maleekeminent:
My girlfriend always act strange at least every two weeks. If I call her with my phone number, she will not answer the call or reply to text until I call her with another phone number. If I asked her what going on, she will said nothing. I always fed up whenever she act strange. Sometimes I will try to forget thinking about her but I can't Keep my mind off her because I love her so much and I don't want to loose her.

Pls should I leave her or be patient with her?

First love I guess, you will get use to it bro and act like a real G when you become a man.

Whiteball:
It's a bit lenghty so bear with me.I'm in my late 30's very very eligible for marriage but still single.Alot of friends in my circle are married but up close and personal stories coming out of their camp and experience av had in d past isn't encouraging ,so i just wanna have a baby mama(These lady's arnt loyal).

Pressure from Family n friends to settle but am not giving in. so this particular friend of mine(now a true definition of born again- i wont mention name) changed my mindset and promised to help me get a 'good wife material' through his fiancee.

I yielded and i reluctantly gave him d permission . I'v never met his fiancee one on one bc she stays in a different city and each time she comes visiting her guy am always busy but we speak on phone.She gave my number to her friend (my hookup) we got talking but i told her point blank that am a christian but not a born again like ur friend fiance -i club i drink socially but i dont smoke,to my surprise she told me same here! (hmmm red flag bc i was expecting otherwise since her friend was a born again). I told her no problem.

This week my guy's babe visited town ,i was very busy still but was able to meet them at d park when she was travelling back. she was already inside d bus when i drove in.
she came down from d bus to greet me since passengers were still boarding ,she's beautiful i must confess with nice curves but was wearing all those long born again gown and holding a bible .I told my guy despite leaving 'd world' for us he still got good eyes,we laughed and joked she told me her friend(my hookup) is prettier i said wow cant wait to meet her.

Something strange happened,i noticed an old time friend in d bus which this babe was boarding we shared pleasantries and exchanged number he asked if my babe was travelling with them i told him she's my guy's fiancee not my babe he complimented her beauty also.

A minute later she said she doesn't wanna travel with this bus which they have already paid for again, she will rather wait for d next bus that her spirit isn't in line with d bus ..
I was confused and asked her to explain she said she doesn't want to go wit this one bc she's having a strange feeling concerning d bus but i should allow my friend inside d bus already to travel with them its fine -It didn't make sense to me,if u think this bus will have an accident i should at least alert my friend to come down too she said i shouldn't worry.

My guy waited for her fiancee to catch d next bus while i left for work.

The next day was weekend and i decided to go visit another friend(lets call him guy B) of mine so we could hangout . It's a big compound with plenty room n parlour self contain.when we were about leaving the compound together i saw an eye catching figure come out from another apartment wearing bump short,transparent shirt that was revealing all her breast going to dry clothes on d ropes...Behold it was my friend's fiancee!!!.

I was shocked bc yesterday nite i called my friend to confirm if his fiancee finally got a bus and had arrived her destination he told me yes and thanked me for showing up and for my concern. Someone that was suppose to b in another part of Nigeria was in another part of d city ? . Immediately she turned and saw me,she was shocked n her clothes fell off her hands. I didn't say a word i just walked straight with my guy B to my car .

She ran towards me and drew me privately and said i should keep it privately she will explain on phone .my guyB confirmed to me that she came in last nite and that's her boyfriend apartment i refused to tell him anything tho.

The reason why she left that initial bus begin to make sense to me now.

I need advise please ,ordinarily i will look the other way but the guy in question is my very good guy and a born again christian engaged to her,weeding is two months away. The lady also according to him is supposedly a born again but this dressing stated otherwise... tho i didn't catch dem 'doing' oh.

Tell him but you should wait until the girl call you on phone as she said so that you can record the conversation as an evidence incase she denies or your friend didn't believe you.

Make sure you have evidence to show your guy whether it is a record call or chat conversation.

plusfield:


https://guardian.ng/news/nigerias-obinna-ukwuani-appointed-chief-digital-officer-of-bank-of-kigali/amp

Igbo man appointed chief officer of Bank of Kigali.

