her to eat the same meal as us. I love her mother and u treat her like my own mother.

It pains me a lot when I remember five years ago when her mother was in coma state and she was staying with her at the hospital, she is her only daughter amongst three boys.

I used to visit them everyday after work, I will bring foods and I have even washed her mother clothes with my own hands, I have done with love because she is my mother. I called my mother in law this morning and I have informed her about what her daughter has done to my mother and she couldn't stop apologising and she is very disappointed with my wife.

But see how she has repaid me by hurting my own mother.

She has apologised to me and to my mother, I have forgave her but I don't think I can stay with her again because one day if I become sick or bedridden she might treat me the same way.

Honestly speaking I am not even at home with her and the kids, I am at my cousin brother's house since yesterday I left the hospital and my mother is still in the hospital because she needs more treatment and hopefully she will recover by next week.

I don't feel like going home today and I don't know when I'll go home but I will always be there for my girls because they are the best thing that ever happened to me.

What other advice would you give me on this situation? What are your thoughts? Thank you for reading all I love this community.

calmness0:
Op, This is a very serious matter.

I honestly don't think your wife deliberately intended to poison your mother.

I believe it was just laziness on her part to Cook separate meals.

Clemzy1996:
Am not against banning prostitution especially road side ones at least it will help save our future generations while reducing some unfortunate scenes on streets. But you should also set plans on keeping our mothers and daughters save cause some of these people are....... Even with all the club house and ashawo quarters everywhere we still dey hear rape even from uniform men, imagine what happens when you short ashawos done.

D business no pure but reason am

Ajmoziz:
Wait wait wait,you don't know prostitution is illegal according to the constitution

gift0123:
wahala tie gele, anyway if you said something reasonable I would have replied.

gift0123:
so because I condemmed prostitution u now suspect I am from the north, you see your reasoning.

kingthreat:
I think governors should be like Wike and follow suit to prevent immorality in their states. Surprised Warri is this bad.

wolesmile:
Do you even understand what that terminology means?
Read the report again. No injury on the body, ruling out any evidence of beating.
No injury on the head.
Internal organs intact.
The only damage is to the lung, stomach and intestines. Evidence of having consumed a toxic substance, which forced the trauma.

Try understanding how pathologists use their terminologies

Mazterrr:
The ban is only on specific area in portharcourt. I believe there is a justifiable reason for that. Every Governor has the right to curb whatever practice that is constituting nuisance to the majority of people even when such act may infringe on the right of few.

edimaan:
Acute Lung Injury.... in a background of Blunt Force Trauma

Hmmmn!

The lungs are protected by the ribs, just like the brain is protected by the skull. If there's a blunt force trauma to the head that damages the brain, the skull would surely also be affected.

In the autopsy report, how come a blunt force trauma caused acute lung injury while the ribs are not damaged? Because the autopsy report never mentioned damage to the ribs.

These are a few errors I see in the autopsy report.

Vistra40:
To many of you in this forum, everything is about tribe and religion. The post stated a decision made by the governor, you all brought tribe and religion in from nowhere. Please all of you regardless of whether you are from the south or north should keep your toxicity far far away from me. I am not one to stoop so low to engage in all these rubbish. This is new year sir

MILLERMannn:
Is it the thought? It is typographical. You will a lot in my message. Yes doesnt accept double simple past tense. It has been changed. OK. Attack the message and solve the maths.

MILLERMannn:
If it is that one, you don't have sense. OK. Put what should be there and let me see.

MILLERMannn:
If you claim it to be rudimentary, pls just show the solution out. There is something I want to prove to your dull brain in term of education. That simple question! You must be a dullard. Why should I use complicated English when I know that I am passing a message to certain level of people?.

MILLERMannn:
I don't need to reply you again.

basty:
Petty thieves from Waffi (warri) are arguing the grammatical blunders of the op.

Thieves from warri, please attack the message and not the op.

payosehtor:
Even though, I haven't stayed in WarrI, but the young boys that comes from there are the testimony to what the op is talking about here.

trudpo:
It's easier said.
We Nigerians no dey hear word. We don't comply. For me, I support the ban 100%. The night movement ban will reduce kidnap on Rivers.

MILLERMannn:
It took you 7hours to get the answer. I didnt say you should say it, work it out here. Everybody know the answer is 4. Show your working if you truly believe it is cheap.
Or rather solve it on paper and upload it here. Fool.

MILLERMannn:
Can you write the correct thing there? At least I am through with my MSC. Idiot. Or can you tell me the answer for 2^x = 4x. What is x?. Oya write the correct thing that suppose to be there. Alteast stupor means reduced consciousness.