₦airaland Forum

How do you think the term "BLACKMAIL" came about?

caye:
Anyone ever notices that it is the BLACK MALE that is usually put in a dress; an effort to emasculate the black male; to lose his manhood.

Bro tell them!
Most Nigerians just follow the bandwagon. You can't even have an intelligent conversation with them. Let them keep fuelling the utopia and
fantasies.

Oladeji245:
I was helping someone make enquiry shee gboo sir.

My wife is a nurse and is in UK and has been on my neck for nearly two years now to join her...infact she was still home from may ending to June ending to spend her leave in Nigeria and as much as I just keep deceiving her that I will come because she cries every time when she sees I’m not even taking the matter seriously. So bro I have one of the easiest route abroad if I want to take it.
Why would I leave? For what exactly? I’m not rich but I’m extremely comfortable here. I’m thriving in my profession and I know the sky is my limit...and my profession only sells in Nigeria,Nigeria is where the market of my profession is unless I want to change career.
Why should I leave all these to uncertainty just because majority of the population has been configured to believe they can only make it outside Nigeria and for those who are even doing well,they have been made to believe they could have it better.
The apparent truth is that majority of migrants are struggling there especially those with no necessary skills like my wife or someone who is tech or maybe banking. For majority of the rest,it is struggle continues.
One of my colleagues we started together is in the same Canada doing Uber....
And the way you talk of Canada sef,the same Canada where a vast majority of the migrants including those even born in Canada are struggling real hard and a lot of people are even tryna run away and find means of leaving the country.
I hate the way you always paint the country like if people ain’t succeeding in it and the people succeeding in it are somehow doomed until they leave.
I’m in Osogbo,the electricity is decent, the security is good,the standard of life is good to decent,very good roads and I live in the cozy halleluyah estate.and my life is good.

It has nothing to do with all that. A promiscuous person is a promiscuous person no matter what you do or don't do

jkpbestseries:
na waooh. Are you not satisfying her or there is no free flow of money in the relationship

Nigerians are naturally cowards, they will rather beg than fight back. Even when they see the person is bent on killing them, they will still be begging. From an early age, kids need to be taught what to do in scenarios so they grow up with it. Abroad, two hefty grown men can't hack even a child to death without a robust fight back. In this attack, you may even be surprised it was just 1or two guys with an axe that took out a whole four healthy adults without a single resistance.
It is the same in our political life, politicians will steal the nation blind, but Nigerians will be praying, things that in other nations people would have risen up and chased them away

emetisuccess:
Jeeezz!! How many were these guys that they were able to kill four people at once, I mean four grown up adult at once, without a fight back. Jesus !!

Sometimes na close people dey kill person o

bonnyhope:
I understand your view
But what can outsiders say when the close relatives have come out to say it was a suicidal case

More shallowness

airminem:
You are no different...

https://www.nairaland.com/7040441/nigerian-man-commits-suicide-video

May someone not kill your loved one and say what he thought he knew

maasoap:
Who do you like this? Stop rambling. He said what he thought he knew, not in the capacity of the authority. I really don't know what you are fuming about.

Fans na

justicechichex:
Who be all these fans sef?

This list is for simps.
Know when to be firm and stand your ground. Women get irritated with you overtime when you are consistently nice and caring. I'm not talking of bad women, even the very best women hate consistent niceness and care. Learn to balance things up. Don't allow yourself taken for granted.

kunlesehan:
FACTS ABOUT WOMEN.

1- When a woman is angry, over half of what she says-she doesn't mean...

2- The most difficult time for a woman is when she is away from the man she truly loves.

3- A woman is not like 'detol advert', if you don't take care of her... Others will.

4- It takes time for a woman to trust a man, its hard to change when she does, but if you mess-up, you might just forget it.

5- A woman is such a school you will never graduate from.

6- Your wedding certificate with her is not a "driving licence", its just a "Learners permit"

7- She can be very bitter now, and a very sweet angel later on, it all lies in your approach.

8- A woman hardly forget things, she remembers hurts more, avoid making her hurt.

9- A woman can be highly secretive... Most times when they prove hard to men, they go to their closet and friends to cry.

10- All women Love to be begged. men often miss out on this........

11- All women have a unique character like salt, their presence might not be noticed but their absence makes all things tasteless.

12- If she loves you she can do everything you ask of her as far as it makes you happy, so never force her to love you.