If it's a crime that he committed you will call him Igbo man and because it's something good he's now a Nigerian

One Nigeria my foot... Tueh

rottennaija:
No US President has been this divisive as trump.

The world will always face when you have something good

Many times

But particular one was the day i was kneeling on a rug and raming her doggy, chaii the scar is still on my knees.

Each time I see the scar it reminds of that my ex

Stop being emotional about people are telling you here like wtf do you expect people to tell you before hmm?

You said he has been working since lock down and you think he has saved some money, if you have been working also you wouldn't be here seeking advice on how to beg no matter what you want to us the money for.

But maybe instead of finding something to lay you hand on to make money you are always lazing around watching BBnija or Telemundo.

As as a student nobody have a reason why he or she don't have money to sort some bills since the lock down, only the lazy ass does.

Melodriod:
This is my first reasonable post on nairaland �... I don't really know what the comments would be like but man gotta do what he gotta do �

So here's the story, I'm a single guy and I've been putting an eye out there looking for someone to love and call my own, so i met this really beautiful nice young lady a month ago and its was more like love at first sight kinda of thing...but i just had to maintain so i don't appear being desperate and all... But truth is am madly in love with this girl, we've been talking ever since then and so far we are becoming more closer as each day passes.

I still haven't asked her out to be my girlfriend but I'm really hopeful that she will say yes to me considering how close we have become lately, we talk about everything and anything.

So to the main gist, currently her smartphone is bad so we can't do things like chatting, whatsapp calls, video calls and the likes... And i feel like getting her a smartphone would greatly be helpful to her as well as get us to communicate more often, so I'm thinking....Is it wise to get her a phone at such an early stage into our relationship (friendship) considering the fact that i haven't asked her and she hasn't said yes to me....

I just feel like she really needs a smartphone and I'm thinking if i should get her one... I've not really made up my mind yet, might sound crazy but I'll really like to get opinions on this..

Na your type girls de save their name as Maga 1, Maga 2 on their phone.

So what are your going to do if you finally start dating her, you will build house for her family abi.

Is a 25yrs a teenager?

Kobicove:


So you expect us to believe that this actually happened in real life?

Which sane man would attempt to have sex in the same room where 3 other people are sleeping including his own 2 kids?!

Your problem is that you can't read

goodysb:
Hello Everyone, I met this girl about a month ago (same day her phone got missing) and we started talking etc...

She usually calls me every morning, afternoon and night (and I would call her back too) using her senior sister's phone... I would get her anything she wants, treated her well.... We would talk and I noticed how she was behaving and thought she'd be straight with me, so I told her I would get her the phone by month end...

Not that I couldn't get her the phone the next day but I just purposely delayed it (3 weeks) and when month end came I added extra week to see how she reacts and then I got her the phone but since I got her the phone she just changed and stopped doing all she used to do, I noticed and played along to see where she's heading to...

It's more than a week since I got her the phone and I noticed she hasn't changed... I thought about giving her a second chance and then she did something that annoyed me. I sent a very angry voice note and some messages but she didn't reply for about a day and I thought of it and noticed she was playing a game, so I said I would play along too...

So I acted dumb and called her to apologize that I said what I said out of anger (To me I really mean it) and explained to her that I listened to the notes and didn't find it interesting (I never did), so what I am doing now is I want to get what I gave her back because noticed a very big change and again because she might be telling her friends that I don chop this guy (which I don't like hearing), so after our argument, I already predicted that she'd want to ask me for something after two days and truly she asked me this morning for money to buy slippers of 4k... I didn't want to show any signs that I am aware of what she's doing.. so I told her.. let's be looking sha (which means I will get it)...

So I planned to play along and take her out of our environment to somewhere that's calm, so I would then collect the phone back from her and give her her sim card.

P.s. I predicted it might play out like this but wanted to test her to see... Could have gotten her an iPhone.

I would really appreciate you guys input �

Guy na man you be, will be glad if you did that.

HTC M1 that phone showed me hell, although someone gifted me the phone but up till now i still see that person as my worst enemy for giving me that phone, I saw hell using that HTC' that phone can hot for Dubai and after pressing the phone like 20 minutes you can use it to boil tea water and what break my heart up till today is that i spend lots of money that I could have used to got a good phone trying to fix it because the battery can drain in 30mins after charged fully.

