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I guess it is a success factor to have men toasting you.

How do you know who wants to smash, and who wants to merge?

What are you doing with relationship in 300 level?

No wonder you're confused.

You don’t even know what lies ahead for you after school. Na ED dey worry you.

Read this book. Your answer is there.

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Get this book for your husband. Tip: it’s his fault. You’re welcome.

Why women bang their therapists and pastors and doctors and gym trainers.

Issa banger.

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Always funny how God gives us children, and then we go to humans when we have problems with them -and NOT the manufacturer.

His behavior is a reflection of how you take God seriously.

He should be your first consult.

And what he will teach you is the power of words over these kids. The more you react to the child, the more you reinforce the bad behavior.

Children learn by emotions. They will repeat the actions that bring out your deepest emotions.

But even above this is the words you speak over him/them.

Words of faith and righteousness.

Study the Bible for yourself. Find what God says about your children and declare daily and often over them.

Nothing resists the word of God.

Nothing.

Start with God -and you won’t be on social media whining.

This is what it means to pay-rent. Because God is the Landlord.

Eskis sir. What about YOUR own family?

Abi prestige no dey Una bloodline

Coldshisha:




Agbaya mumu man

His family would have held similar prestige like the Dantata, Adelekes, as 3rd Generation big man but drug abuse, betrayer , hungry attitude, pettiness ruined their name


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It happens because you’re mentally idle.

Find your purpose. Obsess over it. No man should think of relationships who has not first found his purpose in life.

Hmmm. Don’t set yourself up for failure in life, son.

You VOWED to protect her. No excuses. Remember.

You vowed to God. Before men and angels to always protect her.

Can’t you move to another state? Na by force?

Or what type of man are you?

Don’t you have any area boys in your life?

Can’t you break bottle for the woman?

Listen. All these things are the things you can use to win respect back. If you cannot protect your wife from drama, why the hell did you marry her?

She’ll never respect you. She wants you to stand and FIGHT for her. Unless she’s not worth it to you sha.

Don’t disappoint us, son. Lion UP!

uyimen:
Good day,
Pls help me with ur advice , i know u wont be shy to tell me if am wrong.
now its me my wife blames.

Friends what do i do now, my wife insists that because of 18yrs of living with them so i should let go and pretend nothing ever went wrong.
Pls advise me.

She expects you to save her from that bullshit. But she’ll never tell you directly. She is hoping you have sense and balls.

No fuggup

Ode. The future is sense.

azadus18:
The future is black

If you’re asking, the answer is no. The ones for whom it is meant never ask a soul. Army is for people with passion.

Na men like these dey encourage women to dey do feminism.

Imagine among all women in Africa. Na masculine woman dey enter your eye. You get big problem.

I sure say you get mommy issues.

Man wey no man up. Wey no for lead, na dem dey find feminist to date. Because feminists sef desperate pass dey land.

“The righteous perish, and no one ponders it in his heart; devout men are taken away, and no one understands that the righteous are taken away to be spared from evil (to come).“

Isaiah 57

NwaAmaikpe:





T.K.O for another Daddy G.O.

I wonder why they're dying younger than their seniors who are not even as holy as them yet gearing up for the next Presidential election in 2023.

This is a MAN! Gbagbe oshi!

And he has a psychosis.

I’m talking about this DivineHealing person.

Divinehealer:
if you talk now, the "including your father and male relatives" Gang will jump out
Women listen and listen good, naija men and self control are as wide appart as Alpha and Omega. They will Bleep their own mothers talkless of daughters. Keep your children faaar from them. Don't look at how they pretend on social media forming and shouting ahh, na wa ooo, God forbid ó, all na wash. Until you catch them, they will keep forming better and holler. Read through and see how men will only see the problem to be that he slept with his daughter. They will almost wave this aside as one of those mistakes which shouldn't have happened. Read through and see how men will make excuses for him. That should tell you how normal these kinds of acts are in the minds of naija men.
The wife is stupid for being confused. When she is fucking, does she confuse the hole a dick should enter? The daughter.. May God heal her. The poster is mad for being confused too. The man,..... He needs clean beating and castration

Sapphire kor. Ruby ni.

