End of discussion.

Catfishing:
The guy wife get strong face...she no dey smile at all

Run, baby, RUN!

Don’t think. Don’t ask questions. Don’t hold meeting.

Run!!!!

mugnmuffin:
Dear Nairalanders,
I have an issue that has been on my mind for weeks now. My fiancé and I have been dating for over three years. I love him and he loves me too. We are physically attracted to each other. We’re both catholic but since I graduated, during my service year I gave my life to Christ, got saved and left the Catholic Church. So I’ve been a Pentecostal Christian since then. He on the other hand is still catholic. I subtly try to nudge him to consider getting saved, i.e acknowledging Christ as lord and savior and becoming born again but he is content with his laidback Christian life.

Earlier this year, he asked to meet my parents and I let him. My parents like him especially because my younger sis is married and they have been waiting for me too. They’re glad I’ve someone. However, after the introduction,I regret it. I’m now certain that he’s not the one. I think about my spiritual life and how lukewarm he is about the things of God, I think about kids and how we’ll raise the, with such differing views about God and I’m discouraged. I feel like I’m settling because he checks all the boxes on the checklist of physical attributes. Another mistake I made is, I didn’t pray about this decision and that worries me because anything that involves him,I just act with pausing to ask God, but I always ask God about other aspects of my life. So it’s like my associating with him is a minus for my spiritual life and that’s a huge cause for concern.

At this point, I want to tell my parents I am not convinced it’s him but I’m afraid of the disappointment this will cause. *sigh* I’ll appreciate your thoughts, comments, criticisms...

You can’t make this up.

The gist is that Elon made a savage meme trolling crypto losers crying shortsightedly over their investment.

From a billionaires standpoint, it is understandable. The dip (or crash as naive investors call it) is temporary. And he couldn’t stand the wailing of these people.

So Elon Tweeted said savage meme.

And the guy immediately responded with some cryptic verses that many have said are satanic verses.

Just goes to show you how pained the man was to have done what he did.

Maybe he bet his house rent in crypto.

See images below.

It’s draining you because you’re expecting something from it. Read that again. OP. @lamdbull

First, you should think the other way around.

You are drain-able because you’re not nourishing your spirit man. That guy is starving, man.

Feed him well with the right stuff (The Word of God)

Feed him till he is robust and strong.

Then you can never be drained. You will be equipped to GIVE all the love, charm and impact that you exist to give -yes, even in a small town for now.

Create time daily to be refreshed by studying the word, praying in tongues and worshiping the Father.

You will be just fine.

If you ignore this, you will always feel drained. Even if you move to another place.

A lizard in Okokomaiko cannot become a crocodile in Alabama.” - Arch-Bishop Benson Idahosa

It is the first law of trading success.

Never borrow money to invest. You are not insured unlike banks.

My prayers are with MBA.

Why?

Losses do happen in every venture.

Unfortunately when you invest for the poor and lose money, they’ll never remember the gains they made before.

If he had worked with the rich and lost it all, you wouldn’t hear peem in the news.

Joy to the wise.

“Leave the poor in their penury. It is their mind they must change. Not their bank account balance.” -Jesus Christ AD

Has anybody told you this is the disrespect you get from not chopping her?

It never fails to happen.

Oh. You’re a Christian? Then don’t start what you can’t finish.

If you had hammered her first night, she will be your slave at least for the foreseeable future.

Listen. I am Christian. Born again. I don’t recommend immorality but I am street to the core.

Don’t start what you can’t finish. In the world out there, nobody respects a gentleman.

All your drama of locking door could have been solved by pinning her head in burglary iron and firing her like a dog from behind.

The respect you seek will create itself.

Don’t be a horsey

Over. And out.

Jesus is coming soon oooo. Ehen.

Be advised

Simple

sweetmelanin:

Category 2: Those who used and dumped white women for papers and then brought their "ungrateful Nigerian wives" abroad.

Men who are desperate for papers often opt for the easy way out: marrying an older white woman (and in some cases a poor unsuspecting black woman from another African country who has papers) ... they do this with the mindset that they would bring their "real wife" from Nigeria.
Now when their 'wife' divorces them.. these men will scream betrayal, forgetting the trail of heartbreaks they've left behind.. Now how do such men think they will use a foreign woman, break her heart, and yet live happily ever after with an imported bride?? how??