ValCon888:
To be an Al-Qaeda leader is one of the most dangerous jobs in the world right now.
The moment you receive your appointment letter, you're marked for destruction.

How?
More info about this please.

Lyydia:
25

Many are tired out of frustration bro that's why you see them killing civilian like chicken everyday.

I can tell that 90% of our soldiers don't know this laws mentioned here

davosea:
thruth be told man,you need a sledge hammer on your skull

Hahahaha hahahaha hahahaha a

Yes Nokia 105 that was sold for 5000 before now i bought it 6000 3days ago

somehow:
what do we do with this now?


explorer, we need your usual educative ones jare

Which thread have you created, bad bele

post=88736728:
Actually, this lockdown has been a blessing, I do complement my daily job (4x weekly) with an online business because I was scared I would not be able to pay my bills with just my online business due to the fact that I just began a few months back, I know the business requires a lot of time for things to balance up before you can say you will live on the earning, so i invested this lockdown time into my business, and surprisingly, I discovered that I was the one limiting myself as my online business was more than capable of paying me more than my monthly earnings from my daily business in just a week, and the good part is that it can only get better.

The only problem is that I run the gen 24/7 due to the non existent light in my community (transformer got spoilt just before lockdown), I dey even pity for the gen.

But all in all, the lockdown has been a blessing.

Happy birthday to me today

I have interest in this online business but i don't know which one to pick or learn please help a brother

Picadelly:
How manage were you people able to catch all this animals? Did u use traps? Gun or by chasing them with sticks? Would like to know..tnk u

No just we're many like 6 to 7 boys and some small small children, some are with stick, Cutlass, katapot, and some digging tools

So i maneged to travel to my home town last week after tree weeks of lockdown because boredom i trying to kill me at my base. So this morning me and my homies decided to hunt for Bush meat as we use to do back then as many of them are around because of the lockdown.

And it was interesting to experience hunting once again and the result is awesome.

Hmmmm

Many to mention.........���
I have lost count of how many faw that i killed with trowing stones.

I think i broke someone head with stone also, from afar

So many things to mention and the worst is that all this i was never caught because those days i was rolling with trouble group of boys Then and because of my innocent look people don't know that am really the crack head among them because of this if i deny anything that i did people will believe more than other boyn

MadeBoy:
I'm a guy that likes my privacy reasons of my quality time to think and pray for hours. Because I face a lot of spiritual challenges. And my midnight prayers have been helping me. Most especially when I had a nightmare or anytime I woke up.

I will seal up my windows and doors while my AC is blasting high. And even when I raise up my voice it doesn't come out.

The government just extended the lockdown which is tiring. She came to my house and doesn't want to leave. I have so many debts on my head now and my yearly house rent is expiring soon. This is the period I need to be alone in prayers. The little I have now I am using it to take care of her which I would have uses for myself to prolong the suffering during this lockdown. Branch and carbon are sending me SMS to pay my loans.

My apartment is so cussing, chilling and so comfortable more than her house by far. Maybe reason she doesn't want to go. She will be disturbing me and dragging remot control with me. When I am watching TV she will just change it to nollywood drama.

I do want her to be coming and going. Not just to come and stay like she is doing now. I'm not use to this type of life unlike some of my friends.

Outside of all this, I do not see future with her just normal control things..

I have not been able to leave the house or do other personal private stuff.

I need her to go maybe coming on some weekends or when invited.

Bro you don buy market

RRWraith:

Tell us your experience, I am sure other aspiring pilots will love to hear from you



From my extensive research Florida is one of the best places to attend a flight school buh its cost of living, accomodation and is expensive..
And for the flight hours, I think you need 1500 flight hours to make it to the cockpit of the average airlines as co-pilot.
Its standard FAA requirement, i think it was formally 1000hours.

