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saucecoder:
I told u before you cannot use Nigeria to shame me. Unlike u who has never seen an airport, my job takes me around the world. Sit down

My dear, I don't live in Nigeria.
I'm just a concerned citizen of Nigeria.
I can never deny my homeland
I love Nigeria, so tey I'm even more worried about Covid spreading in Nigeria , despite the fact that Covid is everywhere around me.
So my concerns about you are genuine. Get some help. Have you seen the screenshots your sweeri'm posted up there?
You need serious help man.

cococandy:
I’m playing the long game.

Shebi I’m a port harcourt and owerri and Maryland prostitute?

From threads of apology to threads of mockery and posts filled with bile and venom.

He thinks he’s smart.

There's some psychological component to all this, and unfortunately help is not readily accessible in nigeria and it's also relatively expensive.
You used to ignore him, and that gets to him really bad.
Stop letting him get a reaction out of you, go back to your ignore mode

cococandy:
One day I’m a CNA, the next day waitress. Now I’m an RN. Na wa

Softly.

You seem to have some stalkers on here.

They've even followed you to instagram

Why did you not agree to his proposal na, before your husband snatched you away?

He sounds a lot like a a jealous lover, and it's very unhealthy.

wolfenstein:
What people still don't understand is that the virus isn't airborne, if it was airborne I'm sure alot of people won't have been on NL typing, you can only get it when an infected person sneezes and the particle enters either Ur nose, mouth or eye. It only enters thru the mucus cells of our body. Now the masks can prevent that a little bit but can our hands prevent that? That's y we actually need to be disciplined the way we use our hands to touch those vital areas, that's why it's adviced to wash our hands with soap and water every 20mins or use sanitizer. Another thing is that if we feel u have problems with breathing, inhaling steam cooked with lemon, garlic, ginger and turmeric helps alot to clear the blockage.
NB-HANDGLOVES ARE ALSO GOOD BUT PLEASE ITS SUPPOSED TO BE USED ONLY ONES, I SEE ALOT OF PEOPLE REPEATING SAME GLOVES. AFTER USING ONES, IT SHOULD BE BURNT OR THROWN AWAY, AND PLEASE GLOVES MAKES U FEEL U SAVE SO U FORGET URSELF AND TEND TO TOUCH THE FACE REGULARLY. MY ADVICE IS DON'T USE GLOVES SO YOU CAN BE AWARE

Handgloves always give a false sense of protection. It's still the same handgloves you use to touch things in the supermarket etc.
On the other hand, if it were just your bare hands, you're more conscious as to use sanitizers and even to wash those hands as often as possible

The virus is spread by contact too.
Social distancing is still very important unless you think the hospital staff who are fully kitted up dont know wetin dey.
They would have just been wearing only face masks in hospitals if that were the case

healthserve:
If the number of cases rise from when they enter #China Must Explain

It will definitely rise, but the question is how will it rise?
Is it a sudden great increase or what?
We can't know till the next 1 to 2 weeks anyway

Every mallam with him kettle.
Both men and women that want to cheat will continue to do so.
Women will forever remain secretive about their escapades and many men will continue to raise bastards
Men will also continue their trysts with side chicks et al
"Everyone is a thief, and only the person caught red handed in broad daylight is called barawo" .... african proverb

Yankee101:
It took COVID-19 to make them decide to build world class diagnostics in the 6 geopolitical zones and a couple of world class hospitals

Have they decided to do that, or things will go back to status quo once the pandemic is over?
Anyway, they should consider setting up emergency services too like ambulance services, trained paramedics etc.
Anyone that puts their hope on any Nigerian government will just end up disappointed.
They're all thieves, including previous governments.

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pocohantas:
Very soon your brother will grow, with no reasonable handiwork.

Next thing is to become an alfa male. Without conscience or any common sense. Then he will register on NL, the Nigerian online community that encourages such stupidity. He will start looking for virgins...and indulging rapists at the same time.

Some of them are already here. This is exactly how they started. Like your brother.


Una well done.

Words on marble.
We see them, we sense them
Many were cultists in higher institution and they perpetuated all sorts of wickedness including rape.
Yes, right here on NL. You see them spewing some kin nonsense, and you just shake your head.
We see them, we know them.
But there is no peace for the wicked. Their evil acts follows them, and their loved ones.