13- If a woman truely loves you,even to ask money from you she will be shy and most especially if she loves you she can never leave you to spend unnecessarily!...that's what makes them special....☺

If you find a woman who loves and fears God, cherish her for life and never let her go.. She will do you good for the rest of your life.

SO WOMEN ARE VERY SPECIAL.

GOD BLESS OUR WOMEN.

Author unknown (Anonymous)

The newest format in Nigeria now is to murder someone, quickly put out a narrative that they committed suicide, then watch as gullible people lap it all up hook line sinker.
Nigerians are among the most shallow people on earth, I've never seen a people so easily deceived. So swayed by bandwagon and first narratives.
Criminals can't believe how easy it is! See them rushing to comment words of advice and motivation, because one person said it was suicide. Nobody is asking, lets really investigate first, nobody is saying, lets reserve our comments first before it is fully investigated.
In some other places, any death is first treated as a potential murder before anything else.
Not Nigerians. Who is this man that said it is suicide? On what authority has he pronounced it suicide? What does he know that could aid the authorities in investigation?
Elsewhere, you cannot even rush to break this kind of news or make this kind of pronouncement cos the authorities will immediately assume you know something. But watch as this will all go away in a hail of meaningless words of motivation and RIPS

It is funny how obsessed we are in Africa with marriage and how we pride ourselves as being family oriented. The thing uppermost in the mind of an average african is how to get married.
But the reality is that we get married for all other reasons except love - which ironically is supposed to be the ONLY reason for two people to get married. Here, all manner of criteria, tribal, religious, societal, financial, etc are what determines who gets married to who.
Then, to make matters worse, we use trado-religious dogmas to force two unwilling people to stay together.
These are the results

*sustain

Anigreat:



Messi knack Honduras 2, while the self acclaimed goat fraudnaldo was ghosted in Czech republic match, the only way he could be noticed was to sustained injury.

Get well soon Pendu, I am sorry you bleed. This one is nosestrual flow not menstrual flow.

You nailed it perfectly!

lhordspy:
It is a pity na!raland have joined the lists of propaganda dishing media.

Na!raland should please always try and verify news before pushing them. Not just always push whatever the evil western medias spend time in propagating. We have a tense situation in Iran already, we shouldnt add more fire by circulating fake news and trying to bring the iranian government down so that the western world can install one of their puppet.

They tried it in iraq, libya, syria, ukraine.. And we all know how it ended or is going for the listed.

Firstly, question we need to ask Ourselves.

Where are the pictures of the 50 dead bodies?

Do we have any family coming out to report of any of their relatives killed? If yes. Where are the reports?

I repeat, the world will be a better place without BBC,CNN and other fake news evil media outlets.

Note: i am not a shite muslim. I just believe in fairness of the world. Free of double standard and hypocrisy.

The man isn't going anywhere abeg. All these na noise. Few months to the end of his tenure, all of a sudden una wan impeach. Make all of una getat. Who una dey try bobo?

Who be you people? Me I'm 100% obedient o! What I'm pointing out is that the old hag might unfortunately still have his way with vote buying and APC Northern leaders working for him. Osun was a local election, Adeleke, Oyetola, its a family affair not really PDP, APC

Truthisunique2:
party primaries of sharing dollars to a few isn't the same as general election

I thought osun thought you people lesson

They left their son Ahmed Lawan during the primaries

popez:
Why would Northerners leave their son and vote for someone else?

The troops at Abaji have been given instructions to let them pass through

Spirit04:
So how will they pass Abaji? The checkpoint there is almost 1km long. Abi the forces there are only there to cause holdups and accidents?

Tribal and religious affinity is more important than security and human lives.
Which yeye numbers does he have to carry out an impeachment? Is it the core Northern-Muslim senators? Or the ever loyal yoruba senators?
Also, are you prepared for the massive riots and outrage in the core North and southwest if their messiah is impeached?
Look, let's tell ourselves the truth, nothing can remove the man.
The earlier we accept that reality, the better for everyone

Even if terrorists hold a knife to throat and the only way condition to sparing his life would be to vote an ibo man, he would prefer to die.
's disposition is same as that for most northern-muslims, yoruba-Muslims and deeply traditional non-Muslim yorubas

Don't mind them. Nigerians and their irritating japa mentality

Munamoqel:
whoa they might resign their good ,secure and safe jobs to follow the japa crew .this chap wouldn't consider a security work back home even for a equivalent of same pay !

Word!!!

VeryWickedMan:
Masters of Security Studies
I'll rather die on my feet in Naija than live as a slave in Canada.