Another thing i got from my personal research a while ago was that not all student pilots make it to the cockpit...its expensive being a pilot and airlines are not willing to pay for training as much and only a few very expensive schools will give you 1500 flight hours and i didnt even find one of such schools in the US...you have to hustle for it and from private plane or light craft charters and per hours charters may range from about $300 to $700 or even more(cant remember vividly, been a while) that leaves a student to hustle really hard enough to fend for himself and also to afford to accumulate flight hours enough to even be considered by any cheap airline. It hard out there unless you have rich parents or sponsors or a good scholarship.

My 2 cents


MODIFIED: I just remember i did stumble on one flight school that guarantees training and the required 1500 flight hours on the Airbus A320 and A321neo to get you on any commercial airline. buh its not even in the US and its very expensive...I still have a mail from that flight school.
Application alone is about 800k
full training is approximately 70M

My Question is how can a pilot flying hours can be calculated or monitored to know their flight hours and be sure.

Mokason28:
Hey God ...we are in real trouble in Nigeria
I was speaking to a friend today( 24-03) a man with two kids... he said he doesn’t believe that there is any deadly virus killing people... he said it’s all Hoax dat the government is looking for how to steal money
Guess my reaction
How do you tell a blind man that rain is falling

I been saying this, what is going to kill is not just the virus but our ignorant.
This morning in a keke while going out, when we passed a market and there was a crowd at the gate of the market being that there was some health workers present there testing people and the keke rider was like is happening there i told him that they are testing people for the virus his comments shocked me, he said why is this people trying to do, to create fear to the public while the virus has not entered this country, I was shocked and he further said that the virus cannot come into this country that we are not like the white people.

Franzinni:
Fasted for 7 days .. Prayed 7 days ... Then waited on the lord... Haha...


Kidding ... I had that feeling ... And a divided to dialogue ... She ran circles around me so I had to go FBI on her ...


Well she was going Escobar on me as well so she deletes all calls and chats as soon as she is done ... No history ... Nada!!! I asked why but she ran circles round me ...

Ok Nah... I decided I should show this girl what kind of a mind I have ...I went online and got a 3 day trial of an spy app call hoverwatch now this app sends all activities on a target phone ..heck it even takes a picture every time someone unlocks the phone and it will secetly send them to your profile ... The one wet burst my head be say it even tells you all the geographical locations that phone has been with timestamps ...Mo fo! ... I was blown away with the info I gathered ... Men I was just a human wallet ooo the babe dey collect damanturu from one kuntakinte but she was opening website on my head ... I confronted her with the allegation and you know women nah... They quickly enter cry mode ...I can't believe after all I have done for you ..you don't trust me ... What is love without trust ... Yada yada ... I mean she was balling tears like a leaking satchet of pure water ... I been dey laugh ... For my mind ... Nah him I fall out my phone load all the FBI data ... Play the voice note as she dey tell the bobo say she love am and me I just be obstacle that can be tolerated ... I begin play all for her to hear ... I face dry out like sahara desert ... So I decided I don't need to be tolerated anymore ... She is his-story! Wounds heal and life will go on !

Bro please what is name of the app used and how to use it?

2buffagain:


What kind of job?
Look, the stigma has already been established for Dubai.
So if she goes to Dubai for legitimate job, she needs to do it on the low and not make noise about it, lest she risks tarnishing her image.

Unless she is posing while wearing mature clothes or corporate clothes then thats fine.
But we all know what an IG thot is wearing when she goes to Dubai. Because that is the only "job" they know how to do.
And the only thing that pays well for that type of "job" over there, is toilet service for fat hairy arab men.

I agree with you bro, I have been in Dubai and seen what our girls is doing there is nothing to write home about and i can never allow any of my sister to go there whether na legit job or not unless she going out of my consent, because even the one that went for legit job will definitely follow the bandwagon.

internationalman:
I Currently have this very nice homely girl, but out of the blue I just suddenly lost interest in her. Though she is yet to know she's dating herself.

Girls easily fall in love with me... The problem is I tend to like them more when they are not too into me.

The moment I realize she's all into me is the moment I start losing interest..

That's my experience so far with girls..

Bro we are the same, my own worst sef

When I can even make money exposing her hide out

1 - boys before flowers.
2 - love don't cost a thing.
3 - couldn't remember the third one.