Where is Benitez from in fact change your moniker to SHARK, u just dey spit anyhow


Continu

Where the fuccck are the images, as you talk am believing is in seeing

cococandy:
OP sorry I've an opinion but I'll keep it to myself because it's possible that like most Nigerians you're a 'possible' shameless hypocrite.

If you saw your uncle in a guest house with a woman not his wife, would you come here to ask us what to do?
Wouldn't you be preaching to his wife (if she finds out) that no marriage is without problem. She should ensure, pray for him, try to win his heart back, be more submissive and the host of the asinine things you folks remember when a man cheats on his wife.

Not holding brief for his wife but we are tired of the hypocrisy bro.

Aunty coco, STOP EET!........ stop being sentimental, and all these assuming things.

It is not his uncle that he saw, so it doesn't even add up bringing that into fore, of course he might have thought differently if he saw his uncle afterall family first and I bet anyone would have covered his/her own blood ass.

I am not saying the OP should spill, but puleeeaase! Let's call a spade a spade abeg

How much?

foolinlove:
She definitely cheated. Or she's seriously considering it.

The guilt makes her be overly nice. She asked you if youve cheated before because she wants a reason to justify her cheating to herself.

You need to drop her and not contact her ever again.

You a sadist? every relationship thread I've come across, your comment is always drop, dump, forget... Ahn ahn I dry suspect you oo

OP, I don't know what your problem is, what is it, that is always giving you people the notion that you can get good advice on here.

Yes maybe we have a couple of good heads but honestly majority of NLders especially the romance section are just a bunch of kids, having fun online thinking of themselves as adults. Some of them never understand their body anatomy finish not to talk of being in ina relationship.

Beware of the ones wey dey carry that pink (f) na Telemundo full their head, most of em.

lecturerdabo:
Op, I feel lyk slapping that ur guy ryt now!

Bt wait! D problem is dat he bedded ur sis abi? Wat about other random gals u don't know?

Maybe I will advice u to kil dat bi. Ch of a sister(I will become ur sister after dat)

Na who holy pass?

I know I'm sounding insensitive, yea its intentional!!

I know u ar seriously bruised, yes!

But pls
NEVER THROW THE BABY WITH THE BATHING WATER!!

Listen to your sister,

find out why she decided to come clean after four years, she may know more than you think about that spouse of yours

Now to save face, your guy will claim your sis wants to blackmail him with the incident between them. That is not to say ITS NOT HER INTENTION! I don't know!!

Find out if you can manage this two people for the rest of ur life cos their part will continue to cross if the marriage should hold!

Convince yourself that your guy will not relapse(he might cheat again) bt be sure he will never bed ur sister again if you are not convinced....

QUIT THE RELATIONSHIP.

UR sister will always be ur sister no matter what!

He was silly to sleep with your sister just because you stepped out to the market! What if you travel? I'm in d north east for 5months now and my wife is nt panicking haba!!

What happened to self control

How you take know say your wife no dey panick, abeg abeg abeg! Fear what you don`t know bro, OP should just take a break and think things though without being sentimental, you will figure out whats best for you if you decide on this alone, people will cast blame, solicit for forgiveness but i dey tell you not one of them can actually act if they find themselves in the situation.

One thing is if you love your man to a stage where in my own opinion i call it love, then you would not leave that man because one girl rode on his pee pee once. Forget say na your sister, not everyone born from the same womb be person blood

Martins301:
School is a waste of productive time.

Explain further {150 marks}

emeijeh:
CR7 really fooled himself thruout the 90 minutes yesterday.
I lost count of the number of offsides he had.

He should learn shooting skills from Pogba

this one sef go think say him don talk, some people need make dem shuk shoe for their mouth, make Ronaldo rocket dey take shooting lesson from that boy with less than 100 career goals, stupidity don sabi somebori house

floragregs:
very correct. He escaped their toutism and I thank God for him. Polite guy.

What's 'toutism'? has tribalism clouded your reasoning and common sense that you just create a word out of the blue and spew it out with your big smelly mouth?

Fuccckinnng retards, amtaken! Borrow some sense, what's brown roofers? Where'd y'all even come from. I pity your relatives, that's if your brain are not configured alike.

kaboninc:


I wonder who's forgetting the issue in question here but gracia, I made some sense and key point which not only did you acknowledge, you also agreed with me. Thanks.

Again, my point is you should worry about yourself who knows fully well that the lady is in a serious and committed relationship, you cheated with her. That calls into question your moral personality most especially as you see (its obvious anyway) nothing wrong in your actions.

We're responsible for our actions as adult as you rightly said but we owe ourselves the moral obligation to do whats right as responsible adults too. That means letting her know that what she's doing is wrong and you should not indulge in it or support her. That's your duty man!

Now to the consequences of our actions which pitifully you termed a 'retarded idea', the issue is not if it happened to someone else or even you but how you respond, how you make out of it or how you react. So if tomorrow you find out your wife is grinding her groove with another guy, will you react in the context that at one time, without her knowledge, were banging another person's partner?

