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livinbygrace:
STOP TYPING NONSENSE ALL BECAUSE YOU HAVE ACCESS TO INTERNET.YOU MEAN SHE WAS RAPED IN HER FATHER"S HOUSE WHILE HER SISTER WAS AROUND?YOU MEAN SHE WAS RAPED MULTIPLE TIMES,ON TOP CAR BURNET AND SHE NEVER SCREAMED?YOU MEAN SHE WAS RAPED AND STILL WENT BACK TO HIM FROM ILORIN TO ABUJA?
NA GOD GO PUNISH ALL OF YOU.

May the type of Fatoyibo surround all your family members.
Na devil go punish all of you rape apologists.

ityP:
Busola didn't speak up when she was raped

Yea she did.
They reported to the police, they reported to Fatoyibos church elders and nothing was done.
She had no father, but her mum, brother and sister.
There was no social media to cry for help for justice 20 years ago. There was no internet sef and no mobile lines. Mobile lines came into existence about a year later, and even without phones (MTN) were about 22K then. Na only the elites could afford it.

When Busola Dakolo spoke out years ago as a young girl after her rape, nobody listened.
She grew and became a woman, and so did her alleged abuser grow and become a popular man.
She blew the whistle on him, and the world listened.
Many didn't care if the perpetrator was a nobody and the victim a minor. We always seem to overlook children who are sexually abused.
When they grow older, wiser with experience under their arm, and make their accusations they are believed more and can actually make people listen.
As the perpetrators are getting richer, their victims too are getting richer with more access to help/information

Mariangeles:
This is not about who agrees with who or not? Who even cares about that? How does that even benefit me?
Everybody cannot agree all the time.

It is about her constant insensitive and condescending comments about the less privileged. She does that ALL THE TIME in most of her comments.
I dare say she believes the less privileged have no rights to live or have children.
Just when you think she's a changed person, she disappoints.
What I told her might seem harsh, but judging by her cold attitude, it isn't far from the truth.
WE ALL SHOULD LEARN TO RESPECT PEOPLE AND BE MORE EMPATHETIC.

OK.
So this is probably a spillover from other threads.
My bahhddd.
I will leave you guys to it.

OgwuEgo:
The guy disgusts me a religious fanatic, he doesnt shake women

No be by force to shake woman na. He's entitled to his beliefs
Provided he greets women, is polite and respectful towards them.
Who handshake epp?

Mariangeles:
I pity the patients who're unfortunate to have you as their doctor.

The posts you quoted, how could they have made her a terrible Dr?
Why do you see her patients as unfortunate because she doesn't believe in family trees and what not?
Lemme go and read them again, and I will edit
I'm a bit confused.
OK
-She believes in abortion. Fair enough. Not all women are pro-life
- She will give a love child to the father. Fair enough. Not all women are maternal
- She doesnt believe in family trees, and has decided that family is not by blood and she can choose them. Fair enough too.

You really were trying to give a below the belt punch over non acceptance of family trees?
That actually is more telling about you.
No need to get so salty because someone doesn't agree with you.

OP, nothing do you.
You did the right thing at the right time.
What better time to explore than in the university?
It would have been too early if you were less than 18 years and perhaps a bit too late if you were over 28 years.
I don't know if it had anything to do with strictness, but you wus jus a young gal living da life
You no kill person, na only party you like.

Cacovid are the ones in charge of all the monies donated by the r billionaire club. It is the same donors in charge of running the affairs and calling the shots.
CBN donated only 2 billion a naira and others like Dangote. Otedola, Ovia, Adenuga, GTbank and others donated their own too.
They have built covid centers in Lagos, Port Harcourt, Kano, Enugu (still ongoing I believe), Sokoto, Maiduguri (I'm not sure if they've started that one).
It's all in phases, and buildingv4he centres was the first phase.
They are in the second phase of palliative and then testing.
The federal government is also doing their own palliative measures I believe