In summary,

When I hear stories of bitter divorces and men killing their spouse whom they brought from Nigeria I can't help but think this could've been avoided if they focused on settling with a so called "akata". Yes, she may not feign fake 'submission' like home-based Nigerian chicks, but what makes her less likely to 'betray' or mess you up is the absence of entitlement mentality.
...someone coming directly from Nigeria typically has a dog eat dog mentality caused by an oppressive system of lack. Whereas an abroad based chick already learns not to depend on a man from as early as 16 - 17 years of age.. most already have part time jobs as students and know the value of working for their money.. they won't take crap but at least what you see is what you get.. abroad based girls (akatas) are not angels but are far better than the pretenders back home y'all believe are "wife materials".. but people generally hold on to an illusion over what is real.

Your angle is all about Karma. What about the good guys who never hurt a fly but their wives grow wings on them? This is the most prevalent case.

What do you have to say about that?

The truth is that America is a woman’s paradise. The government supports women to the core and the disadvantage of men.

I know a guy who was broke when his wife had a baby. It was from the hospital they were telling her the Govt would support her financially IF she dumps his azz.

Truth is, the world is changing diabolically. The family is under attack. This is the BIG picture to keep in mind.

When the Centre can no longer hold, the devil has reign. So all these dumpings are not just physical shyte. They’re spiritual in nature.

Keep in mind always that the devils goal is the destruction of the family system. When this is achieved, it is easy for a kid to wake up one day and say they prefer to be another gender. Or to be ghey.

This is the big picture. If women have it in mind, they won’t be seeking liberation so eagerly.

See how people swim in squalor and focus on handwriting. Is it because you can’t ever date him?


Useless standards.

JaneYave:
What a new year news! That hand writing on the card is so not romantic.

Tongues are wagging because Nigerian Internet Marketer, Waju Abraham may have had a wardrobe malfunction in this photo taken somewhere in the US.

He denies it in his Instagram post though. https://www.instagram.com/p/CJK5M4SJsg3/?igshid=1000faulp36iw

Hey, you could be right. You know?

HALF RIGHT.

Just like saying you won’t go out because the sun is out.

Damn Niccur. People use cars, transport...freaking umbrellas now.

It’s 2020 dammit.

So while majority may be miserable and clueless in marriage, some are actually enjoying it.

Don’t let your fears disqualify you from something you might actually deserve and enjoy.

Peace ✌�

slawormiir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright..how niggarrrrs are bold to get married baffles me...
Imagine me as a real niggarrr will be under same roof with one pussy for God knows how long...not to talk of the love and excitement that fades

I tried that shit when i invited..a lady down to my hotel room to spend one week with me
Damnnn shit...after two days the excitement was no longer there...my dickkk was no longer getting excited
Which means married people are just pretending...the love and excitement is no longer there...there are just enduring...he be like say na baby mama go sure me die..

Shut up. You’re broke. In fact, that’s why you’re broke. Because you do not understand or appreciate the HONOR CODE of life.

OR aren’t you broke

light099:

Then like I always say, there are levels to this shiit in life.
The celebrity of your celebrity is still a fan of a bigger celebrity.
That's why never should you stoop too low all in the name of fanning a wack, who's your fellow human being, because the person you're ass licking is also ass licking someone else, which makes you the nigga at the tail end of the ladder.
When I see kids who worship the likes of Messi and Penaldo, I just SMH, while perpetual sycophants see me as a hater because asslicking isn't a dominant trait in my gene.
I didn't mean you shouldn't appreciate people but some folks came to life with default gene of asslicking.
When you're the fan of froggido on FB, fan of Penaldo on Instagram, fan of Messi on Twitter, spend whole time arguing about Wizkrap on Nairaland; you're always a perpetual fan all the time. If you spend your whole life fanning others, when will others fan you too?
Celebrities are not better than you, they just got lucky with life, anyone can get lucky. Tomorrow might be your turn, so never you lose your head today because of one wack celebrity.
Anyway just saying. If asslicking is your mission in life, please stay loyal to the hustle, whatever pays your bills or rocks your boat. Some people have made it from asslicking, you can do too.

The bigger the bribe, the more you lose.

Don’t you get that you’re salary is the bribe to trade your rights away?