Another scam..
You guys and different ideas sha

ThothHermes:

Frustration

Nobody moves on from rape.
They never do.
It takes a long time even if rape victims are lucky to get the right support, before they can even try to have a resemblance of normal life and relationships.
If their victims are never punished, they cannot move on.
I have seem too many young women, with their lives ruined, suffering from mental health issues because of trauma like this in their past.
Busola Dakolo came out after so many years despite the celebrity status, motherhood and 'wifehood'. Her husband confirmed she kept having nightmares for so long after they married till she was able to trust him with her experience, Yet many say she is telling lies and that she enjoyed it. Her own family were not able to get justice for her, but she still wanted it even after 20 years. Her husband could have easily said let's forget it, because it may 'tarnish' their image and the accused is also popular but he did the right thing for his wife.
We enjoy covering up evil so much till it becomes a cancer that spreads and finally destroys.
Nigerians have to learn to do the right thing.

The brother will come out tomorrow on NL saying he is looking for virgin to marry.
There is so much wickedness in the land. What happened to Grace is a common experience. Many women were violated as young girls, yet we keep watching and tolerating the culture of rape.
No wonder our leaders keep raping us too.
Wickedness in the land, odi too much

You want to marry her because her family is rich ba?
You never see chumchin

Who will get justice for Grace, the poor orphan child?
OP, if you don't do the right thing now, your children will pay for your wickedness in covering up evil.
Don't think male children cannot be abused also.
You brother should be arrested.

Hmmmmm
Nobody knows tomorrow.
Some couples started as you, wanted 6 children and struggled for several years to finally get only one.
Some got their hearts desires, with many children but lost all.
Meanwhile, some wanted only 2 child and got triplets in their 2nd pregnancy.
There isn't a manual for some of these things.

CodeTemplar:
Keep consoling yourself. Ours is still behind in a sense because we came in contact last plus I believe our immune system is slightly ahead of many whitemen own.

I dont believe we came in contact last.
The amount of travel to Nigeria alone, and how we are always packed like sardine is enough for the virus to have reached its peak in Lagos alone.
Don't forget we arrived late to the party of closing borders and stopping flights.
Perhaps our immune system may have helped us, as Africa has always been riddled by infectious diseases anyway.
But in terms of contact, we have been in contact since, I'm almost certain of that.
Even those infected, we haven't recorded fatalities as such.

He shouldnt have to wait for him to be told to stretch out a helping hand to those in need at this period.
He can spend 2 million naira on food stuff, and still make a difference in the lives of people around him.
Its not until you donate to the federal govt before you can make an impact.
Celebrities are making a difference even with their brokeness. Some are buying food stuff, some are giving 5K for those that need help. Last last, many will spend 1 million, and would have made a difference

gidgiddy:
Why must he commit a dime? Isnt donation by free choice any more?

Nigerians are strange people. Peter Obi could have kept silent and the fake news that he donated money would carry on. He comes out to tell the truth that he did not donate 1 billion, you guys start attacking him rather than commending him for telling the truth

Africans are too backwards

He can't keep quiet.
He will still be found out that he kept quiet about donating 1 billion and he will be known as a liar.
Audio donator etc
It's not 1million but 1billion o, that kind of money will be traced by those interested.
That cannot be overlooked and he will be found out to have started rumours of his fake donations (I know someone started the fake news, and it's probably not him).
That's another level of low

gidgiddy:
Why must he commit a dime? Isnt donation by free choice any more?

Nigerians are strange people. Peter Obi could have kept silent and the fake news that he donated money would carry on. He comes out to tell the truth that he did not donate 1 billion, you guys start attacking him rather than commending him for telling the truth

Africans are too backwards

If he had kept quiet, it would still be exposed to the public by some diligent persons (eg Kemi Olunloyo), but they will say he started the lies to make him look bigger than he is .
There is documentation of every donation made. If you decide to lie about it, you will be easily found out and dragggeddd till all your skin peels off.
The best thing he could have done was to refute the rumour quickly, just as he's done.
When people decide to reason your matter, na only God fit save you o

He gives you money more than your uncle, and you keep taking the money.
When it's time to submit your yansh, better do so sharp sharp and with immediate alacrity.
Brhoe, there is no free lunch in free town .
You must vomit all you've swallowed, otherwise be ready to swallow

LadySarah:
You know how it works.

No woman alive should leave her child for another oo. Even sibling rshps go south in the name of holidays/vacation s.

A comment on the parents attribute thread that we dislike.

It summarizes what this 12 yr old boy will say in the future.

Thank God his mother stood for him!

Hmmm.
True.
I always just pity children found in such difficult circumstances, used as pawns by their parents. It's better they're all drinking gari together than sending them to live with someone else, who might end up maltreating them. They may not even beat them or starve them, but they're usually not there for the children emotionally.
All these things count for a child to grow up balanced.

