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True or not, if you are this man church member, and you still remain there after reading this, then you need to visit a mental clinic.

There are 3 factors that can make a woman behave like this:

1. She never loves and respect you, not even 10%.

2. She is a cheat who is emotionally imbalance.

3. She has mental issue.

Op made a very big mistake by allowing her to continue this way in the name of being a good husband. If all you wrote were true, I swear she can't live in the same house with me for 2 months. Infact where did you guys see these kind of women sef.

Spray:
Little wins in my career struggle they discussed among themselves, make mockery of me behind me when i Bought a car, and they said it has no second hand value, after like four to five years, they struggle to buy that same car they discredited.
Joseph (Not real name) will tell me this what Charles said (Not real name too). But Charles has never in a day tell me this is what Joseph said behind me.

Any little opportunity Joseph have with me,he bring conversation him and Charles had. How Charles envy and hatted me so much.

I summoned courage to reach out to Charles, by telling him, why is it that whenever he's with people, he bring my issues, even the trivial ones that we always laugh together. He said the person telling me all of these is exaggerating.

Why I confronted him is that, I want to do away with both of them for life, so that they won't be surprised seeing me avoiding them.

Because this has been happening for years and it's telling on my mental health. Even women hardly behaves like this, these days.

I really do not know if I over reacted by confronting Charles for all his shenanigans

You don't need to cut them off completely, nobody is useless in life, as bad as you think they are, they might be the ones to safe you in future, that is what life has taught me.

Since you've knows them for who they are, it should be very easy to relate with them. Don't tell them your plans again, don't get too close to them again, be mindful of what you eat or drink with them, never follow their advises again, and more importantly, remotely help them where you think is necessary.

Obavoh:
I am 26 years old and I have 4 children with more on the way by the special grace of God.

We all have our goals and aims in life. Why will you mock your fellow human being for doing what makes them happy?



See fresh boy you will never know I have a wife and 4 kids

I understand your point, people can be so judgemental sometimes, which I think is bad. Though wont join them to judge you, but I can give you a piece of advise.

From the kind of job you do and your income, I will advise you to put a stop to child bearing for now, 2 or 3 children are more than enough for anyone in this generation. You may think is easy for now, but by the time they start secondary school to university level, that is when you will know it not easy.

If you think deeply, you will know that you can't really function as human without money.

jamace:
Curbing Corruption is easy. It only takes a president with STRONG WILL to do it. I feel Peter Obi has got the balls to tackle corruption this country.

Lol, you know deep down inside you that thing has gone beyond repairs. No man born of a women can work successfully with our current constitution.

Know this and have peace.

Have a lovely day!

Didi2d:
This one wey you talk strong o

I have witnessed it countless time. During second term election of former governor Ajimobi in Ibadan, I was at the polling center to catch fun that day as I was not eligible to vote in Ibadan, there was this tall guy shouting up and down warning people not to sell their votes.

I don't what happened, but baba first start complaining about slow process, follow by " we are hungry o, you can't keep delaying us here, let do this quick and go our homes" . To cut the story short, he eventually sold his vote for just 3k. We know all this because, agents with bag of cash sharing the money after the ones monitoring process must have approved the person were sitting close to us at one corner where we were observing everything.

Nigeria is gone, and the electorates too are too impoverish to reject the offer.

StrongAlphMale:
This is exactly why Nigeria urgently needs Peter obi to rescue this country from these criminals who are hell bent in collapsing Nigeria.

All these rubbish will end as soon as Obi is sworn in as the president of Nigeria next year!

Even Obi will fear this your statement, abi na post sef.

So, na Obi go head all the highly corrupt ministries and other government establishment? See,no president can solve corruption problem especially among the masses but institutional re-arragement and regionalism.

Burruchaga71:
Those ppl will collect your money and vote for their choice . 2023 is not 2015.

Have you ever been to polling units before?

I am asking because you think they are daft to just give money without ensuring you vote for them. I am sorry it doesn't work that way, they usually have agents in markets leaders, articians leaders, youths leaders, women leaders, party members, etc that will collate the people names and promise them the money. The money is shows to them by leaders of the groups but they can't collect it until result are announced. All the leaders will be monitoring your movements at polling center to ensure non of their people talk to or collected money from other parties agents.

Another style they use is that, before they give you money, you must stylishly show your tump printed slip to a party agent sitting at strategy place at the poll. They also used this second method on ordinary people they casually meet on election day.