I think you and OP are saying the same thing. You are the type of wise man OP is talking about because you have been able to gain some benefit from being with a woman. Most men don't gain any benefit at all, rather they give and give and give, why? Because society has bullied them into thinking that is their lot as men. The typical female thinks receiving from a man is her birthright and the typical man has overtime been conditioned to think so too... So OP is right. Men don't have to settle for a life of servitude.

Exkandayee:
TRP is golden,but this op is an extremist,na mumu dey listen to all his shit, I'm redpilled, alpha and I know how to handle mY women and I've not failed, without dem baby girls life ain't complete, where I am today na baby girl makes me reach there,,so there are still one baby girl for you op if you no be gay,cos you sound like dem sometimes

Bros leave motivational talks, Nigerians KNOW tribe, Nigerians KNOW religion. The average yoruba man will rather prefer the Fulani take over his land than support an ibo man that will protect him. The average northerner will prefer bandits and terrorists to kill him than vote an ibo man. The Fulani marauders know this and they are happily capitalising on it.

biggy4joe:
The terrorist are coming closer,they want to take over the country dis fools thing violence is for just some people.....But they will see wahala 2secs make dem dey come we are waiting for them,Nigerians would destroy them we will stand up and define our country thats how the revolution would start.
Nigerians are waiting for them,we have suffered enough to allow aliens come and take over our land like we are ants,we will fight the survival fight and chase them away,Nigerians won't know tribe, religion,ethnicity or language all they would know is the freedom....God answered Nigeria prayers along time ago but they haven't realized,even Tobi knew she wasn't the one running that day at the world champions,she was running for survival(Osondu).That was her last change,and the Gloria of God that is in our country took charge thats the Nigerian spirit,thats our only power now and God approved 1000%.Let them come,let them shoot dis time around it would be different.....The fight would not be a a religious war nah,its gonna be a fight for survival Nigerians would survival and Nigeria would stand let them come we ain't scared of them.
Every bad person would run away from the country,Nigerians will chase them away and elect a leader that would be the image of Africa.Africa would rise!!!!
Let them come!!!!

Watch how they will come with the familiar stale cover up that it was a "gas cylinder"

Too long, I didn't read

Let me answer.: the simple reason is that no region is short of qualified individuals. So, we know he is qualified, and so are his peers from various other parts of the country. Now that we've established they are all qualified, we have to then balance out appointments on the basis of demographics so that everyone has a sense of belonging.

I had to take my time to make this explanation so that you regime apologists and defenders of nepotism and clanish favouritism should stop hiding under the stale facade of "competence" to perpetuate systemic marginalisation of segments of the country

eddie7:
The next question from my people will include and not limited to

1. He's from which state?
2. What's his religious belief?
3. What ethnic group does he represent?
4. Who is his godfather?
5. Na Christian or na Muslim?
6 bla bla bla







Nobody wants to know of his CV or competence

I agree with OP on this one, especially when he said this post isn't about telling you as a man to go and be a he-goat chasing anything on skirt cos that will make you pathetic.
However, even as a disciplined, faithful man, you have to let the woman in your life know other women desire you, especially women more beautiful and higher in class than her. This makes you more attractive to her.
Many men make the mistake of overly wanting to prove being faithful, after a while, the woman gets bored of you cos you're conquered territory and may even go ahead to cheat on you.
But if you can strike the balance of being disciplined and a bit scandalous, your woman would perpetually be attracted to you

His eyes no clear anything. He can never vote a. Ibo man, he will rather die

crackhouse:
No be the same man wey dey praise buhari for one event wey bandits kidnapped for train be this? His eyes don clear...

The irony of it all is that: even after all he has gone through, this man can still not bring himself to vote an ibo man.
If you put Buhari on the ballot come 2023, he will still vote for him

Media propaganda for the NRA: osino "pastors should be able to get licences for pistols". That statement itself is a giveaway... If you had a mere pistol, what would that do against 8men with semi automatics? Wouldn't it be better you don't have a pistol and they don't have semiautomatics?
And by the way, what are you doing with a Rolls Roy and so much jewellery?
These god of men

You're on your own. Tribal and religious sentiments supercedes all these grammar and hashtags you're saying for the average Nigerian

Hamzaaaaaaaa:
1.How we manage to become endangered species in our country still marvels me
2.How bubu and his sudanese/niger brothers are gradually making us to feel like a visitors in our motherland still surprise me
3.Things can actually get worse if we don't decide well in ds upcoming election
#saynotoethno-religiouspolitics#
#saynotobadgovernance#