Shut up and purchase more ventilators.
You better get ready to spend all the monies contributed in the right quarters and not line your pockets.
The country doesn't even have enough to meet the regular needs of the smallest state in Nigeria, talkmore of this pandemic affecting the nation.
Any that is purchased now will still serve it's purpose even after the pandemic is over, if we're all still alive by then.
Imagine having about only a 100 ventilators for a population of 200million.
May madness strike all the families of these thieves down.
Bastards

Farki:
[/b]The OP isn't asking for much, just that the woman be employed and able to function without needing her husband to foot every bill and make every payment. That way both parties and the children can benefit. [b]

I'm sure some guys wouldn't mind having stay at home wives but that simply isn't possible for some people right now.

And the woman doesn't need to do all the chores and take care of all the children by herself. If the husband wasn't supportive why did she marry him in the first place? She must have married a functioning adult and not a baby that needs to be cleaned up after. Plus men do chores too, the work and chores that is often backbreaking and risky with almost no recognition from their wives because it is expected of them but you don't hear us complaining about it.

In the end we have a choice, a superwoman can marry an average Joe or go for someone on her level or marry that will be spoiling her.

Absolutely, he's not asking too much. I completely agree with the bolded
Same way the wife won't be asking too much for him to contribute his physical quota in the running of their household.
The children would always benefit from their dad looking after them and they also form a stronger bond with him.
The wife is happier when she's not the only one doing the chores either.
Everyone's happy.
Oga should also be happy he is able to co-provide acts of love/ service for his family, as madam is also happy to be able to co-provide school fees and a roof over their heads.
I belive we are saying the same thing or do you have any disagreement to what I've just said?

Farki:
Must marriage be some sort of fight for dominance?

Some people's egos will not allow them to simply enjoy life.

It's not a fight for dominance but for survival.

It is wickedness and highly irresponsible to expect your wife to be superwoman, while you remain the regular joe.

It breeds resentment at the end of the day.

Many women are overworked and overstressed from doing it all.
That's why some look older than even their husbands who are older than them. They become worn out, and just tired of life because they don't have supportive partners who pull weight.

They have to run around to look for money, and at the same time do all the chores and look after the children, while the husbands only bring in some of the money .

That's why they wonder atimes if they won't be better doing it all alone by themselves, because it already appears as though they're alone anyway.

Jman06:
If Nigerian women would not want a man who expects them to contribute financially and are okay with the traditional setting whereby the man wins all the bread for the family, then I don't think there's any need wasting resources on training the Nigerian girl child in schools especially universities. It doesn't make any iota of sense to train a girl in the university only for her to end up as a housewife in a man's kitchen!

Ps--- Personally, I even prefer the traditional setting but she has to be completely under my control going by your reasoning above.

Women should contribute financially.
They also have hands and brains for a reason.
Same way men should learn to take care of children, cooking and house chores. They also have hands and brains for a reason.
You cannot be an adult female or male, and be so dependent on another adult like you.
You all should learn to be useful to each other and to the society.
Learn to use those hands and brains. Learn to mop those floors and wash those restrooms, as cleanliness is next to godliness. Learn to make that money baby, otherwise you deserve to starve.

Alvin212:
What of

Ned Nwoko and Regina

I hope you know Regina was a household name even before she got married to Ned.
Till now, she still acts and does her thing despite marriage to a very rich man.
He hasn't tried to stop her from acting and doing her thing, and so far he has been very supportive

I hope while she is also bringing in the money, you're also pulling your weight with childcare and house chores.
It will be wicked of you to expect her to come back home from work everyday, and start cooking, washing and doing all sorts.
If you want things to work out well, get ready to also pick your kids from school, do homework, look after them while mum is at work on days you're free.
You should also be ready to get dinner ready for your wife on certain days of the week, and handle the washing when it's your turn.

That been said, I am all for women working and getting to the height of their endeavours. I believe real empowerment comes when you're able to take care of the financial needs of yourself and family. You learn to appreciate every dime, and you actually plan well around money.
Marriage is always teamwork anyway.

Advancedman:
Who then infected him?

Who knows?
Look at all the crowd there and all those who were 10 feet around him 360 degrees. Also remember those people also have others surrounding them
The virus is not only transmitted by sneezing etc, it can also stay on surfaces for a long time hence also spreads by contact

People really need to be careful with their utterances.
It seems the gods want to really use this virus to humble people and nations.

Citytrend:
When others are saying money to rig election in 2023. Because you can't tell me this man is wealthier than some who donated 200million and 50 million respectively

Hmmm
Adenuga is rich o..
He has a telecom company
He is into oil and gas- Conoil
He has a bank - (I've forgotten the name of his bank)
Key areas where big money is in Nigeria

babyfaceafrica:
According to OP

Yes
Unless of course you believe the whole thread is a lie, a figment of someone's imaginationz concocted to help us take our minds off the covik 1-9.
Stranger things have happened on NL afterall.