That forehead though. My friend says it is 5 heads. E pass four.

Lamasta:
Are you sure this is not sapphire

“Future is female”

This one Na clown abeg. Any woman who says that F is F is truly F’ed in the mind. Nothing they say can make sense until they repent if that thought.

Future is female. Oya eff yourself and born pikin nau.

Olofo!

FutureIsFemale:
Dear women, invest in yourselves. Forget these chameleons who keep changing every second. They don't worth it.

Please permit me to say this. Men are very wicked. They are ready to waste your life. Imagine marrying a lady just for clout. You care not about her emotions and her biological clock. Very selfish lots.
A man would date a lady for years.. Pinning her down with fake marriage promises. Deep down he knows he won't marry her yet he will chose to tie her down.
My God will continue to punish every male child that has ever promised a lady marriage and dump her for another woman.

Time is the only resource that can't be recovered. Men know this. And they are fully aware of a woman's clock. Yet they chose to waste women's time. My God will judge them.
If not for Biblical purpose, I see no reason I should get married. These men don't deserve it.

It's different if you are planning on marrying a girl and something serious like health challenge happens and you later cancel your plans.
Why keep a woman in your custody for years when you know you won't marry her? What's the sense in it?
God will punish you all marriage-promise-breakers. It will not be well with you all.

I am not even reacting to the thread base on the subject matter. I am reacting to the thread base on how men waste women's time all in the name of marriage. God will punish them.
And point of correction. I am not on NL for likes. If I wanted likes I would say sweet words about men. To hell with NL likes. I am here as a voice for women.

It seem you don't know who men are. The worst pretenders I have ever seen. Some would go as far as introducing you to their family members and coming to see your family for introduction. Deep down they know they won't marry you. They will leave you to public disgrace.
Forget it. If I tell you my story you will weep.
I don't wish any woman what I've gone through in the hands of men.

They key word here is "MARRIAGE FOR CLOUT". Meaning that no matter how good this girl is, he will still dump her after his clout chasing days are over.

Marriage is not a choice. It is a command.
Genesis 2:24
Genesis 9:7
Deuteronomy 23:2

A Lagos based business man recently lamented on his status about not having a mother for the past 14 years.

He had said ”Imagine not having a mother for 14 years, and nobody is asking for my bank account. This life! Be mind to me and God will bless you continuously and permanently.”

What was intended to be a joke however turned into something else when one of his friends sent him money in the sun of N1.00. One naira.

See images below.

What would you do if it were you?

Ode. You want to put your seed in a ho(€)?

If you don’t have money, forget love. Una no dey hear.

Damn!

PENNYSWAP:
Greetings guys ..

I’m in an emotional trauma right now. This girl I have been dating , I want to marry and I have gone to her place and did a few of things my hand could afford traditionally .. I’m hoping to do the rest by Xmas .

She is a new graduate and she told me to open a side business for her to make small small change instead of being idle.

I told her to give me small time to save up money .

There is this guy she always talks about that is a yahoo boy and has plenty money , long story short , she came to my house last weekend , we were discussing, I wanted to use her phone and play 9ja ludo but she insisted on not giving me the phone .. she held the phone , turned her back after pressing it for long she gave it to me .

I angrily seized the phone , told her I bought the phone and sim that I’m seizing it.

We later settle and she slept early hours of the nxt day , I woke up brought her phone and it was on plane mood , I removed it from plane mood and a text msg came in from some guy .

I went to her WhatsApp to check the guy out and behold , she blocked the number on WhatsApp.

I unblocked the number and sent him message first , we started chatting , the guy was saying how he loves her and all that shit and the money he sent her to open up a side business.