I think you should thoroughly review your ideology.

Nollywood? Can't remember when I actually sat down even for a split second to see a Nollywood movie.

[size=20pt]DONT SWEAT THE SMALL STUFFS BRO, THESE THINGS HAPPEN AROUND EVERYDAY, [/size]

Secondly hormones don`t understand morals , as long as i am not raping or manipulating someone, i give that dick a piece of action whenever the stage is set.

Finally, why would i be the one advising her not to indulge in something she is old enough to know its wrong on her part, i dont do such, we call it ITK...can`t risk her hating me cos FYI we are still friends and talk like every other day.

kaboninc:


Hmmm...she cheated and you were wondering why she cheated when ironically, she cheated with you. You were the CHEAT and instead of you to think about why YOU CHEATED with someone you know is engaged, you're here gnashing your teeth on why she did so with you.

Maybe who knows, your wife to be is doing something behind your back, because you did same thing to one's partner.

Whatever you might think about her, applies to you too. Hence, as much as she is confused, so are you too.

Dude as much as you might have made some sense and key point, you must have forgotten it was she who is committed to someone and not me, who wants that tag of a Scooby doo? Besides babe is so on point and even in my next life i would not be able to resist her with the way she was clinging on.

And as regards to your ideology of my wife being banged by someone else basically because i did that with someone else fiancee, in the mainstream that`s totally a retarded idea, does it mean that the babe`s guy also slept with someone fiancee that`s why it happened to him.

We are responsible for our actions the moments we become adults and the doings of other people has zero effect on how we live our life, if she cheats on me it`s her decision solely to do so and had nothing in connection to what i had with the said bae.

Dude grab yourself though, and stop thinking like someone that watches too much Nollywood.

safarigirl:
people are different.

You misinterpreted that, conveniently skipping my first statement and the last one. I mentioned looks as a second option to 'time'

You don't have to look better than the next male, a woman would date Mr Ibu if he's a constant in her life even if her husband looks like Idris Elba, it's not about looks for most women finally.

It turns out the man travels for periods of four months, which means the woman doesn't get to spend time with him as much as the driver. He's not around her like the driver is.

Like I said, women are different, while many women can live through that, some simply find solace in the closest person.

No be me get wife so I can't go about calling her names, it's disrespectful to her husband

True, but in the long run sha most women do @ the bolded, leaves me wondering why people tag the male folk promiscuous mostly, I've been in a situation where an engaged lady was rooting for me, I did the do anyway but sat down one day and thought about the whole issue, I couldn't phantom what I had on the guy (her husband to be)

In actual fact the lady in question is even richer than I was and the fiancée? He could buy me, the day I met him he was just too cool, good looking well behaved, and ready to kill a lion for the girl. The lady is not even promiscuous because I was close to her, she spent virtually all of her free time with me and I know how she handles other guys pestering her, this scenario alone left a bad perception in my heart till date about women. Can we just satisfy una?

Mehn you people are just complicated, she's married to the guy now and I can't categorically say she won't so it again, but why is the question, why cheat on the dude while you were engaged and you've got no stain on him.

Love is overrated I believe, its a charade according to the general definition.

Women: the most confusing/confused set of God's creation.

safarigirl:
how much time do you spend with her?

What did you look like when you got married and what do you look like now? What does the driver look like?

Some women are into looks, could be a case of Steve Urkle vs. idris Elba (no offence )


...the major question though is, how much time do you spend with her? You give her gifts and compliments, cool and all, but how much of your time does she get? Is she around the driver more than she's around you?

So i always have to look better than the next male around us (me and my wife), how do i pull that feat? plastic surgery? Talk of being very much around her, how can a man be around his wife more than the driver who is a domestic staff, i am appalled that you are even asking all these questions, just tell that dude he married a cum-bucket not a woman.

mhiz:

Yea, I am.

[size=28pt]I SMELL[/size] lies

HungerBAD:
I remember.

I remember when real men, did not have the time to be "BEAUTIFUL" as they were usually busy trying to put food on their tables. But this days, civilization has started the gradual "FEMININE-ZATION" of our men, and real men are now starting to look,act and do make ups like women.

Korede Bello

Reekado

And now sadly AY.


What kind of a man even stands in front of a Mirror to check himself out?

We are gradually losing it.

How does this stop you from putting food on your wife`s table? na wa ooo.....All in the name of masculinity i should not check myself out and see whether my facial hair needs a trim abi....kontinue putting food on the table looking repugnant okay.

This girl is just being controversial for a simple cause, she wan contest for miss Nairaland next year as per say she never popular reach this year, con begin dey post senseless thread .......Lmao!

Always in the news for the bad reason....eyan BlackFace

700, ready for inspection

Dianaplay:
I can't ask a guy for sex

No qualms as long as you can give one that asks

she don lose one of her artificial nail now, when she dey spend 25 hours a day posting pics upandan

I have 500 cash right now

Available

Still on the matter

Night fellas