While you were too busy with your concubines, fire was burning under your roof.
You weren't there for your older children when they probably needed you the most as you were busy spending your time and money with your opekes.
You better don't make the same mistake with the younger ones.
The older ones seem to have given up on you. and have learnt how not to rely on you because you've probably let them down in the past with your absence. They didnt even care you were away dead or alive for 3 whole days.
Anyway, my advice for you is to work on your children one on one.
Let them get to know you individually. Start taking your eldest child with you when you go out, and ask him/her to escort you so you get to spend individual time together. Do same for the others, and don't spend time with them all together but individually till you are able to earn their trust again before you start spending time all together.
It's a long journey, which you can still redeem yourself before your children.
Don't let them see a father that abandons his children for 3 days because he is angry at their mother, don't let them see a father that comes home drunk, don't let them see a father that puts his concubines needs above theirs.
Ask them to come directly to you if they need anything, give them pocket money weekly (yes, the older ones will have some minor needs. It doesn't have to be a lot. Even if it is 500naira for data)
Beating the older ones at this stage will only further alienate them from you, as that ship has long sailed.
Good luck as you make amends with your children. At least give it your best shot.
Unfortunately, your marriage is dead. I'm not sure if you have the energy to revive it, but if you have wronged your wife apologise and ask her what she wants. A divorce to end the misery for both of you or another go at the marriage.

No symptoms, yet stays positive after 4 weeks.
He will just be starting the disease if not that he was isolated.
About a third of corona positive people are asymptomatic carriers. Na dem we should fear pass.

Hope it works

Makes more sense than chloroquine

Na your bank fit solve your problem.
Because if na 10 million naira somebody mistakenly deposited into your account, na efcc go come look for you if you take 1 naira out of it.
Or perhaps government don dey pay stimulus package

safarigirl:
Some people like Bimbo Akintolam Jennifer Eliogu and Ayo Adesanya missed out, because I couldn't find any decent, recent pictures of them that were wort.....

Ayo Adesanya is even 50, so can't make your list. Even Ireti Doyle shouldn't be on your list as she's not in her 40s but 50s

OutharryHIV:
Like every human, she was shocked and couldn't accept the result but like I said earlier, we chose to put it behind us and move on.
And she didn't blame me.. she knows me and the kind of life I live and what I have been doing..
We dated for 8 years before marriage.

Did you have any sexual encounters in Tanzania when you went to help out with their HIV community programs?

Petyprincess:
Why date someone you can't marry in first place?

I thought you had to date first before knowing if you can marry a person?

funmisticqueen2:
their writing.styles are very different, although they like too much story.

Obviously, the writing styles are polar opposites, no middle ground. Raises a lot of questions, but let's continue watching.
Have you got some popcorn?

Harlequeen:
No we aren't please. Just give us advice. Thank you.

I'm just here to watch the series babygirl

Is OP and lovergirl one and the same person?
What a great romance story on NL

Harllaby:
[color=#000055]Imagine. But ladies can ask for money from guys 24 hrs into relationship abi?[/color]

That's also wrong on all levels and should be discouraged .
Guys shouldn't be seen as poverty alleviation programs, but many are so stupid that they feel cool to be seen as such, or perhaps sex has turned their brains.

Harllaby:
[color=#000055]Honestly, the man is only being truthful to himself by asking his partner for money. So because you borrowed him 500k you feel like you can rub it on his face. The guy was never at fault from what you wrote instead you are the one that refuses to voice out your feelings by assuming he should know what you want.

Tell him how you feel and if he isn't what you want in a man, then go look for your type. [/color]

A man of integrity won't borrow money from his girlfriend and not pay back.
Imagine if that kind of person would borrow money from a friend, he most definitely will never pay back.
It also shows he is living above his means, and pretending to people to be what he is not.
Any woman should be weary of such a person, even if his headgame is banging, because such folks are full of head games.

factormatt6:
. We talk about kid. We intend waiting for the right time. We planning relocating to western country before raising kid. [/b]I don't if I am to continue buying and selling stuff or go into IT. I need an advice on this also.[b]