Take the smaller pay. It won’t wear you out. And you will still have the energy to invest in your dreams.

Unless your dream is to be a banker.

In which case, what kind of dinosaur are you

Here’s my neighbor’s pit. Very friendly and contrary to all the Naija fears of pitbulls. My neighbor says a dog takes on the heart of its owner.

Tochex101:

Impressive!
In your opinion, what’s the best breed for a family pet. One which will be very good with Little kids...

You have 2 options.

But first, let me point out something to you. She told you without even noticing how shocked you were.

That means she’s still pretty deep with the guy. And unless HE gets married (or dies), she’ll still want him.

Now, it maybe money, looks (status), or because he knows how to hit it. I have exes too that want me back even though I’m now married.

This brings me to the two options before you.

1.) Walk away. No need playing second fiddle while the love of your life is busy longing for another guy. Worst part is it’s an ex sef. Smh. Pele.

2.) Be a man. Be patient. Support her. Advice her on getting him back. Help her try to win him back.

In other words, be selfless. She might wake up and SEE you back. But it’s a gamble. Very hard actually.

The truth about this is that it will Yep you stay fit.

The world is shit because people aren’t “staying in shape” lovewise.

I’ve done mumu for girls because I didn’t want to become unfit.

Which is why my advice is to walk away.

You see, listen when I say this.

NEVER FALL IN LOVE.

Marriage is for advantage. Marriage is to be approached like business. Think for your own gain.

If you do that, walking away will never be a problem.

Can’t type too much.

I hope this helps.

Peace.

Nomorelove:
Hello everyone, I'm a 24 year old guy and there is this nice lady I met two months back and ever since then, I've really been happy. Truth is we aren't in a relationship yet but have spoken about our feelings for each other.

I really planned on settling down with her and likewise her but something happened today that got me in a state of dilemma. So she had to talk to her ex because of something really important and all of a sudden, she told me she still has feelings for him deep down and talking to him after a year of breakup has brought it all back and hopes that they'll be together someday... I was like "Am I dreaming?" (I said that within me).

She went on and on and I immediately started shaking like literally. I couldn't speak for a while and she noticed nothing at all. I'm really dumbfounded right now. Her ex was even the one that broke up with her... Why are girls really confused these days? She has told me countless times about how she feels towards me so I have no idea why this is happening all of a sudden.

I think it'll be in my best interest to cut of all ties with her because I can't face what has happened and I'll be hurting myself by deciding to remain friends with her. What do I do?

Critics are most welcome

No comment.

True. The girls are mostly fat, lazy, excessively tattooed...and smoke weed like it’s going out of fashion.

And then they say “I want a man that’ll love me for who I YAM”.

And to make matters worse, they have no qualms walking out at the slightest irritation, taking the man’s wealth with them. It’s a business sef.

Don’t quote me. I know what I know.

You just make sisters look stupid.

Stand with her at all costs”. Yet you will still open your mouth to chant BLM.

If white folk stand with their own, you’re gonna cry �

Your headline is misleading.

Anyway, I’ll advice you.

I watched a movie last night titled SPEED KILLS, and starring John Travolta.

The title is enough to chew on. Most of you want to blow overnight. And that’s a problem.

Y’all don’t know how to stick to things.

Secondly...I also learnt that...

It doesn’t matter how much you’ve lost.

I’d doesn’t matter how hard a thing is.

Success stories are not for quitters.

99.9999% of the time, victory is for those who see it through. Who stay in the game.

Took me 7 years to learn this in my online game.

I used to do free marketing. That is, I never wanted to pay for services or renew them. Like web hosting or autoresponder services.

If you ain’t paying, you ain’t winning. If you like be there for 10 years.

Pay for services.

Get a coach.

Bring your a game.

And get the “fvgck” back up if you fall.

That’s how to win at ANYTHING.

Oh and by the way, I finally got serious in 2016.

3 years later, I hit my first $100,000 month.

It’s not hard.

But the finish line is only for those who stay in the game.

Doesn’t matter how much you’ve “lost”.

Your story doesn’t matter until you win.

My name is Waju Abraham.

Google me.

You need to forgive yourself.

You can’t move forward thinking like a loser. Or seeing yourself as one.

Only you can fix this. And it begins with respecting yourself again, reminding yourself who you truly are and speaking to yourself.