That is why I always laughed at people posting unrealistic permutations. Nigerians are too broke to reject 5k/10k for a vote that they feel amount to nothing to them. The party with solid structure and fund will eventually win next year election.

NoToPile:
Me too oo, Yet to meet such woman no matter how rich she is.

Who doesn't want soft life? Abeg oo.
There's this feeling when you spend your man's money, the satisfaction of being taken care of even when you can afford it is so nice.

Like I said before, alot of people won't understand this write up by op including myself if I don't have first hand experiences from those that close to me.

It is more than just being taking care of, it is more like a rich man who turn broke and useless, while his wife continues being prosper, oppress and further relegate him. The husbads usually lost whatever the self worth in them during the process and take whatever throw at them by these women. Most of them built houses where the husbands and children lives, the funniest part is that, these women made their children too sees their father as useless cows. Some will bring their concubines home to spend time with them. Most time, the husbands became more psychologically down, and start losing their minds.

This is not a fiction but reality. The way I see them around, I don't think is normal for a man to accept such fate. So never pray to be in that situation.

Never marry a woman who doesn't see your achievements as hers.

I pity those beating their chests for politicians. All of them are like black market until they get there and do what they say.

Zonefree:
You find solace in teenage girls shows you're cunning and crafty. Fear no dey gree you approach matured girls hence you always settle with little naive girls. Na God go punish you.

He is not cunning, he is simply suffering from low self worth and lacks ball to approach mature girls.

That is sacrifice humanity had paid for civilization.

Civilization is good, but has destroy the peace that is left in human's existence. No one enjoy natural peace again, not even the rich, so the best way to enjoy life is to live simple.

@op, you are not alone, majority of youths don't find it easy anywhere in the world particularly in Nigeria this days. Just try your best and allow nature to sort out your future. It is pointless thinking about future that have never come, you can plan for the future but don't allow it to take the joy of your present.

Berrityga:
Please where are this kinda woman. I'm looking for one.

Don't ever pray for one please.

I understand op perfectly well, this category of women are mostly into businesses and highly diabolic.

Most of them do whatever in their capacity to make their husbands remain in perpetual poverty and became bread winner of the family. They cheat at will, their husbands are nothing to them but arrand boys. They are found of roping another man's pregnant on their husbands. They only think about themselves, infact they possessed many negative attitude you ever found in women.

These are the signs of these women during courtship.

1. They are extremely selfish in relationships.

2. They are too ambitious to the point of being irritating.

3. They are mostly promiscuous with dented past.

4. They are highly materialistic.

5. They are domineering and always want things go their ways.

6. They are diabolic and always attach everything to spirituality.

7. They don't have human feeling and mostly move on fast.

8. They are feminists.

If you see any of these signs in your relationship, please be very careful before you take her to alter.

oloyeagbaakin:
Meet this girl recently, my mum told me I should not ask anything about her educational qualification, but she is a hairdresser. Got to know after our introduction that she just finished from J.S.S 3 she did not even go to S.S.S 1 in short she doesn't even have a WAEC certificate. And our wedding is coming soon, what can I do guys?

This is quite funny, are you a robot/kid that your mum commanded not to ask the girl you want to marry anything about your future?

Anyway, Education is not a pre- requisite of good wife, but if you don't want her, you still have time to leave the relationship now.

divinehand2003:
Inflation won't be curbed using this approach. Haven't anyone noticed that all CBN policies end up producing the unwanted effects?

This is worrisome, I wonder how these set of people at CBN still be allow to manage our economy.

Like it clearly pointed out in the article, the disparity in exchange rate is self inflicted one, It is quite obvious officials at CBN are Beareu de change collaborators.

If CBN governor is so clueless enough to understand the following part in the article before dishing out another useless measure, then Nigeria is finally finished;

"Interest rate (MPR), inflation and exchange rate are triadically critical to investment and production. Balancing the rates in line with local aspiration is therefore imperative. Regrettably, at the moment, other contributory factors, like insecurity and externalities-induced food shortage, government’s excessive drive for internally generated revenue, increase in interest rate in the US, unsustainable and unpragmatic interventions in the forex market, the acute shortage of forex and unfriendly exchange rates are not only fueling inflation, but seriously depressing industrial production,” he said.

He expressed hope that the CBN will creatively go beyond the conventional monetary management system, as he recommended upscaling the current efforts at improving the availability of development-oriented funds at single digit interest rate, prioritizing industries".

Something is fundamentally wrong with this team, man City can't even beat majority of second grade teams this much, let alone top teams.