I woke her up , confronted her and she said she did it for me since I was wasting time to raise money for her , she had to take it from her class mate , the said yahoo guy .

That she’s sorry not to tell me about it since .

She said I should allow her answer the guys calls so that she can get more money from the guy. I agreed and gave her the go ahead but she promised that she won’t allow any man see her unclothedness aside me her husband to be.

My mind has been heating up , why she lied to me and hid something of this nature to me .

The other mind is telling me to impregnate her then dump her when she’s 6 months pregnant that if I leave her now , the guy might take over and I will be the mugu here .

Guys what do I do , I need to wicked this girl I swear , my mind is boiling

Some one I have done 45% of her dowry is doing this to me . Kai I be mugu Oooooo

I need advise from real niggaz

End of discussion.

Catfishing:
The guy wife get strong face...she no dey smile at all

Run, baby, RUN!

Don’t think. Don’t ask questions. Don’t hold meeting.

Run!!!!

mugnmuffin:
Dear Nairalanders,
I have an issue that has been on my mind for weeks now. My fiancé and I have been dating for over three years. I love him and he loves me too. We are physically attracted to each other. We’re both catholic but since I graduated, during my service year I gave my life to Christ, got saved and left the Catholic Church. So I’ve been a Pentecostal Christian since then. He on the other hand is still catholic. I subtly try to nudge him to consider getting saved, i.e acknowledging Christ as lord and savior and becoming born again but he is content with his laidback Christian life.

Earlier this year, he asked to meet my parents and I let him. My parents like him especially because my younger sis is married and they have been waiting for me too. They’re glad I’ve someone. However, after the introduction,I regret it. I’m now certain that he’s not the one. I think about my spiritual life and how lukewarm he is about the things of God, I think about kids and how we’ll raise the, with such differing views about God and I’m discouraged. I feel like I’m settling because he checks all the boxes on the checklist of physical attributes. Another mistake I made is, I didn’t pray about this decision and that worries me because anything that involves him,I just act with pausing to ask God, but I always ask God about other aspects of my life. So it’s like my associating with him is a minus for my spiritual life and that’s a huge cause for concern.

At this point, I want to tell my parents I am not convinced it’s him but I’m afraid of the disappointment this will cause. *sigh* I’ll appreciate your thoughts, comments, criticisms...

You can’t make this up.

The gist is that Elon made a savage meme trolling crypto losers crying shortsightedly over their investment.

From a billionaires standpoint, it is understandable. The dip (or crash as naive investors call it) is temporary. And he couldn’t stand the wailing of these people.

So Elon Tweeted said savage meme.

And the guy immediately responded with some cryptic verses that many have said are satanic verses.

Just goes to show you how pained the man was to have done what he did.

Maybe he bet his house rent in crypto.

See images below.

It’s draining you because you’re expecting something from it. Read that again. OP. @lamdbull

First, you should think the other way around.

You are drain-able because you’re not nourishing your spirit man. That guy is starving, man.

Feed him well with the right stuff (The Word of God)

Feed him till he is robust and strong.

Then you can never be drained. You will be equipped to GIVE all the love, charm and impact that you exist to give -yes, even in a small town for now.

Create time daily to be refreshed by studying the word, praying in tongues and worshiping the Father.

You will be just fine.

If you ignore this, you will always feel drained. Even if you move to another place.

A lizard in Okokomaiko cannot become a crocodile in Alabama.” - Arch-Bishop Benson Idahosa

It is the first law of trading success.

Never borrow money to invest. You are not insured unlike banks.

My prayers are with MBA.

Why?

Losses do happen in every venture.

Unfortunately when you invest for the poor and lose money, they’ll never remember the gains they made before.

If he had worked with the rich and lost it all, you wouldn’t hear peem in the news.

Joy to the wise.

“Leave the poor in their penury. It is their mind they must change. Not their bank account balance.” -Jesus Christ AD

Has anybody told you this is the disrespect you get from not chopping her?