I’ve been there.

Spent 10 years in the university. Smh. Nothing changed until I KINGED MYSELF.

Nothing changed.

The same will be your case.

Forget who doesn’t check on you. Nobody checks on a loser.

They will return when you KING yourself.

Start to see yourself in a new light.

Nothing will work. Losers are losers.

Your life will not emerge beyond the image that you hold of yourself.

I hope this helps.

I’ll prolly do a full article on this later.

But keep in mind, it is the only way.

No idea...no matter how brilliant...will change your life if you don’t stop feeling sorry for yourself and seeing yourself as a loser or disappointment.

That’s where the problem is.

That’s what the devil wants.

There are no losers in heaven.

Smile.

Well at least you have an idea that you have no idea.

That’s a good place to start from, worthy of celebrating.

Many are not even aware.

You’re doing well, my dear bro/sis.

I don’t quite agree. It isn’t prosperity that gives white folks the passion for these things. It is courage. The people who do these jobs don’t necessarily get paid top dollar. They just follow their passion.

Blacks on the other hand, are more fearful. Remember it is the same water they worshiped that brought their slave masters.

Shukusheka:
It is not even a blackman thing, it is a reflection of races still battling with poverty. White people can afford to shift their interest into wildlife because they have attained a certain level of self actualization, they have lesser fundamental things to worry about.

Good job with this video. Needs circulation.

Good music. Good lyrics. Great directing.

God bless you. Mightily.

GodisWealth:
There is obviously something wrong with the Nigerian Army most especially its leadership. Buhari should do a total overhauling .

Meanwhile pls i solicit all Nigerian Youths to desist from drug abuse.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K3rxFmftbho

If you’re so passionate about grammar, why not create a course on the subject. It’s better to get paid than to to be seen as an unpaid alaseju.

Dotherightthing:


21. Please spell words correctly when you post, and try to use perfect grammar and punctuation.

proxillin:
I jokingly said to her “You dey whine me abi”. She just went off, started ranting, she said I should say whatever I want to say now infront of everyone..infront of her friends. “Why do you want me to come and sit with you?” say it now “let the whole world hear”. It was so embarrasing for me. I just said to myself “whats there..are they not aldult?..dem never toast all of them before”.
........
In a dilema seriously and its giving me headache.

Dude! Forgiveness is not the problem. In fact, it is irrelevant.

She was “being childish”. I laugh in ibiobio. If it’s in her, it will manifest again when she feels settled.

Secondly, she likely did that because one of her sponsors was at the party. She embarrassed you to make an Intended impression...protect a relationship.

That girl will break you’re heart when she finally has it in her possession.

Take it to the bank.

Girls don’t change. They have no new behavior. That’s why broken men always remember the red flags a little too late.

My peace I leave with you.

Selah.

Un-have her, silly!

wwwihy:
Reno ,the envious speak from the heart about morality; they are consumed by hunger and begrudging. They tolerate, when no one else listens; and with the spur of spite, they applaud another's prosperity.

All envy is proportionate to desire; we are uneasy at the attainments of another, according as we think our own happiness would be advanced by the addition of that which he withholds from us.

Wwwihy are you incapable of analytical thinking like this?

Wwwihy is anything that criticizes those you worship always seen as an attack.

I’ll answer.

Because you are not supposed to worship any other but God who alone is faultless. And you can never go wrong worshipping Him.

A man brings facts to correct a damaging position by an influential organization, and you call it envy.

I can almost bet you’re Yoruba.

Na dem dey always find fault in truth. Especially when it hits home.

Nonsense.

Look at the male beside her. Looking all tough because he knows that people know he’s not the man in the arrangement.

He’s just an inseminator.

He’s not the man of the house. Otherwise why would you bow to the culture of celebrity and allow your woman dress like this for the world to see?

These are the men being produced these days. Weak as fuxk. Now the weaker flesh. She married him. He didn’t marry her.

She pays the bills. She calls the shots.

That is not a man.

Anyway, asolayo oooo, Nicki darling.

It takes a basic man to submit like that. Somebody has to do the dirty work sha

Originally from Ekiti State, born to two University Professors, Yomi Fapas himself graduated from UCH, Ibadan.