Your wahala is too much.
You're confused about your career choice, you need advise on this
You're confused about your relationship sturvs, you still need advice on this
And you're probably confused about life in general.
Take a break man, and try to figure out your life before bringing someone else on board

That relationship is not going to work and the earlier you realise this the better.
Run for your peace of mind.
It's not your responsibility to meet the needs of his family members, and you are obviously finding it stressful

ednut1:
as you no gree he say another fine specimen. No crime in that na. Abi you expect him to chase you for ever ni. Any why will you even visit them. Smh

She shouldn't visit her blood sister?

oseo1:
Hotspots are eti-osa, alimosho and ikeja

Ok, thanks

They made the virus.

They probably made the vaccine a long time ago too.

Despicable lots

Etizz:
I think it will better going door to door for test....


They just have to get this tin done on time d lockdown is not favourable at all

That's what they're doing na, but only for those with symptoms .
They can't test the whole of 20million people in Lagos .
I'm not sure they can go to all houses in Lagos, but they're going to hotspots (not sure where they consider hotspots though)

sylva1:
This is quite proactive, cos a lot of people may already have the disease and would not want to willingly contact NCDC!

So proactive, and I'm so proud.
This is definitely a right decision.
If they can move round houses, and suspected cases quickly, it would help the lockdown to be over much faster

Why are people just turning the world upside down?
All for money?

He is pimping his underaged daughter out to paedophiles like himself. I'm very sure he has also slept with his daughter.

I'm just speechless right now

Hmmm

LORDofODDS:
Am not here to drag words with you but what I want you to know is that it's better for them to remain there in the UK with a good health care system rather than bringing them back to Nigeria endangering others.

I hope you knew what happened to Italy and USA, trying to evacuate it citizens out of China, now they are the biggest hit in the world. So it's beta we manage the case we have at hand. Peace

The UK health system is overwhelmed, and no matter how great it seems they continue to report over 700 deaths daily. Some Nigerians even young ones have already died in the UK. If these people have decided to come back home, Then allow them. Better to die knowing you're amongst family and friends than to die lonely.
The nursing and medical care given to corona patients isn't rocket science. Those with severe disease even abroad also end up dying. Only 20% of those put on ventilators are lucky to come off it and the remaining 80% are allowed to die because they cannot be on ventilators for life. Infact, they will probably have better care here as we have less patients and probably more medical staff to give them better care.

Chirowman:
audio covik1-9 NCDC shouldn't put politics into this for whatever reasons or profit. we need total fight and not putting fear or panic into people.at least the number of released should be minus from the admitted. please let it not be politically motivated, the day coronavirus news set into the kwantry na there I no coro will be a big business .Hunger dey land oooo

You can do the maths yourself na.
Just subtract one from the other or keep a journal everyday documenting the figures ndcd brings out
They're just telling us the total no of confirmed cases in Nigeria so far, which I believe is the appropriate thing to fi

Jarus:
Oga, I was tested

Thank you for this.
Perhaps this will convince some people who don't believe they're testing people and that the NDCD is just making up figures .
They say they're adding malaria patients, as if the test for corona and malaria are the same .
While corona and malaria may have some similar symptoms, there are distinctive features for each. Specific Corona symptoms are : fever with cough or/and shortness of breath(difficulty breathing).

Oluneutral:
Jesus!



And I was thinking the confirmed number will keep declining!

What exactly is going on!

Some people have said that, any day there're discharges in the day time, there will always be more confirmed people in the night. I didn't want to buy into that assumption previously but seems that's somewhat true with this update.


BTW, what happened yesterday, why was the number of confirmed people lesser and that of today is times four of yesterday.

Did that means not many were tested yesterday.

Anyways, no matter how and when, we're winning this battle very soon.

Please, people stay safe, stay at home to prevent further spread!

God bless and endow our scientists and medical crew more and more with wisdom.

We're still very lucky our figures are not crazily wild.
Those in Italy, UK, US suddenly jumped from like 10 infections a day to 200.
Probably because they were testing more, but I guess we've also been testing those with symptoms