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What do you expect? YouTube is free while udemy is paid courses. Even still there are alot of quality videos on YouTube. I don't even think their is a YouTube alternative for short fixes/tutorials

pansophist:
Narcs are like thieves, their operations are in the dark. They target the inexperienced and believe in their own exceptionalism on manipulation until they jam a narc slayer like me that will deal with them wotowoto.

I can be a friend with a narc forever, just to learn more from them, and counter their every move. I don't mind taking a few blows, but it's a small price to pay, to know their operations well.

I haven't dated a narc before I am too smart for them. I already know them from afar, and will never personalize those devilish creatures. And I don't care if they are black goats, in a dark alley, I can sniff them or feel their heartbeat. Pretense doesn't help them.

All this know-how comes with intense knowledge of human nature, a hardcore personal development journey, and not infusing my bias in a situation base on my feelings.

If your actions proves to me that you have narc tendencies, I will believe you. Your words are meaningless, I always look at your actions.

NArcs arer loosers. You don't have to chase them off. Befriend them and learn more from their operations.

Yeah we can make mistakes with words, but actions shows the real intentions.

slimvida:
In all you do please be careful not to add to sickle cell population. I am SC and I will tell you for free it's not easy. It's a very painful experience. I would choose heartbreak over the pain caused by sickle cell disorder.

sorry for your pain, be gentle on your self, it not all perfect for everyone. Supposed normal people suffer different ailments. We just accept what life throw at us. One day everything will be over.

NohurryInLife:
Happened to a friend of mine. They weren't even engaged but working towards being engaged. He just woke up seeing the painful message.

My padi almost kill en sef but as we dey always dey with ahm now, e no happen. Now, e don bounce back.

You see! One day you'd just look back and smile.

Life is full of ups and downs, at the time of your trauma/troubles, talk to people, be gentle to your self, time heals wound. you'd look back and smile.

So e no capture the badside

I think you should exercise more, I believe it works. I do jug alot and any day I do, my body cells absorb alot of water, that I pee very infrequent. Also avoid very cool weather since it promote urinating.

ChatGPT is a language model, not an all seeing mystic with a crystal ball, it's not all a big deal as you'd probably thought

Samantha124:
We eat veggies too... Didn't you check those dishes that I posted? They have veggies, either cooked altogether, or they're on the side, just like your dishes have veggies too.

And since SA is a multiracial country, we also eat dishes from other ethnic groups, i didn't post them because I don't necessarily regard them as our SA native foods.

We're not only limited to the ones I posted here... And I know few people who are vegetarians and they're doing just fine...

OK I see!

Samantha124:
I just don't like food that have too much oil, even when I make my chicken stew or beef stew, I make sure that the stew is not too much because I wouldn't want my chicken or beef soaked in too much oil to a point that it would be just floating in the oil.

I easily get repulsed by such food.

Some of your people posted your Nigerian food in this thread and most of these soups of yours look like they have tomatoes... Even that goat meat that still has its coat on looks like it has tomatoes, or is it goat stew?

We use pepper in soup not tomato, the cow skin you saw was fetched out from stew. I also don't like too much oil in soups/stew, too much oil isn't healthy and I supposed many Nigerians know this, But we're oil loving people.
See this thread for some nice 9ja delicacies https://www.nairaland.com/2272900/common-nigerian-foods-recipes

Samantha124:
Then it means those pictures posted by your people here claiming that they're soups are stews because most of them are red...

lol seems you don't like oil at all, oil in soups doesn't change the green color, indeed they remain soups. What makes stew in Nigeria is one main ingredient "tomato". I'm curious, how do vegetarian survive in South Africa, it's hardly likely they'd survived.

Samantha124:
What's the difference between this stew of yours to what you call a soup in Nigeria?

short answer Nigeria stew major ingredient(tomatoes and paper, color = red), Nigeria soup (green vegetables, color =green).

The both can contain meat. Nb: some soup are not made with vegetables and are not green.

[color=#005611]Uses [/color]
Soup: mainly for eating swallow.
Stew: mostly for eating rice

For your own sanity, get a good laptop, strong Internet connection, enough power supply, enough pocket money. If you enter this field trying to manage any of these, your experience might not be a good one.

pocohantas:
I haven't had these issues in a while and you know my skillset na to face one employer. Once you are in, they tolerate your petty downtimes.

Or Bet9ja shops. Na make them no arrest am there thinking say na yahoo boy. By the way, do Naija Police zearch you when they spot your laptop? I sometimes think I enjoy female privilege bringing out my laptop everywhere.

Female privilege o, lol except next time the op story will be lyk, 'I'm having meetings with my client and then police came to whisk him away'

SmartyPants:
Well for you I think it may be too late - you may need to adjust your dreams a little.

But I think this thread should be a warning to the unmarried - don't rush into marriage. Before you do, you need to work and build up to the stage where marriage will help you develop your dreams, not hinder them.

2 years ago, a colleague from the university who had gotten married looked me in the eye and said Smarty don't do it! - until you've accomplished your self development dreams otherwise marriage may become a trap.

Get that master's first. Build that side business first. Buy that car first. if within reach, build that house first. And not getting married early doesn't mean running around with women either.

wise man don talk

But you could be a victim of circumstances.

when windows updates takes you through several hours or even days, you'd know you're better of with mac

Yes and No. Knowing dsa is one thing, building with your frontend is another thing. So you need to separate them and know which is important at what time.
Knowing dsa improve your fundamental understanding of programming languages and data structures. You may not need it to build a project. At the same time you may need it to answer why a code be written in certain ways bearing in mind 'efficiency'
Overall knowledge of fundamentals of dsa is good for a programmer.

Do any that relates Programming if you have the mental capacity and time. Reason, more opportunities.

ULiTv:
Is it worth it buying land in Abuja right now or I should wait till after election.

I am facilitating on buying a plot land from the owner here in abuja, but a friend is advicing I should halt till after election...

Your kindly advice is needed please

Buy now, Abuja is the center, there won't be any cause for alarm.

You created all these accounts to post randomly from a bot

So Ejiod don japka, na only me remain

You're only scared of the unknown, Get your path defined. look for a mentor or an internship position. Stand out first with what you have learnt. In the end you only work with fraction of all these you have learnt. With a couple of applications you will definitely get an interview, it's now up to you to defend your skills. How do you switch b/w male & female

Don't give your self the Chinese treatment. Don't die while coding

I like that you did research your self, shows that you're serious. but to be honest all you wrote up there would take at least 2years to cover the fundamentals, It's also a road map to confusion

Search for fullstack road map on w3shool & follow the language or path that suit you all the best!

I have my personal library in addition to checking things up in libraries, source codes concerning the technology I'm working on

Who got the Python developer and tutor Private quant interview?

LocalStandard1:
Thank you bro! Finally Someone who understands. And learning differ from person to person, by touching all these languages I am coming to understand one even more i.e Python. Now I'm understanding OOP in python even more by going through C++.

When my challenge time expires I know where to head to next. So far, it's a big work but I am loving it.

you really need to define what you want from all these combinations. What made you said you're learning oop in python even more by going through c++ ?

people do unpaid internship, contribute free to open source etc. it's a free world, allow those who are interested to apply