On migrating to the USA, and touched by the plight of immigrants, he ventured further to study Law, at the same time getting a PhD in public health from John Hopkins University.

Below information from his website. fapas4senate.com

MEET: YOMI FAPAS
Yomi “Fapas” Faparusi, grew up on a university campus. He learned the value of education and hard work from his parents who had a poultry business in addition to being college professors.

At a young age, Fapas tended chickens at the family business. Thus, Fapas understands the importance of small businesses, especially in Tennessee.


Yomi attended medical school and eventually graduated with a PHD from John Hopkins School of Public Health.

Today, we face a public health crisis with the COVID-19 pandemic. As a licensed physician, Fapas would bring the requisite knowledge to the US Senate to formulate policies that would address current and future health care issues.

Finally, as a practicing immigration attorney, Fapas will put partisan politics aside to resolve our immigration crisis.

cc: lalasticlala Mynd44

I wish I could like this a million times.

streetzdreamz:
so many babies on this forum parading as men,she gave an advice, you told your mum who didn't buy the idea,then you automatically lost confidence in her, do you even have confidence in yourself to start with?I know how lonely my mum is whenever I'm not home, we've all told her to remarry a couple years after dad's death but she wouldn't, so if my girlfriend gives me such a suggestion,I'll never ever use it against her,and to think some people here are spewing rubbish about it all is appalling, a saying goes "lucky is the spouse that dies first, who never gets to know what their partner endures" your choice,your mum,your girl but it's foolish bringing it up here as though the lady did or said anything wrong,when a man loses his wife it only takes a lil while before he remarries,but when it's a woman reverse is the case,Lord knows if I end up marrying,and go early I wouldn't want my wife to go through half of what my mum went through..... traditions or cultures me ass!

Na this one off me.

1992 “pikin”. You were 20 years old 8 years ago, and you still consider yourself a child.

My dear, face your book. You have no business with a mature girl.

When (hopefully) you get wise, you will realize she was telling you because she was planning for her marital home. No wife wants a mother in law who will be squatting 24/7 with her husband.

If you miss this, you could miss heaven. Because wisdom is the true heaven.

Mvici:
1992 pikin still be child maybe na the way I take reason the matter.

Thanks anyway.

You’re not flying high enough for her. She’s seen men. And you don’t match the men she’s seen or who have toasted (or tasted) her.

Walk away, brother. Don’t look for them.

Face your life and make it enviable.

Don’t do it to revenge. Do it because it is your #1 priority on this life.

I wish o could say more here, but there’s no time.

Check out my signature for additional help.

Peace.

simplexity:
Firstly I will like to apologize for any errors made while typing, and I am seriously in need of ur advice and criticism.

My name is Stanley(not real names) married for 4years with two Lovely kids both female with d eldest at age 4. Trust me I cherish and love my family. I am a graduate while my wife dropout from the university cause of some money issues her single mother had while she was sick. After our first child I made sure she got admitted to a polytechnic and thankful she just rounded up her N.D all expenses paid by me, with high hopes of Getting admitted for her HND.

The problem started after our first child, my wife attitude towards sex changed totally, she would never let me touch her or play with her, calling her pet names will usually end in quarrel, I spoke with her her severally, pleaded and beg her most times but her attitude never changed, she made me feel like I met nothing to her, yet she will always fight with me whenever ever she suspects I have a girlfriend, fights with any female that comes close to me through calls or chats, she even went as far as beating up a lady that needed my help thinking I was dating her.

Fast forward to recently, her mom who is a single mother relocated to stay with us, and during her stay we had some misunderstanding about money issues, (note both me and wifey are gainfully employed in the ratio of 10:4, but 60% of wifey salary goes to her mom while she spends the rest 40% anyhow she likes) during d money issues a frd of hers came and told both of them that she see saw me flirting with a lady. And without hearing my own side of the coin my mother in-law rained curses on me , reported my to all her family members and left my house angrily, two days later my wife took our children and left my house while I was in d office, I called about her where about and she said she won't tell me and she said I will hear from her family soon, her mom called a family friend saying she will sue me.

It's been one week now and I don't know the whereabouts of my kids.

Should I report to the police or what?
Note I have apologized to wife for the crime I didn't commit yet it seems they want a bigger pound of flesh.

Please kindly advise me caused am depressed and confused