It never fails to happen.

Oh. You’re a Christian? Then don’t start what you can’t finish.

If you had hammered her first night, she will be your slave at least for the foreseeable future.

Listen. I am Christian. Born again. I don’t recommend immorality but I am street to the core.

Don’t start what you can’t finish. In the world out there, nobody respects a gentleman.

All your drama of locking door could have been solved by pinning her head in burglary iron and firing her like a dog from behind.

The respect you seek will create itself.

Don’t be a horsey

Over. And out.

Jesus is coming soon oooo. Ehen.

Be advised

Simple

sweetmelanin:
Category 2: Those who used and dumped white women for papers and then brought their "ungrateful Nigerian wives" abroad.

Men who are desperate for papers often opt for the easy way out: marrying an older white woman (and in some cases a poor unsuspecting black woman from another African country who has papers) ... they do this with the mindset that they would bring their "real wife" from Nigeria.
Now when their 'wife' divorces them.. these men will scream betrayal, forgetting the trail of heartbreaks they've left behind.. Now how do such men think they will use a foreign woman, break her heart, and yet live happily ever after with an imported bride?? how??

In summary,

When I hear stories of bitter divorces and men killing their spouse whom they brought from Nigeria I can't help but think this could've been avoided if they focused on settling with a so called "akata". Yes, she may not feign fake 'submission' like home-based Nigerian chicks, but what makes her less likely to 'betray' or mess you up is the absence of entitlement mentality.
...someone coming directly from Nigeria typically has a dog eat dog mentality caused by an oppressive system of lack. Whereas an abroad based chick already learns not to depend on a man from as early as 16 - 17 years of age.. most already have part time jobs as students and know the value of working for their money.. they won't take crap but at least what you see is what you get.. abroad based girls (akatas) are not angels but are far better than the pretenders back home y'all believe are "wife materials".. but people generally hold on to an illusion over what is real.

Your angle is all about Karma. What about the good guys who never hurt a fly but their wives grow wings on them? This is the most prevalent case.

What do you have to say about that?

The truth is that America is a woman’s paradise. The government supports women to the core and the disadvantage of men.

I know a guy who was broke when his wife had a baby. It was from the hospital they were telling her the Govt would support her financially IF she dumps his azz.

Truth is, the world is changing diabolically. The family is under attack. This is the BIG picture to keep in mind.

When the Centre can no longer hold, the devil has reign. So all these dumpings are not just physical shyte. They’re spiritual in nature.

Keep in mind always that the devils goal is the destruction of the family system. When this is achieved, it is easy for a kid to wake up one day and say they prefer to be another gender. Or to be ghey.

This is the big picture. If women have it in mind, they won’t be seeking liberation so eagerly.

See how people swim in squalor and focus on handwriting. Is it because you can’t ever date him?


Useless standards.

JaneYave:
What a new year news! That hand writing on the card is so not romantic.

Tongues are wagging because Nigerian Internet Marketer, Waju Abraham may have had a wardrobe malfunction in this photo taken somewhere in the US.

He denies it in his Instagram post though. https://www.instagram.com/p/CJK5M4SJsg3/?igshid=1000faulp36iw

Hey, you could be right. You know?

HALF RIGHT.

Just like saying you won’t go out because the sun is out.

Damn Niccur. People use cars, transport...freaking umbrellas now.

It’s 2020 dammit.

So while majority may be miserable and clueless in marriage, some are actually enjoying it.

Don’t let your fears disqualify you from something you might actually deserve and enjoy.

Peace ✌�

slawormiir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright..how niggarrrrs are bold to get married baffles me...
Imagine me as a real niggarrr will be under same roof with one pussy for God knows how long...not to talk of the love and excitement that fades

I tried that shit when i invited..a lady down to my hotel room to spend one week with me
Damnnn shit...after two days the excitement was no longer there...my dickkk was no longer getting excited
Which means married people are just pretending...the love and excitement is no longer there...there are just enduring...he be like say na baby mama go sure me die..

Shut up. You’re broke. In fact, that’s why you’re broke. Because you do not understand or appreciate the HONOR CODE of life.

OR aren’t you broke

light099:
Then like I always say, there are levels to this shiit in life.
The celebrity of your celebrity is still a fan of a bigger celebrity.
That's why never should you stoop too low all in the name of fanning a wack, who's your fellow human being, because the person you're ass licking is also ass licking someone else, which makes you the nigga at the tail end of the ladder.
When I see kids who worship the likes of Messi and Penaldo, I just SMH, while perpetual sycophants see me as a hater because asslicking isn't a dominant trait in my gene.
I didn't mean you shouldn't appreciate people but some folks came to life with default gene of asslicking.
When you're the fan of froggido on FB, fan of Penaldo on Instagram, fan of Messi on Twitter, spend whole time arguing about Wizkrap on Nairaland; you're always a perpetual fan all the time. If you spend your whole life fanning others, when will others fan you too?
Celebrities are not better than you, they just got lucky with life, anyone can get lucky. Tomorrow might be your turn, so never you lose your head today because of one wack celebrity.
Anyway just saying. If asslicking is your mission in life, please stay loyal to the hustle, whatever pays your bills or rocks your boat. Some people have made it from asslicking, you can do too.

The bigger the bribe, the more you lose.

Don’t you get that you’re salary is the bribe to trade your rights away?

Take the smaller pay. It won’t wear you out. And you will still have the energy to invest in your dreams.

Unless your dream is to be a banker.

In which case, what kind of dinosaur are you

Here’s my neighbor’s pit. Very friendly and contrary to all the Naija fears of pitbulls. My neighbor says a dog takes on the heart of its owner.

Tochex101:
Impressive!
In your opinion, what’s the best breed for a family pet. One which will be very good with Little kids...

You have 2 options.

But first, let me point out something to you. She told you without even noticing how shocked you were.

That means she’s still pretty deep with the guy. And unless HE gets married (or dies), she’ll still want him.

Now, it maybe money, looks (status), or because he knows how to hit it. I have exes too that want me back even though I’m now married.

This brings me to the two options before you.

1.) Walk away. No need playing second fiddle while the love of your life is busy longing for another guy. Worst part is it’s an ex sef. Smh. Pele.

2.) Be a man. Be patient. Support her. Advice her on getting him back. Help her try to win him back.

In other words, be selfless. She might wake up and SEE you back. But it’s a gamble. Very hard actually.

The truth about this is that it will Yep you stay fit.

The world is shit because people aren’t “staying in shape” lovewise.

I’ve done mumu for girls because I didn’t want to become unfit.

Which is why my advice is to walk away.

You see, listen when I say this.

NEVER FALL IN LOVE.

Marriage is for advantage. Marriage is to be approached like business. Think for your own gain.

If you do that, walking away will never be a problem.

Can’t type too much.

I hope this helps.

Peace.

Nomorelove:
Hello everyone, I'm a 24 year old guy and there is this nice lady I met two months back and ever since then, I've really been happy. Truth is we aren't in a relationship yet but have spoken about our feelings for each other.

I really planned on settling down with her and likewise her but something happened today that got me in a state of dilemma. So she had to talk to her ex because of something really important and all of a sudden, she told me she still has feelings for him deep down and talking to him after a year of breakup has brought it all back and hopes that they'll be together someday... I was like "Am I dreaming?" (I said that within me).

She went on and on and I immediately started shaking like literally. I couldn't speak for a while and she noticed nothing at all. I'm really dumbfounded right now. Her ex was even the one that broke up with her... Why are girls really confused these days? She has told me countless times about how she feels towards me so I have no idea why this is happening all of a sudden.

I think it'll be in my best interest to cut of all ties with her because I can't face what has happened and I'll be hurting myself by deciding to remain friends with her. What do I do?

Critics are most welcome